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The Misconceptions of a BDSM relationship


Leon0803

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Long time no write, didnt have many ideas on what to put to paper to be honest, anyone stumbeling onto this blog, welcome!

check out the other posts of mine inorder to understand more about the topic, their not long to read either i think.

 

 

What i want to talk about today is one of the things that always causes weird looks by people outside of the kink, constant fights with media, state and feminists alike.

 

BDSM Relationships.

 

One of the most iconic ones is the one of a Slave and a Master.

 

While it is true, that slaves often get trained to a Masters desire, like it was the case with mine, they are still free humans and they conesentualy decided todo so.

 

A Slave, and generaly anyone in a BDSM relationship is free to walk away and terminate it, like any other relationship. (see the post about consentuality)

 

some mightv heard that its common to be punished for bad behaviour as a slave with "all kinds of nasty tools" , once again.

Thats consentual too ^^ either the Person is masochistic and actually enjoys the pain or agrees that its part of their relationship inorder to improve theirself, but at no circumstances someone is beeing beaten without consent in a proper bdsm relationship.

 

now, ofcourse Slave and Master isnt the only form of Relationship.

 

the individuals parttaking in bdsm activitys can also just be ordinary boy/girlfriend, who just like to use some Rope in their play from now and then.

 

Or one can simply be more Dominant then the other without titles.

 

also worth to mention are D/L relationships, but that might deserve its own Blog entry.

 

everyone is once again free to comment and ask questions.

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donttouchmethere

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First, thx for all your essays about BDSM and the nice twist that you talk about it from first-hand experiance!

 

You made me curious, what is a D/L relationship?

i guess i have DL (download) relationship with LL, but i fear thats not what you meant.

Also i guess D- L- sugars have nothing to do with it also...

 

tell meeee! ?

 

or D/Lg? 0.o

Leon0803

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Yep, your right on it with the last thing but you mostly shortn it to D/L since the other one would be DD/LG (Which just doubles shit unnecessarily)

 

but ill get that onto another post asap.

 

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