Spouses Enhanced SE

[ryeguy88]

Nobody's been here for a while but i'll ask anyway. it seems that since i already have flower girls installed that this doesn't work properly. the dialog doesn't show, lovers seduction did nothing. checked the override box just to test. sleeping initiated a scene for sexlab and flowergirls at the same time and then made it so i couldn't use my bed again. so question i guess is: has anyone else had this problem? is this mod just outdated?

 

using: sexlabframeworkAE 165.7, Flowergirls 3.0.2, skse64 2.2.3

 

vortex mod manager didn't give an option to override anything on install btw

[Krackenjokes]

Hello, I'm using this with the Kaiden 2 enhanced mod, I have nether's follower framework installed which is supposed to work in combination with this mod (so he is recognized as a spouse since he does not use the vanilla settings) i am able to use the spells (like using lover's scent) and it recognizes him, but the  "my love" dialogue option does not appear. do u know anything I can do to fix this ?

[Reiyn Isa]

can anyone give me a guide on how to make a voice patch for spouses enhanced??? I'm trying to patch up for miraak follower mod

[Commander_]

I really like the idea of this mod (haven't actually played it yet) but I've noticed that it's been 5 years since it was last updated.

Can people confirm whether it works? Also, are there any other marriage mods for Special Edition (that are more up to date)? I haven't found any.

[shardoom]

12 hours ago, Commander_ said:

I really like the idea of this mod (haven't actually played it yet) but I've noticed that it's been 5 years since it was last updated.

Can people confirm whether it works? Also, are there any other marriage mods for Special Edition (that are more up to date)? I haven't found any.

 

Fully bought and upgraded SE user here (people wrongly call it AE version) and I can say this mod still works perfectly.

[Jyratx]

On 5/4/2023 at 11:54 AM, Commander_ said:

I really like the idea of this mod (haven't actually played it yet) but I've noticed that it's been 5 years since it was last updated.

Can people confirm whether it works? Also, are there any other marriage mods for Special Edition (that are more up to date)? I haven't found any.

I've used this mod for years, and it works nearly perfectly. Only a few issues I've encountered so far:

1. The spells aren't added a LOT of the time. I've only ever seen the notif in the top right-hand corner of the screen maybe three times, and usually days after the marriage ceremony. As explained by a previous commenters, going into the MCM and disabling the "add spells" toggle, exiting the MCM, and then reenabling that toggle fixes this, so this is a non-issue for some, but not very intuitive for others.

2. If a house has a custom bed (or a player home mod has a custom bed), I've found that the add-custom bed option almost never works. When you select the bed and try to add it as a sexlab bed, there'll be some message saying something like "invalid object selected" (I don't remember exactly what it says, but it's something like that). Which means you can't make it a master bed, rendering the house useless for coitus with one's spouse. Imagine having a glorious castle with all the amenities and more and only being able to screw Brelyna in poverty Breezehome with it's hazardous gaps in it's wooden floor. 

3. Sometimes, after acts of coitus with one's spouse, the dialogue options reset or time out, which doesn't break anything (near as I can tell) but can sometimes be a real pain in the ass, especially if you're using a mod like Separate Orgasms which can lead to longer than usual acts of coitus. 

4. The "watch and pleasure yourself" scenes have a horrible tendency to break spouses, and I would like to see a version of this mod that has THAT scene removed entirely (or to learn how to remove it myself). Usually, a reload to before you entered the cell with your spouse will fix it, but not always. 

 

Otherwise, it works pretty much as described. 

[xx36]

On 5/8/2023 at 5:54 PM, Jyratx said:

I've used this mod for years, and it works nearly perfectly. Only a few issues I've encountered so far:

1. The spells aren't added a LOT of the time. I've only ever seen the notif in the top right-hand corner of the screen maybe three times, and usually days after the marriage ceremony. As explained by a previous commenters, going into the MCM and disabling the "add spells" toggle, exiting the MCM, and then reenabling that toggle fixes this, so this is a non-issue for some, but not very intuitive for others.

2. If a house has a custom bed (or a player home mod has a custom bed), I've found that the add-custom bed option almost never works. When you select the bed and try to add it as a sexlab bed, there'll be some message saying something like "invalid object selected" (I don't remember exactly what it says, but it's something like that). Which means you can't make it a master bed, rendering the house useless for coitus with one's spouse. Imagine having a glorious castle with all the amenities and more and only being able to screw Brelyna in poverty Breezehome with it's hazardous gaps in it's wooden floor. 

3. Sometimes, after acts of coitus with one's spouse, the dialogue options reset or time out, which doesn't break anything (near as I can tell) but can sometimes be a real pain in the ass, especially if you're using a mod like Separate Orgasms which can lead to longer than usual acts of coitus. 

4. The "watch and pleasure yourself" scenes have a horrible tendency to break spouses, and I would like to see a version of this mod that has THAT scene removed entirely (or to learn how to remove it myself). Usually, a reload to before you entered the cell with your spouse will fix it, but not always. 

 

Otherwise, it works pretty much as described. 

 

I had a problem to add custom bed, and I found that  it works, when you move towards middle of the bed, open MCM menu, and choose add custom bed.  Targeting beds from the side (or edge) results in "invalid object selected" message. 

Edited May 9, 2023 by xx36

[nelfa]

I installed the mod with the serana addon. So i married serana with the "marry me serana" mod and everything works fine, except that serana never approaches me. I have tested to put the interval between the approaches at 1 but still anything. Is there a solution to make everything work fine?

[Jyratx]

On 5/9/2023 at 4:21 PM, xx36 said:

 

I had a problem to add custom bed, and I found that  it works, when you move towards middle of the bed, open MCM menu, and choose add custom bed.  Targeting beds from the side (or edge) results in "invalid object selected" message. 

I've discovered that too, but its not always reliable. There were some custom beds that I could never get to work no matter which place I targeted them from, and some that worked like a charm on my first attempt. And then were at least two (I forget exactly which mods they were from) that where I must have spent at least ten minutes targeting them and never succeeded only for them to work when I tried sometime later or on another playthrough. Usually it's somewhat consistent, but not always, and there's likely other factors that effect it. Like if the 3d model of the custom bed has collisions or if there's collisions from another object interfering and so on.

[Jyratx]

4 hours ago, nelfa said:

I installed the mod with the serana addon. So i married serana with the "marry me serana" mod and everything works fine, except that serana never approaches me. I have tested to put the interval between the approaches at 1 but still anything. Is there a solution to make everything work fine?

Are you in a vanilla home or a mod home?

[nelfa]

 

16 hours ago, Jyratx said:

Êtes-vous dans une maison vanille ou une maison mod ?

I am in the vanilla whiterun house

[Jyratx]

On 6/28/2023 at 11:05 AM, nelfa said:

 

I am in the vanilla whiterun house

A few more questions:

1. After the ceremony, did you get a notification in the top left hand corner of your screen saying that your master bed was set in Breezehome?

2. Did the spells (Lover's Sanctuary, ect) appear in your spell list?

3. Do you have any mods installed that edit vanilla beds?

 

[striker1-1]

On 7/1/2023 at 12:22 PM, Jyratx said:

A few more questions:

1. After the ceremony, did you get a notification in the top left hand corner of your screen saying that your master bed was set in Breezehome?

2. Did the spells (Lover's Sanctuary, ect) appear in your spell list?

3. Do you have any mods installed that edit vanilla beds?

 

I am having the exact same problem, the spell won't work and I didn't get the notification and I don't think I have any mods that affect beds

[Jyratx]

7 hours ago, striker1-1 said:

I am having the exact same problem, the spell won't work and I didn't get the notification and I don't think I have any mods that affect beds

When you say "the spells won't work", do you mean that they won't appear in your spell menu, or that they DID appear and just won't work when you cast them? I can't really help you if your problem is that the spells simply won't work. I CAN help you if your issue is that you can't get them to appear in your spell list. 

[Deanevea]

I married YORHA A2 before installing the mod and the mod shows no spouse.  I'm using Nether's Follower Framework elope system. I used the same system on my last play through and it worked flawlessly.

The spells ( Lover's Sanctuary ) did not appear in my spell list.

Edited August 30, 2023 by Deanevea
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[Arnab1995]

Spouse won't approach if she is added to netters follower framework. Dismissing her enables approach

[十Wizard十]

Thank you so much! Can't wait to try it out

[Jyratx]

On 8/20/2023 at 6:30 PM, Deanevea said:

I married YORHA A2 before installing the mod and the mod shows no spouse.  I'm using Nether's Follower Framework elope system. I used the same system on my last play through and it worked flawlessly.

The spells ( Lover's Sanctuary ) did not appear in my spell list.

I can't help you with Nether's Folllower Framework, as I've never used it. But as for the spells not appearing, I can help you. The spells are kind of fucky wucky; sometimes they appear in your spell menu after the marriage ceremony, sometimes they don't. You have to go onto the mod's MCM, toggle the "remove spells" option on, exit the MCM, reopen the mods MCM, toggle the same option off, and the spells should appear. 

[DeathBot753]

Does this work with Serana Dialogue Addon? Not worried about VA Overlap, but Will SDA Marriage work with this? im gonna try it, but Im just asking this here in case i get a reply before Marrying her

[DeathBot753]

On 12/28/2023 at 1:49 PM, DeathBot753 said:

Does this work with Serana Dialogue Addon? Not worried about VA Overlap, but Will SDA Marriage work with this? im gonna try it, but Im just asking this here in case i get a reply before Marrying her

DeathBot on another Device here, It doesn't work. Tried setting her as spouse with Console, no dice. Need that custom spouse update asap.

[Hermestris]

Does this still work with the latest Skyrim SE update of December 5th?

[BeranabusBarnes]

OStim SA Patch incoming. Need bit more testing, but seems like everything works.

[FIM]

Жаль ,, что данный мод был заброшен и так и не вышел , ( видел в сборке Торна рабочий ) , но жаль , что отдельно его даже кривой не попробовать

[CavemanDonk]

is this updated for the latest version of skyrim 1.6.1170?

[ghosthero7]

On 1/23/2024 at 5:31 PM, BeranabusBarnes said:

OStim SA Patch incoming. Need bit more testing, but seems like everything works.

Can't wait!