Giving up on trying to NSFW mod Skyrim. Is there a place where I can commission someone to do it for me?

[cpnez]

Been trying for almost a year every now and again, I have followed the Luna guide but it just never works.

 

I am getting to the point where I just want to pay someone so I can give them acces to my PC (parsec I believe it's called) or some other way to get me a modded skyrim nsfw game. Does anyone know if that's possible

[Grey Cloud]

For LE
https://www.loverslab.com/blogs/entry/7521-conglomerate-01-installing-skyrim-stability-fixes-tools/

https://stepmodifications.org/wiki/SkyrimLE:3.0.0

For SE
https://www.loverslab.com/topic/136543-mod-organizer-2-other-tools-from-zero-to-hey-sexlab-is-working/

https://www.loverslab.com/topic/118460-skyrim-se-for-beginners-v-319-3bbb-hdt-smp-hph/

https://www.loverslab.com/topic/94228-se-compatibility-tracking-apr-23/

https://www.loverslab.com/topic/126227-sexlab-index-se/

 

[Neo Heero]

An alternative is using Wabbajack, which is an automatic mod installer for many games, including Skyrim. The downsides are that you won't learn about how to properly mod Skyrim and it requires a Nexus Premium account if you don't want to click 1000+ times if the modpack has a lot of mods.

 

 

Also you can specify here what it is not working and what mod manager are you using.

[cpnez]

1 hour ago, Neo Heero said:

An alternative is using Wabbajack, which is an automatic mod installer for many games, including Skyrim. The downsides are that you won't learn about how to properly mod Skyrim and it requires a Nexus Premium account if you don't want to click 1000+ times if the modpack has a lot of mods.

 

 

Also you can specify here what it is not working and what mod manager are you using.

I tried that once but only found like 4nsfw modpacks. And I'm looking for ones that include defeat and other names. Where would I find those modpacks then?

[Neo Heero]

You have two main sources for modpacks the Wabbajack program or Nexusmods.

 

There are two good modlists that use the Sexlab framework, which are

 

N.Y.A and NEFARAM

 

https://github.com/Millionsfrost/N.Y.A-NSFW-Modlist-Skyrim/blob/main/N.Y.A-Skyrim-NSFW.md

https://www.wabbajack.org/modlist/NEFARAM/NEFARAM

 

You have to select the "show NSFW" and the "Show non featured Lists" checkbox for to see it in list.

 

There are others NSFW modpacks but that use other framework like Ostim

 

But what exactly is not working in your game?

 

Cause imo is best if you learn how to  properly mod your game for tuning the way you like

 

 

Edited March 31, 2025 by Neo Heero

[cpnez]

23 minutes ago, Neo Heero said:

You have two main sources for modpacks the Wabbajack program or Nexusmods.

 

There are two good modlists that use the Sexlab framework, which are

 

N.Y.A and NEFARAM

 

https://github.com/Millionsfrost/N.Y.A-NSFW-Modlist-Skyrim/blob/main/N.Y.A-Skyrim-NSFW.md

https://www.wabbajack.org/modlist/NEFARAM/NEFARAM

 

You have to select the "show NSFW" and the "Show non featured Lists" checkbox for to see it in list.

 

There are others NSFW modpacks but that use other framework like Ostim

 

But what exactly is not working in your game?

 

Cause imo is best if you learn how to  properly mod your game for tuning the way you like

 

 

I tried both of them but there is still a lot you need to do yourself with the sexlab mods like installing things in spesific places and running them in a spesific order. Is there a way to just download and go? Or is that not possible?

[Grey Cloud]

43 minutes ago, cpnez said:

Or is that not possible?

No it is not possible and even if it was it would only last until your first problem.

[Kastagir]

On 3/31/2025 at 7:57 AM, cpnez said:

I tried that once but only found like 4nsfw modpacks. And I'm looking for ones that include defeat and other names. Where would I find those modpacks then?

How interesting that you don't reply to @Grey Cloud's helpful guide links and instead reply to someone's misguided advice to use a Wabbajack mod list.  You're destined to fail.  Why?  Because you prefer ignorance.  Mod packs are for people who:

• aren't interested in understanding how Skyrim modding works
• aren't interested in curating a mod list to their particular taste
• don't understand the value of curating a set of mods that cater to their interests
• don't appreciate the possibilities that come from understanding how to make mods do what you want them to do

If you aren't engaging in hyperbole and have truly been trying to mod Skyrim for a year then you're following all the wrong advice and listening to all the wrong people.  Ignore the people who suggest it's easy.  Ignore the advice from people who assure you that a mod list is the only way to do it in "this day and age."

 

"Trying to NSFW mod Skyrim" is exceedingly vague.  You must be specific if you want helpful advice.  Detail what you're trying to accomplish, what you've done and what has and hasn't worked.  Otherwise, what's the point of starting this thread?  The value of information you receive is directly proportional to the effort  you expend in providing detailed information.

[GeorgiaCav]

One year is not much time. Especially if you're only doing it off and on and trying to follow a guide. My experience is that most guides are set to cater to someone else's tastes and needs. The way I've done it (over the course of nearly ten years, and thousands of hours of work and patience) is:

 

1. Decided which mods I wanted to run -- in the very beginning, it was literally just Sanguine Debauchery

2. Studied and installed its requirements

3. Studied and installed the requirements' requirements

4. READ EVERYTHING

5. Try and fail, repreat until you try and succeed

 

You aren't going to get a setup that satisfies you by substituting someone else's tastes and work for your own.

Edited April 4, 2025 by GeorgiaCav

[MysticDaedra]

On 3/31/2025 at 9:46 AM, cpnez said:

I tried both of them but there is still a lot you need to do yourself with the sexlab mods like installing things in spesific places and running them in a spesific order. Is there a way to just download and go? Or is that not possible?

This is false. You do have to download the LL mods manually... if you can't manage to download files from a browser, then you might want to take a basic How to use a PC class before you start playing video games.

 

OK... that was snarky, but I feel it was warranted. Installing a wabbajack modlist is extremely simple. Your only other option is to ship your hard drive to someone, pay them an exorbitant amount of money, then have them ship the drive back to you, hopefully without any additional viruses or malware. Good luck. Or... ya know. Use wabbajack.

[bruhbruhbruh701]

On 3/31/2025 at 5:22 PM, Neo Heero said:

You have two main sources for modpacks the Wabbajack program or Nexusmods.

 

There are two good modlists that use the Sexlab framework, which are

 

N.Y.A and NEFARAM

 

https://github.com/Millionsfrost/N.Y.A-NSFW-Modlist-Skyrim/blob/main/N.Y.A-Skyrim-NSFW.md

https://www.wabbajack.org/modlist/NEFARAM/NEFARAM

 

You have to select the "show NSFW" and the "Show non featured Lists" checkbox for to see it in list.

 

There are others NSFW modpacks but that use other framework like Ostim

 

But what exactly is not working in your game?

 

Cause imo is best if you learn how to  properly mod your game for tuning the way you like

 

 

Replying to this so i remember to install when I have time

[xJRev]

Have to second what GeorgiaCav said. Personally, I've never really understood the allure of using a modlist. Isn't the whole point of modding that you can tailor the game to what you want it to be? Modlists are really just cutting corners. They don't teach you how to mod, or give you any knowledge of how to troubleshoot if something goes wrong (which it will, this is Skyrim).

If you want a simple game where you can just fuck stuff and not have much to think about, go download WildLife. Seriously that game will give you what you are after, anthro stuff, vanilla stuff, decent graphics, scene control etc. 

For me though, nothing has come close to the experience of modding Skyrim myself. 

 

It's took me maybe 3 years to get my Skryim in a state where I have fully functioning Sexlab, Ostim, creatures, realistic bodymorphing, decent graphics and ENB, a huge amount of additional content, overhauls, physics, spells etc etc.

But the reward for putting in the effort is I genuinely have my dream video game.

 

If I was advising someone new to all this what to do, in what order, I'd say...

- Use MO2. Like, seriously don't even begin unless you know what MO2 is or how to install mods with it. 

- Follow a simple guide and get Skyrim in a basic playable state to begin with (install bugfixes, SKSE, SkyUI, Papyrus etc)

- Get your visual mods installed (don't have to look into ENBs straight away but basic texture overhauls are a good start, weather mods also)

- Get your body and physics working. That means, RaceMenu, XP32 skeletons, Bodyslide/Outfitstudio, HDT, RSV (if you want variation), Skin textures and most importantly Schlongs of Skyrim (SOS). Just tackle one thing at a time.

 

Once you've got a basic setup, NPCs are looking decent, then look into adult mods. I'd personally start with Ostim Standalone, then add SexLab later. In the process you'll learn about installing anims, and using FNIS/Nemesis/Pandora (or all three).

 

I know it all seems long winded, and it is. But just focus on one thing at a time and it's more than doable. 

 

 

[skyrimsucks]

20 hours ago, xJRev said:

Have to second what GeorgiaCav said. Personally, I've never really understood the allure of using a modlist. Isn't the whole point of modding that you can tailor the game to what you want it to be? Modlists are really just cutting corners. They don't teach you how to mod, or give you any knowledge of how to troubleshoot if something goes wrong (which it will, this is Skyrim).

If you want a simple game where you can just fuck stuff and not have much to think about, go download WildLife. Seriously that game will give you what you are after, anthro stuff, vanilla stuff, decent graphics, scene control etc. 

For me though, nothing has come close to the experience of modding Skyrim myself. 

 

It's took me maybe 3 years to get my Skryim in a state where I have fully functioning Sexlab, Ostim, creatures, realistic bodymorphing, decent graphics and ENB, a huge amount of additional content, overhauls, physics, spells etc etc.

But the reward for putting in the effort is I genuinely have my dream video game.

 

If I was advising someone new to all this what to do, in what order, I'd say...

- Use MO2. Like, seriously don't even begin unless you know what MO2 is or how to install mods with it. 

- Follow a simple guide and get Skyrim in a basic playable state to begin with (install bugfixes, SKSE, SkyUI, Papyrus etc)

- Get your visual mods installed (don't have to look into ENBs straight away but basic texture overhauls are a good start, weather mods also)

- Get your body and physics working. That means, RaceMenu, XP32 skeletons, Bodyslide/Outfitstudio, HDT, RSV (if you want variation), Skin textures and most importantly Schlongs of Skyrim (SOS). Just tackle one thing at a time.

 

Once you've got a basic setup, NPCs are looking decent, then look into adult mods. I'd personally start with Ostim Standalone, then add SexLab later. In the process you'll learn about installing anims, and using FNIS/Nemesis/Pandora (or all three).

 

I know it all seems long winded, and it is. But just focus on one thing at a time and it's more than doable. 

 

 

 

nah modding skyrim is rly not worth it, altho i already wasted time on it

also using any mod manager is retarded.

 

 

[skyrimsucks]

On 3/31/2025 at 2:42 PM, cpnez said:

Been trying for almost a year every now and again, I have followed the Luna guide but it just never works.

 

I am getting to the point where I just want to pay someone so I can give them acces to my PC (parsec I believe it's called) or some other way to get me a modded skyrim nsfw game. Does anyone know if that's possible

 ive send u message

[xJRev]

10 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

 

nah modding skyrim is rly not worth it, altho i already wasted time on it

also using any mod manager is retarded.

 

 

 

I suppose it does take a certain level of intellectual capacity... 

[NymphoElf]

@cpnez Take a step back and learn the basics.

 

Modding Skyrim, Fallout, Starfield, etc isn't something one "just does". It's not as hard as you're making it out to be, but it also isn't as simple as just clicking "install".

 

Also, don't listen to people who think the basics are dumb:

11 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

also using any mod manager is retarded.

 

Using a Mod Manager is NECESSARY to properly mod your game, otherwise you WILL break something.

Also, please, don't use Wabbajack or Nexus Collections. They only cause problems.

Edited May 28, 2025 by NymphoElf

[Mez558]

10 minutes ago, xJRev said:

 

I suppose it does take a certain level of intellectual capacity... 

Not that much.
I've done it...

[Harry Smackmeat]

Sometimes I fall asleep at my gaming PC, and then I wake up and find I had modded my Skyrim in my sleep and I dread what debauchery has creeped into my already mastodonic load order, and if it integrates with Requiem without some advanced leveled list and SPID fuckery.

[skyrimsucks]

16 hours ago, NymphoElf said:

@cpnez Take a step back and learn the basics.

 

Modding Skyrim, Fallout, Starfield, etc isn't something one "just does". It's not as hard as you're making it out to be, but it also isn't as simple as just clicking "install".

 

Also, don't listen to people who think the basics are dumb:

 

Using a Mod Manager is NECESSARY to properly mod your game, otherwise you WILL break something.

Also, please, don't use Wabbajack or Nexus Collections. They only cause problems.

 

as ppl wrote here it takes years to mod skyrim. that alone make it not worthy unless u got nothing better to do. or u enjoy at least part of modding

 

 

using any manager is GUARNATEE to introduce bugs, also they bloat drive and still fail to make proper backups of system before alteration of each mod

using manager is utter nonsne and insane retardation  of yet another ui to bother/learn after like fucking 15 other programs u need to mod skyrim

Edited May 29, 2025 by skyrimsucks

[NymphoElf]

3 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

 

as ppl wrote here it takes years to mod skyrim. that alone make it not worthy unless u got nothing better to do. or u enjoy at least part of modding

 

 

using any manager is GUARNATEE to introduce bugs, also they bloat drive and still fail to make proper backups of system before alteration of each mod

using manager is utter nonsne and insane retardation  of yet another ui to bother/learn after like fucking 15 other programs u need to mod skyrim

 

You have no clue what you're talking about. You're not willing to put any level of work into learning, and that's your own fault.

 

Every claim you've made about Skyrim modding is wrong, and you've either taken what people have said out of context or pulled it out of your ass.

Edited May 29, 2025 by NymphoElf

[Grey Cloud]

3 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

as ppl wrote here it takes years to mod skyrim. that alone make it not worthy unless u got nothing better to do. or u enjoy at least part of modding

Wrong. It takes weeks to get a basic, stable modded Skyrim up and running. It is entirely possible to mod Skyrim and also do other things - one does not have to dedicate every waking hour to Skyrim. Given the number of people who mod Skyrim it would seem that people do indeed enjoy that part of modding.

 

3 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

using any manager is GUARNATEE to introduce bugs,

Example?

 

3 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

also they bloat drive

Example?

 

3 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

still fail to make proper backups of system before alteration of each mod

Granted that not all mod managers are born equal, have you any idea how MO2 works?

 

3 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

using manager is utter nonsne and insane retardation

Hell of a lot of retarded people out there then. How do geniuses like you, e.g. get an 'at a glance' identification of a file which is winning, losing or not involved in a conflict? How do you temporarily disable a mod and when you re-enable it automatically picks up exactly where you left off with regards to file overwrites? How do you keep track of what is overwriting what with mods you installed months or years ago?

 

3 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

yet another ui to bother/learn after like fucking 15 other programs u need to mod skyrim

That is not a mod manager problem, that is you problem and a Skyrim problem.

 

[NymphoElf]

1 hour ago, Grey Cloud said:

It takes weeks to get a basic, stable modded Skyrim up and running

 

That's only if you're just starting and are trying to add over 100 mods right away. Just a basic, bare bones mod setup (maybe a few weapon mods or something else very simple) should take you no longer than an afternoon and that's INCLUDING YouTube tutorial time

[nilead]

You can try to, but its not realistic. It is a significant time investment, and even as low as ~10$ an hour it will cost you way north of 200$ not counting the game itself even for a basic setup, and time required and therefore cost will increase dramaticly with every bit you want to add or change. To put it simply, most people who dive deep into it are reasonably savvy folk emplyed in either as devs or 3d artists. You're not going to pay what their time is worth.

[pinky6225]

8 hours ago, skyrimsucks said:

bother/learn after like fucking 15 other programs u need to mod skyrim

 

Little bit of an exaggeration, you need like 2 - The mod manager and FNIS (or whatever FNIS replacer you using) and we can expand that to 3 if you include bodyslide as you have stuff that will be affected by it

 

Where i imagine most people go wrong is that they install dozen's/hundreds of mods and then wonder why something doesn't work rather than starting small, checking stuff works and then expanding that mod list

[Miauzi]

I'm rebuilding Skyrim for maybe the 20th time since I purchased it more than 15 years ago -> rebuilding my mod list

About a week ago, my game virtually crashed when I exited the "showracemenu"... so I took the opportunity to start completely from scratch - but this time, instead of the SE version (1.5.97), I'm upgrading everything to the AE version (1.6.1170).

 

This gives me the opportunity to adapt my mod list to my current needs... after all, the mod authors (including those on this platform) have been very busy over the past few months - either developing their mods further or creating entirely new ones.

 

Thanks to the really excellent instructions (here in the forum) for installing an AE configuration, I'm making pretty good progress - the many links save me a lot of searching.

No - I don't use every recommended mod... I have my own ideas about outfits, quests, and companions... but it's a really good help with the basic installation!

And yet, I'm still expecting about four weeks until everything is finished... especially the necessary testing of the quest mod and the NSFW mods will take a lot of time.

 

Now, after all these years, I know how I, as a player, can put together a mod image myself... for a newbie, the long learning phase is certainly -> daunting.

And if you don't have any affinity for IT (in the sense of "program usage" and "program adaptation"), then you might find this a real chore.

 

I turned 63 exactly today - I've been working with IT - and thus also with computer games - for 40 years now.

I'm still mentally fit enough to handle all of this!And many thanks to the mod authors and mod users who tirelessly provide help to people like me!

 

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