[WIP] SexLab Lover's Comfort 2013-12-30

[at433]

^{lydia dont comfort me anymore in the mornings -(}

^{i wake up, all she ever does is play with herself, but dont have sex with me, or other followers / folks in the house}

^{and its been like this with all the recent versions for the past few months.. what is wrong with the mod now (or my settings?)}

^{when i used to play it before long time ago in summer, i woke up and it all worked fine, me lydia spouse everyone else around had seix}

^{why is not working anymore?}

[germanicus]

at433- There is no problem with this mod, it is the matter of arousal level of your spouse/follower. Open the SexLab aroused in MCM and do some reconfiguration of your sex frequencies and arousal level. That worked for me.

 

( I just hope that my limited English is understandable enough and that I understood problem correctly and gave the right answer. If I didn't, I apologize)

 

[eifrag]

no follower sex on wake up, or is there?

 

for spouse not having sex on wake up, I think it requires a bed with lovers comfort bonus? or not?

 

sorry, but I havent explored every feature of this mod yet 

[Carida]

Greetings,

 

I figured I would mention this issue I am having. My character got married, and she kept her husband as her follower. So I use the "another sleep mod" mod and because I don't want conflicts, I turn off the option of "start sex on sleep".  Unfortunately it does not seem to be working. He will still initiate sex with her when she wakes, which of course doesn't give her a chance to get out of bed, she's usually in the middle of trying to get up and then gets stuck in the bed. I notice this happens even when she goes to sleep in the frostfall tent. He'll go in there and have his fun. Its kinda funny but frustrating when I CTD after. Is there any way to fix this? Thanks!

 

-C

[sgtsnorkles]

Under version 2.1, when I used MCM and checked LC status I would often get a report of nearby NPCs (in the same cell) of their arousal levels.  Now, nothing.  Only a follower shows up.  Guess I now have to approach individual NPCs and see if they are interested or not.  Hmmm, in retrospect, more like real life.  Damn. 

[misteriousnex]

Hello, I'm having an issue with the Lovers Comfort mod where it appears to crash the game at random intervals. It could be after 20 minutes in the open or after 3 hours when using a door. Whenever I check the logs it always shows messages from the Lovers Comfort mod just before the CTD. I've got the last but one version of this mod, have used BOSS to sort my load order, have run FNIS after installation and open the game through NMM (with SKSE support). I can also see and verify all the mods in SkyUI and that they're working as their supposed to.

 

I've attached below my load order and papyrus logs, if someone can help identify what's happening or explain what the errors mean I'd be very grateful.

 

Cheers,

 

Ignore that, just found the solution on the previous page which will/has fixed the issue.

 

MN

 

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ERROR: Cannot call Z() on a None object, aborting function call
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:30:58PM] Warning: Assigning None to a non-object variable named "::temp22"
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:13PM] ERROR: Cannot call X() on a None object, aborting function call
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:13PM] Warning: Assigning None to a non-object variable named "::temp20"
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:13PM] ERROR: Cannot call Y() on a None object, aborting function call
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:13PM] Warning: Assigning None to a non-object variable named "::temp21"
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:13PM] ERROR: Cannot call Z() on a None object, aborting function call
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:13PM] Warning: Assigning None to a non-object variable named "::temp22"
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:15PM] Mujuro: Assassination attempt triggered, spawn points set
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:16PM] Mujuro: Assassination attempt initiated
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:17PM] Mujuro: Post-assassination attempt references clean-up
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:20PM] [loverscomfortplayerscr <00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)>]: ScanCurrentCell is skipped - player in combat
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:28PM] ERROR: Cannot call X() on a None object, aborting function call
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:28PM] Warning: Assigning None to a non-object variable named "::temp20"
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:28PM] ERROR: Cannot call Y() on a None object, aborting function call
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:28PM] Warning: Assigning None to a non-object variable named "::temp21"
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:28PM] ERROR: Cannot call Z() on a None object, aborting function call
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27
[12/21/2013 - 08:31:28PM] Warning: Assigning None to a non-object variable named "::temp22"
stack:
.Game.FindRandomActorFromRef() - "Game.psc" Line 89
[alias SpouseRef on quest 00_LoversComfortPlayer (26042D62)].loverscomfortspousescr.OnUpdate() - "LoversComfortSpouseScr.psc" Line 27

[Lyman the Lunatic]

So I was trying to check how cheat works but I didn't know how to do it with console commands so I did the hard way...

 

It was a hilarious brawl!

I think this mod should do it the way it used to, the lover & the spouse can only have sex while on the bed instead of anywhere they are. Because what I saw was that my char's spouse & the lover initiated sex while the lover was cooking, so the spouse's head is in the fire pit.  That's not the end of it though, while brawling, they even screamed "Time out, we need to have sex right now. Just give us a minute!" and they just have sex right in the middle of the brawl! Got to initiate the brawl all over again & they keep asking for a timeout sex for 3 more times. Then the brawl bug kicks in (Yes, I have the mod that's supposedly to fix this but the lover managed to turn it into a fight anyway by running into a chest & take out a fire staff) So the brawl was won by my char sliced the lover up with her sword. So I was wondering, why not make a brawl possible with the spouse as well? For timeout sex!

 

Tried the scene, I'm confused at the scene at level 2 (I didn't see all of them, too busy trying to get the cheat to kick in)

The spouse talked to the lover along the line of "I don't need you anymore" He didn't complain about my char. not being around. But to be fair, my char & her spouse had sex yesterday in the game.

[sgtsnorkles]

 

Just one little item that would be nice to have.  A hot key listed in MCM to show status, without having to go to MCM. 

 

The hot key is N

 

-C

 

 

OK, but I have other mods using N as well.  I have the arousal mod, is that one directly connected to LC?

Mainly though, no longer have NPCs in a cell listed with arousal status, as was in v.2.1, the current version seems to have eliminated that.

[redneck2x]

 

 

Just one little item that would be nice to have.  A hot key listed in MCM to show status, without having to go to MCM. 

 

The hot key is N

 

-C

 

 

OK, but I have other mods using N as well.  I have the arousal mod, is that one directly connected to LC?

Mainly though, no longer have NPCs in a cell listed with arousal status, as was in v.2.1, the current version seems to have eliminated that.

 

 

LC has some legacy stuff which I remove from time to time,

so In Cell NPC list should disappear soon.

 

So I was trying to check how cheat works but I didn't know how to do it with console commands so I did the hard way...

 

It was a hilarious brawl!

I think this mod should do it the way it used to, the lover & the spouse can only have sex while on the bed instead of anywhere they are. Because what I saw was that my char's spouse & the lover initiated sex while the lover was cooking, so the spouse's head is in the fire pit.  That's not the end of it though, while brawling, they even screamed "Time out, we need to have sex right now. Just give us a minute!" and they just have sex right in the middle of the brawl! Got to initiate the brawl all over again & they keep asking for a timeout sex for 3 more times. Then the brawl bug kicks in (Yes, I have the mod that's supposedly to fix this but the lover managed to turn it into a fight anyway by running into a chest & take out a fire staff) So the brawl was won by my char sliced the lover up with her sword. So I was wondering, why not make a brawl possible with the spouse as well? For timeout sex!

 

Tried the scene, I'm confused at the scene at level 2 (I didn't see all of them, too busy trying to get the cheat to kick in)

The spouse talked to the lover along the line of "I don't need you anymore" He didn't complain about my char. not being around. But to be fair, my char & her spouse had sex yesterday in the game.

 

Tnx to report.

It is always a dilemma either to limit events with many conditions, but they will occur rarely, or remove limitations, but then there will be some crazy use cases.

Anyway I will fix that.

 

Greetings,

 

I figured I would mention this issue I am having. My character got married, and she kept her husband as her follower. So I use the "another sleep mod" mod and because I don't want conflicts, I turn off the option of "start sex on sleep".  Unfortunately it does not seem to be working. He will still initiate sex with her when she wakes, which of course doesn't give her a chance to get out of bed, she's usually in the middle of trying to get up and then gets stuck in the bed. I notice this happens even when she goes to sleep in the frostfall tent. He'll go in there and have his fun. Its kinda funny but frustrating when I CTD after. Is there any way to fix this? Thanks!

 

-C

 

Turn off follower masturbation.

[Beagle2]

Nice work, this turns breaking into a house at midnight into a different experience. I think it would be a nice addition for immersion, that If you get caught watching a couple making out, they stop, and then the default AI behaviour should kick in with them saying: Get out of my house!

[Carida]

 

 

 

 

 

Just one little item that would be nice to have.  A hot key listed in MCM to show status, without having to go to MCM. 

 

The hot key is N

 

-C

 

 

OK, but I have other mods using N as well.  I have the arousal mod, is that one directly connected to LC?

Mainly though, no longer have NPCs in a cell listed with arousal status, as was in v.2.1, the current version seems to have eliminated that.

 

 

LC has some legacy stuff which I remove from time to time,

so In Cell NPC list should disappear soon.

 

So I was trying to check how cheat works but I didn't know how to do it with console commands so I did the hard way...

 

It was a hilarious brawl!

I think this mod should do it the way it used to, the lover & the spouse can only have sex while on the bed instead of anywhere they are. Because what I saw was that my char's spouse & the lover initiated sex while the lover was cooking, so the spouse's head is in the fire pit.  That's not the end of it though, while brawling, they even screamed "Time out, we need to have sex right now. Just give us a minute!" and they just have sex right in the middle of the brawl! Got to initiate the brawl all over again & they keep asking for a timeout sex for 3 more times. Then the brawl bug kicks in (Yes, I have the mod that's supposedly to fix this but the lover managed to turn it into a fight anyway by running into a chest & take out a fire staff) So the brawl was won by my char sliced the lover up with her sword. So I was wondering, why not make a brawl possible with the spouse as well? For timeout sex!

 

Tried the scene, I'm confused at the scene at level 2 (I didn't see all of them, too busy trying to get the cheat to kick in)

The spouse talked to the lover along the line of "I don't need you anymore" He didn't complain about my char. not being around. But to be fair, my char & her spouse had sex yesterday in the game.

 

Tnx to report.

It is always a dilemma either to limit events with many conditions, but they will occur rarely, or remove limitations, but then there will be some crazy use cases.

Anyway I will fix that.

 

Greetings,

 

I figured I would mention this issue I am having. My character got married, and she kept her husband as her follower. So I use the "another sleep mod" mod and because I don't want conflicts, I turn off the option of "start sex on sleep".  Unfortunately it does not seem to be working. He will still initiate sex with her when she wakes, which of course doesn't give her a chance to get out of bed, she's usually in the middle of trying to get up and then gets stuck in the bed. I notice this happens even when she goes to sleep in the frostfall tent. He'll go in there and have his fun. Its kinda funny but frustrating when I CTD after. Is there any way to fix this? Thanks!

 

-C

 

Turn off follower masturbation.

 

 

 

 

Yes, I already have that set to off. I have masturbation for PC and Follower off. Sex on sleep off. It seems to happen when his arousal is very high. 100. Which is usually is even though I try to have her have sex with him at least three times a day. But because of the skimpy outfits she wears,... lol he's frisky all the time.

 

So I think that it might be the spousal rape option that's overriding all my settings.

 

-C

[kisscool1234]

VickiMew, A report of -1 can mean a few things, but it is SexLab.

 

...

 

 

If you have some scripting ability, Take a look at sslActorLists for more info. Otherwise, we need more info to give specific fixes.

 

 

Thank you for this info.

 

[Saeros]

I installed the latest version (2013-12-30), but in the options there is still the old one.

 

 

 

 

Is this normal?

[redneck2x]

@saeros

I forgot to update version number,

it has no effect on the game.

 

 

For the last published version v20131230 it is critical to install last version of SLAroused v20131230

[samtyler]

Just came back to Skyrim after a break, I started a new game with SexlabFramwork 1.34, Aroused 20131230_beta (couldn't see a non beta 20131230), xazprisonoverhaul_v024, Zazanimation pack v0054 and I'm getting the [-1] error from sexlab. when entering the Hall of Countenance in winterhold.

 

What does this mean? What Have I done wrong?

[yoyoman]

You need to wait until nighttime, maybe around 9pm or so. Then they should automatically do it regardless of arousal level. For me, it only happens once a night for every couple.

[yoyoman]

Yup. You gotta be sneaky about it. Just enter the cell in sneak mode and peek around the doorway to the bedroom or something.

[MonaBabii]

 

You need to wait until nighttime, maybe around 9pm or so. Then they should automatically do it regardless of arousal level. For me, it only happens once a night for every couple.

 

wait. so they only do it if you are in their cell. So their cell would be their house. at night. when they would call guards. So basically it is pointless... =/

 

 

I believe the original idea behind this was because you would use this to learn new animations. Not entirely just a perv thing, you would sneak into peoples' houses to learn the positions for yourself. Then I believe that feature got moved to Lovers Hook, and now I'm not using it anymore since I came back from my break, but not sure if it's up to date or not being used anymore.

[redneck2x]

Just came back to Skyrim after a break, I started a new game with SexlabFramwork 1.34, Aroused 20131230_beta (couldn't see a non beta 20131230), xazprisonoverhaul_v024, Zazanimation pack v0054 and I'm getting the [-1] error from sexlab. when entering the Hall of Countenance in winterhold.

 

What does this mean? What Have I done wrong?

 

Best thing to check are papyrus logs, SexLab is very desriptive for such error.

Or post the log here , after entering the Hall and getting error.

 

 

 

You need to wait until nighttime, maybe around 9pm or so. Then they should automatically do it regardless of arousal level. For me, it only happens once a night for every couple.

 

wait. so they only do it if you are in their cell. So their cell would be their house. at night. when they would call guards. So basically it is pointless... =/

 

 

I believe the original idea behind this was because you would use this to learn new animations. Not entirely just a perv thing, you would sneak into peoples' houses to learn the positions for yourself. Then I believe that feature got moved to Lovers Hook, and now I'm not using it anymore since I came back from my break, but not sure if it's up to date or not being used anymore.

 

 

Currently NPCs sex is indepedant of arousal, mostly because it was maid long before arousal was introduced.

The idea is that related NPCs would have sex then they go to sleep, just like PC.

So the mechnics is that then you enter the cell (or once in game hour) the cell is scaned, then if there a single NPC that is sleeping then sex with related NPC is triggered.

 

 

Currently I am experimenting with game engine events, so in future such events would happen more "neturally" with less scripting.

[RDKateran]

Hmm, question.

 

So two followers with high enough arousal will have sex when you rest.  What happens if you marry a follower, and take him/her with you along with another follower, and they have high enough arousal when you rest?  Will they still have sex, or will the marriage thing override that, or what?

[Saeros]

@saeros

I forgot to update version number,

it has no effect on the game.

 

 

For the last published version v20131230 it is critical to install last version of SLAroused v20131230

 

k, thanks red 

[renishi]

How does this Npc on npc thing even work? Cause I hung out at warmaiden with adrianne and her husband both at arousel level 100 for a dang long time and they didn't do anything. I figured maybe cause it was a store and tailed a bunch of other married couples and the like and nothing. No body is willing to screw. Also being unmarried I can only really use this for followers so maybe im just better off with the romance mod Since the npc on npc isnt working for me?

 

I'm always at warmaidens watching Adrianne and her husband at it.

the trick is see, is too get their disposition towards you high,(help Adrianne/become thane) so that when you break in at night they wont tell you to leave......not only that but if you have got a follower/wife/husband they like aswell,you can ask for a threesome or swing/swop partner's.

 

the same can be said for gerda's family in riverwoood  hod  gerda or gerda (sshh) and her borther.

 

Edit: then if you have got lover's victim aswell just run around gerda's house and see which one jumps on you .

 

[redneck2x]

Hmm, question.

 

So two followers with high enough arousal will have sex when you rest.  What happens if you marry a follower, and take him/her with you along with another follower, and they have high enough arousal when you rest?  Will they still have sex, or will the marriage thing override that, or what?

 

Actually both events are fired then PC goes to sleep

First, just as PC goes to sleep : Followers comforting each other

Second, at the end of the sleep : Spouse comforting PC

 

So the expected result is that both followers have sex, and PC masturbates since spouse is busy having sex.

[di3golo]

One question.. if i install this and SL Romance they will both work or i need to choose?

[RDKateran]

They'll work together just fine.