Spouses Enhanced 1.7.3 (14-Oct-2015)

[Aluviel]

Hello,

I installed this mod "Spouses Enhanced 1.7.3 (14-Oct-2015) 1.7.3. "

I am not getting any "My Love" options even tho the MCM menu picks up the mod. 

2.It woulnt recognize my spouse/follower even tho I am currently carrying his child and due to give birth any time now.

Scratch that... Not preggers anymore.. 

Ihave no menu options or spells.. I never dled the original earlier versions I only saw the 1.7 

3. I tried to add the custom bed, None of the spells showed up in my magic list.

 

Suggestions?

 

 I just read that if you have spouses can live anywhere that it can interfere. 

I got rid of spouses can live anywhere and did a save tool cleaner and totally got rid of it.. 

So should I uninstall  and start over? 

I noticed my follower has a ring on his finger, when I check the inventory, it doesnt show his wedding ring on from the temple.  The MCM menu woulnt acknowedge that we are married and he is my spouse.

[Taven]

2 hours ago, Aluviel said:

 preggers

That's probably your problem RIGHT THERE, this mod does not have anything about getting pregnant, or making your spouse pregnant. Whatever mod you have that allows pregnancy most likely interferes with this mod in some way, and the only thing I know that can be done is to hope for a patch. Unfortunately, it's been a long time since this mod has been updated, so a patch is rather unlikely. Until then, you're going to have to either do without your pregnancy mod, or this mod so spouses and followers that can become spouses won't get screwed over.

[Demodog]

I run a pregnancy mod (Fertility mode) and this mod and I haven't had any issues. I would suggest going back to a save before you got married and try it then. If the spells don't automatically show up in your game, use the disable spells toggle in the mcm and turn it on and off. Mine showed up after that.

[Aluviel]

I keep getting this box and I dont have any dialogue even when I manually set it in the mcm menu and wait 3 days in a row. What Am I doing wrong?

[Uncle64]

1 hour ago, Aluviel said:

I keep getting this box and I dont have any dialogue even when I manually set it in the mcm menu and wait 3 days in a row. What Am I doing wrong?

Snip the screendump.

 

That dont come from this mod. It comes from Beeing Female.

 

Have you installed Bane_masters latest patches?
It can also come in that mod, if you have script lag.

[Aluviel]

I disabled Beeing female and went back to fertility mode. TY for clearing that up. The baby is born no longer pregnant.. The two mods have nothing to do with each other . One is to make your spouse more friendly or talk more.  Like Demodog said..  Can anyone give me an example to know if its even working?  When I open up the dialogue to try to talk to him shouldnt I get some extra options to start chatting like.. I love you or something? lol He doesnt approach me either. I'll try toggling in the mcm menu too

 

[Demodog]

this is the prompt for the mod (where the pointer is at) Your spouse will approach you if youve been away from home for awhile and their affection level will grow with successful approaches. If you travel with them or youre at home, theres a chance to wake up having sex with them and having their affection grow from that too. Hope this helps

[Aluviel]

Thank you Demo! I dont have that option at all.. or any of those I see on the menu its almost as if the mod isnt even there just in the mcm menu its been a few days so there has been plenty of time . I dunno... I wonder what this "About Bathing" thing is? From another mod? I have already reinstalled this mod twice. I first had the 1.7 then I read that it was just an upgrade to the orginal so I went back to the 1.4 version and used Save tool to clean it completely.... Now Im thinking maybe I shouldn't have downgraded. The instructions to up grade was to basically wipe it out and clean any instance or trace of the mod left over and download 1.7.. Honestly that doesnt make sense..

[Aluviel]

went back to 1.7 this dang mod just doesnt work.  Probably cause I do have a multiple follower pkg installed, I need that! Even before when I didnt have that installed...still wasnt working.. The mcm is there... even when I set it to 4 and make it work it just woulnt....

[sidfu]

its not working cause sounds to me your load order, mods and in general your whole skyrim is messed up from adding and removing random mods so your save a a mess and is about to just implode

[Seijin8]

7 hours ago, Aluviel said:

went back to 1.7 this dang mod just doesnt work.  Probably cause I do have a multiple follower pkg installed, I need that! Even before when I didnt have that installed...still wasnt working.. The mcm is there... even when I set it to 4 and make it work it just woulnt....

The mod works fine.  Please don't blame mods for your own bad modding practices.

[Demodog]

The bathing thing is from the bathing in skyrim mod. I also use a multiple follower mod (ATF) so I don't think that's the issue Try cleaning an earlier save before you married. Hopefully that works. 

[Aluviel]

I use loot and always check my load order. There is no reason to be nasty this is upposed to be an adult forum please act like it. I have already reported unnecessary comments.

[Seijin8]

10 hours ago, Aluviel said:

this is upposed to be an adult forum please act like it

 

10 hours ago, Aluviel said:

I have already reported unnecessary comments.

 

You want to reconcile those two things for me?

 

Would you say crying about people being mean is adult behavior?

 

In the meantime, have you stripped down your load order to verify that you can get SE working at all?  With no other competing mods present?

[DIO over Za Warudo]

So random question, if you were to use a custom-voiced follower that uses Serana's dialogue as the base, would you need the Serana addons?

[TheDragonBorn]

hey im having an issue where my spouse absolutely will not approach me, does anyone have any idea why that might be? need some serious help, here is my load order

 

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           _aya_new.esp
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 64 40     Follower Onean.esp
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 66 42     SexLab Eager NPCs.esp
 67 43     3DM_Anny.esp
           LeijonaFollower.esp
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 69 45     [dint]BDO_Clothes_Pack.esp
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           KokoroFollower.esp
           Brevi_MoonlightTales.esp
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           Sirris_Follower.esp
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 81 51     schltz's character.esp
 82 52     Overknee_Kali.esp
 83 53     RRC_MercyFollower.esp
 84 54     Vivace.esp
 85 55     Overknee_Sonya.esp
 86 56     Lumi Follower.esp
 87 57     Elisabeth.esp
 88 58     Braenn.esp
 89 59     Woe Follower.esp
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 97 61     Naestra.esp
 98 62     No2F.esp
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104 68     Lady Arkay.esp
105 69     Arneth...esp
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           Bosmer Beautys Follower.esp
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126 7e     Josefine.esp
           Mona follower.esp
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131 83     Vella Follower.esp
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[Seijin8]

6 hours ago, TheDragonBorn said:

hey im having an issue where my spouse absolutely will not approach me, does anyone have any idea why that might be? need some serious help, here is my load order

 

 

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   0  0     Skyrim.esm

  1  1     Update.esm
  2  2     Dawnguard.esm
  3  3     HearthFires.esm
  4  4     Dragonborn.esm
  5  5     Unofficial Skyrim Legendary Edition Patch.esp
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 54 36     EasierRidersDungeonPack.esp
 55 37     Follower Neisa.esp
 56 38     The Ordinary Women.esp
           S_minkRe.esp
 57 39     tetro - Kailu.esp
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           _aya_new.esp
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           LeijonaFollower.esp
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           KokoroFollower.esp
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           Sirris_Follower.esp
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101 65     Toccata.esp
102 66     Skyrimusume Bandit.esp
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104 68     Lady Arkay.esp
105 69     Arneth...esp
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           Bosmer Beautys Follower.esp
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114 72     FollowerSha.esp
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119 77     Kiria.esp
120 78     R.B Irene Follower.esp
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139 8b     Millepon_Follower.esp
140 8c     Overknee_Brisa.esp
141 8d     AZ_YsaraFollower.esp
142 8e     followerhelen.esp
143 8f     Liarsa_002.esp
144 90     Huldra Zombie Companion.esp
145 91     Xanafollower.esp
146 92     Miu_Follower.esp
147 93     Kathleen - Follower.esp
148 94     Dorothea - Follower.esp
149 95     Munax Follower.esp
150 96     Tifa_follower_by_incana.esp
           Ivara Follower.esp
           Sharifa.esp
151 97     FNISSexyMove.esp
152 98     SLAnimLoader.esp
153 99     Sexlab - Cum Overlays.esp
154 9a     SexLab Approach.esp
155 9b     adcSexlife.esp
156 9c     SexLab LightMeUp Oldrim.esp
157 9d     Apropos2.esp
158 9e     SexLabUtil1.esp
159 9f     Blush When Aroused.esp
160 a0     SexLab Attraction.esm
161 a1     SexLab Sound FX Replacer.esp
162 a2     SexLabDefeat.esp
163 a3     SexLabSquirtR.esp
164 a4     SLSO.esp
165 a5     BeeingFemaleBasicAddOn.esp
166 a6     AnubAnimObj.esp
167 a7     NibblesAnimObjects.esp
168 a8     TDF Aroused Rape.esp
169 a9     SexLab Vanilla Voices.esp
170 aa     SLAL_AnimationsByLeito.esp
171 ab     SLALAnimObjBillyy.esp
172 ac     SLATE.esp
           DW.esp
173 ad     MaleClericArmor.esp
174 ae     Elvenia.esp
175 af     Sovngarde Steel Armor and Weapons.esp
176 b0     [COCO]KDA_Ahri_Full.esp
177 b1     GRIM ElfMedium.esp
178 b2     [COCO]Lady Samurai.esp
179 b3     HASTE.esp
180 b4     dD-No Spinning Death Animation Merged.esp
181 b5     Kaw's Claws.esp
182 b6     [COCO]sexypunk.esp
183 b7     GrimMaryJane.esp
184 b8     GrimSovereignBoosette.esp
185 b9     VioLens.esp
186 ba     Draw!!.esp
187 bb     NorthernGrass.esp
188 bc     SuitUp.esp
           Fast Respawn 72 Hours 1.2.esp
           KS Hairdo's.esp
189 bd     Beards.esp
           CitrusHead - Standalone.esp
           Eyes of Aber.esp
           DineWithFollowers.esp
190 be     BloodthirstVampireFeeding.esp
191 bf     Skyband.esp
192 c0     Elisif Makeover.esp
193 c1     Bijin Wives.esp
194 c2     Bijin NPCs.esp
195 c3     Serana.esp
196 c4     MBWSFollowersReplacer.esp
197 c5     Bijin Warmaidens.esp
198 c6     Werewolves.esp
199 c7     Valerica.esp
200 c8     Succubus-san.esp
           AngelArmor.esp
201 c9     princess.esp
           [NINI]GothaRensa.esp
202 ca     NPCWaterAIScripted.esp
203 cb     9204 BDO Pack1 by TEAM TAL 1.5.esp
           HV0102.esp
204 cc     Apex Senior.esp
205 cd     16923.esp
206 ce     Nini Stuff 1.0.esp
207 cf     GPArmorPack3.esp
208 d0     WetFunction.esp
209 d1     Schlongs of Skyrim.esp
           SOS - Smurf Average Addon.esp
           SOS - VectorPlexus Muscular Addon.esp
210 d2     SOS - VectorPlexus Regular Addon.esp
211 d3     haijin NPCs - Babette.esp
212 d4     Nini Stuff 2.0.esp
213 d5     [NINI] Trivene.esp
214 d6     [NINI] Bless MD 0013.esp
215 d7     [NINI] Bless MD 0101.esp
           [NINI] Damaged Feather.esp
216 d8     [NINI] Asker Assassin.esp
217 d9     [NINI] Dressy.esp
218 da     [NINI] Dino.esp
           TrollBoneArmor.esp
219 db     Widowmaker.esp
           Ryeonggi.esp
220 dc     AddItemMenu2.esp
221 dd     beinz_plugin.esp
222 de     RaceMenuMorphsUUNP.esp
           chargenexport.esp
223 df     dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp
224 e0     dD-DG-DB-MonsterMod EBT Patch v4.esp
225 e1     dD-Larger Splatter Size.esp
226 e2     Fudou Myouou.esp
227 e3     Bishu Osafune-ju Morikage.esp
228 e4     Purifier.esp
229 e5     SRG Enhanced Trees Activator.esp
230 e6     RaceMenu.esp
231 e7     RaceMenuPlugin.esp
232 e8     AOS2_EBT Patch.esp
233 e9     AOS2_RealisticWaterTwo Patch.esp
           AOS2_CoT3_1_patch.esp
234 ea     MilkyObj.esp
235 eb     Breast Size Scaling for NPCs.esp
           SGHairPackAIO.esp
236 ec     WondersofWeather.esp
           LorkhanMoonlightGreatswordPack.esp
237 ed     [Dint999] KSH's HDT.esp
238 ee     FNISspells.esp
239 ef     [dint999] HairPack.esp
240 f0     Mehrune's Razor Remodeled.esp
           CROSS_Crucible.esp
241 f1     YunDao_Hdt_Hair.esp
242 f2     Bathing in Skyrim - Main.esp
243 f3     DanceForMe.esp
244 f4     [COCO]wedding_2B.esp
245 f5     Hoamaii_SkyrimKiss.esp
246 f6     TheEyesOfBeauty.esp
           Animated Dragon Wings.esp
           More Draconic Dragon Aspect - Powered Edition.esp
           More Draconic Dragon Aspect - Wings and Tail.esp
247 f7     AmazingFollowerTweaks MCM.esp
248 f8     FollowerLivePackage-AFT.esp
249 f9     Bowsette.esp
           Marriable Serana HF.esp
250 fa     FNIS.esp
           XPMSE.esp
251 fb     SOSRaceMenu.esp
           Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp
252 fc     ELFXEnhancer.esp
253 fd     ASIS-Dependency.esp
254 fe     ASIS.esp

Conflicting AI package with a higher priority.

 

Probably from AFT or FLP.

 

In other words: too many things are trying to take over at the same time.

 

 

[TheDragonBorn]

14 hours ago, Seijin8 said:

Conflicting AI package with a higher priority.

 

Probably from AFT or FLP.

 

In other words: too many things are trying to take over at the same time.

 

 

so what would you recommend, getting rid of one? or if there any particular way i can set my loadorder up with my current mods to make it work

[Seijin8]

33 minutes ago, TheDragonBorn said:

so what would you recommend, getting rid of one? or if there any particular way i can set my loadorder up with my current mods to make it work

I would recommend not having a follower manager mod running your spouse.  Remove the spouse from AFT and FLP control.  Has nothing to do with load order.

[TheDragonBorn]

3 hours ago, Seijin8 said:

I would recommend not having a follower manager mod running your spouse.  Remove the spouse from AFT and FLP control.  Has nothing to do with load order.

ok i made sure no follower manager was running my spouse and like always, the mod is running fine but no approach from my spouse. the funny thing is, about 3 days ago a split second of her approach dialogue kicked in when she walked up to me, i saw he subtitles read "care to spend some time with your wife"  but the moment i spoke to her it went away and i haven't seen it since. i even set the required amount of days for an approach to 1 

[Nazguli Tyvek]

I saw on the main page that the mod "Further Lover's Comfort" was causing problems with this mod. How exactly does the mod "Further Lover's Comfort" conflict with this one and has anyone solved this conflict by loading the mod "Further Lover's Comfort"  before this mod as the main page suggests?

[Nazguli Tyvek]

Has anyone had any problems with the mod "M.C.G. (Extended Social Interactions) 1.11.09 - 2020/04/25" conflicting with this one? Is it compatible or does it mess up the marriage quest?

[ShenGo]

How do we get the mod to recognize custom followers? Kaidan, for some reason, isn't flagged as a spouse/lover after you marry him... Console commands (setrelationshiprank player 4, addtofaction 19809 1) after selecting him in the console do nothing, though they throw no errors when I use them, which usually means it was done correctly, yes? The mod does not add the dialogue options, and says I have no spouse.

 

I even went back to before I married him, married him again, and nothing. Tried console commands again after that, still nothing. I don't care if the dialogue is voiced, anything is better than nothing, and I'd at least like to try this mod...

 

[Uncle64]

5 hours ago, ShenGo said:

How do we get the mod to recognize custom followers? Kaidan, for some reason, isn't flagged as a spouse/lover after you marry him... Console commands (setrelationshiprank player 4, addtofaction 19809 1) after selecting him in the console do nothing, though they throw no errors when I use them, which usually means it was done correctly, yes? The mod does not add the dialogue options, and says I have no spouse.

 

I even went back to before I married him, married him again, and nothing. Tried console commands again after that, still nothing. I don't care if the dialogue is voiced, anything is better than nothing, and I'd at least like to try this mod...

 

It is because you dont marry several of the custom followers Skyrim Style. They have their own way.

[ShenGo]

7 hours ago, Uncle64 said:

It is because you dont marry several of the custom followers Skyrim Style. They have their own way.

So basically, even after using console commands in an attempt to add someone to the vanilla marriage faction, this mod can only be used with vanilla NPCs? I'd hoped that being able to make a patch for custom voices meant there was a way... I wish this was still being worked on. If we could simply target our spouse, then set them in the MCM, this mod could be ideal... I assume, since I can't test it lol.