Love Sickness LE/SE

[NymphoElf]

@Mehmeme I know this is an old issue, but the out of breath animation is probably from EVG Conditional Idles. You can toggle off Fatigue animations in the MCM.

 

Never mind, that wasn't in your load order

Edited November 14, 2025 by NymphoElf

[Fraying9981]

hi, does this mod have a tracking system for unique NPCs that made the PC feel love sickness?

Like a faction.

Trying to see possible integrations with SkyrimNet

[Hex Bolt]

11 minutes ago, Fraying9981 said:

does this mod have a tracking system for unique NPCs that made the PC feel love sickness?

Like a faction.

It does not.

[Fraying9981]

1 hour ago, Hex Bolt said:

It does not.

 

thanks. do you have more references for the lore part of this mod? curious

[Hex Bolt]

1 hour ago, Fraying9981 said:

thanks. do you have more references for the lore part of this mod? curious

Nothing specific.  It's just something that I came up with.  Part of the motivation was to have a consequence for sex without necessarily needing wear & tear or pregnancy mods (though it works fine alongside them) to act as a brake on sex mods.  Need money?  Prostitution.  Trouble with the law?  Clear it with sex.  Want a discount with a merchant?  Have sex.  This way, all that stuff is risky, and I like having the extra challenge when playing a female character.

 

Although it doesn't have to be played that way, it does support an environment in which female adventurers, successful ones anyway, are uncommon.  Prostitution can provide quick cash for critical gear or to pay off a debt, but "the working girl's curse" can lead to a downward spiral, a trap that's difficult to escape.  It's not hard to imagine female NPCs with boyfriends or husbands who gave up ambitions for fame and glory because it's just so much more pleasant to stay home and get some nice lovin' every day.  It's a challenge to have a sex life with men and not end up like that.

[riko3]

Hello guys I have a weird thing going on. Sometimes when PC tries to put on outfits it says.

"I want to be naked right now!"

Umm is this caused by this mod?

[Hex Bolt]

43 minutes ago, riko3 said:

Hello guys I have a weird thing going on. Sometimes when PC tries to put on outfits it says.

"I want to be naked right now!"

Umm is this caused by this mod?

No, it's not from this mod.

[riko3]

30 minutes ago, Hex Bolt said:

No, it's not from this mod.

Ok thanks very much!

[Lusciouslochs]

am i able to use this for both SL and Ostim at the same time?

[Hex Bolt]

2 hours ago, Lusciouslochs said:

am i able to use this for both SL and Ostim at the same time?

No, one or the other.

[tamai]

the mod sslx (succubus skill loss) had a little sound it would play this one 

 

when you would lose a skill any chance of maybe adding something liek this in? I just felt it had a nice touch so you knew exactly when skills were being lost just a suggestions.

 

Edited January 22 by tamai

[Hex Bolt]

12 hours ago, tamai said:

the mod sslx (succubus skill loss) had a little sound...

Thank you for the suggestion.  However, I don't much care for "noisy" effects that can be distracting.  Skill loss really doesn't occur so often here that it would be hard to miss, so an audible alert would probably be too much for this particular situation.

[Public_Swan]

I seem to be getting a crash when my character is in male position and orgasms. I do have SLSO but the crash happens during the animation, not at the end.

[Hex Bolt]

13 minutes ago, Public_Swan said:

I seem to be getting a crash when my character is in male position and orgasms. I do have SLSO but the crash happens during the animation, not at the end.

Does it still occur if you go to this mod's MCM System page and toggle off Enable?

[Public_Swan]

54 minutes ago, Hex Bolt said:

Does it still occur if you go to this mod's MCM System page and toggle off Enable?

 

When the mod is enabled and PC is male position to an actual male NPC, the game crashes.

When the mod is disabled in MCM and PC is male position to an actual male NPC, the game still crashes.

When the mod is enabled and PC is male position to a schlongified female NPC (counts as male only because gender bender) the game is fine - only, the PC still counts as inseminated despite the male positioning.

When the mod is completely removed from the game, everything works fine.

Edited January 24 by Public_Swan

[Hex Bolt]

24 minutes ago, Public_Swan said:

When the mod is disabled in MCM and PC is male position to an actual male NPC, the game still crashes.

This is the key part.  When the mod's Enable toggle is off, the mod isn't just paused, it's shut down.  Only the MCM is active.  The mod is no longer registered for sex events, so it's not involved when your character has sex.  This indicates that the cause of the crash is somewhere else.

 

30 minutes ago, Public_Swan said:

When the mod is completely removed from the game, everything works fine.

The tricky aspect of diagnosing game problems is that correlation is not necessarily causation.  A classic example is the player who installs a mod pack and notes that the game crashes on start.  Without the mod pack, everything works fine.  That's correlation.  The player concludes that something must be wrong with the mod pack.  However, there was nothing wrong with the mod.  The actual cause was exceeding the animation limit.

 

Because your game still crashes with this mod disabled and because there haven't been other reports here of this problem, I really don't think that this mod is the cause.  I can suggest a few things for you to try.

 

Generate a crash log and see if anything obvious stands out.  I'd offer to help, but I have no experience interpreting crash logs.

 

If the crash occurs during the orgasm stage (you only said that it wasn't at the end), possibly SLSO is involved.  You might look over its settings for anything that might pose a risk.  Also check the settings for your gender bending mods for things that carry warnings or might have potential for conflicts.

 

Experiment with a new game with minimal sex-related mods.  Leave out gender bending or schlongified females.  Keep SexLab, SLSO, and this mod.  Repeat the sex position that crashed before.  That should work.  Gradually add your sex mods back into game, retesting until you get a crash.  Ideally, that will tell you which mod or combination of mods is causing a crash.

[Public_Swan]

1 hour ago, Hex Bolt said:

This is the key part.  When the mod's Enable toggle is off, the mod isn't just paused, it's shut down.  Only the MCM is active.  The mod is no longer registered for sex events, so it's not involved when your character has sex.  This indicates that the cause of the crash is somewhere else.

 

The tricky aspect of diagnosing game problems is that correlation is not necessarily causation.  A classic example is the player who installs a mod pack and notes that the game crashes on start.  Without the mod pack, everything works fine.  That's correlation.  The player concludes that something must be wrong with the mod pack.  However, there was nothing wrong with the mod.  The actual cause was exceeding the animation limit.

 

Because your game still crashes with this mod disabled and because there haven't been other reports here of this problem, I really don't think that this mod is the cause.  I can suggest a few things for you to try.

 

Generate a crash log and see if anything obvious stands out.  I'd offer to help, but I have no experience interpreting crash logs.

 

If the crash occurs during the orgasm stage (you only said that it wasn't at the end), possibly SLSO is involved.  You might look over its settings for anything that might pose a risk.  Also check the settings for your gender bending mods for things that carry warnings or might have potential for conflicts.

 

Experiment with a new game with minimal sex-related mods.  Leave out gender bending or schlongified females.  Keep SexLab, SLSO, and this mod.  Repeat the sex position that crashed before.  That should work.  Gradually add your sex mods back into game, retesting until you get a crash.  Ideally, that will tell you which mod or combination of mods is causing a crash.

 

Alright, thank you for your input! I'll see what I can find when I get around to more testing. I'd not be surprised if this save was a mess.

 

[Hex Bolt]

Edit: Tester found. Thank you to Shikishima.

Edited March 10 by Hex Bolt

[Shikishima]

On 3/3/2026 at 11:17 AM, Hex Bolt said:

Ostim Tester Needed

 

I'm preparing an update, having merged the differences in the Ostim version into a single version for easier maintenance.  It's working fine with SexLab, but it would be helpful if one or two people who are already familiar with this mod could quickly test the new version with Ostim.

 

It would probably take 10 minutes.  Install the new version (okay to do in an existing game), go to the MCM System page and verify that Sex Framework is set to Ostim, be sure that Display Notifications is on, then have vaginal, oral, and anal sex with a male and see if this mod detects it (e.g., "Semen squirts into your mouth").  That's all I'm looking for.   I'm about ready to publish the new version, I've tested everything else, I just need confirmation that I didn't break the Ostim part.

 

Love Sickness 1.3 Preliminary.7z 53.34 kB · 2 downloads

 

Yeah it works, I haven't triggered a breakdown tho, but everything else works fine

[Hex Bolt]

11 minutes ago, Shikishima said:

Yeah it works, I haven't triggered a breakdown tho, but everything else works fine

Great, thank you.  If that worked, everything else should be good.

[Hex Bolt]

Version 1.3

 

It's okay to update during an existing game, but if you have love sickness, the new effects will not apply until you open and close the MCM.

 

New:  Love Sickness now uses a single, unified set of files for SexLab and Ostim, so there is ONLY ONE DOWNLOAD FILE.  I have merged the changes from the Ostim version in version 1.2 that were provided by @A|one.  The mod will check for the presence of SexLab and use that if it's found; otherwise, it assumes Ostim.  If you have both frameworks, you can select the one for this mod to use in the settings.

 

New:  Two new effects, and they're beneficial!
- Improved persuasion:  Though less intimidating, your speech is more seductive, bubbly, and vivacious.  Speechcraft is increased by this amount.
- Enhanced resilience:  The party is just getting started!  Raging hormones have your body revved up for sex.  You can go longer and bounce back faster from rough use.  Stamina regeneration rate is increased.  Health regeneration rate is increased by half the amount.

 

New:  Export and import your settings.

 

New:  This mod now uses language translation files (in \Interface\translations).  They're all in English, but hopefully this change eases translating.  It also allows players to easily customize notification text to their liking.

[Shikishima]

1 hour ago, Hex Bolt said:

Great, thank you.  If that worked, everything else should be good.

No problem

 

Have you considered to make a version where sex addiction gives you positive bonuses? Like for example if you don't have the disease each successful insermentation gives a bonus but if you got unlucky then you get said disease?

 

For example, you get 1 free skill point, skill exp, etc. with a small chance that is similar to the chance of being sick. With lower disease resistance, you have a higher chance contracting the disease, but you also have a higher chance getting the bonus?

 

Just some quick thoughts I had

[Hex Bolt]

13 minutes ago, Shikishima said:

Have you considered to make a version where sex addiction gives you positive bonuses? Like for example if you don't have the disease each successful insermentation gives a bonus but if you got unlucky then you get said disease?

Well, the assumption is that sex is its own reward or you're already being rewarded, such as getting paid for prostitution.  The mod is intended to apply the brakes to sexual rewards by adding peril, so it's difficult to get rich with prostitution by having sex all day, or if you have an actual sex addiction (such as from the Corruption mod) you have more incentive to cure it rather than just indulging your compulsion.

[DrSeptimus]

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New:  Export and import your settings.

 

Nice...

[MessiahDF]

Damn, this is a mod I've been waiting for a long time, and with Ostim integration nonetheless! I really appreciate making this mod and also wanted to ask if you would consider integrating it with Experience? Like overload also causing a significant chunk of experience lost.