Today i would like to fully cover a topic i have mentioned a lot of times during my blogs, Fifty shades.

 

Today i want to open the eyes to anyone who believes that 50 shades Displays BDSM

 

Let me start by qouting some scene from the 50 shades darker book real quick

 

 

"I wondered what your bedroom would look like," he says.

I glance around it, plotting an escape route, no - there's still only the door or window.

 "Well, I thought I should come and remind you how nice it was knowing me."

Holy crap. I stare at him open mouthed, and his fingers move from my ear to my chin.

"What do you say to that, Miss Steele?"

[...she says nothing...]

I take pre-emptive action and launch myself at him. Somehow he moves, I have no idea how, and in the blink of an eye I'm on the bed pinned beneath him, my arms stretched out and held above my head, his free hand clutching my face, and his mouth finds mine."

 

he bends and starts undoing one of my sneakers. Oh no... no... my feet. No. I've just been running. "No," I protest, trying to kick him off. He stops. "If you struggle, I'll tie your feet too. If you make a noise, Anastasia, I will gag you."

 

(He slaps her during intercourse.)

 

Afterward when he leaves, she says this: "But now I feel like a receptacle - an empty vessel to be filled at his whim.[...] I have an overwhelming urge to cry, a sad and lonely melancholy grips and tightens round my heart. Dashing back to my bedroom, I close the door and lean against it trying to rationalize my feelings. I can't. Sliding to the floor, I put my head in my hands as my tears begin to flow."

 

Romantic huh?

 

 

Christian Grey is nothing more then a rapist, that was wrapped in a presentbox.

 

 

 

 

 

I would like you to check out my Thread on Bondage, which covers the fact that the 50shades movies caused multiple persons to harm theirself througth wrong applied bondage.

https://www.loverslab.com/blogs/entry/5705-sane-bdsm-pressurepoints-and-safeareas/

 

 

 

 

 

Now id like to mention some things i experienced in my life, that have been affected througth 50Shades

 

 

i had people who tried to copy the totaly inaccurate bondage in the movie, which put rope without reversed tention directly on pressure points for it looking good,

caused people i know to have sever nervedamage on their hands/beeing unable to use them as much as they could before

 

I had people who have been raped or atleast abused because they thougth the behaviour shown in the movie is normal and therefor people hid their sick rapist interests behind pretending to be into bdsm

then they offerd those people i know to have a sexual experience (after they drugged them with lots of alcohol) they did playmethods  the partner was totaly new to, ignored safewords and rewarded total obedience regardless their personal feelings about the situation.

 

furthermore both some people i know and myself have been victims to the effects the movie had on people, the most harmless beeing that friends who get to know in what kind of relationship me and my Sub live, ask clichee or simply wrong questions that base on "ohh but they did that in the movie"

 

 

 

the most extrem i had yet was a neighbour of mine calling the Police on me and my Sub several times because shes convinced my Sub is victim of abuse, which ofcourse i appreceiate if it really was the case, that someone would stop it. But in this case after the 3d time, the Police had my Sub talk to a Psychologist and he agreed that everything we do seems to be in her consent.

She still treats me like a rapist tho and gives that opinion onto her children, while her oldest Son really is a nice fellow, he chills at our place sometimes playing some videogames with us when he`s bored. He didnt believe into the things his Mother said and rather stood in our door oneday, asking if i could explain what exacly me and my Sub do that outrages his Mother.

 

Once again it turned out at the dinnertable she uses "facts" she saw and read in 50 Shade