R-Lo's Photography Corner

[val21]

More pics of Lily Feng and Yuki Behr !!

 

[hyungry]

A pair of handsome brothers I've made 

 

 

 

[OpheliaSim]

@hyungry I love them! ?

[heather306]

On 5/6/2020 at 11:56 PM, clamman5 said:

 armpit fetish

Where did you find the anims/poses?

 

[clamman5]

7 hours ago, heather306 said:

Where did you find the anims/poses?

 

The armpit job ones are Faustterm's animations, titjob and facial are also his. 1st picture pose is Radioactive's summer hangout ice cream pose ( I think) 2nd is from Mrrakkonn's pose pack (Champagne bottle) and the counter animations are from various animators, don't remember which.

[porkybork]

I've finished the Alto family!

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Nick:

 

Vita:

 

Holly:

 

Original appearances in TS3:

 

I've also given Kaylynn Langerak an extra party outfit. One that references her original appearance.

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Second party outfit:

 

TS2 outfit:

 

[snowdog04]

The runaway orphan has come a long way.

 

The meat in that sandwich is Luciana, Thorne and Rebecca's new housekeeper, a little souvenir from Selvadorada.  

They also adopted a stray cat, Bubblegum.  That was her name already lol.

 

[OpheliaSim]

Veronica Stars, my former escort and porn actress sim:

 

Nurse version

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[R-Lo]

Some random poses with Hayden ?

 

[IGI 2000]

I'm back after a while. No particular reason of the break, I was just doing other things. Hope you and your families are all good!

 

I put together a short comic story. Not from my NOIR series (which is on hold, I'm thinking of the second season), just simple and funny porn story about a cultural exchange, so to speak

 

Also the new girl is starring, inspired by Liya Silver. I always say 'inspired' about my creations cause they're never even close to real persons. But I'm very happy with the result, love her face and big natural boobies with light nipples.

 

For those who doesn't know my works - nice pictures but hardcore porn. It's in a spoiler, just be warned if you don't like this kind of stuff. Have fun and let me know if you like it!

 

 

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[Julie J]

On 5/7/2020 at 1:14 PM, Mariana Soprano said:

Hahaha, Julie J,  wonderful Corona (?) humour! Help poor Clifford out of desaster (pleaseeee!) and send us a link to that wonderful uncontrolled hairstyle!

 

It's a Maysims hair MAY0256. I'll find the link and share.

 

 

[OpheliaSim]

44 minutes ago, YourFalseHope said:

Well, lesson learned here and on ww, dont post atticus & oliver pictures. ? hurts to know people had asked me to or said they liked atticus only to be shit on. ?

that's realy gross!!
I really like them so you shouldn't care too much about those people

[snowdog04]

3 hours ago, YourFalseHope said:

Well, lesson learned here and on ww, dont post atticus & oliver pictures. ? hurts to know people had asked me to or said they liked atticus only to be shit on. ?

That sucks.  Oliver's appearance and your story have gotten pretty interesting since you posted before.

[snowdog04]

25 minutes ago, YourFalseHope said:

I.. didn't mean literally. lol! I mean figuratively. but thank you. It just sucks when I'm told over and over and over again how much people like atticus... and want to see pics of him and that when I finally do post them,... it's like crickets. [if this obsession over reactions seems dumb - and yes I'm aware it does feel that way, but you need to take in account I have BPD (This video explain my 'issue' https://youtu.be/jbgLypXpCD0 BPD: 4 things we want you to understand) and I see things far differently than the norm] ? but yea...

 

So... it's just the lack of "likes" on your posts?  I thought you meant you got mean PM's.  I hope you can get past that.  Keep in mind that you ARE getting several likes on each post, even though what you post is definitely niche content.

[erplederp]

@YourFalseHope I guess when people don't feel they have something specific to say, they keep quiet. *shrugs* Remember that the overwhelming majority of people consume online content without commenting/liking.

 

Put together a few outfits for Olivia. This one was simple. ?

 

 

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[OpheliaSim]

2 hours ago, YourFalseHope said:

I.. didn't mean literally. lol! I mean figuratively. but thank you. It just sucks when I'm told over and over and over again how much people like atticus... and want to see pics of him and that when I finally do post them,... it's like crickets. [if this obsession over reactions seems dumb - and yes I'm aware it does feel that way, but you need to take in account I have BPD (This video explain my 'issue' https://youtu.be/jbgLypXpCD0 BPD: 4 things we want you to understand) and I see things far differently than the norm] ? but yea...

 

Well, I know very very the "reactions don't count, just have fun" story but honestly we share content to have feedbacks, feeling part of the community, and have some sort of recognition, so I feel you and I get what you mean. Although you should take this in mind, and I speak for myself, I didn't even notice the "like button" until very recently and when I add too many reactions, the bot tells me I can't use other reactions for 24h. Plus a lot of people see your posts but don't leave reactions or comments because they're not used to but I'm sure they appreciate your content nonetheless  

[2cool4u_1]

@YourFalseHope Exactly what snowdog04 and erplederp said. I personally did not even look at it yet. I was in the hospital from 19 March through 21 April, and still have a lot to catch up on. There are a lot of pictures, so I haven't looked at your post yet (want to take my time and not just rush through it). I didn't get a chance to look at the Sam and Ray extras yet either.? Also, keep in mind that these are different times. Traffic is substantially lower. Since February, on this site alone, 6 people I've been in contact with just suddenly stopped signing on mid-conversation (I hope they're okay).? I do appreciate your posts in general, and I won't just "like" them for your sake. If I give it a "like", it's because I do like it. If I don't give it a "like", the possibility exists that I forgot / missed doing so, or have exceeded my total (or I haven't read it yet).

 

5 hours ago, YourFalseHope said:

Well, lesson learned here and on ww, dont post atticus & oliver pictures. ? hurts to know people had asked me to or said they liked atticus only to be shit on. ?

If people have in fact asked you to post it, that means much more than how many likes you get. If you want a lot of likes on the forums, I'll give you a tip: post pics with female sims who have disproportionate bodies (super huge breasts, hips, ass). You'll get much more likes (but none from me). The more your posts differ from the mainstream stuff, the less likes you'll probably get, but that doesn't mean it's not better. You'll have to choose between posting stuff with substance, or stuff that will get you a lot of thumbs.

 

P.S. Glad you're still here with us making the posts.

[2cool4u_1]

On 5/8/2020 at 11:07 PM, YourFalseHope said:

Haven't been in this save [Parallel Timeline - Atticus & Oliver] in a bit [sorry if the pics are bad... they didn't go over well in ww so is why I'm here looking for feedback]

 

Apologies for the larger than normal amount of pictures... ?

You tricked me. There are fewer pictures. I would have looked at it sooner had you not said that. What kind of feedback are you looking for? I liked the private island pics much more than the strip club part.

[Julie J]

@YourFalseHope I was pleased to see Oliver again and I hope he comes back soon.

 

I understand what you mean about likes, what I've learnt is over the years that it doesn't matter. People still appreciate your pics.

 

[Juliette Tango]

@YourFalseHope First off, thank you so much for sharing how you feel! It's a great way for each of us all to reach beyond the surface banter. There are a lot of really caring souls here. R-Lo's own loving soul attracts lots of great folks.

 

Listen to @2cool4u_1, @Julie J and @erplederp. They've all been around quite awhile <not to say y'all are old>, but there is a lot of wisdom in their words. I know it's hard when you've poured you heart and soul into a picture set or a video and no one comments. I've been there too.

It's so easy to take the silence as disapproval. It's really not.

 

Creation is what it's all about. Express your art and your feelings and try not to care overmuch about garnering comments. If you get them, celebrate  ?, but don't feel bad if when you don't. None of us do most of the time.

 

For me, the hardest thing is that I don't dare share what I create with any of my friends from work or family in RL. The art means so much to me, and I want badly for them to share my joy, but I cannot for a lot of reasons. Thankfully, there are wonderful, open-minded friends in this thread with whom I / we can share.

 

PS all: Thought it was about time for an avatar change...

[Juliette Tango]

A video continuation of the picture story I posted in #5538; #5539; #5540; & #5541. Juliette and Alessandra invite a former college roommate over to share Xmas Eve dinner.

 

[Hentaiface]

1 hour ago, YourFalseHope said:

So this is going to bother me until I just say it.. it's time for some education... those saying to just get over and to just deal with it.. no, I can't. And now You guys get a lesson in what living with borderline personality disorder is and does because people are oh so very quick to judge/hate what they don't understand. I'm not going to just lay down and take it... I'm going to stand up for myself even if what I'm defending is my mental illness. I'm still a person despite that and I have thoughts and feelings as well. 
 

 

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This is Why People With Borderline Personality Disorder Need Constant Reassurance

 

 

 

• You shower them with love. You consistently show your commitment to your relationship with them. You maintain an endless supply of affirmations yet still can’t seem to break even with their bottomless need for validation. Does this sound familiar? It is a common experience when you have a loved one suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder and their need for continuous reassurance may often be at odds with your personal boundaries and ability to perform self-care. As difficult as it is to live with BPD, it is also challenging to remain healthy while being supportive of someone who has it. 
   
• Understand that no matter what you do or say, you cannot control nor are you responsible for their reactions.

1. This concept is incredibly important because it is likely that you have already tried everything that you could think of to cope with their chronic need for validation and reassurance. Always remain kind and calm but beyond that, detaching from their emotional reactions is key to continuing to support them on their road to healing. It is also crucial to taking care of yourself. BPD is characterized by an inability to effectively regulate emotion so, no matter how lightly you tread, you may still say or do something that will be perceived negatively and you need to be ok with that. You know what your intentions are even if they fail to see or understand them.

• Create a commitment to reconnect.

1. While creating space so you can take care of yourself and your own life is necessary, now that you better understand the root of their need for reassurance it would be unfair to just leave them hanging so create a commitment to reconnect with them again. This could be as simple as saying that you will call, text, or see them again at a specific date and time. If you find that they are being emotionally abusive (Borderline rage is a real phenomenon) then don’t hesitate to make that contingent on them being respectful of the space and time that you need. Remember, your loved one with BPD has a natural fear of abandonment and likely had caretakers who did not hold themselves to their word so when you make a commitment to them, do your utmost to keep it.

Borderline Personality Disorder is a severe mental illness. It is difficult to live with; be supportive of, and it is challenging for mental health professionals to treat. 
 

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I pulled out important notes but the link explains this incident pretty well, but I refuse to just be misunderstood as some selfish petty individual because of a concentration on "likes" or "reactions". Yes, I put a lot of effort into my work and my pictures and I want the same gratification you all do. If you don't like them, fine. but If you do, I need that recognition.. I wish I didn't, I wish I wasn't fucked up and sick, but I am. I can't change that. Instead I can try to educate, explain, and defend myself. And that's what I do.. I try, every single day. Isn't that what matters?

 

Anyway, It's now been 4 days since I've even loaded my sims game out of depression and stress. I'm sorry for the lengthy post as none of my personal health issues are really anyone's business nor does anyone probably actually care. So I'll leave you with the last picture I took of Oliver. I know it's not a good picture... But it conveys how I feel - lost in emotion and thought.


~Obviously I care about this forum and the people here, otherwise I would have never come back after the so many months away before. So I wish you all well, and to have good evenings. ?

 

I do not know if this helps you, I assume it at least creates a small feeling of solidarity and proves that someone does care about what you have to say about your mental illness. Your words inspire me to share around here that I am diagnosed with Autism. It is what makes me create stories with my Sims - I highly doubt I would be here if I wasn't autistic - but it also limits my social interactions with others and is probably also the reason why I also keep on overthinking whether or not my work is liked by people on this site. Its dumb of me to think like this, but I assume my subconscious thinks of me as more socially accepted whenever I get this type of praise. Which is really stupid of me considering I keep myself mostly anonymous here and the things I post thus almost never reflect my personality.

 

I hope this somehow... helps you. In some way.

[porkybork]

@YourFalseHope

I'm not going to pretend that I know what it's like to be in your position, but I feel compelled to share my experience with you, as I've got my own demons.

I think I mentioned this a few months back, but in November of last year, I attempted to take my own life. I had been struggling with depression since I was a child and hadn't received any real treatment for it until I was 22. I'm 24. I never thought of myself as the type to do such a thing. I've cut myself, bashed my head against walls, and drunk myself into a stupor just to not feel like myself, but actually attempting suicide seemed like nothing more than a fantasy. But my mind had fallen to such a dark place that I was incapable of even imagining a scenario in which I was anything other than numb or miserable. So, I sought a way out. 

Neither my family nor I have been the same since. I couldn't help but feel like an absolute failure when I came back home. I'm lucky in that my family's here to reassure me that I'm wanted and that I'm loved, but I still struggle with feelings of self-hatred and emptiness. Every now and then, I'll be unable to take my medication because holding a pill in my hand gives me flashbacks to lying on the floor covered in my own vomit as I faded in and out of consciousness.

Still, despite my undying tendency to say otherwise, I find myself desperately clinging to the idea that life is actually worth living, that it's more than just a drawn-out death sentence.

This desire may be why I rushed Sebastian and Ivy's relationship instead of developing it or including any real conflict. These characters are fictional, yet I am unable to make them suffer any real hardships. Escapism is one thing, but I'd like to actually be a published author in my life. Writing stories that lack any real conflict for the main characters is a bit antithetical to authorial success. Because of this issue, I'm taking a break from writing any stories until I can get out of this funk I've landed in.

Part of the reason why I post on this forum at all rather than simply lurk is because it makes me feel like I'm part of an actual community instead of just being the self-loathing loner I am in real life. Posting pictures and banter here lets me forget that I'd be unable to do this with other people face-to-face because of my self-esteem issues and social anxiety. And then I log off, and I face the bitter reality of my loneliness.

 

... 

 

I think I need to call my therapist lol.

In all seriousness, I hope this helped you in some way. We may not have the same hardships, but maybe you'll feel some solidarity in knowing that you aren't the only one here struggling with mental illness.

 

Virtual hug ♥️

 

P.S. Good job getting @Juliette Tango to like your post. She doesn't give likes to shit haha.

[Juliette Tango]

8 hours ago, porkybork said:

She doesn't give likes to shit haha.

Aww, PB. You know I like you ?. Apologies if I made you feel otherwise.

I only realized reading the replies to YourFalseHope what the (very dim on my monitor) symbol was in the lower right corner. I can be a real dumb blonde sometimes.

[Juliette Tango]

4 hours ago, YourFalseHope said:

You really have to get noticed...

And publishers have to be convinced you are going to make them loads of $$.

1 hour ago, YourFalseHope said:

my fear of playing sims 4

When I was making 'The Maltese Dildo' I would get so terribly anxious right before recording... Like you I would shut it down some nights and not even try. I was always sure things would go horribly wrong. I know your fear is for a different reason and I'm not trying to trivialize what you feel.