Sexlife

[iacex111]

OK... installed 1.3.4 and then the esp from 1.3.5.

Keep in mind I've not used this before so for those who have used it a while and know the ins-and-outs you may be able to tell me what I'm doing wrong.

 

#1 I turned off rape - I'm looking for NPCs to have a sex life, not go around raping their friends and neighbors.

 

This seems to have pretty much turned off any sex from happening. Lots of genderfails. I went into the bannered mare and went around and boosted everyone's arousal. Spent an entire night there....watching.... waiting.... only 2 approaches that looked like they might result in something. Once when Sinmar approached Hulda, and he used phrases that sounded like he was going to rape her, but she said please don't do this ... blah, blah.... and he walked away. Another time another male approached Ysolda and it looked like things were going to happen and she said something like... you know we're just friends.... and.... nothing. Lots of women approaching women and ending in a conversation about getting pounded by some guy and then they walk away from each other.

 

And who the fuck ever thought that having some invisible guy pestering the shit out of you was a good idea?

"Need something?"... "Hmmm?"... "Need something?""...... shut the fuck up already!

 

Here's what I'm trying to accomplish... and maybe someone can tell me how I have to set it up to do this....

 

Male PC with female follower.

I want the follower to only have eyes for me. She's non-vanilla. So we're not technically "married" but we're lovers.

 

I want other NPCs.... to approach each other for sex. Married or not. I'm afraid if I turn on cheating, that I will defeat what I'm trying to do for my follower.

I also set a couple of NPCs with Prostitution enabled and never once saw them try to buy or sell sex.

 

This mod looks like it could be a lot of fun. So what am I doing wrong? Or is it simply not capable of doing what I'm trying to do? 

 

First, I'm sorry to be brief, but I'm rather busy atm. Yet, you can find more detailed explanations in this thread.

 

• Turning off rape does exactly this - turns the rape off, it doesn't decrease overall sex "encounters" much.
• To make your follower have sex with you only, mark her as faithful in SLSL MCM. It should work even if you have cheating selected in the MCM. But unfortunately it may result in her not approaching you, but that's a limitation of the game itself, Skyrim seems to be very liberal about lovers if they're not married .
• I agree that genderfail happens too often. But it's also not entirely SexLife's fault. It depends as well on SexLab and/or SL Aroused choice of gender. Which, at least in my case, tends to reset sometimes and an NPC who had consensual sex with 100+ men & 100+ women is marked as straight...
• The infamous invisible YOU - SLSL was designed as NPC vs. NPC mod, but due to many requests Dooge designed a way for PC to be approached by NPCs. It's not perfect, but well... I'm sure it will be improved, but for now you can use alphaf1za's workaround: http://www.loverslab.com/topic/47307-sexlife/?p=1302846;
• Prostitution doesn't do anything yet.
• The main problem of the frequency of NPC's sex is setting them properly in MCM. Some of them are already "done" through .json files. More details about that are to be found in this thread (just write ".json preset" in the search window). I'll just repeat if you need presets for characters from a particular mod or different than default (i.e. included in the SLSL package), PM me I may have something for you (along with spreadsheets to view what settings exactly are used).

And yes, this mod is a lot of fun.

 

I hope I helped at least a little.

[Vithiss]

Greetings,

 

I am hoping for a bit of help:

I am using the latest version (with esp overwrite) and SL 1.59c (upgrading soon) for reference.

 

I was using the suggested test mode - enclosed small space, predesignated A1 and A2 via mcm and 20 out of 20 times I got either "Approach scene timed out" (with the actors standing right next to one another) or, "Gender OK but play Matrix Genderfail anyway" A1 was set to Dominant Rapist and A2 to Submissive Victim with no other options ticked for either of them. Both actors were at Arousal 100.

This game had no prior versions of SLSL, though I have used earlier versions successfully.

 

Any help will be greatly appreciated.

[y_sengaku]

I was using the suggested test mode - enclosed small space, predesignated A1 and A2 via mcm and 20 out of 20 times I got either "Approach scene timed out" (with the actors standing right next to one another) or, "Gender OK but play Matrix Genderfail anyway" A1 was set to Dominant Rapist and A2 to Submissive Victim with no other options ticked for either of them. Both actors were at Arousal 100.

This game had no prior versions of SLSL, though I have used earlier versions successfully.

 

I assume you saw gender-fail dialogue scene normally at least (=  Fuz Ro D-oh installed normally).

If so, the following two measures can be available for your problem:

 

1. to remove 'submissive' from actor a2

2. to toggle 'rapist always rapes' on via MCM (debug section)

[Skippe]

i have been wonderin does nechrophilia do anything yet ? i have tried it but npc:s havent raised and aproached my pc charachter 

 

[jerricho13]

Nice mod, damn near perfect. I would say it was perfect if people would go somewhere private before doing the deed. It's cool and all seeing them interact, but when they just do it right then & there, kind'a kills it for me.  Having them head to an inn, house, or some secluded part of the cell would be perfect. idk, maybe that scan function could also determine privacy based on how many npcs it doesn't find in a given radius?

 

Hmm.  Have you tried setting LoversLab to "Always Use Beds"?   I would think that'd keep the naughties confined to bedrooms, at least...

[Aramiteus]

 

Nice mod, damn near perfect. I would say it was perfect if people would go somewhere private before doing the deed. It's cool and all seeing them interact, but when they just do it right then & there, kind'a kills it for me.  Having them head to an inn, house, or some secluded part of the cell would be perfect. idk, maybe that scan function could also determine privacy based on how many npcs it doesn't find in a given radius?

 

Hmm.  Have you tried setting LoversLab to "Always Use Beds"?   I would think that'd keep the naughties confined to bedrooms, at least...

 

 

Nah, Dooge shall fix it!!!

 

I've discovered recently the mighty feature of scenes in the creation kit I assume this mod also uses. (I have not yet installed but will do now.)

So I suggest:

Insertion after the dialogue:.

add a gotoBed(Sleep) package to one actor. (Go home is far to complicated and not every NPC has a home and I have no idea how)

add a follow first actor to second actor

Start act when first actor reached bed (or issleeping)

 

Please Dooge, please do it for us!

 

[Dark_Fenix]

i have a question, i have this mod and further lover confort, both of them are similar, they are incompatible?

[iacex111]

i have a question, i have this mod and further lover confort, both of them are similar, they are incompatible?

 

They are compatible. You won't see any issues there.

[Lord Ariakas]

Double checking this is the right place.

Sexlife.. yep it is.

nice.

 

So like I was saying in the wrong thread...

 

 

So that creepy stalker dude really bugs me... all invis calling me names while my char is balls deep in one of my followers.

 

Anyways...

I thought I'd mess around with the NPC "You" settings.

Turns out just setting a voice makes him have no voice.

I set his voice to - MaleUniqueAmaundMotierre [VTYP:000E2FC8] and what do you know... he shuts the fuck up.

 

Still speaks normally if your char is selected as A1 or whatever.

 

Also flagged him as Ghost, now he no longer shows up in thermal vision.

 

 

Extra note.

I saw his scale was set to 2.

Change that to 0.0001.

Now he doesn't block doorways too walked right over him, nice.

 

End is nigh for that cheeky coont.

 

 

Sorry maybe I am blind, but I can't see any link here...

[iacex111]

 

Double checking this is the right place.

Sexlife.. yep it is.

nice.

 

So like I was saying in the wrong thread...

 

 

So that creepy stalker dude really bugs me... all invis calling me names while my char is balls deep in one of my followers.

 

Anyways...

I thought I'd mess around with the NPC "You" settings.

Turns out just setting a voice makes him have no voice.

I set his voice to - MaleUniqueAmaundMotierre [VTYP:000E2FC8] and what do you know... he shuts the fuck up.

 

Still speaks normally if your char is selected as A1 or whatever.

 

Also flagged him as Ghost, now he no longer shows up in thermal vision.

 

 

Extra note.

I saw his scale was set to 2.

Change that to 0.0001.

Now he doesn't block doorways too walked right over him, nice.

 

End is nigh for that cheeky coont.

 

 

Sorry maybe I am blind, but I can't see any link here...

 

 

Excuse me, sir, maybe I am dumb ;-), what link are you talking about?

 

[pihwht]

I had an adventure with 'you' this evening. My player was enslaved in a bandit camp, when one of the bandits approached 'you.' 'You' turned her down and that annoyed the bandit who attacked 'You.'  Soon everyone in the camp was chasing and attacking 'you.' They were unable to kill 'you' so the fight went on for days. Curiously, I had reduced the scale of 'you' as described in an earlier post. The bandits could apparently see 'you' at least some of the time. As they chased in inoffensive 'you,' they focused on and struck toward the ground. The fight went on for about two days with the sun rising and falling on the helpless you. Since, unlike the bandits, I could neither see or find the little character, I finally stopped the fight by removing the mod.  Now that I think of it, 'you' may have not been entirely helpless. I did see two dead bandits during the extended melee. I don't know what happened to them, but the circumstances were suspicious.

[Dark_Fenix]

i have 3 whole days playing and npc just talk, they end up saying they are not interested, I do not know if i have to mark all in the menu of attributes? I can remove the talks? sometimes I'm listening to someone and NPC conversation interrupted

[Dark_Fenix]

could make married npc have sex every 2 or 3 days? It would be a nice update

[TTTerra]

I've run into a problem in this mod that only seems to happen when it is active.  When active, besides the random freeze here and there, it takes a whole 30 seconds to save a game either through quicksave or when the game autosaves when before it only takes 2 seconds.  When I turn it off, the problem disappears.  Here's my load order:

 

 

Skyrim.esm
Update.esm
Unofficial Skyrim Patch.esp
Dawnguard.esm
Unofficial Dawnguard Patch.esp
HearthFires.esm
Unofficial Hearthfire Patch.esp
Dragonborn.esm
Unofficial Dragonborn Patch.esp
ApachiiHairMales.esm
CreatureFramework.esm
SexLab.esm
Devious Devices - Assets.esm
EFFCore.esm
Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm
SexLabAroused.esm
ZaZAnimationPack.esm
Devious Devices - Integration.esm
daymoyl.esm
Devious Devices - Expansion.esm
hdtHighHeel.esm
XPMSE.esp
Catlike Khajiit.esp
ELFX - Exteriors.esp
SOS - VectorPlexus Muscular Addon.esp
Potions.esp
College of Winterhold Entry Requirements.esp
UIExtensions.esp
AdventurersAndTravelers.esp
RaceMenuPluginXPMSE.esp
DgAsVampire.esp
SexLab Aroused Creatures.esp
Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp
RaceMenuPlugin.esp
RaceMenu.esp
ImmediateDragons.esp
dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp
EnhancedLightsandFX.esp
AOS.esp
ELFXEnhancer.esp
sanguinesDebauchery.esp
Better Vampires.esp
Predator Vision.esp
SD Cages.esp
PerkusMaximus_Master.esp
DeadlyDragons.esp
AOS2_DD Patch.esp
Devious Deviants.esp
EFFDialogue.esp
dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp
AOS2_EBT Patch.esp
PerkusMaximus_Warrior.esp
PerMa Fixes.esp
dD-Dragonborn-Dawnguard-EBT Patch.esp
PerkusMaximus_Mage.esp
JobsofSkyrim.esp
NoDragonborn.esp
ELFX - Weathers.esp
skyrimaguas_Bigger_better_Sun.esp
imp_helm_legend.esp
Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp
PerkusMaximus_Thief.esp
Catlike Khajiit + NPCs.esp
Potions - Perma Patch.esp
RevampedExteriorFog.esp
AOS2_ELFX-Weathers Patch.esp
Supreme Storms.esp
MoreNastyCritters.esp
DeadlyMonsters.esp
SOS - Leito Addon.esp
Extended UI.esp
SOSRaceMenu.esp
Schlongs of Skyrim.esp
SexLab Cumshot.esp
SexLabDefeat.esp
SexLabNudeCreatures.esp
SexLabNudeCreaturesDB.esp
SexLabNudeCreaturesDG.esp
HentaiCreatures.esp
dc-untamed-000.esp
BeastessLair.esp
SkyUI.esp
TavernGames.esp
Thieves Guild Requirements.esp
skyrimbachelorsandbachelorettes.esp
arnima.esp
Chesko_Frostfall.esp
SexLab_Dialogues.esp
bestrape.esp
summersetisles.esp
vMYC_MeetYourCharacters.esp
dD-Larger Splatter Size.esp
mslDeviousCaptures.esp
sr_FillHerUp.esp
yourwalkspeed.esp
Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp
adcSexlife.esp

 

[iacex111]

I've run into a problem in this mod that only seems to happen when it is active.  When active, besides the random freeze here and there, it takes a whole 30 seconds to save a game either through quicksave or when the game autosaves when before it only takes 2 seconds.  When I turn it off, the problem disappears.  Here's my load order:

 

 

Skyrim.esm

Update.esm

Unofficial Skyrim Patch.esp

Dawnguard.esm

Unofficial Dawnguard Patch.esp

HearthFires.esm

Unofficial Hearthfire Patch.esp

Dragonborn.esm

Unofficial Dragonborn Patch.esp

ApachiiHairMales.esm

CreatureFramework.esm

SexLab.esm

Devious Devices - Assets.esm

EFFCore.esm

Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm

SexLabAroused.esm

ZaZAnimationPack.esm

Devious Devices - Integration.esm

daymoyl.esm

Devious Devices - Expansion.esm

hdtHighHeel.esm

XPMSE.esp

Catlike Khajiit.esp

ELFX - Exteriors.esp

SOS - VectorPlexus Muscular Addon.esp

Potions.esp

College of Winterhold Entry Requirements.esp

UIExtensions.esp

AdventurersAndTravelers.esp

RaceMenuPluginXPMSE.esp

DgAsVampire.esp

SexLab Aroused Creatures.esp

Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp

RaceMenuPlugin.esp

RaceMenu.esp

ImmediateDragons.esp

dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp

EnhancedLightsandFX.esp

AOS.esp

ELFXEnhancer.esp

sanguinesDebauchery.esp

Better Vampires.esp

Predator Vision.esp

SD Cages.esp

PerkusMaximus_Master.esp

DeadlyDragons.esp

AOS2_DD Patch.esp

Devious Deviants.esp

EFFDialogue.esp

dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp

AOS2_EBT Patch.esp

PerkusMaximus_Warrior.esp

PerMa Fixes.esp

dD-Dragonborn-Dawnguard-EBT Patch.esp

PerkusMaximus_Mage.esp

JobsofSkyrim.esp

NoDragonborn.esp

ELFX - Weathers.esp

skyrimaguas_Bigger_better_Sun.esp

imp_helm_legend.esp

Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp

PerkusMaximus_Thief.esp

Catlike Khajiit + NPCs.esp

Potions - Perma Patch.esp

RevampedExteriorFog.esp

AOS2_ELFX-Weathers Patch.esp

Supreme Storms.esp

MoreNastyCritters.esp

DeadlyMonsters.esp

SOS - Leito Addon.esp

Extended UI.esp

SOSRaceMenu.esp

Schlongs of Skyrim.esp

SexLab Cumshot.esp

SexLabDefeat.esp

SexLabNudeCreatures.esp

SexLabNudeCreaturesDB.esp

SexLabNudeCreaturesDG.esp

HentaiCreatures.esp

dc-untamed-000.esp

BeastessLair.esp

SkyUI.esp

TavernGames.esp

Thieves Guild Requirements.esp

skyrimbachelorsandbachelorettes.esp

arnima.esp

Chesko_Frostfall.esp

SexLab_Dialogues.esp

bestrape.esp

summersetisles.esp

vMYC_MeetYourCharacters.esp

dD-Larger Splatter Size.esp

mslDeviousCaptures.esp

sr_FillHerUp.esp

yourwalkspeed.esp

Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp

adcSexlife.esp

 

 

 

Hi! The fact that your game doesn't work with SexLife and works without it doesn't necessarily mean SLSL is a problem.

Your load order is very far from being perfect. I don't know all the mods you have, but the ones that I'm familiar with are messed up. For example, you have SOS related mods scattered throughout the whole list. You have some script-heavy mods. All these mean that while for some time your game may be fine, yet at some point it may just seize to work.

 

As for your save problem. First try this: delete your quicksave and then quicksave again (with SexLife activated). See if it changes anything. (BTW, how's regular saving, with new slots and overwriting old ones?) Also you can post your papyrus log - I'm not the best at reading it but there are brighter people here who can deduce something from it.

 

 

[iacex111]

i have 3 whole days playing and npc just talk, they end up saying they are not interested, I do not know if i have to mark all in the menu of attributes? I can remove the talks? sometimes I'm listening to someone and NPC conversation interrupted

 

Definitely do not mark all the attributes, that won't help.

I can't help you having so little info. Have you tried the testing mode? Is NPC's arousal high enough? What are the exact NPCs' reactions? Maybe I can advice something if you give me some more details.

could make married npc have sex every 2 or 3 days? It would be a nice update

 

My first thought is: try "Further Lovers' Comfort" mod. It's exactly what you need.

 

[Skippe]

iacex111 first thank you for all of your tips for the mod you have posted here they have definatelly helped me to figure out how the mod works bit better .

 

-i kind of want to ask you something does necrophilia works already or does it might come in later version ? 

 

-reason why i ask this is that everytime my pc has been near female npc body to wait that she would raise and jump my pc in top left corner says dead or necrophilia is off 

 

-i have clicked necrophilia active time to time test if it works and it seems that nothing happens 

 

if you have ideas or suggestions i would very happily give you virtual cookies  

[iacex111]

iacex111 first thank you for all of your tips for the mod you have posted here they have definatelly helped me to figure out how the mod works bit better .

 

-i kind of want to ask you something does necrophilia works already or does it might come in later version ? 

 

-reason why i ask this is that everytime my pc has been near female npc body to wait that she would raise and jump my pc in top left corner says dead or necrophilia is off 

 

-i have clicked necrophilia active time to time test if it works and it seems that nothing happens 

 

if you have ideas or suggestions i would very happily give you virtual cookies

 

Always glad to help .

 

No, necrophilia doesn't work yet. But it's there to be activated in the future releases. The same with prostitution. I'm rather sure that Dooge will work on new attributes as many users show their interest in them.

 

As for the cookies, I get my sugar elsewhere , but thanks, I wouldn't mind a beer or two, though.

 

[ButchDiavolo]

After reading through the posts, I couldn't really find an answer to my question. If I read over it, I do apologize.

For the past 2 days, I have been trying to install Sexlife (V. 1.3.5), but I never get the messages that are supposed to show up that it is installing or getting ready. I also never get the MCM menu. I have been sitting in a very quiet place doing nothing at all. When I check in the console, I do see that there are 3 adc-quests. So I am kinda mystified as to what I may be doing wrong.

Can someone please give me some pointers as to how to get this to work?

[Skippe]

thanks iacex *offers iacex virtual cold beer *

[ButchDiavolo]

*sigh* Ok, never mind... I am a dolt. version 1.3.5 is apparently just the esp file. I downloaded 1.3.4 and it works.

[Guest ...failure]

Good idea, good work, everything good

[iacex111]

*sigh* Ok, never mind... I am a dolt. version 1.3.5 is apparently just the esp file. I downloaded 1.3.4 and it works.

 

I've just been about to write about it.

You're not the only one to have made that mistake. Anyway, I'm glad you've sorted this out.

BTW, you'd find the answer to your problem just by reading previous posts. I know there are lots of them but I can tell from my own experience that this way you'd not only find the answer to your particular question but often also to the questions you've not asked yet. Frankly, I found out that I didn't know as much as I'd thought. And still learning...   

Good idea, good work, everything good

 

On good Dooge's behalf - thank you very much.

[xijie]

So far everything seems functional...in theory.  In practice, since I've mostly been going from place to place with only Zora Fair-child (from Interesting NPCs), who is straight per that mod, and my character is a lesbian...

 

Let's just say there's been a whole lot of 'Ugh, don't talk to me about guys and their dicks.'

[grind3r]

Which file pack  do I need to Install this mod ,there are five packs from 1.3.1 to 1.3.5. , I need to install all of them in the right order or the last one?

Thank you

" Ok I saw the answer at the last  previous posts "