Diary Of Mine for Paradise Halls

[DonQuiWho]

2 hours ago, TrollAutokill said:

They might do that after capture. You should just talk to them to get them to stand up. 

 

Otherwise use the K key to reset them.

 

As an aside, as I've always used the MCM to do any needed reset, I hadn't realised (found out quite by accident TBH) that if you have the 'K' key set as the 'surrender' key in Defeat, on using 'K' you get 2 lines of text asking

 

if you want to initiate sex with the NPC in the cursor

or

if you want them to initiate sex with the player

 

If anyone is seeing those dialogue options on a DOM 'K' slave reset, their 'Defeat' settiings might be the cause

 

(FWIW, that's using the Bane Master version of Defeat)

 

Thought I'd mention it here just in case it helps anyone

 

DQW

 

[Nalius]

4 hours ago, TrollAutokill said:

They might do that after capture. You should just talk to them to get them to stand up. 

 

Otherwise use the K key to reset them.

Unfortunately not after capture, sometimes after changing a location. But sometimes not. In the last case they're in some other pose similar like doing masturbation but without moving (just hands betw legs and so on...) And when I try to talk to them nothing happens, they continue the same position, only need to press K to getup them.

The problem is that before I played with the 6 DOM and now started a new game with the last 7 DOM. But before such thing never happened.  And no new mods installed...

Edited July 29, 2025 by nalios

[DerangedLoner]

9 hours ago, TrollAutokill said:

What horse is it? Vanilla or mod? Because animals and creatures are excluded. Also do you use any mount management mod? 

 

The horse is from the AE Wild Horses CC. I am using Better Third Person Selection, but while that modifies the command to leave the horse (you hold down the activation key rather than just hit it), it doesn't change how you get on.

[fred200]

Elisif, one of my favorite slaves, wound up broken and now switches to masturbation - all the time.

She no longer follows - because she is masturbating.

I reset her - she shortly goes back to masturbating.

What is the least detrimental way to break her of her sexual addiction - and get back to fighting for me?

For now I assigned her to a slave trainer.

[TrollAutokill]

21 minutes ago, DerangedLoner said:

 

The horse is from the AE Wild Horses CC. I am using Better Third Person Selection, but while that modifies the command to leave the horse (you hold down the activation key rather than just hit it), it doesn't change how you get on.

Open the horse mod in SSEEDIT and make sure it has type animal in the keywords.

[TrollAutokill]

18 minutes ago, fred200 said:

Elisif, one of my favorite slaves, wound up broken and now switches to masturbation - all the time.

She no longer follows - because she is masturbating.

I reset her - she shortly goes back to masturbating.

What is the least detrimental way to break her of her sexual addiction - and get back to fighting for me?

For now I assigned her to a slave trainer.

That's funny. Alas this is not a DOM feature. Another mod is checking her arousal and forcing some naughty anims on her. Check her spells and packages with More Informative Console.

[tonitrulupus]

5 hours ago, DonQuiWho said:

 

As an aside, as I've always used the MCM to do any needed reset, I hadn't realised (found out quite by accident TBH) that if you have the 'K' key set as the 'surrender' key in Defeat, on using 'K' you get 2 lines of text asking

 

if you want to initiate sex with the NPC in the cursor

or

if you want them to initiate sex with the player

 

If anyone is seeing those dialogue options on a DOM 'K' slave reset, their 'Defeat' settiings might be the cause

 

(FWIW, that's using the Bane Master version of Defeat)

 

Thought I'd mention it here just in case it helps anyone

 

DQW

 

Those option are good when sexlab is messing up due to changing cells etc, and some times sex will fix the NPC glitch

[tonitrulupus]

37 minutes ago, fred200 said:

Elisif, one of my favorite slaves, wound up broken and now switches to masturbation - all the time.

She no longer follows - because she is masturbating.

I reset her - she shortly goes back to masturbating.

What is the least detrimental way to break her of her sexual addiction - and get back to fighting for me?

For now I assigned her to a slave trainer.

Just had that happen to me LOL, what a coinkydink, The way I fix it, this works with slaves that will not follow even if it states they are, use "i an going to make sure you stay here" I believe it is,under "your going to do what I say. I just bind then with rope, but any thing in that category works, then release them, its almost like the follow script need to be reset and that works, I get something similar with some NPC through NFF and you release them and then have the follow you, it also works when their inventory wont come up. 

[DonQuiWho]

@TrollAutokill

 

I have finally managed to set up my 2nd DOM based game (one with, & one without, PAHE)

 

I was just about to save the settings and I suddenly realised that the location you quote on the mod page doesn't make it clear if there is a settings file created per game, or just (the) ONE that will apply to all games! 

 

My games are sufficiently different to warrant different settings - 1st is male player, 2nd is Female player - and obviously, after the hiccup I had with the first game's settings being reset when I updated the mod, I don't want to screw up those by now overwriting them again with those from the second game!

 

So, are settings for multiple DOM games catered for when we save them?  

 

TIA for any advice etc etc.... 🙂

 

DQW

[TrollAutokill]

32 minutes ago, DonQuiWho said:

@TrollAutokill

 

I have finally managed to set up my 2nd DOM based game (one with, & one without, PAHE)

 

I was just about to save the settings and I suddenly realised that the location you quote on the mod page doesn't make it clear if there is a settings file created per game, or just (the) ONE that will apply to all games! 

 

My games are sufficiently different to warrant different settings - 1st is male player, 2nd is Female player - and obviously, after the hiccup I had with the first game's settings being reset when I updated the mod, I don't want to screw up those by now overwriting them again with those from the second game!

 

So, are settings for multiple DOM games catered for when we save them?  

 

TIA for any advice etc etc.... 🙂

 

DQW

If MO2, the setting file can end up in the DOM skse directory or the overwrite.

 

If you want to have two settings file, one with DOM and one with PAH+DOM, you can create a mod with just the settings file and turn it on or off to overwrite whatever your default will be.

[Nalius]

I put the essential flag and checked it, but my slaves are still dying in combat.   

may be because of some other combat mod like dismembering?...

Edited July 29, 2025 by nalios

[TrollAutokill]

1 hour ago, nalios said:

I put the essential flag and checked it, but my slaves are still dying in combat.   

may be because of some other combat mod like dismembering?...

The protected flag is on by default and only the player can kill them. With essential flag on the player can't kill them, but a script can with the KillEssential command.

 

You need to check the essential flag is on with More Informative Console. Then turn on verbose debug in DOM MCM debug tab and produce a papyrus log of this happening, so we can identify the murderer.

Edited July 29, 2025 by TrollAutokill

[DonQuiWho]

2 hours ago, TrollAutokill said:

If MO2, the setting file can end up in the DOM skse directory or the overwrite.

 

If you want to have two settings file, one with DOM and one with PAH+DOM, you can create a mod with just the settings file and turn it on or off to overwrite whatever your default will be.

 

Thanks!

 

DQW

[minosaminamo]

On 7/27/2025 at 8:49 PM, minosaminamo said:

When I select a follower and choose 'come closer' or 'I need you right now!' in the dialogue, and any of the Ostim options, whether punishment or reward, nothing happens. Is this a bug, or does it only work if they're a slave? I’d love to use it without having to enslave people.

Could someone just confirm whether the OSTIM option doesn't work with 'follow', or am I just trying it incorrectly?

[HeadlessRex]

Might be out of scope here but I'd think it would be neat to be able to do bondage interactions from the wheel menu for actors that aren't managed by dom (Non slaves). I understand it wouldn't be the most realistic thing so maybe there'd be a toggle for it in the MCM but I'd think it would offer a nice middle ground so you don't have to effectively lobotomize any non-vanilla actors. 

[crazymango54]

1 hour ago, HeadlessRex said:

Might be out of scope here but I'd think it would be neat to be able to do bondage interactions from the wheel menu for actors that aren't managed by dom (Non slaves). I understand it wouldn't be the most realistic thing so maybe there'd be a toggle for it in the MCM but I'd think it would offer a nice middle ground so you don't have to effectively lobotomize any non-vanilla actors. 

I think in the latest update you actually can do that if the NPC likes you. Try the let's have a serious chat thing on an NPC that likes you and after a few chats you unlock some other options.

[fred200]

NPC feature is the greatest thing since sliced bread.

Eating the NPC (Devourment) raises relationship rank enough to let DOM take over abuse.

That includes tying them up, forcing them to strip, sex, verbal abuse, and finally volunteering to become your slave.

[DerangedLoner]

Seemingly stupid question, but I've been searching for over an hour: how do I assign a taskmistress?

 

For some slaves, there's a dialog option under "Let's have a serious chat!" to assign trainers; apparently, it shows up if the slave in has Honesty and Openness both under 50, regardless of any other stats (e.g., resignation). In an earlier version of DOM, these slaves said "I'm a good trainer." when asked "Enjoying your slave life?" but in the version I'm currently using (7.9.2), this no longer happens.

 

I've found very few slaves with Smartness over 50 (most of mine are bandits, with a handful of vampires and a couple of unique NPC's), but I do have a couple with Smartness over 50 and Honesty under 50. Under an earlier version of DOM, one of these said "I"m a good leader" when asked "Enjoying your slave life?" so I've been training her actively, so that her Resignation is now 100. And I've got a HSH house set up with a cell marker. So how do I assign a taskmistress? Is there some stat I still need to train up? Where will the dialog option appear?

 

 

[DerangedLoner]

13 hours ago, TrollAutokill said:

Open the horse mod in SSEEDIT and make sure it has type animal in the keywords.

 

Is that "KWDA"? The only keyword any of the wild horses have is "ActorTypeHorse".

[TrollAutokill]

26 minutes ago, DerangedLoner said:

 

Is that "KWDA"? The only keyword any of the wild horses have is "ActorTypeHorse".

Now compare with one of the vanilla horses. Are they also only ActorTypeHorse or do they have extra keywords like ActorTypeAnimal?

[Rat_Guts]

On 7/27/2025 at 9:44 AM, TrollAutokill said:

Use the console to get the aggression actor value. Or use More Informative Console to get to the actor values.

Finally got around to this, because people were randomly attacking market auction slaves, and these were the values of the ones being attacked. 

[Rat_Guts]

1 hour ago, Rat_Guts said:

Finally got around to this, because people were randomly attacking market auction slaves, and these were the values of the ones being attacked. 

On top of this, they were attacking other slaves with the aggression of 0. All of them were just stood there until they were downed no matter their aggression, didn't fight back once, everytime I enter riften now there's a fight

[tonitrulupus]

On 7/26/2025 at 2:19 AM, TrollAutokill said:

On 7/25/2025 at 9:24 PM, DerangedLoner said:

Am I the only one who has a bunch of slaves with their tongues stuck sticking out? Worse yet, they're sticking out of their lower lips, not their mouths.

I have seen this bug reported a long time ago. I can't remember which mod it is, creating it.

 

 

Fill her up is the only mod I know of and that I use that has a tongue sticking out.

[tonitrulupus]

@TrollAutokill I bit ago, some one as well as I had a slave "stuck"  masturbating, when I looked at the slave, the occupation was on a masturbating I believe, and the it had one of the poses that goes along with it, her arousal was high and would not reset or lower no matter how many time she would get off, Sexlab arousal is locked but its numbers are , and seems to 60 exposure and 80 from time rate, are those changed by dom now? or should they stay the same once its been locked? I have tried my normal to reset her, "k" hot key, resetai, disable enable, the option in dom for none responding NPC, and she goes right back to masturbating, so far the only thing that has works is reset the pose by having her do a new pose through 'y' then have her follow PC through the same key, could doms arousal system? why I ask is that I have other that have that arousal just as high and they are not doing the same thing, 

What it looks like is the occupation is getting stuck or net resetting back to the correct occupation for following /body guard. 

[DerangedLoner]

11 hours ago, tonitrulupus said:

 

 

Fill her up is the only mod I know of and that I use that has a tongue sticking out.

 

One thing I did discover is that SexLab Utility Plus (listed confusingly on SexLab as "OsmelMC Mod Tweaks") is supposed to be installed after (hence overwrite) SLSO. After making that change, I haven't seen the bug occur again with the two slaves I've been dragging around on adventures--but I haven't played very long like that, and when I went home a bunch of slaves, and my one slaver, were still displaying the bug. It's possible, of course, that their current condition is left over from earlier events, and will go away eventually now that I've made the change, but I haven't had time to test that proposition, or to run down other possible mod issues (but there wasn't much very specific on the subject in this thread).

Edited July 31, 2025 by DerangedLoner