Sir Artsy Posted September 9, 2019 Posted September 9, 2019 16 hours ago, Darkpig said: Speedwagon best waifu? ... didn't watch Jojo yet. The fans are going to be so angry with me. Ah well.
Darkpig Posted September 9, 2019 Posted September 9, 2019 2 hours ago, Sir Artsy said: Gorillas... I'm suddenly craving a banana.
FauxFurry Posted September 10, 2019 Posted September 10, 2019 22 hours ago, Darkpig said: Speedwagon best waifu? ... didn't watch Jojo yet. The fans are going to be so angry with me. Ah well. You haven't watched JoJo's Bizarre Adventure yet?! Wha-wha-wha-wha-whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?!
Pork Type Posted September 10, 2019 Posted September 10, 2019 On 9/2/2019 at 9:28 PM, Blueinith said: this is why i don't engage in Forum posts like hardly ever. most people have a bad attitude including myself who is bitter and salty as hell when it comes to pretty much everything involving people. I would rather just keep my thoughts to myself but I do share a glimpse into my crazy world occasionally. I dont need a reason why. I just do it I dont care. I am lonely but I hate people Did you almost just... Fuck it never mind.
Z0mBieP00Nani Posted September 10, 2019 Posted September 10, 2019 On 8/9/2019 at 10:50 AM, Yohen said: I always check nexus todays pictures and I always feel sad about it.. Pictures that I saw people posted are showing me that we all are little bit lonely.. Dont get me offansive I just wanted to share things in my mind but those pictures always with another npc and with pose modes reminds me instagram.. I mean some people are lucky they are social and have friends to post pictures instagram with..But some of us not like that so we are posting our npc friends? I might be wrong what you think guys? Lonely? Sometimes. Personally though I've found more peace and contentment being alone than when I have when being around others and this especially rings true with regards to relationships, 99% of them are guaranteed to fail at some point anyway and then what was all of that time, money, and emotion spent on? Nothing. It's not an easy thing to do but if you can learn to love and respect yourself and your own time you will be better off in the end. Got the best girlfriend I could need attached to the end of my right arm. She'll never cheat, she'll never tell me I'm not good enough or that she's "not in the mood", and barring some horrible accident she'll never leave. (Ok, that last part was more of a joke, but seriously stop wallowing in self pity.)
Visio Diaboli Posted September 10, 2019 Posted September 10, 2019 In addressing the actual point of this thread, I think it depends on who you ask. While the number of people that can do without a social life entirely is very small, there are definitely many people that don’t seek social connection nearly as much. But no doubt there are also probably a lot of people that are genuinely lonely.
Miss AshleyJ Posted September 10, 2019 Posted September 10, 2019 Um... to put it that way is glossing over a million psychological issues. i didn’t “give up”. I had feelings for a long time that something was not quite right. Embracing the fact that i am a woman is about being comfortable in my body. To be the person I was meant to be. It has nothing to do with anyone else but me. It is not a judgement on the male gender. It’s not like I said “uhh... no one will date me, I’d me happier as a girl.” it’s “why don’t I feel comfortable looking in the mirror? Why am I drawn to dresses and makeup and heels?” that being said, I don’t see one or the other as better. Sure, cis gendered girls don’t have something lying between their legs with a mind of it’s own, but would you honestly trade that for migraine headaches, irritableness and bleeding every month like clockwork? i don’t paint with broad strokes. Each of us is unique. Each of us has our own skills and weaknesses. They are the defining factors in how I see people.
espguy Posted September 11, 2019 Posted September 11, 2019 On 9/9/2019 at 4:44 AM, -Player1- said: There is nothing like "failure" when it comes to someone that looks for friends or has the need to hang with someone because he wants to get rid of his loneliness. If you get rejected, that happens. It will happen with the "Popular kids" as well as with the "nerds". Being afraid to just go to the popular ones comes from a certain uncertainty, doesn't it? But where does that come from? From our own social behaviour. We've seen it in movies, read that in books and so on. The cool kids don't like lonely losers, right? Wrong! As i was younger and went to school i was always considered "Cool" by other kids. Not because i acted cool or because i was the smartest or hottest.. nah. i wish ? It was because my parents had way too much yeah, there is a "too much" money to spend and because i only had clothing from the most expensive brands. Because my school bag was from CC and so on, you get it alright. Sounds good, huh? Not really. I "had" to hang with the cool kids. Well, "had" is such a strong word here to be honest. Tho it was all i knew for some time. But, guess what? Yeah, they were a bunch of "i sniff my own farts". At least at my school they were, i'm sure there are "Cool" cool kids out there One day there was this girl. Maaaan, i had a crush on her, i can tell you that. She had beautiful long, red-ish hair, a cute nose and a smile that made me always forget what i wanted to say. The girl was considered "A problem" tho. "Problematic". She came from a rather unwealthy family and she was often bullied because of that. You know, cheap clothing, never went somewhere, never had anything ...yadda yadda One day tho. That one day.. My class went on a school trip for a week. We wanted to visit London in our english-class. Im not from 'murica, neither from the UK So we were really excited and all. I stayed a little longer in the classroom that day we were told where we would go to - to talk to the teacher about different things. Had to because i was "Class speaker".. Of course i was... After heading out our classroom there was this girl. You know? her, w-we just talked about her?? Anyway. She sat in a corner, almost out of view, only her shoes were visible from where i was standing. As i came closer i heard her crying, so i had to investigate, right? Well, i approached her and just looked at her for a moment, trying to figure out what to say, poor thing got so startled. People always said i'm sneaking around - im not! im just not stomping around like an elephant! I introduced myself properly, never had done that before, believe it, or not. And she told me her name too. Tho we knew the others' names already We talked about a few random things for a minute but then i had to ask the obvious thing. No shit. I asked her why she was crying. Duh She hesitated for amoment but then told me it's because of the trip. Her parents would never have enough money for it and she will be the only one staying at home or at school. Then she said she hates it to be poor and all, but in the same sentence she stated that she loves her parents and she would never want another family. That got me a little thinking right there. Yah, i do that too sometimes! So i offered to pay for her. Yeah, just like that, no dinner, no sex. Stop asking about it! Of course, she refused. She got all flustered, told me that i can't do something like that and that she never could pay it back. So i told her that the ammount for the trip was like... Well yeah, like nothing for my family and that, if i'd told my parents the trip would cost the double ammount, - they wouldn't even ask. She still refused it, tho i could hear how much she wanted it. Tho that was unintentional. So i told her that i'm the "Class speaker". Her Class speaker and that my job is to take care of my class. Man, i'm still so proud of my younger self right there... After while she accepted my offer. And to make a long story short ... W-What?? ... Yeah, no shit! That's how i met my very first girlfriend. One of the most beautiful beings (in- and outside) i've ever met. "Problematic"... Haha. Yah.. because bitches like ma'monezzzz And, belive it or not, it had nothing to do with the money. That just "Brought us together". What i wanted to tell everyone here: If you guys are afraid to get rejected, that's normal. Everyone should. But that's the reason why YOU are perfect. Because you care for that. That's whats wrong with our society. People don't care. People have lots of prejudices. If you are lonely, that's good. YAH! i just said that! Because you are blessed that you can feel something like that. a lot of people can't. And people that are lonely - they are looking for friendship, looking for love. So you want this in your life - That's very good. Stay like you are, for starters make some small steps. Like.. Join a Teamspeak, talk to people, make some online friends. Play video Games with them or just hang with them! It's like calling someone, promise! If you don't mind me and my friends talking in german, join mine, i won't bite! hard.. Or just join a private channel.. just with me.. we can.. talk.. .. .. .. in English.. yeah.. But always remember, you are perfect! Let no one tell you otherwise! And, believe it or not, i prefer hanging with people like you guys instead of the popular ones. Because my best friends always happened to be the least popular ones. Sorry for making such a book out of it... i had some time to spend... Don't yell at me! it reminds me of my own experience in highschool, people had some reverence for me and I had a good relationship with almost everyone even being an weird geeky kid. At the begining people just ignored me, eventually they tought my quirky side was funny and after a guy tried to steal my sandwich I picked up a pencil and threatened to stab him in front of the whole class if uh did it again I got some respect as someone not to fuck with. Eventually people found out that I had great grades despite sleeping and playing games on the class, I would sleep get woke up by a teacher asking a question, get it right and go back to napping. Eventually people started coming to me for council and help in intelectual matters/work(people would come to me and ask the most random questions), I became an beloved oddity and people even started invinting me to hang out/parties wich I refused in order to play games, watch anime and hang out with the other geeks/nerds. It was fun, and some of it rubbed on me because Im now pursuing an librarianship degree at college, I just love to do reearch and answer peoples questions/share knownledge. About being lonely, not reall., I have a great relation and am pretty close with my family and have some small but loyal friends circles, some of them i hang out with since high school(I finished school in 2013). Im not the most sociable person tough, i tend to find most people uninteresting and wich is one of the reasons Im single.
Pavlovian Afterdark Posted September 11, 2019 Posted September 11, 2019 Use to be quite a social boy back when, this days most of my friends are married and have no time to hang around, i feel like a chore to go out alone even more with the world today, so yea im kinda lonely but its not bad or at least i dont feel it that way, about my games, i only posted when i find dumb of goofy things on my game, i prefer performance over enbs unless i my gpu can handle.
KoolHndLuke Posted September 11, 2019 Posted September 11, 2019 3 hours ago, stingray1995 said: only true loners are cool. the ones that made the popular kids look even more pathetic than they already were in high-school. I've always laughed and thought that I belong in the land of misfit toys. I never fit in anywhere- not always by choice since it feels nice to belong somewhere once in awhile. I'd say I belong here, but I'm not really sure that's true. Some of these people border on insanity........and I feel very, very sane (most of the time).
-Player1- Posted September 11, 2019 Posted September 11, 2019 55 minutes ago, KoolHndLuke said: I've always laughed and thought that I belong in the land of misfit toys.
KoolHndLuke Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 7 minutes ago, -Player1- said: Naw, he wasn't crazy. He just fucked around and didn't kill the player- so he's incompetent. Jeez, it's been so long since I played that one. Was that the one with the arena?
-Player1- Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 30 minutes ago, KoolHndLuke said: Naw, he wasn't crazy. He just fucked around and didn't kill the player- so he's incompetent. Jeez, it's been so long since I played that one. Was that the one with the arena? No, he was insane, not incompetent. As he told you, the true meaning of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again - expecting different results. He Killed you over and over again, expecting a different result. i don't know anymore, it's too long ago. Heck i can't even remember farCry4. I wasn't a big fan of the FarCry series to be honest. I'm more of a SkyrimGuy. I need to be able to mod my games... PLEASE CD PROJECT RED, LET US MOD CYBERPUNK 2077 !!!!! prays
KoolHndLuke Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 3 hours ago, -Player1- said: No, he was insane, not incompetent. Funny thing about judging insanity- it all depends on perspective. He didn't impress me as being insane- just acutely aware of his homicidal tendencies. They just try to come across as insane to fuck with your head. This is NOT insane and actually very predictable with certain people. 3 hours ago, stingray1995 said: insane people are awesome; actually interesting too. I could carry on a conversation and stay intrigued from someone out of their gourd. some of the most unique human beings in history were cast out and labeled as insane. why? because they deviated from the boring norm. middle finger to the system from me. In most cases, yes. "Insane" mofos can be pretty damn interesting/entertaining. But, not so much when their attention turns solely to you (ie you become their greatest obsession). I know this from some experience. Truly insane people live in their own little fantasy world and have little or no grasp on reality......or normal concepts like the morals that help hold our society together. As a general rule, I avoid the "truly" insane whenever possible since it's like dealing with a rabid dog that you can't trust or predict their mind, motives or instincts.
Darkpig Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 On 9/9/2019 at 6:44 PM, FauxFurry said: You haven't watched JoJo's Bizarre Adventure yet?! Wha-wha-wha-wha-whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?! Heh. One of my countless sins.
Guest Posted September 16, 2019 Posted September 16, 2019 On 9/9/2019 at 7:35 AM, stingray1995 said: fuck manners; they don't get you laid with any real piece of ass worth a second glance anymore. just objectify them. feminists hate that, but do you know any perfect 10 feminists? real women want to be objectified and treated like a whore. this is their nature. This post is extremely misogynistic and I'm honestly disgusted that this sort of talk is tolerated on LL. It speaks volumes that you only think women are deserving of respect if it gets you laid, and the moment you think that strategy won't work you treat them as lesser than human.
TangoG Posted September 16, 2019 Posted September 16, 2019 5 hours ago, Freyadiin said: This post is extremely misogynistic and I'm honestly disgusted that this sort of talk is tolerated on LL. It speaks volumes that you only think women are deserving of respect if it gets you laid, and the moment you think that strategy won't work you treat them as lesser than human. It is, but. there are always exceptions. Some feminists & real women , while they wont accept that treatment in everyday life, dont mind in in private.. So you are both right, and both wrong. Each to their own. Dont put your own beliefs , valid though they are, onto everyone else. We are all different .
Miss AshleyJ Posted September 16, 2019 Posted September 16, 2019 Here’s the thing about that. she’s not putting her own beliefs on anyone. She’s pointing out how society at large would view those statements.
Guest Posted September 16, 2019 Posted September 16, 2019 50 minutes ago, TangoG said: It is, but. there are always exceptions. Some feminists & real women , while they wont accept that treatment in everyday life, dont mind in in private.. So you are both right, and both wrong. Each to their own. Dont put your own beliefs , valid though they are, onto everyone else. We are all different . His statement targets all women and there is no indication he means only in private, so if anything he's the one pushing his misogynistic beliefs onto others and disrespecting them as a result. Even assuming he does indeed mean only in private, he's still disrespecting feminists and suggesting that any woman who doesn't like being objectified (which is normal) isn't a real woman.
TangoG Posted September 16, 2019 Posted September 16, 2019 1 hour ago, Freyadiin said: His statement targets all women and there is no indication he means only in private, so if anything he's the one pushing his misogynistic beliefs onto others and disrespecting them as a result. Even assuming he does indeed mean only in private, he's still disrespecting feminists and suggesting that any woman who doesn't like being objectified (which is normal) isn't a real woman. I was merely pointing out that we women are not all ways of the exact same opinion on what and what is not appropriate and whilst i agree with you in general, that does not apply in all situations. . I can only speak for myself and a few other women i know.
Guest Posted September 18, 2019 Posted September 18, 2019 3 hours ago, stingray1995 said: have you guys been laid before? well I have, and that's the attitude that gets you any ass. sad, but true. less talk, more sexual intercourse. Wow, congratulations! You're certified Not A Virgin™! 3 hours ago, stingray1995 said: you explain to me why this kind of talk should not be tolerated on an adult oriented site that revolves around sex. There's a difference between talking about sex and blatantly disrespecting women. 3 hours ago, stingray1995 said: i was talking about women as a whole, of whom I have nothing but love and appreciation for. now who's categorizing? "love and appreciation" and yet you seek to objectify and disrespect us when we don't spread our legs for you? You think of women only as sex objects, not as human beings. 1 hour ago, stingray1995 said: when did everything become so delicate? why is everything now required to be sugarcoated, with whipped cream and a cherry on top? I thought we were all adults up in this shit. rhetoric, rhetoric. There's no sugarcoating here. You aren't being brutally honest or correct about anything, you're just making excuses for being a misogynist and I'm calling you out for it. Be an adult and learn some respect.
Miss AshleyJ Posted September 18, 2019 Posted September 18, 2019 3 hours ago, stingray1995 said: have you guys been laid before? well I have, and that's the attitude that gets you any ass. sad, but true. less talk, more sexual intercourse. First of all, we're women. And some of us don't like that kind of attitude and it wouldn't get you our asses in a million years. Quote you explain to me why this kind of talk should not be tolerated on an adult oriented site that revolves around sex. Because we can have adult conversations that doesn't make other people feel like property. Quote who has worked in construction? what does that have to do with the price of eggs? Quote 'misogynistic', what does that even mean??? "Misogynistic"- adjective feeling, showing, or characterized by hatred of women : of, relating to, or being a misogynist. Quote this is real life, not some movie. the 'touchy feely' stuff is hollywood bunk. So I must live in a movie then, cause a lot of other girls I know are very much "touchy feely" stuff... Quote they don't want to be treated that way, if anything, that objectifies them. That sentence doesn't make sense. Cause it looks like you were agreeing with us. Quote 'feminists'? i was talking about women as a whole, of whom I have nothing but love and appreciation for. now who's categorizing? Still you. Quote are we lonely? not this guy! I was sharing my advice on how not to be, apparently no one wants to hear it. Thanos had "advice" on how to stop suffering and starvation. Didn't make it a good idea... Quote so this must be the topic where everyone comes to complain about why they're so lonely, yet not set out to seek a solution to it. if anyone gives off a brutally honest opinion around here, then someone's gonna walk away feeling insulted because it doesn't conform to their own? sympathy, empathy, and nothing else. when did everything become so delicate? why is everything now required to be sugarcoated, with whipped cream and a cherry on top? I thought we were all adults up in this shit. rhetoric, rhetoric. Maybe because your solution is more likely to get someone slapped, kicked, and/or tossed in jail?
Guest Posted September 18, 2019 Posted September 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, stingray1995 said: here's the solution to sexual loneliness, kids: when you see someone that you want to tap, pick a convenient moment, then walk up to her and say these three little words (granted, one abbreviated), none more than four letters: 'let's have sex.' see what she says to you. free speech, in all its glory. the worst case scenario? you get slapped in your face and called a fucking asshole. i've had it happen to me before; her loss. i'm still here. i survived. nothing happened. the best case scenario? you wind up in bed with her. yes, it's that simple. you were expecting a poem and a bundle of roses? too much drama here, people. I don't see a script laying around anywhere. Jeez, you really are a creep. "her loss", pfft.
Miss AshleyJ Posted September 18, 2019 Posted September 18, 2019 9 minutes ago, stingray1995 said: the worst case scenario? you get slapped in your face and called a fucking asshole. Mace... Tazed... Getting the shit beaten out of you by their significant other... Getting thrown out of wherever you were... Yeah, getting slapped and name calling are the worst case.
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