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[dborg2]

5 hours ago, Tattman said:

Thank you for the reply, it was in the instructions for sexout with sofa to delete certain esp and esm files, and run another file to replace with newer files, 

- Install SOFA and manually delete* Sexout.esm, SexoutPosNew.esp, SexoutAnimManagement.esp, SexoutSpunk.esp

      - Then install "SexoutNG 2.10.98 - SOFA Pack".

      - In your load order, "SexoutNG 2.10.98 - SOFA Pack" need to be loaded before SOFA.

      - Then download and install the last version of Spunk: SexoutSpunk 1.0109 (don't install all files, just install SexoutSpunk.esp)

Not ebing a smartass or anything, I copy pasted so you would understand the step I was referring to. Anyway, I did, however, upon reading further, I did not have the bnb body extender skeleton file. After I did that, sexout started working properly. I have not heard of the sex key mod, but will look into that. Thank you again for replying, I seem to have gotten it sorted. I am quite pleased with the work everyone has done with this mod setup.

thank you. I appearently missed an update. Ignore my comment on SexoutSpunk.

 

Also I was of the opinion to not update SOFA with beta's, but I might reconsider now.

[Tattman]

Can someone please tell me how to find a debug list in my mods? When I click the Tilde key, I am seeing some errors listed there but can not seem to find them in my system anywhere to copy paste and post here to ask for fix help with. Please lay out a step by step beginning with "make sure the debug box in mcm section _______ is checked, then open and post here" or something like that lol, I am sure you know what I mean. I was able to get my female pc pregnqant, but am having a few issues and found errors listed. The errors seem to be coming from SpunkFuRemovePerk in mod SexoutSpunk.esp.  array does not contain key, and perkP as well as perkN errors wrapped in ##'s,. I have noticed something seems way messed up with my companions arousal. Clover has negative 1100 arousal, and nothing I can seem to do helps raise it up. I have also noticed with other people I may have sex with also ending up quickly with negative arousal as well, but I am unsure if that is something I am doing wrong, or not doing, or if there is an actual problem. I would really like to fix it if possible before it ends up causing a loss of pregnancy or a stuck one if at all possible. Thank you in advance for any help. For reference, I will pre-emptively include a copy of my load order.

loadorder.txt

Edited April 20, 2025 by Tattman
Added info to help diagnose

[dborg2]

6 hours ago, Tattman said:

Can someone please tell me how to find a debug list in my mods? When I click the Tilde key, I am seeing some errors listed there but can not seem to find them in my system anywhere to copy paste and post here to ask for fix help with. Please lay out a step by step beginning with "make sure the debug box in mcm section _______ is checked, then open and post here" or something like that lol, I am sure you know what I mean. I was able to get my female pc pregnqant, but am having a few issues and found errors listed. The errors seem to be coming from SpunkFuRemovePerk in mod SexoutSpunk.esp.  array does not contain key, and perkP as well as perkN errors wrapped in ##'s,. I have noticed something seems way messed up with my companions arousal. Clover has negative 1100 arousal, and nothing I can seem to do helps raise it up. I have also noticed with other people I may have sex with also ending up quickly with negative arousal as well, but I am unsure if that is something I am doing wrong, or not doing, or if there is an actual problem. I would really like to fix it if possible before it ends up causing a loss of pregnancy or a stuck one if at all possible. Thank you in advance for any help. For reference, I will pre-emptively include a copy of my load order.

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I don't know what is going wrong, but I do see some issues:

 

Probably not an issue, but please place PAVE_NV.esp above PAVE_NV_TTW.esp

Please move RemoveWorkstationNeeds.esp to bottom of load order

 

and from list below, please move Maternity Pack Overkill TTW32addon.esp above the MPO scriptaddons and  delete/hide/uncheck all MPO-scriptaddons, except for MPO scriptaddon AllDLC.esp ..Tryout.esp.  this included MPO Scriptaddon TTW because it's for an old version of TTW.

MPO scriptaddon AllDLC.esp
MPO scriptaddon Tryout.esp
MPO scriptaddon OWB.esp
MPO scriptaddon HH.esp
MPO scriptaddon DM.esp
MPO scriptaddon Base.esp

Maternity Pack Overkill TTW32addon.esp
MPO scriptaddon TTW.esp

 

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To log the console errors, Sexout Common Resources MCM has a 'debug' option, which will write the console to file. Best to only capture a short period of time, as console gets spammed a lot by various mods.

[Tattman]

8 hours ago, dborg2 said:

I don't know what is going wrong, but I do see some issues:

 

Probably not an issue, but please place PAVE_NV.esp above PAVE_NV_TTW.esp

Please move RemoveWorkstationNeeds.esp to bottom of load order

 

and from list below, please move Maternity Pack Overkill TTW32addon.esp above the MPO scriptaddons and  delete/hide/uncheck all MPO-scriptaddons, except for MPO scriptaddon AllDLC.esp ..Tryout.esp.  this included MPO Scriptaddon TTW because it's for an old version of TTW.

MPO scriptaddon AllDLC.esp
MPO scriptaddon Tryout.esp
MPO scriptaddon OWB.esp
MPO scriptaddon HH.esp
MPO scriptaddon DM.esp
MPO scriptaddon Base.esp

Maternity Pack Overkill TTW32addon.esp
MPO scriptaddon TTW.esp

 

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To log the console errors, Sexout Common Resources MCM has a 'debug' option, which will write the console to file. Best to only capture a short period of time, as console gets spammed a lot by various mods.

Thank you for reading and replying, it is appreciated. First things first, I DID do as requested, moved the PAVE, MPOTTW32addon, and simply unchecked all mpo scriptaddons except alldlc and tryout. When I booted the game up, my Leather Armor Reinforced P1 disappeared from my body and inv. I had luckily made a copy (I am a clothing hoarder) and pulled it out of my clothing locker and put it on. I found the debug screen in SCR, and checked both boxes, and found the file it output. I will include it here, at the bottom of the list are some of the errors I was talking about in my first post. I hope this helps figure this all out. Please advise if you have any ideas. Hopefully it will be a simple enough fix. One last question before we get too far, is there a list of action keys anywhere that I can read addressing what keys to change positions, or any that affect sex in general? I only found the left shift/run button that does affect sex, and am unsure of how to make an npc "happy" with my inputs during sex acts. last question, please take a look at worn items? it looks like I am wearing 2 pipboys, is it supposed to be that way?

SexoutSCRLog-2025-4-20-9-39.txt

[Neutron_rus]

28 minutes ago, Tattman said:

Thank you for reading and replying, it is appreciated. First things first, I DID do as requested, moved the PAVE, MPOTTW32addon, and simply unchecked all mpo scriptaddons except alldlc and tryout. When I booted the game up, my Leather Armor Reinforced P1 disappeared from my body and inv. I had luckily made a copy (I am a clothing hoarder) and pulled it out of my clothing locker and put it on. I found the debug screen in SCR, and checked both boxes, and found the file it output. I will include it here, at the bottom of the list are some of the errors I was talking about in my first post. I hope this helps figure this all out. Please advise if you have any ideas. Hopefully it will be a simple enough fix. One last question before we get too far, is there a list of action keys anywhere that I can read addressing what keys to change positions, or any that affect sex in general? I only found the left shift/run button that does affect sex, and am unsure of how to make an npc "happy" with my inputs during sex acts. last question, please take a look at worn items? it looks like I am wearing 2 pipboys, is it supposed to be that way?

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you have bad install of spunk, at least from that last errors you posted, and make sure that it's latest version 1.01.09.

positioning, if you have that addon or you're on wip version of sexout uses numpad keys, can be checked and changed in mcm
multiple pip boys is most likely ttw related bug, but i don't know

[Tattman]

57 minutes ago, Neutron_rus said:

you have bad install of spunk, at least from that last errors you posted, and make sure that it's latest version 1.01.09.

positioning, if you have that addon or you're on wip version of sexout uses numpad keys, can be checked and changed in mcm
multiple pip boys is most likely ttw related bug, but i don't know

Thank you for replying, It appears that I am in fact on Spunk 1.01.09........ i opened the mod folder, and will include a copy of the meta config file there. It shows the version number. How would I go about replacing it with a "good copy"?

Spunk Ini File Text.txt

Edited April 20, 2025 by Tattman

[Neutron_rus]

1 hour ago, Tattman said:

Thank you for replying, It appears that I am in fact on Spunk 1.01.09........

I have checked code, you can try to go in mcm, spunk, stats, disable toggle enjoyment, then go back to the game, walk around a bit, after go back to mcm and toggle enjoyment on + perks if need. After that make a save and it should be good to go. If perk errors will still happen, just disable perks in that menu, or ignore it. 

[Tattman]

1 hour ago, Neutron_rus said:

I have checked code, you can try to go in mcm, spunk, stats, disable toggle enjoyment, then go back to the game, walk around a bit, after go back to mcm and toggle enjoyment on + perks if need. After that make a save and it should be good to go. If perk errors will still happen, just disable perks in that menu, or ignore it. 

Thank you VERY MUCH! After doing what you said, I seem to be error free at least for now. Before, I would load up the game, and upon my first fast travel, the errors were there. I played for about 30 min and so far have no errors showing up. My game actually seems a bit more stutter or lag free and smooth running too. Hopefully this fixed it for a while. If I continue to have issues, I will post back. For now, thank you again.

[Jaden Dawn]

Need help or directions to another support thread or something.

 

I have problems with some of the animations, where actors revert back to standing positions and then animation restarts. I suspect they are supposed to loop, and there are gaps between each replay, might seem as if they go too fast or the loops don't add together as needed.

 

90% of animations work as intended, this problem persists mostly in threesomes (haven't tried creature animations, just human - MFM, FFF, playing both as male and female). Everything else works as intended, it's just that those few break the immersion for me and I'd like to fix it if I can. I searched other threads but didn't see anyone else asking anything similar.

 

Are there any options in MCM or otherwise I should try to play with or something? I remember there was an option for SexLab for Skyrim to change the animation duration to fit the loop, I had similar problem there and fixed that, maybe there's something similar for Sexout.

 

English is not my best, sorry for that. I hope I explained everything correctly.

Edited October 30, 2025 by Jaden Dawn

[Machiavelique]

I have also noticed this problem, which seems to disappear when the position of the actors is changed (it is also possible that FootIK may increase the chances of this phenomenon occurring, but I am not sure).

 

I have reworked the positioning of the actors in the upcoming 2.11 with FootIK OFF. When this version is released, I would ask you to let me know if you are still experiencing these problems and which animations are affected. For now, I only noticed that Amra[204] systematically produces this problem and will therefore be blocked (I think the problem is in the animation file).

[Allnarta]

On 10/30/2025 at 4:36 AM, Jaden Dawn said:

I have problems with some of the animations, where actors revert back to standing positions and then animation restarts. I suspect they are supposed to loop, and there are gaps between each replay, might seem as if they go too fast or the loops don't add together as needed.

 

It is one of few things:

-If it's pre WIP version, animation idles lack "loop forever" flag in GECK.
-Few .kf files (mostly by Ampa) set-up in a way new kNVSE (37+) tries to "fix" them. Can be fixed by adding annotations to .kf files (I don't remember exactly but kNVSE page has them listed) that will prevent kNVSE to trying to alter those files.

[ortofon]

how do i find mods that don't contain rape or creatures? i don't mean to kinkshame or whatever but i'm mostly looking for a simple "vanilla" sandbox set of mods. thanks.

[dborg2]

Look into my 'list of mods' it got a lot of suggestions. For every kink or not.