Sexlab Eager NPC's SE (SLEN)

[Pfiffy]

1 hour ago, longjohn119 said:

Has anyone else ever had this happen?

 

I have SLEN set up for Dragon Kill Orgy and I drop a dragon right on the steps leading up to the Companion's Mead Hall and it triggers a big orgy scene. The bizarre part was Heimskr  is slogging some gal and the entire time he's still doing his preacher sermon about Talos .... It was one of the funniest ... and most disturbing .... things I've ever seen in Skyrim 

 

Did you really expected him to stop? 

[Vyxenne]

I can't seem to convince SLEN to give me any Threesome options- I can get a 3some via Matchmaker spells, but although it is checked in the options, it is grayed out for no apparent reason. I'm not running any conflicting mods- just SL, Matchmaker, TDFPP & SL Aroused Redux. Can anyone help me to fix this please?

Edited July 12, 2021 by Vyxenne

[Pfiffy]

15 minutes ago, Vyxenne said:

After working continuously for months, my SLEN dialogs have suddenly stopped showing up at all! I used a SLEN dialog on the Skaal Village Shaman, we did the deed, and I saw no more SLEN dialogs after that.

 

I loaded the save from just before I seduced the Shaman, and everybody I talked to had a SLEN dialog option as usual. I had sex with the Shaman again, using the SLEN dialogs, and immediately after that I had no SLEN dialogs.

 

I'm not running any conflicting mods- just SL, Matchmaker, TDFPP & SL Aroused Redux. Can anyone help me to fix this please?

This is something really new... Is there something about that in the LE forum?

[llddb]

1 hour ago, Vyxenne said:

I can't seem to convince SLEN to givew me any Threesome options- I can get a 3some via Matchmaker spells, but although it is checked in the options, it is grayed out for no apparent reason. I'm not running any conflicting mods- just SL, Matchmaker, TDFPP & SL Aroused Redux. Can anyone help me to fix this please?

 

I hesitate to throw this answer out there, but do you have Lover status with the person you are asking for a threesome (the third party can be anyone I "THINK")

[Vyxenne]

2 hours ago, Pfiffy said:

This is something really new... Is there something about that in the LE forum?

Please disregard- I found a setting that fixed it (required arousal.) It's always been set at zero and I have no idea how it got to 10, but that's where it was. Moved it back to zero and all is well.

 

I edited my post to reflect the other issue I'm having (no threesomes) but you obviously replied in the few minutes before I did that. Story of my life?

[Vyxenne]

1 hour ago, llddb said:

 

I hesitate to throw this answer out there, but do you have Lover status with the person you are asking for a threesome (the third party can be anyone I "THINK")

Well, yes for some, no for others. I don't think it matters in this case because the Threesome option is grayed out in the MCM even though it is ticked.

[WinterWolverine]

10 hours ago, Vyxenne said:

Well, yes for some, no for others. I don't think it matters in this case because the Threesome option is grayed out in the MCM even though it is ticked.

 As far as I know 3somes will only be an option if there are multi people are BOTH aroused AND in higher disposition with the PC, unless lover's I think, then arousal might not be needed, can't remember (not sure if they need to be "Lovers" or if they need to be higher than "friend" even, but, it seems that if they are, I get the option most times at the bottom of the first page of options if default of 10 = true).

 I find having more than two around you (3-5...ish +) and they should offer the "group sex" option too (who doesn't love a little orgy no? lol). Either that or my Lydia is a sex mad housecarl with Dibellan magic powers capable of wonderfully manipulating the peoples of Skyrim... that'd be fine too lol. (I also have the best luck with parties when asking Lydia to set it up... might just be me though).

 Let me know if you have the same experience, it's been this way for me since LE. I get 25+ increases right away so after doing Dibellas mission I get the mission to go to the Dibellan shrine near Dawnstar, by the time I've done that I'm up to 40-50 between intentional, dragon attacks etc.(followers and npc's) as well as Sexlab solutions when applicable (depends on gender and preference of course).

 

Blessings to you and yours in these strange and trying times, peace.

[Vyxenne]

Again, the option for Threesomes in the MCM is grayed out. With nobody targeted. This indicates that some setting elsewhere or within SLEN is disabling Threesomes. NPC disposition would seem to me to be irrelevant if the mod's setting to enable threesome dialogs is grayed out and hence unavailable. Disabled. Kaput. Tits up. Assumed room temperature. Flatlined. Pulse rate=0. Taking a Dirt Nap. Pushing up daisies. Worm food. <insert different and inventive euphemisms for "dead" as required>.

Whatever your euphemism of choice, the SLEN option to allow threesome dialogs is GRAYED OUT no matter where we are, no matter what my arousal is, no matter who is or is not around or what their arousal or disposition may be- the option is simply grayed out. All the time. Eternally. Consistently gone. MIA. Out to lunch. Has left the building. <insert different and inventive euphemisms for "gone" as required>.

 

??

Edited July 13, 2021 by Vyxenne

[WinterWolverine]

18 minutes ago, Vyxenne said:

Again, the option for Threesomes in the MCM is grayed out. With nobody targeted. This indicates that some setting elsewhere or within SLEN is disabling Threesomes. NPC disposition would seem to me to be irrelevant if the mod's setting to enable threesome dialogs is grayed out and hence unavailable. Disabled. Kaput. Tits up. Assumed room temperature. Flatlined. Pulse rate=0. Taking a Dirt Nap. Pushing up daisies. Worm food. <insert different and inventive euphemisms for "dead" as required>.

 

Whatever your euphemism of choice, the SLEN option to allow threesome dialogs is GRAYED OUT no matter where we are, no matter what my arousal is, no matter who is or is not around or what their arousal or disposition may be- the option is simply grayed out. All the time. Eternally. Consistently gone. MIA. Out to lunch. Has left the building. <insert different and inventive euphemisms for "gone" as required>.

??

 I just tested mine:

 I'm using nff with 5 followers, Daedric Pei and her sister Kaya (from Daedric Bitches), Zora Fair-child (interesting NPC's), Serana (from Dawngaurd) and Taki (a shrine maiden from DOA I think). I mention because they are from different mods and Serana uses a slightly different AI pacage even when imported (after fixing the moondial or later it seems is the safest time to do import her, but use the altered settings offered by nff if you import her at all (she'll tag along either way it seems.). anyways...

 

 Checked options, both 3way and orgy orgy options were greyed even though ticked in their respective options.(in Sex dialog choices tab).

Side note: now that I think of it, it might always be grayed out, as there is a min - max settings for the animations (Advanced tab - Orgy settings). I use 2min 5max allowing aggressive and furniture animations.

 

 The test(s):

 I talked to Pei (a follower + Lover) Had 3way + orgy options, asked her for 3way, she gave me 2 choices, Taki (lover and follower) and one of her sisters Kaya (follower, not lover.(need 1more increase I think)), chose Taki, had a 3way.

 Then talked to Taki (a follower + Lover), she had both options as well, asked her for a 3way, she gave me 4 options (3followers and a Cat Caravaner) not sure of how random, or if race pref is accounted for, or if distance matters (nff has them wander a decent distance) or why she gave 4 instead of Pei's 2 (but... there it is lol), then chose 3way, had 3way.

 Talked to Zora, same as the first two (a follower + Lover), same options, same results.

 

 Then tested the orgy option on the same threeand everyone closer to my pc started a scene, but not the one follower and a few caravaners farther away, so distance might be a thing (at least for orgy option) or a limit maybe.

 

 Last test(s); Using last two followers:

 I talked to Serana and Kaya... (followers but not lovers) neither had 3way nor orgy options available to my Pc...

 Then talked with a cple npc's that I'd never slept with, not only did they not have the options, actually they had less, a lot less, so, I got a spell to see who's who, seems the lower the relationship status is, the fewer the options given to the pc (explains a lot of my experiences on many play-throughs, good to know).

 

Conclusion(s):

"Lovers" are the only ones giving the options of 3ways and/or orgies period, doesn't matter if a follower or not, aroused or not, just need to be "Lovers".

side note: I believe it's the same with sex parties too, if I remember correctly, they can only be an option through a "Lover" and will benefit greatly from many high lvl relationships having been made before setting one up (more npc's to choose from). I will test that another time perhaps and see.

 

Or

 

Your version has an issue maybe? need to reinstall?

 

Or

 

you have something else blocking it or conflicting such as another mod (as you've suggested).

 

Or

 

 Magic... cause why not right? lol

 

 Anyways, never had these options refuse to show up (or never noticed), and it's good to know they only work for "lovers" so as to not get frustrated myself, or, if someone else reads this and is wondering when or how they show up (if functioning properly).

Side note: even when Pei is in my cross-hairs (follower and lover) the option in the (Sex dialog Choices tab) are still greyed out and still ticked, so not an issue there.

 

Be well, Peace

 

[Pfiffy]

4 hours ago, WinterWolverine said:

 I just tested mine:

 I'm using nff with 5 followers, Daedric Pei and her sister Kaya (from Daedric Bitches), Zora Fair-child (interesting NPC's), Serana (from Dawngaurd) and Taki (a shrine maiden from DOA I think). I mention because they are from different mods and Serana uses a slightly different AI pacage even when imported (after fixing the moondial or later it seems is the safest time to do import her, but use the altered settings offered by nff if you import her at all (she'll tag along either way it seems.). anyways...

 

 Checked options, both 3way and orgy orgy options were greyed even though ticked in their respective options.(in Sex dialog choices tab).

Side note: now that I think of it, it might always be grayed out, as there is a min - max settings for the animations (Advanced tab - Orgy settings). I use 2min 5max allowing aggressive and furniture animations.

 

 The test(s):

 I talked to Pei (a follower + Lover) Had 3way + orgy options, asked her for 3way, she gave me 2 choices, Taki (lover and follower) and one of her sisters Kaya (follower, not lover.(need 1more increase I think)), chose Taki, had a 3way.

 Then talked to Taki (a follower + Lover), she had both options as well, asked her for a 3way, she gave me 4 options (3followers and a Cat Caravaner) not sure of how random, or if race pref is accounted for, or if distance matters (nff has them wander a decent distance) or why she gave 4 instead of Pei's 2 (but... there it is lol), then chose 3way, had 3way.

 Talked to Zora, same as the first two (a follower + Lover), same options, same results.

 

 Then tested the orgy option on the same threeand everyone closer to my pc started a scene, but not the one follower and a few caravaners farther away, so distance might be a thing (at least for orgy option) or a limit maybe.

 

 Last test(s); Using last two followers:

 I talked to Serana and Kaya... (followers but not lovers) neither had 3way nor orgy options available to my Pc...

 Then talked with a cple npc's that I'd never slept with, not only did they not have the options, actually they had less, a lot less, so, I got a spell to see who's who, seems the lower the relationship status is, the fewer the options given to the pc (explains a lot of my experiences on many play-throughs, good to know).

 

Conclusion(s):

"Lovers" are the only ones giving the options of 3ways and/or orgies period, doesn't matter if a follower or not, aroused or not, just need to be "Lovers".

side note: I believe it's the same with sex parties too, if I remember correctly, they can only be an option through a "Lover" and will benefit greatly from many high lvl relationships having been made before setting one up (more npc's to choose from). I will test that another time perhaps and see.

 

Or

 

Your version has an issue maybe? need to reinstall?

 

Or

 

you have something else blocking it or conflicting such as another mod (as you've suggested).

 

Or

 

 Magic... cause why not right? lol

 

 Anyways, never had these options refuse to show up (or never noticed), and it's good to know they only work for "lovers" so as to not get frustrated myself, or, if someone else reads this and is wondering when or how they show up (if functioning properly).

Side note: even when Pei is in my cross-hairs (follower and lover) the option in the (Sex dialog Choices tab) are still greyed out and still ticked, so not an issue there.

 

Be well, Peace

 

The partys are only an option after you completed the SLEN Dibella quest....  

[Hungo89]

Is there any way to hide dialog option with males? I don't wanna showing it while I talking with them. In flower girls you can just click option Straight or something, here can't find the same. Just want this showing only in females dialog. Thanks.

[Vyxenne]

13 hours ago, WinterWolverine said:

 I just tested mine:

<detailed descriptions of no-doubt grueling and arduous testing>

Conclusion(s):

"Lovers" are the only ones giving the options of 3ways and/or orgies period, doesn't matter if a follower or not, aroused or not, just need to be "Lovers".

Well, thank you very much for the testing! At least now we know it works, albeit in narrowly-constricted circumstances. I guess my only question is why the controlling option text and box would be grayed out.

 

8 hours ago, Pfiffy said:

The partys are only an option after you completed the SLEN Dibella quest....  

As it happens, I have completed the SLEN Dibella quest, but as SummerWeasel ? discovered (above), it doesn't matter in this particular case.

 

Now I'm off to write a batch file that will raise mutual dispositions to "Lover" so I can introduce dialog-based threesomes to my game since having sex with a guy 5 or 6 times doesn't seem to be sufficient to make him my lover...

Edited July 13, 2021 by Vyxenne

[Tlam99]

26 minutes ago, Vyxenne said:

6 times doesn't seem to be sufficient to make him my lover.

Set with xedit from friend to ally on this special follower.

Btw, I always go through the whole exhausting procedure

 

[Vyxenne]

11 hours ago, T-lam said:

Set with xedit from friend to ally on this special follower.

I seldom take followers along any more- they are such a royal pain in the Robin even with NFF help, and I really don't need any help in the firepower department. Maybe that's why I never see a SLEN threesome.

 

11 hours ago, T-lam said:

I always go through the whole exhausting procedure

Well, of course we you do! It's a dirty job but somebody's got to do it, right? ?

Edited July 14, 2021 by Vyxenne

[Tlam99]

18 minutes ago, Vyxenne said:

seldom take followers along any more

How different the game play is...

I have at least 4 with me, 2 of them in TDF prost.

With sexlife they often engage each other and in defeat I have set them to act free.

Knockback and surrender prevents the kill sometimes and so the defeat setting engages.

It brings a smile into my face when a message pops up, follower x is going to rape y

and she walks slowly to the victim.

The amble to victim is nice to observe

 

 

[Pfiffy]

26 minutes ago, Vyxenne said:

I seldom take followers along any more- they are such a royal pain in the Robin even with NFF help, and I really don't need any help in the firepower department. Maybe that's why I never see a SLEN threesome. I have made a batch file to make any targeted NPC my Lover, whether targeted by console-click or by the prid command- this is much bettrer for me bc I can use it spontaneously in-game on the spur of the moment. Can't do that with SSEEdit.

 

Well, of course we you do! It's a dirty job but somebody's got to do it, right? ?

you can also use the manipulator...

[Vyxenne]

10 hours ago, Pfiffy said:

you can also use the manipulator...

*blink*

 

"The manipulator?" *Googles it and reads about it* Wow. Thanks for the tip, but no thanks. Way too invasive (and risky) for me.

[Vyxenne]

10 hours ago, Pfiffy said:

I have made a batch file to make any targeted NPC my Lover, whether targeted by console-click or by the prid command- this is much bettrer for me bc I can use it spontaneously in-game on the spur of the moment. Can't do that with SSEEdit.

UPDATE: it doesn't work- apparently, the SetRelatiosnhipRank command (both iterations of it) require the NPC's RefID to be explicitly entered into the command- just targeting him/her is not enough. Maybe there's a lightweight, low-risk mod to do it. If not, I can always just use the old reliable Matchmaker spells whenever I want to get a threesome going, and just resign myself to never seeing a sex party.

Edited July 14, 2021 by Vyxenne

[Pfiffy]

2 hours ago, Vyxenne said:

*blink*

 

"The manipulator?" *Googles it and reads about it* Wow. Thanks for the tip, but no thanks. Way too invasive (and risky) for me.

 

I use the manipulator only for the arousal and the relationship stuff. This will not cause any trouble, as long as you keep your hands off the rest.  

[zergface]

Is there a way for the sex dialogue to not show on every single npc and just followers? I know we can blacklist npcs but no...

[StrayHALO_MAN]

Is there a way to make an npc follow you to a certain spot and not have the scene start immediately?

[longjohn119]

On 7/13/2021 at 9:51 PM, Vyxenne said:

UPDATE: it doesn't work- apparently, the SetRelatiosnhipRank command (both iterations of it) require the NPC's RefID to be explicitly entered into the command- just targeting him/her is not enough. Maybe there's a lightweight, low-risk mod to do it. If not, I can always just use the old reliable Matchmaker spells whenever I want to get a threesome going, and just resign myself to never seeing a sex party.

Enable your Shouts in SLEN and then go into a tavern and use the Thrill of the Tempest Shout ..... You'll have more horny people to experiment on than you can shake a stick at ..... SexLab Aroused "Puppet Master" setting can also be used to raise your or another NPCs arousal level ....  I use this at the BBLS where I have 23 followers stashed and getting a 3-some or an orgy started in never a problem after I use the Thrill of the Tempest Shout ......

 

As far as raising a relationship level the best way I've found it to hit them with a Thrill of the Tempest (They'll say yes to your proposal nearly all the time) and then choose "Whatever you desire is fine with me" which seems to give you an instant relationship boost the first time 

Edited July 23, 2021 by longjohn119

[longjohn119]

On 7/22/2021 at 2:21 AM, StrayHALO_MAN said:

Is there a way to make an npc follow you to a certain spot and not have the scene start immediately?

SLPrivacy or Follow Me For Sex Mods .... Just punch the names in search and they should come up .... Although sometimes privacy is just an illusion .... damned chickens

 

 

Edited July 23, 2021 by longjohn119

[Vyxenne]

1 hour ago, longjohn119 said:

Enable your Shouts in SLEN and then go into a tavern and use the Thrill of the Tempest Shout ..... You'll have more horny people to experiment on than you can shake a stick at ..... SexLab Aroused "Puppet Master" setting can also be used to raise your or another NPCs arousal level ....  I use this at the BBLS where I have 23 followers stashed and getting a 3-some or an orgy started in never a problem after I use the Thrill of the Tempest Shout ......

 

As far as raising a relationship level the best way I've found it to hit them with a Thrill of the Tempest (They'll say yes to your proposal nearly all the time) and then choose "Whatever you desire is fine with me" which seems to give you an instant relationship boost the first time 

Thanks- I've used the shout a couple of times, but it didn't seem to have any effect at all on anyone- player or NPCs. So I un-Favorited it and haven't touched it in months, maybe even a year or more.

 

That said, I almost never choose the "Whatever you want" option because that frequently gets me the absurd blow job on my strap-on scene, which I HAAAAAAAATE   with a smoldering, steaming-pile-of-dogshit passion. Seeing ppl give blow/hand/foot jobs to an insensate wooden object just drives me nuts and has been my primary dissatisfaction with SLF since launch way back in the Oldrim days. That one anomaly has been responsible BOTH times I rage-uninstalled SexLab and all it's dependent mods. Sadly, it's still not fixed, even in the Dev version I'm playing now- it just happened to me again last night.

 

I'll re-Favorite the Shout and do some more testing with my finger hovering over the End hotkey instead of where it belongs during SLF sex scenes... ?

 

Thanks for the suggestions.

[longjohn119]

8 hours ago, Vyxenne said:

Thanks- I've used the shout a couple of times, but it didn't seem to have any effect at all on anyone- player or NPCs. So I un-Favorited it and haven't touched it in months, maybe even a year or more.

 

That said, I almost never choose the "Whatever you want" option because that frequently gets me the absurd blow job on my strap-on scene, which I HAAAAAAAATE   with a smoldering, steaming-pile-of-dogshit passion. Seeing ppl give blow/hand/foot jobs to an insensate wooden object just drives me nuts and has been my primary dissatisfaction with SLF since launch way back in the Oldrim days. That one anomaly has been responsible BOTH times I rage-uninstalled SexLab and all it's dependent mods. Sadly, it's still not fixed, even in the Dev version I'm playing now- it just happened to me again last night.

 

I'll re-Favorite the Shout and do some more testing with my finger hovering over the End hotkey instead of where it belongs during SLF sex scenes... ?

 

Thanks for the suggestions.

Use SL Tools and set up a hotkey so you can switch animations .... However sometimes it will give you a bunch of BJ scenes (or all anal, etc depending on what they wanted) but when I was playing as a female I'd usually get the lesbian scenes from Billyys SLAL animations which has a lesbian subcategory when I choose what ever you like .... Sometimes you also have to go into SLEN and in Recent Partners find that person and set them to Prefer Both because if it's Prefer Male then you have of greater chance of the strap-on BJ ..... I don't know how it assigns NPCs on start up but I know in one playthrough the first time my gal pegged both Faendal and Llewellyn the Nightingale (Bard at Lakeview Manor) because they both got defaulted to Prefer Male (I changed it in Recent Partners afterwards) but it never happened before or since that playthrough

Edited July 24, 2021 by longjohn119