Am I the only one that's lonely?

[Gukahn]

Some of ya guys need to cheer up..

 

 

17 hours ago, Z0mBieP00Nani said:

Roughly, 6 feet tall (or really anything 5' 10" and above), good looks, good body (in shape or fit, not grossly overweight), big dick, and well off (money, status, material things), and more or less in that order. It is also important for a guy to have, at the very least, good social skills and, at the very most, "game" or an awareness of how to impress a woman and keep her impressed.

That's just for the maybe also 20% of women or only care for the optic. It's the same with some men only going for the petite small girl next door and let the tall one stand outside couse of their insecurity.

I mostly date women taller then me. None of them ever had a problem with it, usually they take it with humor which and i like it. Wouldn't want to miss the jokes that go along with it.

I stick my frodo in her isengard ?

And there is nothing in this world that keeps people impressed. Some morning you will be boring. The question is if it's a good kind of boring or not.

 

Is dating these days pure superficial? Only when you let it be

[frobhub]

i am not sure what is keeping people from finding a person to be happy with in these days. maybe its a bit more difficult for guys, because everyone thinks they have to do the first step... but after that its not much more then trial and error. and its not like we just date the pretty 20% of the males (at least when i was still into dicks). just be sure you show someone that you like her/him. most people that want a true, honest relationship will answer the same way. dont even think about the idiots that think they are deserving a 10/10 only and they are special. you will meet a lot of them, but they are not worth your time and effort.

 

yes, this may come down as "easier said then done" but its the truth... be yourself and show ppl you like them. if they like you too, they will return in kind. dont feel bad if it doesnt happen the first few times. it may take a while.

oh, and dont make sexual things your highest priority. its a nice bonus to have the same kinky stuff in your head, but even if its not the case... if you are loved, your partner will do A LOT to make you feel good after a while.

 

so go out, be happy and even enjoy searching a partner. that alone can be quite some fun.

 

 

[Lyman the Lunatic]

Bored? Sure. Alone? Never.
I do get what you're at. I kinda feel you, pandemic makes finding new people a bit hard. I know a lot of people hates being alone, but that's just not me. To me, it's better to be in a good company than being with someone because you're scared of being alone.
I'd say, there's something deeper than that. You want someone to spend time with. Other than sex, what else do you want to do with someone?

[Guest]

Never alone hun.  

[Z0mBieP00Nani]

22 hours ago, frobhub said:

i am not sure what is keeping people from finding a person to be happy with in these days. maybe its a bit more difficult for guys, because everyone thinks they have to do the first step... but after that its not much more then trial and error. and its not like we just date the pretty 20% of the males (at least when i was still into dicks). just be sure you show someone that you like her/him. most people that want a true, honest relationship will answer the same way. dont even think about the idiots that think they are deserving a 10/10 only and they are special. you will meet a lot of them, but they are not worth your time and effort.

 

yes, this may come down as "easier said then done" but its the truth... be yourself and show ppl you like them. if they like you too, they will return in kind. dont feel bad if it doesnt happen the first few times. it may take a while.

oh, and dont make sexual things your highest priority. its a nice bonus to have the same kinky stuff in your head, but even if its not the case... if you are loved, your partner will do A LOT to make you feel good after a while.

 

so go out, be happy and even enjoy searching a partner. that alone can be quite some fun.

 

 

Depending on when you were last dating guys, the dating market has changed substantially even within the last 10 years. Most people meet online these days and that has had a huge influence on things. Women tend to be more selective in online environments for example, due to the number of options they have available. For one thing those "idiots" you mention are more common than they used to be these days.

[Guest]

There are 7 billion people in the world my friend there are plenty of us who feel the same way. It might be a difficult topic to talk about most of the time but with the right people, even people who don't completely sympathize, you'll be able to express your thoughts and feelings freely and I don't meaning just posting them in online forums. It might be a little difficult now with the state of the pandemic but physical interaction and communication always has more impact. Communicating your feelings will help you cope with emotional baggage, coping with that will help you have a more positive outlook, and positivity has always been attractive. Either that or you develop one of the many less fortunate coping mechanisms like over saturating humor, and believe me it doesn't make things better.

[ASDASDASD_Smasher]

Probably majority of people who download and make these mods are pretty lonely. You just dont hear people talking about their loneliness as much as they like to talk about their perfect sex life or spouse or whatever. Same thing as on any sort of social media.

[Guest]

7 minutes ago, ASDASDASD_Smasher said:

Probably majority of people who download and make these mods are pretty lonely. You just dont hear people talking about their loneliness as much as they like to talk about their perfect sex life or spouse or whatever. Same thing as on any sort of social media.

Having a hobby !== lonely. Lol.

[TheWilloughbian]

no.

[donttouchmethere]

On 2/20/2022 at 2:22 PM, Gukahn said:

Some of ya guys need to cheer up..

Hey, never thought that brontosaurus schlongs would sheer me up ?

[ASDASDASD_Smasher]

52 minutes ago, zelphador23 said:

Having a hobby !== lonely. Lol.

Thats not really what I meant.

[Z0mBieP00Nani]

1 hour ago, zelphador23 said:

Having a hobby !== lonely. Lol.

Having a perverted hobby can mean you have an unhealthy sex life or are, in other words, lonely. I mean something has to be there to drive such a desire to make such mods in the first place, right? And when someone is lonely and unable to release their sexual tension in a "healthier way" they tend to develop or find other ways to release such tensions, and some of these ways can turn into perverted hobbies.

 

Or at least I think that's where they were coming from. When you're a female it is a LOT easier to get laid if you really want to, trust me. There are all kinds of guys out there, guys who are a LOT less picky than others, based on some of the chicks I've seen who are apparently able to get "lots" of dick, I mean we're talking literal bridge troll level of physical attractiveness here. When it comes to ugly guys you don't see that level of interest from the opposite sex very often, if at all, unless maybe the guy is kind/"innocent", tall/very tall, "built" and not "lanky" or skinny, and generally not too weird, those kinds of guys have a better chance of getting laid despite their looks being bad.

[Swiftstep]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAm3EqfsUSI

[AKM]

On 2/19/2022 at 8:38 AM, Resdayn said:

What exactly the top 20% mean anyway?

 

Z0mBieP00nani described it well, but I'll give you the exact terms, so they'll make more sense:

The 6 6s:

6ft+ tall

6 figure income

6 inch+ dick

6 months since last relationship

6 pack abdomen
600 horsepower car

The funny thing is that when you start pulling apart the statistics, you find that even the very first one, 6ft tall, is something like 14.5% of the U.S. population.  When you ballpark cutting out the 50% of that who are female, you get 7.25% of the male population, based on the first point alone!  85.5% of the male population (if my math is correct) are ruled out right from the start.  Only 15% of males pass even the first consideration, based on that.  Start throwing even one other variable in there, and you're rapidly looking for Mr. Impossible.

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Z0mBieP00Nani said:

Having a perverted hobby can mean you have an unhealthy sex life or are, in other words, lonely. I mean something has to be there to drive such a desire to make such mods in the first place, right? And when someone is lonely and unable to release their sexual tension in a "healthier way" they tend to develop or find other ways to release such tensions, and some of these ways can turn into perverted hobbies.

 

Or at least I think that's where they were coming from. When you're a female it is a LOT easier to get laid if you really want to, trust me. There are all kinds of guys out there, guys who are a LOT less picky than others, based on some of the chicks I've seen who are apparently able to get "lots" of dick, I mean we're talking literal bridge troll level of physical attractiveness here. When it comes to ugly guys you don't see that level of interest from the opposite sex very often, if at all, unless maybe the guy is kind/"innocent", tall/very tall, "built" and not "lanky" or skinny, and generally not too weird, those kinds of guys have a better chance of getting laid despite their looks being bad.

 

What does "healthy" mean? Lol. 

[Guest]

2 hours ago, AKM said:

 

Z0mBieP00nani described it well, but I'll give you the exact terms, so they'll make more sense:

The 6 6s:

6ft+ tall

6 figure income

6 inch+ dick

6 months since last relationship

6 pack abdomen
600 horsepower car

The funny thing is that when you start pulling apart the statistics, you find that even the very first one, 6ft tall, is something like 14.5% of the U.S. population.  When you ballpark cutting out the 50% of that who are female, you get 7.25% of the male population, based on the first point alone!  85.5% of the male population (if my math is correct) are ruled out right from the start.  Only 15% of males pass even the first consideration, based on that.  Start throwing even one other variable in there, and you're rapidly looking for Mr. Impossible.

 

In my experience they don't really care too much.

 

 

[Guest]

Single, I am. Lonely, I'm not. I'm a bachelor for devil's sake.

 

For the fellas that are lonely out there, it's never been so easy to have sex nowadays. There are literally women on social media who proudly call themselves whores with no shame. You can look up Darius M on YT or skim through social media to see for yourself. though, I cannot point you in the direction because the only thing remotely close to social media I have is a YT channel. If you are looking for marriage, better come to the realization that the institution of marriage has been broken for decades. So you have two options...

 

1. Get married and risk yourself from going through a divorce, losing custody of children and paying alimony. Because that seems to be the common theme.
2. Fool around as long as life permits it and avoid shooting your sap into a woman and giving her a belly bump.

 

 

That's reality for ya. Just like outgrowing your childhood and becoming an adult and seeing the world for what it is.

[AKM]

2 hours ago, Resdayn said:

In my experience they don't really care too much.

 

I'm glad your experiences are/were so much different than mine were.

[TheWilloughbian]

 

[TheWilloughbian]

get out of your basement and wash your hair first.

[Z0mBieP00Nani]

7 hours ago, zelphador23 said:

 

What does "healthy" mean? Lol. 

It is generally thought that a healthy sex life is experienced by someone who is in a relationship and is actually having sex regularly as opposed to jacking off regularly, to porn or whatever. In males excessive use of porn has been linked to E.D. for example, which is not a sign of good health.

[Idyll]

5 minutes ago, Z0mBieP00Nani said:

It is generally thought that a healthy sex life is experienced by someone who is in a relationship and is actually having sex regularly as opposed to jacking off regularly, to porn or whatever.

 

Then I guess I'm beyond healthy, I won't tempt the sun, though, haha.

 

 

5 minutes ago, Z0mBieP00Nani said:

In males excessive use of porn has been linked to E.D. for example, which is not a sign of good health.

 

Sounds logical, I can easily imagine billy's willy feeling obsolete and forever droopy to match its unsuccessful owner.

 

 

[Guest]

6 hours ago, AKM said:

 

I'm glad your experiences are/were so much different than mine were.

 

Maybe you found the wrong ones, generally dating apps sucks for meeting people, due the barebone bios and intel.

 

Hard to get an impression of few random pics.

 

But mind you, I'm from europe and in the eastern side, things different here.

[Idyll]

27 minutes ago, Resdayn said:

Maybe you found the wrong ones, generally dating apps sucks for meeting people, due the barebone bios and intel.

 

Hard to get an impression of few random pics.

 

But mind you, I'm from europe and in the eastern side, things different here.

 

Yeah, I think that dating apps suck if your reason for using them is "searching for your soulmate".

 

 

[Z0mBieP00Nani]

6 hours ago, Idyll said:

 

Sounds logical, I can easily imagine billy's willy feeling obsolete and forever droopy to match its unsuccessful owner.

 

 

I think it has more to do with becoming accustomed to jacking off as opposed to having sex, if that makes sense. Basically when you are with a new partner or even the same one there exists the possibility for performance anxiety and I think that if the anxiety is bad enough then you can't get your peepee hard when you need to... or at least that was my experience once (then againI was also at a party and there were other factors involved). When you kack off there is no anxiety other than the risk of getting caught, but otherwise there is no pressure to impress someone else. Then I guess there is the idea of over saturation, or basically seeing SO much tits and ass of "perfect physical quality" that you become desensitized to the form of the opposite sex and have difficulties getting hard for that reason.