I already saw how people tried to understand masochists "how can you like pain?"

or people who simply feel both dominant and submissive,

It is almost as stupid to tell a switch (Someone who likes to be both dominant and submissive) "you simply cant decide what you like more so you stick with both" as telling that to a bi-sexuell person.

To face it, Fetishs and Kinks are a very complex thing going on in the Mind and for someone to understand it is very hard, basicly impossible.

So the next time your stumbeling across a Fetish you didnt know yet, dont try to argue with the Person having it that its stupid or weird.

Try to respect their interests, as they will respect yours.

Aslong as everything is consentual, its not your decission what someone else likes in bed...