Yes, women are like this - prejudices? Yes or No

[Guest]

 

> I found this topic in one of Croatian online magazines for women. ( https://zadovoljna.dnevnik.hr/clanak/seks_i_veze/20-izludzujucih-muskih-predrasuda-o-zenama---140678.html?itm_source=HomeReadThis&itm_medium=Dnevnik&itm_campaign=Naslovnica&itm_source=HomeReadThis&itm_medium=Dnevnik&itm_campaign=Naslovnica) The author of this article is anonymous, so we don't know if she talked from her own experience or the article is translated or borrowed from other Croatian magazine. Anyway, as a woman I found some topics silly and rather untrue for a women in our culture, but i will not tell you which ones. Anyway, this thread is primary addressed to LL female members, but males are welcome to approve or disapprove or add "missing" topic(s) but not from rumors or other people's sayings, but from own experience. Of course, let us stay civilized and cultural avoiding to post sex insults and offenses.

 

Men's (so called) prejudices about the women in this article:

Women are the more fragile sex, they are more romantic and sensitive, but that doesn't mean they don't know how to assemble a new piece of furniture, nothing at all about sports or that they don't like action movies. Some men's prejudices about women may be well-founded, but most of them have little to do with the truth. We bring 20 stereotypes that drive us crazy the most.

1. They don't know how to park sideways.

2. for bad PMS is to blame

3. They don't like "manly" drinks like beer and whiskey.

4. They don't know anything about sports and follow it only when the Croatian national football team plays.

5. They don't know how to use a drill.

6. They have countless shelves of shoes.

7. Single women are looking for a relationship at any cost.

8. They like sugary romantic comedies.

9. They fall for "dangerous" guys.
10. They consider Valentine and the anniversary of the relationship/marriage as the most important days of the year.

11. They are obsessed with marriage, and especially with the wedding day.

12. They always think they are too fat.

13. They always order a diet version of every dish and drink.

14. They must apply make-up and do their hair before leaving the house.

15. They don't know how to assemble a new piece of furniture.

16. Sex without emotion is out of the question.

17. They do not know how to enjoy a large television , an advanced computer or some other technological device.

18. Erotic films They are not interested in

19. They are terrified of horror movies.

20. Cooking and cleaning is their innate inclination.

 

 

Edited August 3, 2022 by Evaloves4

[PHSummoner364]

And what's the point of this topic?
Only narrow-minded people would apply those "cliches" to all women. 

It's funny that you incentivize guys to add to that list, lol.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, PHSummoner364 said:

And what's the point of this topic?
Only narrow-minded people would apply those "cliches" to all women. 

It's funny that you incentivize guys to add to that list, lol.

> There is no special reason for posting this topic (just like many topics on LL which are meaningless like this one). I am just curious to see if people agree or disagree with some or all topics.  

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Only narrow-minded people would apply those "cliches" to all women. 

> Thanks for that comment. ?

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It's funny that you incentivize guys to add to that list, lol.

 > Why not? It is always good to hear what opposition thinks.

Edited August 3, 2022 by Evaloves4

[Gambit]

 

Lot of clichées.

 

I will add something :

- If something's wrong, it's their (male) partner fault and he has to fix it. NOW!

 

[VersuchDrei]

59 minutes ago, Evaloves4 said:

7. Single women are looking for a relationship at any cost.

Not true, otherwise I'd have a gf by now. :^(

[Guest]

1 minute ago, VersuchDrei said:

Not true, otherwise I'd have a gf by now. :^(

[Guest]

15 minutes ago, Gambit said:

 

Lot of clichées.

 

I will add something :

- If something's wrong, it's their (male) partner fault and he has to fix it. NOW!

 

> Oh, my, your avatar always melts me. (Thanks for the comment)

[spoonsinger]

Looks like a western woman's magazine article from the eighties which has been appropriated for a culture which didn't have the opportunity to relish such misandry(*) at the time.

 

(*) - Yes I did mean misandry!

Edited August 3, 2022 by spoonsinger
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[Grey Cloud]

Stop reading magazines and the problem goes away.

Edited August 3, 2022 by Grey Cloud

[Guest]

Just now, Grey Cloud said:

Stop reading shit magazines and the problem goes away.

> Just because you disagree with the content or you don't like it, it doesn't mean it is shitty I could say the same for many things posted here on LL (which I did by the time) and yet some people didn't see them as I did, a big pile of

 

[Guest]

1. They don't know how to park sideways. => true, exactly like 95% of the males.

2. for bad PMS is to blame => no clues

3. They don't like "manly" drinks like beer and whiskey. => absolutely false

4. They don't know anything about sports and follow it only when the Croatian national football team plays. => moderately false

5. They don't know how to use a drill. => false

6. They have countless shelves of shoes. => more true than 2+2=4

7. Single women are looking for a relationship at any cost. => false

8. They like sugary romantic comedies. => no clues, my wife loves them my daughter hates them

9. They fall for "dangerous" guys. => generally false, but happens sadly
10. They consider Valentine and the anniversary of the relationship/marriage as the most important days of the year. => moderately false

11. They are obsessed with marriage, and especially with the wedding day. => only the mothers-in-law

12. They always think they are too fat. => 110% true

13. They always order a diet version of every dish and drink. => totally false, but happens to ask for smaller portion

14. They must apply make-up and do their hair before leaving the house. => for me is sadly true [let's go out at 8 for this irrelevant 10 minutes trip: OK use the bathroom now, after it is all mine until we will exit. It is 5pm....]

15. They don't know how to assemble a new piece of furniture. => they are better that average

16. Sex without emotion is out of the question. => absolutely false

17. They do not know how to enjoy a large television , an advanced computer or some other technological device. => varies, but mostly false

18. Erotic films They are not interested in => depends on person

19. They are terrified of horror movies. => sure, except you watch the movie with them and they know already all the scenes.

20. Cooking and cleaning is their innate inclination. => I do the cooking and half of the cleaning.

 

My 2 cents from my personal life.

[TheLadysGhost]

"Stereotype" is key word. Some fit into many categories, many fit a few of them. Perhaps there ARE those who fit all... and others none?

[worik]

complete nonsense

Spoiler

1. They don't know how to park sideways. no

2. for bad PMS is to blame no

3. They don't like "manly" drinks like beer and whiskey. NO!

4. They don't know anything about sports and follow it only when the Croatian national football team plays. no. But please tell me again what is this "footbal" thing

5. They don't know how to use a drill. Are you kidding me?

6. They have countless shelves of shoes. ? 1

7. Single women are looking for a relationship at any cost. Why?

8. They like sugary romantic comedies. Does "Kill Bill" count ?? If so, then yes, fair point.

9. They fall for "dangerous" guys. That's where you apply insect repellent
10. They consider Valentine and the anniversary of the relationship/marriage as the most important days of the year. Less than a certain male does

11. They are obsessed with marriage, and especially with the wedding day. 

12. They always think they are too fat. less so than one certain male

13. They always order a diet version of every dish and drink. no

14. They must apply make-up and do their hair before leaving the house. no

15. They don't know how to assemble a new piece of furniture. Guess who did most of our bed ?

16. Sex without emotion is out of the question. That's called: masturbation

17. They do not know how to enjoy a large television , an advanced computer or some other technological device. What's "television". I remember to have seen one in a museum ?

18. Erotic films They are not interested in *cough*  *coughcough* *coughcoughcough*

19. They are terrified of horror movies. less so than certain males

20. Cooking and cleaning is their innate inclination. only to compensate male deficits in that category

ok, ok 1 out of 20

[worik]

1 hour ago, Grey Cloud said:

Stop reading magazines and the problem goes away.

? That's pointing into the question if (journalistic) publications a) report about facts of society or if they b) create/enforce facts of society.

In this case, it's likely to do at least b)

[Grey Cloud]

2 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

Just because you disagree with the content or you don't like it, it doesn't mean it is shitty

True as a general statement but magazines are a waste of space (assuming Croatian mags are similar to UK mags).

[Alessia Wellington]

10 minutes ago, Grey Cloud said:

True as a general statement but magazines are a waste of space (assuming Croatian mags are similar to UK mags).

 

Do you mean the crap like Closer, Mirror and The Sun?

[Grey Cloud]

3 hours ago, Alessia Wellington said:

Do you mean the crap like Closer, Mirror and The Sun?

Never heard of Closer but any sort of mag, whether 'newspaper' insert, standalone or online.

 

Is that closer as in nearer to or closer as in door-closer?

[Alessia Wellington]

9 minutes ago, Grey Cloud said:

Is that closer as in nearer to or closer as in door-closer?

 

Closer as in one step closer to stupidity. Simply browsing their official website makes you lose a few dozen brain cells every couple minutes.

[Sarathis]

One can pretty much answer every one of those stereotypes by saying, "Depends on the woman."

[Guest]

6 minutes ago, Sarathis said:

One can pretty much answer every one of those stereotypes by saying, "Depends on the woman."

 > Exactly

[TheLadysGhost]

6 hours ago, worik said:

ok, ok 1 out of 20

Hmmm... which one? ?

[Guest]

11 minutes ago, TheLadysGhost said:

Hmmm... which one? ?

> I think it is number 8. She colored that one in green. My dear Mrs. worik finds revenge and killing very romantic. She and my ivy makes them two.

[Vader666]

9 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

3. They don't like "manly" drinks like beer and whiskey.

 

mostly true for beer, not true for liquor

 

9 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

5. They don't know how to use a drill.

 

Most know how to use a drilling machine but not which drill bit to use... (RIP 6mm carbide)

 

10 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

7. Single women are looking for a relationship at any cost.

 

At first this looks like a paradox, because if they would there wouldn't be any single women.

 

However every single woman i've met had a pet.

So depending on what counts as relationship there might be some truth to it ?

 

10 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

12. They always think they are too fat.

 true, except the ones that are.

 

10 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

18. Erotic films They are not interested in

not true, they just don't talk about it on every occasion.

 

Obviously all of that is based on my personal experience with a way too small amount of people to be anywhere near representative.

[Idyll]

17 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

1. They don't know how to park sideways.

2. for bad PMS is to blame

3. They don't like "manly" drinks like beer and whiskey.

4. They don't know anything about sports and follow it only when the Croatian national football team plays.

5. They don't know how to use a drill.

6. They have countless shelves of shoes.

7. Single women are looking for a relationship at any cost.

8. They like sugary romantic comedies.

9. They fall for "dangerous" guys.
10. They consider Valentine and the anniversary of the relationship/marriage as the most important days of the year.

11. They are obsessed with marriage, and especially with the wedding day.

12. They always think they are too fat.

13. They always order a diet version of every dish and drink.

14. They must apply make-up and do their hair before leaving the house.

15. They don't know how to assemble a new piece of furniture.

16. Sex without emotion is out of the question.

17. They do not know how to enjoy a large television , an advanced computer or some other technological device.

18. Erotic films They are not interested in

19. They are terrified of horror movies.

20. Cooking and cleaning is their innate inclination.

 

I guess I'll mingle and tell mostly based off of myself...

 

Spoiler

1. Eh, I got a 50% success rate, I'd say. But hey, not too bad...! ...Right? I tend to say "Fuck it." and look elsewhere to park myself, unless it's the only visible viable spot to park, then I just do it.

 

2. I don't really know, I'd say I don't really have that bad a temper those days, I mean, I don't really tend to "let loose" at other people, my meanest is me throwing fists in the air around and in front of myself whilst sounding like some sort of angry chipmunk when I'm really frustrated at something haha. Otherwise, rarer times I tend to slap, punch and pinch myself, kind of psycho, I guess, but I don't hurt anyone at least haha.

 

3. I can enjoy the stuff, well, when I'm not dead drunk after the first sip, that is, I'm lighter than featherweight in regards of alcohol consumption, it's ridiculous.

 

4. Personally, I don't really know much about sports either, just a few rules here and there for most sports, I used to play with custom rulesets with the other kids as a child so yeah... But I don't have anyone team I favour more than others, I can kind of surmise which is better but I don't really prefer "good" teams over "bad" ones. It's another story with sports like wrestling and other combat such, though.

 

5. I'm pretty handy with tools, used to be I would almost drop the thing and bore a hole through my feet but thanks to having had my grandfather, an artisan, as a mentor, I learned how to use lots of tools and even craft stuff.

 

6. Heh. I got, like, four, maybe five at most, a sixth too but it's mostly cheap stuff that go under that number, stuff I can just discard when getting a little crazy at some party or other.

 

7. Nope, well, I'm not single but the relationships I form tend to fall to me rather than be sought by I - otherwise I'd say most of my female friends that aren't in a serious relationship don't seek one.

 

8. Hahaha~ No. The acting tends to feel off for some reason, like, the actors playing don't even understand the concept of love or something and... Ugh. List is long.

 

9. Absolutely. Never fails. Well, I'll admit I fall for just about anyone as long as they're not an arsehole but, eh, counts, right?

 

10. Kind of, yeah, well, there's lots going on on that day, on my end, practically all that's worth immensely so it'd be hard for it to be otherwise haha.

 

11. Fits with #10 also, kind of, if we see a slave's hot iron branding as equivalent to a marriage.

 

12. Nah, I used to worry but Master ordered me to not think about it so I don't.

 

13. If only you knew, I can eat some nasty greasy stuff haha, acquired perk of having been hanging with groups of friends and alike for much of my youth, taking orders on one side of the city and from the other after moving around, having fun and doing what bad kids do hahaha~

 

14. I don't always worry about it but since I'm Goth and am quite fond of keeping up my aesthetic I do spend lots of time in front of a mirror. I'm pretty handy and like to experiment with my hair since mine grows fast so I don't really have to worry about what I cut and stuff... Details details.

 

15. Well, linking with #5, I can even make my own furniture, so yeah... Just too lazy most days I have the time, and fulfilling my duties other times.

 

16. I don't mind it, as a toy set of fuckhole(+extras), my primary purpose is to offer comfort whenever and however whoever that's eligible wills it. Some masters, during meet-ups, decide to use me without strings attached, just for the sake of relief, and may want silent sex and such. Thus, I provide.

 

17. I do find finding lots of joy in acquiring an object that's been assembled in a production chain and treated as a number, without receiving the love and care artisan craftsmanship has, to be rather... Grey. After all, it can be broken and just as easily replaced. I can, however, understand and relate to feeling joy for getting something one really really wants with the resources one worked hard for.

 

18. What the heck?! My life is basically a hardcore, BDSM porn flick with most kinks blent in! If I'm not licking dicks then I'm flicking the bean, and if not that then I'm having some other pleasurable experience.

 

19. I am a scaredy cat indeed haha, I mean, I can enjoy a good horror movie, but the trash that comes out nowadays is bullshit, like, jumpscares is the only thing they use and I'm tired of toeing the brink of heart attacks just because they decided the sole purpose of their movies was to ellicit primal, reflex responses out of the audience rather than provide an encroaching terror, something that marks rather than desensitises.

 

20. I'm not too bad of a cook, if I do say so myself, and I would clean, too, back in US where it was just Master & I as well as fulfilling my primary duties. Now I just clean up beloved, beloved cocks... Amongst other things, of course, there's the various appliances, stockades, tools and toys and even a slave Master currently trains with I as an aide for me to maintain.

 

Edited August 4, 2022 by Idyll
List in spoilers

[Roxie Lyerri]

I'm bored so I'll answer these why not, These answers are just for me though.

 

1. They don't know how to park sideways.

Not true, I can park pretty good i think i've also never been in an accident.

2. for bad PMS is to blame

 

Ugh, for me i would blame the fact i'm bi-polar instead of my pms

 

3. They don't like "manly" drinks like beer and whiskey.

Not true! I drink whiskey all the time!
 

4. They don't know anything about sports and follow it only when the Croatian national football team plays.

 

I used be really into soccer and wrestling. But not so much anymore.

 

5. They don't know how to use a drill.

Untrue, Had to use one here and there sometimes.
 

6. They have countless shelves of shoes.

 

I only have 2 pairs of shoes XD

 

7. Single women are looking for a relationship at any cost.

Nope! Whenever I'm single (currently not) i try to focus on myself and keep myself happy.
 

8. They like sugary romantic comedies.

 

Boring-

 

9. They fall for "dangerous" guys.
 

Somewhat true, i've dated an asshole or two before ngl-

 

10. They consider Valentine and the anniversary of the relationship/marriage as the most important days of the year.

 

Naw, i often forget when valentines day is.

 

11. They are obsessed with marriage, and especially with the wedding day.

 

Idc if i ever get married, but would be nice.

 

12. They always think they are too fat.

 

I'm a bit chubby but not obese.

 

13. They always order a diet version of every dish and drink.

 

lol nope 

 

14. They must apply make-up and do their hair before leaving the house.

 

Not unless i'm going to a formal event.

 

15. They don't know how to assemble a new piece of furniture.

 

Hmm...i dunno I think I assembled something before

 

16. Sex without emotion is out of the question.

 

Eh, I have no problem with flings, One night stands as long as protection is used.

 

17. They do not know how to enjoy a large television , an advanced computer or some other technological device.

 

I am literally answering these on gaming rig i built myself.

 

18. Erotic films They are not interested in

 

Um...i don't really understand this one...porn or something? if so Porn is fine but i dont view it often-

 

19. They are terrified of horror movies.

 

Wrong, Horror movies are just not scary to me.

 

20. Cooking and cleaning is their innate inclination.

Uhh..this one is true for me ngl...cause i like to cook and i hate dirtiness.