Advice and Knowledge about BDSM and Kinks

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I did meet very different people and experienced very different things during my life in the BDSM community, for everyone expecting a collection of Sex fantasys, full of domination and rape: Your wrong here...

Ive been posting advice in my own club since a couple days https://www.loverslab.com/clubs/14-bdsm-club/

and i thougth, for everyone who wants to read it without always having to look into the Club, i will upload stuff here, not regular and not as a wall of text.

But whenever i feel like writting something new and mostly in a short manner, to keep it understandable.

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D/L (DDLG) Relationships

(this is a extention of my Bdsm Relationships entry. ) One of the, more interesting kinks that is kinda bound into the realm of bdsm is D/L (Daddy/Little) or DD/LG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl if you like to make long and complicated things ^^) Now D/L is special to itself, since it might be one of the things seeming very weird to outsiders. this kink is the source of all the popularity of calling people "daddy", because just like with 50 shades, socie

Leon0803

July 4, 2018

The Misconceptions of a BDSM relationship

Long time no write, didnt have many ideas on what to put to paper to be honest, anyone stumbeling onto this blog, welcome! check out the other posts of mine inorder to understand more about the topic, their not long to read either i think. What i want to talk about today is one of the things that always causes weird looks by people outside of the kink, constant fights with media, state and feminists alike. BDSM Relationships. One of the most iconic

Leon0803

July 4, 2018

The Harm done to me and beloved ones due to Fifty shades of Grey

Today i would like to fully cover a topic i have mentioned a lot of times during my blogs, Fifty shades. Today i want to open the eyes to anyone who believes that 50 shades Displays BDSM Let me start by qouting some scene from the 50 shades darker book real quick "I wondered what your bedroom would look like," he says. I glance around it, plotting an escape route, no - there's still only the door or window. "Well, I thought I should come and

Leon0803

January 3, 2018

Sane BDSM, Pressurepoints and Safeareas

Alright heres a little post i feel like i need to make thanks to Movies like 50shades. I have met several people who tried Bondage without knowing stuff about it and they seriously hurt theirself, i will talk more about that on another lesson. Have you ever had a string or something around your finger for a longer time? just to notice how it gets a bit numb? Thats because the blood is unable to flow when its cut off, also the nerves get a bit affected.

Leon0803

November 23, 2017

my experience with Furries

This year i was at the CSD (Christopher Street Day, for everyone who aint got a idea what that is, imagine it like a gay pride for everyone, you have LGBTS, Daddys & Littles, Doms & Subs, Furries, Petplayers and so on.) and it turned out a guy which i was friends with from the local BDSM community was a furry aswell, we had some fun time teaching people about BDSM while he walked around with a tail on his Butt, his and my girlfriend poked me with it dozend of

Leon0803

November 18, 2017

It is okay and normal to have Rape Fantasys.

It is totaly okay to have Rape fantasys. Sounds a bit controversial to some, huh? It is okay to have such fantasys, aslong as they stay fantasys or are practiced consentual. There are many people in the BDSM community who have interest in fake rape, even my Submissive loves that (i dont do them regulary tho and not that hard as im still a bit uncomftorble with even played unconsentuality.) What exacly is fake rape tho? Faker

Leon0803

November 16, 2017

Trying to understand a Fetish you dont have is simply Impossible

I already saw how people tried to understand masochists "how can you like pain?" or people who simply feel both dominant and submissive, It is almost as stupid to tell a switch (Someone who likes to be both dominant and submissive) "you simply cant decide what you like more so you stick with both" as telling that to a bi-sexuell person. To face it, Fetishs and Kinks are a very complex thing going on in the Mind and for someone to understand it is

Leon0803

November 16, 2017

The Basics of BDSM, Consent

s thread is created to make one point clear most porn, games or stories display wrong. Dont get me wrong, i understand the thrill some may have at this "domination + rape" fantasys. I just want to make Clear here, that BDSM is Consentual play, like every Sex should be and not a form of Rape as some media may show. BDSM is build on multiple systems, the most commen used is S.S.C: Safe Sane Consentual safe: attempt

Leon0803

November 15, 2017

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