Beeing female NG

[40Karats]

I'm not able to check right now, but in the new update is the 'babyitem turns to actor' a toggle in the mcm; ie can we disable that feature? I just prefer the old way of having a babyitem not transforming to actor.

[sectionratiotile]

I am also having issues with bodymorphs and 3ba body

[Deliah Blue]

Is there any difference between the LL and nexus uploads? Nexus makes the update process easier so want to know if I can switch without missing anything

[PerFylk]

hm, think i'm gonna pause to next version. Menstrual added and then CTD. Was working fine until white panty with red cross over came

[SIKguy]

Sorry for quite stupid question, but can someone point a key differences between Fertility Mod and this? (wanna give a try for this mod, cause playing VR and so far it sounds amazing. I just curious what should I know before start a new play through, thanks ☺️ )

[crajjjj]

1 hour ago, PerFylk said:

hm, think i'm gonna pause to next version. Menstrual added and then CTD. Was working fine until white panty with red cross over came

Crashlog please. 

[crajjjj]

8 hours ago, Deliah Blue said:

Is there any difference between the LL and nexus uploads? Nexus makes the update process easier so want to know if I can switch without missing anything

No difference

[PerFylk]

14 minutes ago, crajjjj said:

Crashlog please. 

crash-2026-01-07-10-34-37.log I dont know what you will find but cause the errors in the log i have seen has been rather random. In the crash it was many Alak'r Warrior errors. Have 3 problem mods , Bathing in skyrim NG and Interesting NPC. Bathing in skyrim sometimes block POV button, InterestingNPC creates random crash but not often. ASF - Furniture Lite.esp creates stress cause lot of "stacks" i think it was . Wish you god luck

 

[crajjjj]

3 hours ago, PerFylk said:

crash-2026-01-07-10-34-37.log I dont know what you will find but cause the errors in the log i have seen has been rather random. In the crash it was many Alak'r Warrior errors. Have 3 problem mods , Bathing in skyrim NG and Interesting NPC. Bathing in skyrim sometimes block POV button, InterestingNPC creates random crash but not often. ASF - Furniture Lite.esp creates stress cause lot of "stacks" i think it was . Wish you god luck

Seems like not connected to Beeing-Female-NG. 

 

This is a **runtime EXCEPTION_ACCESS_VIOLATION** caused by a **broken pointer during an NPC idle/scene**.

 

**What it involves:**

 

* **NPC:** Alik'r Warrior

* **Mods in stack:**

 

  * **MILFS Redux** (Idle scene / dialogue topic)

  * **High Poly NPC Overhaul** (NPC override)

  * **Immersive Equipment Displays (IED)** (equipment update during idle)

* **Context:** Idle animation (`IdlePlayIdle`) triggered via a dialogue/scene.

 

**What’s happening:**

An **idle scene from MILFS Redux** runs on a **generic NPC** modified by **High Poly NPC Overhaul**, while **IED** updates equipment. One of the expected NPC/animation objects is invalid → **read from invalid memory → CTD**.

 

**Most likely cause:** **MILFS Redux idle scenes** (missing safety checks for generic / high-poly NPCs).

 

**Quick fixes to test:**

 

1. Disable **MILFS Redux** → if crashes stop, confirmed.

2. If keeping it: disable its **idle scenes** or restrict them to safe/unique NPCs.

3. Update **IED** and test with IED disabled for generic NPCs.

4. Check AI mod conflicts (AI Overhaul / Immersive Citizens).

 

**Verdict:** Not random. It’s an **idle/scene + NPC override + IED interaction crash**.

 

 

 

[PerFylk]

1 hour ago, crajjjj said:

Seems like not connected to Beeing-Female-NG. 

 

This is a **runtime EXCEPTION_ACCESS_VIOLATION** caused by a **broken pointer during an NPC idle/scene**.

 

**What it involves:**

 

* **NPC:** Alik'r Warrior

* **Mods in stack:**

 

  * **MILFS Redux** (Idle scene / dialogue topic)

  * **High Poly NPC Overhaul** (NPC override)

  * **Immersive Equipment Displays (IED)** (equipment update during idle)

* **Context:** Idle animation (`IdlePlayIdle`) triggered via a dialogue/scene.

 

**What’s happening:**

An **idle scene from MILFS Redux** runs on a **generic NPC** modified by **High Poly NPC Overhaul**, while **IED** updates equipment. One of the expected NPC/animation objects is invalid → **read from invalid memory → CTD**.

 

**Most likely cause:** **MILFS Redux idle scenes** (missing safety checks for generic / high-poly NPCs).

 

**Quick fixes to test:**

 

1. Disable **MILFS Redux** → if crashes stop, confirmed.

2. If keeping it: disable its **idle scenes** or restrict them to safe/unique NPCs.

3. Update **IED** and test with IED disabled for generic NPCs.

4. Check AI mod conflicts (AI Overhaul / Immersive Citizens).

 

**Verdict:** Not random. It’s an **idle/scene + NPC override + IED interaction crash**.

 

 

 

Thanks for the info

[bran2100]

I found a serious issue that needs to be address. the new version of beeing female ng 3.1.3 allows children to participate in adult scenes. I dont know if this was intentional or not. If not, it needs to get fix right away. I have a couple of adult mods installed. when I came back home from an adventure, I herd noises thinking it was my wife in game. I decided to go help her take care of her carnal needs, only to find out it was my daughter masterbating. that definately took me by surprised. also after the 3.1.3 update, do we still need to download BeeingFemale Addon - Creature Child Actor, or is it already incorporated into the mod.

Edited January 7 by bran2100

[crajjjj]

4 hours ago, bran2100 said:

I found a serious issue that needs to be address. the new version of beeing female ng 3.1.3 allows children to participate in adult scenes. I dont know if this was intentional or not. If not, it needs to get fix right away. I have a couple of adult mods installed. when I came back home from an adventure, I herd noises thinking it was my wife in game. I decided to go help her take care of her carnal needs, only to find out it was my daughter masterbating. that definately took me by surprised. also after the 3.1.3 update, do we still need to download BeeingFemale Addon - Creature Child Actor, or is it already incorporated into the mod.

Must be a bug. With OStim? Or SL? Which race? Is she in SexLabForbiddenActors faction? Was she born actor or grew up?

Added additional protection for Ostim in 3.1.4

 

Edited January 8 by crajjjj

[bran2100]

crajjj thank you for getting back to me. my vampire daughter in game was born from your beeingfemale mod. i play as one of the vanilla races, nord vampire. my wife in game is a vanilla dark female elf that i turned into a vampire, through a mod. my daughter in game wasnt even a day old and she was doing adult things.

Edited January 8 by bran2100

[crajjjj]

1 hour ago, bran2100 said:

crajjj thank you for getting back to me. my vampire daughter in game was born from your beeingfemale mod. i play as one of the vanilla races, nord vampire. my wife in game is a vanilla dark female elf that i turned into a vampire, through a mod. my daughter in game wasnt even a day old and she was doing adult things.

you don't answer my questions... 
In general vanilla is harder to protect as they are basically normal actors that are scaled down.
Still there is a forbidden faction applied that should block SL. 
For custom races there is a child name check on top.  And SL blocks such races also
Ostim has child race list protection and is also checking the whole baby list and stops animations as a safeguard.

 

Having all that in mind and without additional details - my assumption is that something removes factions in your list.

 

[EdenMistress]

Thank you so much for your work! Being a LE player for years, i finally migrated to AE recently and was having trouble making BF work and i almost gave up. As someone that spent some hours reading and making this work, here is a few pointers that may help people like me.

 

• Mod is working with both CBBE and 3BA (don't forget to build bodies in Bodyslide)
• Belly morphs working with both bodies, i used Open Animation Replacer, SPID, SL Inflation Framework, Fill Her Up baka edition, PAIA Expansion (with its requirements)
• Don't forget to run FNIS or Nemesis (i use FNIS)

• Animations all working perfectly

 

 

If you are having trouble, take a deep breath and do one step at a time, write down on a note what are the problems to better organize your search. I know modding seems complicated, but you got this, i believe in you!

 

[wareware]

So without SLIF the visualscaling variable gets set to a value of 4 which means that UpdateBodyMorphs function never gets called because it requires Visualscaling to be a value of 5

 

This is why Bodymorph option doesn't work if you don't have SLIF installed.

[imauto93]

It takes a long time for the contents of this mod to be displayed in MCM. Also, loading is very slow every time I click on the menu.

However, the mod works fine. It meets all the requirements for this mod. However, as shown in the photo, there is a significant delay in MCM loading.
The Beeing female NG menu list appears slowly, and clicking on a menu takes a considerable amount of time for its contents to appear.

 

Spoiler

 

 

Edited January 10 by imauto93

[foreveraloneguy]

Started a new playthrough and ran into a minor issue. I have BF 3.1.4 set to use SLIF for morphs. After loading my settings in BF I noticed my character was looking a bit preggers and when I checked SLIF I saw that breasts and belly had been set to 1 by BF. I unregistered the character and we'll see if it re-registers on the next update. But since this character hasn't really done anything, BF shouldn't have been applying morphs yet.

 

edit: took a look at the code and I'm fairly sure this is the problem:

Function UpdateNodesSLIF(Float afAddedBellySize, Float afAddedBreastSize)
    If cfg.BellyScale;/==true/;
        SLIF_inflate(ActorRef, "slif_belly", afAddedBellySize + 1)
    Else
        SLIF_unregisterNode(ActorRef, "slif_belly")
    EndIf
    If cfg.BreastScale;/==true/;
        SLIF_inflate(ActorRef, "slif_breast", afAddedBreastSize + 1)
    Else
        SLIF_unregisterNode(ActorRef, "slif_breast")
    EndIf
EndFunction

 

That +1 is why it's setting breasts and belly to 1 is my guess. With SLIF, 0 is the base size, not 1 like with netimmerse.

Edited January 12 by foreveraloneguy

[Kamikatana]

I used to use Beeing Female back in LE, and like all others, switched to Fertility Mode and it's addons for the last few years when I went to SE/AE.   BUT, since you are the one who created/updated this version, I am FOR SURE going to try it and probably switch to it.   Your stuff is amazing.

[ChrisPL92]

Hi love this mod but i have question can Female NPC fertilize my Female character ??? i have addons for females SOS

[noob1995]

Hello, I'm using being Female with O Body. Other aspects of the mod seems to be working properly but the body scaling is not working. 

I used debugging option and tried it on various NPC pushing the  breast slider all the way to 10 but still no changes. Please help

When installing mod I only selected tradilitonal method option.

Edited January 14 by noob1995

[noob1995]

On 1/13/2026 at 3:00 AM, ChrisPL92 said:

Hi love this mod but i have question can Female NPC fertilize my Female character ??? i have addons for females SOS

Yes just don't turn off mensuration option in Player MCM 

[OtherMoleva]

apparently there is no way to set male virility to 0 hrs  in mcm

Edited January 14 by OtherMoleva
typo

[ChrisPL92]

Wait i have Question  i have Skyrim AE GOG 1.6.1179 . I must downgrade to work with this mod ?

 

[ChrisPL92]

damm i dont know what to do my character after sex with female NPC  dont get seed inside.

 

 

Any Mods from this can block  Beeing Female NG  ?

LoadOrder_SkyrimGOG.txt

Edited January 14 by ChrisPL92