Japanese Women decry Beta Males: "You Must Approach Us!"

[Cynical Misanthrope]

 

Why won't women go desperate for men...

 

 

Because in general, it's not attractive to be desperate in the opposite person eyes. 

 

Most people want a strong, confident partner because it's hard coded in our DNA to search for the strongest best suited partner possible.

The essence of life is really magical to some extent, but it's also very very harsh. It want's to survive using any means necessary.

I dont know, i had several longer lasting relationships and all of them were the same, at first it was nice, but with time all of the women started to be grumpy, always whining about something and ofcourse it was all my fault and sometimes when i looked at them i felt like their whole existence is only about blaming men for everything and then chasing after them.

 

I simply got bored of the game, there are far better things out there then loosing time with the ever increasing whiny women.

Ever since i stoped caring about them and started to focus on myself and things i like, im at peace.

 

I guess i became a beta, but a happy beta.

 

You're not a beta just because you choose to take fully control of your life.

[vinfamy]

What's the point of marriage again? So that you can divorce later on?

[Kakabishan]

What's the point of marriage again? So that you can divorce later on?

​Getting that sweet 50% of whatever you own as well. Somehow, most of the time, the male gets shafted on pretty badly.

[Guest]

What's the point of marriage again? So that you can divorce later on?

I think that's more of a western issue. Most country divorce rates aren't that high....

[vinfamy]

 

What's the point of marriage again? So that you can divorce later on?

I think that's more of a western issue. Most country divorce rates aren't that high....

You'll have to take into account religions that prohibit divorce and social stigma surrounding divorces in certain countries.

 

Getting stuck with someone you no longer fancy is worse than divorce. Even worse is potentially getting cheated on because of a 'mistake' or your spouse 'finding spice'

 

It's not just about the risk of divorce:

You don't need to be married for sex

You don't need to marry to have children

You don't need to marry to build a life together as a couple

You don't need to marry to love

 

Then why the fuck would you marry for? Except because 'everyone does' or because of 'society'

[Guest]

 

 

What's the point of marriage again? So that you can divorce later on?

I think that's more of a western issue. Most country divorce rates aren't that high....

You'll have to take into account religions that prohibit divorce and social stigma surrounding divorces in certain countries.

 

Getting stuck with someone you no longer fancy is worse than divorce. Even worse is potentially getting cheated on because of a 'mistake' or your spouse 'finding spice'

 

It's not just about the risk of divorce:

You don't need to be married for sex

You don't need to marry to have children

You don't need to marry to build a life together as a couple

You don't need to marry to love

 

Then why the fuck would you marry for? Except because 'everyone does' or because of 'society'

Isn't that why prenups exist? To settle properties and finances before marriage so that you aren't screwed later? At least you get tax breaks for marriage.

 

True, in technicality marriages are pointless but if we look at it in that lense, then stuff like education and other things is also pointless. I highly doubt surgeons are trying to recall the citric acid cycle during operation. What's the point of being healthy and exercising if it all leads to death anyway?

 

There are lots of people that like the ceremony that comes with marriage as well as the attention they get from it. Nothing wrong with that.

 

In a lot of countries, you aren't even considered a full fledged woman unless you have a child through marriage. Who are we to criticize that?

 

Vietnam, for example, has a very low divorce rate of about 4%. In a study also done in 2013 of married couples, 81% were happy and satisfied with their marriage...and Vietnam is one of those countries that places emphasis on marriage and discourages divorce but it doesn't seem to affect their happiness.

 

Japan is struggling with marriage and such partly because they are considered the most westernized Asian country. Just my two cents. South Korea is even headed that way as well.

 

Edit: I also want to add that cheating is highly condemned in most Asian countries but it seems with the whole cancerous western feminist movement it's almost like they are encouraging cheating. In the USA, about 30% of couples have cheated on their spouse. In South Korea that number is only 9%, but unfortunately that number is rising

[Cynical Misanthrope]

 

You'll have to take into account religions that prohibit divorce and social stigma surrounding divorces in certain countries.

 

Getting stuck with someone you no longer fancy is worse than divorce. 

 

 

This is so true. I have a really good friend from Turkey who is stuck with a husband she does not love at all.

And now she is going to have a 2nd child with him as well. She has no say in basically anything in this relationship.

And she can't divorce him, because shes afraid of what others will think of her. But also the knowledge that she wont win the custody of the kids.

 

Religion and backwards traditions in a nutshell.

[27X]

Is this the article that was like two years old and they only interviewed rich yuppie women who were openly only looking for sugar daddies?

 

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Yes, yes it is.

 

Meh.

[Zor2k13]

What is a chad? Some slang for another word like american?

 

I read something last year about this it was called the celibacy syndrome or otherwise known as why bother. Even at high school level perhaps even earlier males are not even bothering with females over there anymore at all. Interesting to find out that women have their own trains over there... would like to have a webcam view of that to see all the lesbos groping others lol. Japan is a dying country they won't last for much longer probably go out after europe implodes from their crisis. Someday completely artificial females will replace the female half of humanity and they will be completely indistinguishable from the real thing and capable of having children. If humans ever live long enough to make something like that I guarantee all the men will move to mars or some other place and leave all the women here by themselves. Go have a great life with some artificial female that completely adapts to your personality and lifestyle while still having her own personality and opinions and occasionally arguing over something but not trying to win the argument and drag it on forever. Turn the argument into a good debate somehow so both learn something instead of hating each other.

 

Relationships today are just clash of the titans all the time.

[GrimReaper]

 

Japan has a very different culture. One that breaks people and leaves only husks behind so yeah, I wouldn't compare Japan to western cultures.

sounds like something a beta would say

 

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eitherways I know of waaaay more alpha tough

as fuck Japanese guys than I do alpha anglo-saxon guys

 

 

Only betas call other people beta.

 

 

 

You'll have to take into account religions that prohibit divorce and social stigma surrounding divorces in certain countries.

 

Getting stuck with someone you no longer fancy is worse than divorce. Even worse is potentially getting cheated on because of a 'mistake' or your spouse 'finding spice'

 

It's not just about the risk of divorce:

You don't need to be married for sex

You don't need to marry to have children

You don't need to marry to build a life together as a couple

You don't need to marry to love

 

Then why the fuck would you marry for? Except because 'everyone does' or because of 'society'

 

Marriage in theory is a neat little concept to solidify the smallest social structure, the family. Back when tribal culture was all humans had this wasn't much of a problem because everyone was important and everyone cared for each other. But after the population exploded, you needed something to keep society together and the nuclear family was the ideal glue. It gave males something to aim and work for and females security and wealth to raise their children. In theory, at least. It's probably the same why many cultures and societies practice monogamy, it's much more efficient to pair one female and a male than have a few males have most of the women.

[Guest]

 

 

Japan has a very different culture. One that breaks people and leaves only husks behind so yeah, I wouldn't compare Japan to western cultures.

sounds like something a beta would say

 

 

Only betas call other people beta.

 

thats just a dumb generalization only a beta would say

[arpaschad]

Wat is a chad? Some slang for another word like american?

 

 

from the Japanese slang "Sado, Chado" or the Japanese equivalent of the Alpha male...you're either a Chad (dominant) or a Seke (Beta)...

 

 

 

me specifically, I am content with what mister Gerald Butler said below... and I am happy...having undergone past relationships with mostly negative effects and a big hole in my wallet and seeing as my family members, uncles, aunts, mother are separated from their Spouses I believe choosing to be single is a safer bet to preserve sanity, finances and well-being...

 

If there's a time I might find a suitable someone, I still won't ruin (IMO) the magic we have together by putting it in a legally binding contract where the rules are in favor of the fairer sex...a rule which hasn't changed since the early times...

 

besides IMO if you think you need to be in a relationship with someone or get married to someone to be happy and dapper then I have bad news for you... 

 

[Cynical Misanthrope]

What people seems to fail to understand, the word Alpha and Betas are used to simply simplify a certain behavior in humans. (but other animals as well ofc)

 

However today these words, like many other words, the definition of them has changed overtime, but not always for the better.

Alphas and Betas are used as a insult these days, mostly towards males. And has completely lost the true meaning.

Today, the definition of a Alpha is a loud shit talker who bangs himself on the chest and thinks he is the shit. And for the Beta, the definition is "a loser".

 

A Alpha is generally someone who has a strong mentality and who can still function under extreme pressure. Someone who can step up and take control.

A Beta is someone who simply lack these skills. But, one cannot exists without the other. Both is needed for the group to function.

You can't have only 10 Alphas in a group, just as you can't have only 10 Betas. Because in both cases, nothing will be done.

The outcome will always be the same. And for you information, this is not tied to males only. I just can't remember if females uses the same words.

 

Some people are just better a "leading" and some are fine with having someone else lead them.

The are areas where I have great knowledge and experience, so naturally most friends will let me "boss" them around, but then there is other areas I have zero knowledge, but someone else might have, so naturally they step up to lead instead. Completely natural and normal.

 

So stop using these words as a insult. It just shows how small your vocabulary are. 

[gangstamick]

To apply Western Values of sex in Japan is a fool's gambit. They lampoon Americans (as White Devils) and Blacks (as stereotypical black face minstrels)

[Zor2k13]

Well we don't want their women thats for sure which is probably the only reason they started calling americans devils lol. Hey anyone remember that japanese guy dressed up as mr slave from southpark he called himself "hard gay" remember that guy? Wonder what he has been doin to make fun of this stuff lately?

[Deviljho-san]

Reading this article is like wow. I want to feel sad for both party but i can only feel more remorse for the male. I think males get treated unfairly in general but from what i seen by these feminist and such. I'm surly wrong. -rolls eyes- 

 

I somewhat stop caring for relations ship since from one of my high school teacher said it's just another job but in the end you can get screwed over big time. I do have time were i want to be in a relationship but since as people said on here females want to get a perfect 100%+ and not settle for a 90% -. I know i ain't perfect. I know i'm a beta. I get melancholy at random months. I'm a masochist beta i like to make jokes about me because i know i can handle it. Aside on me being bad at flirting i stop caring about relationships since 40% of the females i encountered in my time (from middle school till now). Says that i touch them inappropriate even-though my hands will be in my pocket or i wasn't near them at all. So if i'm going to be blame for something i didn't do then you're not my type nor will never get a lover with that attitude.

 

I already know my little brother acts like a alpha even-though it sickens me since he act's like mister know it all. I can't understand alpha and what makes them so special. The way this world makes it is compare them as $10.99 dinner at -insert a restaurant here- to a $100 dinner at a -insert a fancy restraunt here-. Why choose the expensive one if it could or couldn't fill you up compare to the simple one.

[Yami X]

It seems people don't understand that Alpha-Beta bullshit is nothing but a state of mind.

[Darkpig]

I think Japenese people work too hard. These mofos seem to think so too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iUKzEQU7ag

I'd imagine marriages would have a hard time working when you constantly come home late because of work or worse, mandatory business drinking parties.

 

Mai two cents.

[Yuni]

They say that this is a "beta man" problem, but just watch this video by Adam Ruins Everything:

("Alpha Males" don't exist).

.... the problem in Japan, from what I know, that they're dealing with is their society expects men to be married to their JOBS, not "beta herbivores" or something. I hear that it's a work-ethic-focus-on-job thing rather than being meek.

[GimmeBACON]

("Alpha Males" don't exist).

Merriam-Webster adds new words to it every year... and while the origin of the term may have come from false information, the term "Alpha Male" is still used today. The term "Alpha Male" just doesn't have an official definition, hence the debate over what it means.

 

I hear that it's a work-ethic-focus-on-job thing rather than being meek.

From what the MGTOW thing, I'd guess there's plenty of "meek" men in Japan... actually take away gender and nationality, there's plenty of meek people all over the world.

[Wandering Starspawn]

I hope Japanese herbivore males (and also those of the western persuasion) can find fulfillment in the meager and humble lives they have chosen. Social expectations have not evolved evenly to account for the changes in economy and social contracts being broken: they should not have to suffer for it by becoming enslaved by a contract where only one side is benefactor. I applaud them for rejecting unfair social expectations instead of blindly following them like many generations before them.

 

Unfortunately for discontent men, a passive "rebellion" like this is all they can do and even this much draws widespread derision...from nearly all women of course but also from many other men. Until society can decide what it means to be a man and stop demonizing men for everything they do or do not do, I encourage them to selfishly pursue their own gratification and in the process, propel us into a bright future of highly advanced virtual reality pornography 

[Aria]

You had rituals to adulthood that all young men and women taken part at certain age, learning them important things about their gender and how to survive.

There were wise elders from both genders, who passed their knowledge onto them when the time has come.

Lots of this knowledge has been lost to modernization and overpopulation..comfortable life.

 

People rebelling against gender roles is just another example of this.

They are rebelling because they dont know, noone learned them these important parts, but deep down they feel there is something missing.

You cannot go against nature when you are a part of it.

 

Now you have lots of single mothers who cant learn their sons the important parts of being a man, because logicaly they cant know that.

Then you have young women who only learn how to make a tool out of a man, caring for noone else then themselfs.

 

The world is overrun with childish men and women of whom many are standing on high positions of power and then you wonder why everything is going to hell.

[Jazzman]

I don't like silly stereotypes, they just reflect the wishful thinking of a promoted identity policy that intends to divide the minds of a people, making 'em weak and easily to be controlled from above for being distracted from the real McCoy - the puppeteers. Mi lover here on LL is Asian, she just is what she is, but ain't we all? However, to extrapolate the sexually influenced social self-understanding of an individual on gender factions of whole populations is perfectly stupid, folks. How low can politicized identity freaks go doing the mental limbo? Haven't these assholes hit rock bottom yet?

 

As rule of thumb, the alpha (male or female) is the chosen leader of a pack and as such in the crosshair of the betas that vividly try to topple the leadership 24/7. So the leader has to gather an army of gammas not to get removed from the equation already after the first crucial mistake made. Mark my words, Tweety Twump!

[Aria]

The wishfull thinking is actually the oposite of these "stereotypes".

[Jazzman]

The wishfull thinking is actually the oposite of these "stereotypes".

In the Orwellian matrix? For sure.