I found this photo and it just jumped out at me. Never saw anything like this before and was intrigued by it.

Hi 😜, is there a mod to abuse a sim while she sleeps with her buttocks in the air or elsewhere..? that would be fun. So I was thinking about a remote control to freeze sims and more various drugs to abuse the sims. Do you know if there is a project running?

Hi! I'm Scarlett, a 19 year old trans girl from South Australia. I'm pretty damn subby, and I'm attracted to all genders and everything in between. I don't have any partners or anything rn tho. My main kinks are latex, bimboification, cum stuff, getting degraded, also getting praised too, and I'm curious about piss stuff (mainly getting peed on. Not sure if I wanna consume it tho). I'm here to make some friends and expand my horizons in terms of kinks! Hope I can have a great time here! :3

Thanks. I am, too. She does it with me as a way of asserting her dominance. She bought it at a local sex shop, and she put it on me when we were about to leave for work. She said "Take this off, and I'll punish you". Funnily enough, no one cared. Well, it's true. My ex never did this with me. She did some BDSM stuff with me, but it was only "Tie her up, make her cum, done". What Kalyna does is SO much better, because she doesn't hesitate to use me, hurt me, rape me (not literally, but you get the idea), and more. I always wanted to be treated like a fuck slut, and now my partner is willing to do that. She's my mistress, and I'm her slave. Now, our relationship isn't just this. There's more to it, but when it comes to the sexual side, this is how it is. Of course, the collar is something that she makes me wear almost all day, but still.

I know the euphoria after a successful session only too well - but from the point of view of the dominant part. and yes - I am happy with you that you have obviously found the right partner. ... I never did the collar thing with my partner ... because no one would really notice that here in the German capital ... except those who go to the B anyway. except those who belong to the BDSM community anyway. ... Um - you sound like the submissive part who has finally found his dominant "wish list fulfiller". 🤣

Well, I guess I'll introduce myself. My real name is Ashley, and I'm a pure sub. I like being dominated by my girlfriend, Kalyna, in various ways, such as being bound, gagged, choked, whipped, electrocuted, subjected to orgasm torture, humiliated, and more. Kalyna and I haven't been together that long, but she and I understand each other. She has fully accepted being my mistress and she loves the role. She doesn't hesitate to make me do whatever she wants. From making me wear a collar to work and saying she would punish me if I removed it (we work at the same place, so she would know) to locking me in a cage in our playroom and treating me like a dog, she doesn't hold back. I wouldn't want it any other way. I love what she does to me.🖤🖤🖤

A master with 10 years of experience, lost his slave and am looking for a new one, I have a childish voice despite my age, and I don’t stand out with a dick, the main thing is the ability to act on the psyche of a partner in her dark desires. Discord White_fox#2227

Hello there, - Male, Caged' FLR 16years and ongoing to my beautiful wife/mistress/friend, NaturallySubmissive since young age, somepeople just know,without knowing from early doors, meaning i didnt know as a10year old what BDSM was, of course not, but around that time i started to practice solo bondage, not knowing really what i was doing, other than it felt good and right. this was also many years before such things as the internet, i have a strong willed mother, and sadly my cool relaxed dad has passed away, and like many people i keep this all a entire secrect from family and close friends, and for why, i still dont know, social conditioning of somekind. So why here, well i do love Skyrim modded, only had a pc for a year or so, before was a console lover. And while deep in Cinda Mine Braig asked "when was the first time you felt chains around your wrists" etc well mister Forsworn let me tell you' etc So hello from here, always love gaining further knowlege and advice from the BDSM world, hope everybody here is ok, peace love etc x

This speaks greatly to me haha~ Welcome amongst us BDSM LL-ers!

So while these clubs don't really seem very active, I figured I should atleast join and say hi since this club is relevant to my interests... I'm mainly into the domination and bondage-aspect of BDSM, kind of lukewarm on the whole sado-masochist part. I enjoy willing submission, not even the roleplay aspect of "oh, no, please don't" does it for me, honestly. Not involved in the wider community, outside online interactions. I have no need to seek outside partners and not really into exhibitionist stuff, so I guess I just don't feel a need to.

Hello! Well, everyone has their own degree of investment and even if it's only slight it's still respectable. This makes me realize I haven't introduced myself and I'll probably do it. Soon. At some point. One day. That's actually hilarious and happens fairly frequently I find, but it's great as some even discover a new side to them that they didn't know of before so it's like an unexpected win.

Oh why not. Hello, I dabbled in the scene for a little bit but never got fully absorbed. That said I know for sure I'm into BDSM and still do it with my partner from time to time. I once went to a munch for beginners. At this munch, there was a guy who took the initiative to invite all the newcomers to introduce themselves, let's call him "Buddy.". Buddy looks around the room to pick one of us out and by pure chance the first person he pointed to didn't know where he was, let's call him "Guy.". He stood up and introduced himself and explained how long he had been a humanist and is new to the area and would like to continue his life time of activism with us. Buddy sheepishly asks him what got him into bondage. Guy gets confused, he has no idea what it is and we all realize he's at the wrong event. So Buddy then has to explain what bondage is to this guy and he goes "Oh, no, I'm not into that lol". Buddy tells him he's welcome to stay if he's curious but Guy was already on his way out.

Oh, I can relate. I once forgot one of my favourite dildos at a boyfriend's place, myself. But that stuff is costly for the most part and some even grow attached to their tools, like me, how come you didn't come back for it? Like, the tools during my sessions are the ones, a different whip of any given category, for instance, feels just wrong when it's not the one that has been tormenting me for eversince I began using it.

Nah, was just a fucking idiot and forgot to grab it when I packed up shop. Haha!

Oof, how come you lost your stuff? A angry partner?

I don't know if you lot are still using this, but I'm kicking down the door to introduce myself here. Hey, I'm Z (f), I've been part of the kink scene since I was 17, so that makes me at least [REDACTED] years into this. I'm hyper dominant, and love a good physical toss. Bruises, bites, blood, knotted whipping, rope, and physical domination are my MO. I lost most of my good gear in my last relationship, so all I have right now is my silken rope, mores the pity, but sharp nails do a good job at leaving scars when you put force behind them, hah! Joined the club because I thought if one existed for BDSM, I'd at least take a taste of what they had, and here you all are.

Hi knots1353, Great handle you have there!

Hi Ali, Welcome to the club here. It's kind of quiet in here unfortunately, but new people with new questions, or just stories about themselves are certainly welcome!

Hi Aloualou, A couple things I'd suggest for someone very new to bdsm. One, explore as much as you can. As long as you feel safe. Even if you aren't sure you'll like it, why not try it just to be sure. You might find some new things you enjoy. The other thing is, ropes. Learn how to tie them properly. There are a lot of books on that subject, and I can tell you it's very valuable info to have. Have fun!

Hi all! I've been active in the kink scene for over 20 years, and been interested for much longer than that. I primarily identify as a top, with a strong emphasis towards rope and suspension.

Hi, I'm Ali. I'm very submissive, and bisexual.

This is a really really old thread with the second last post made all the way back in 2018, so you were in the right to think your post will never be seen. But you're in luck, because i was strolling by! Even your post was like, almost a month ago so you might not see my post either lol. That's an interesting question. As of now, there are no reliable studies that show we can recognize someone's dom/sub level just by looking at them. There can be few indicators in mannerisms and speech but they can never be taken as concrete, especially if you're dealing with a switcher. Some of the most sexually submissive people also happen to be some of the boldest and dominant in day to day life, the biggest examples i can use here (anecdotal of course) would be my girlfriend and mom. But then there are also people who are very meek and shy in general but are completely dominant and aggressive in the bed. You can never know for sure. Even the guesses will only ever be sub-par. Hope this helped, if you have any more questions related to BDSM and sex in general, you have but to ask. I may not be a complete expert but i do have competence and insight in these matters.

Hello everyone ! I assume this is an old forum and that my post is not likely to be seen...ever.. Anyway, i'd like to ask a societal/philosophical/whatever question : Can you recognize someone's sexual preference (sub or dom in that very case) by just looking at them ? I've read before what you were saying about switches and comportment in life being different than in bed (obvious to me, but "obvious" is relative). But as i know some tricks to recognize gay people just by looking at their behavior, i'd like to know if there could be an equivalence here. I know it doesn't work every times, but as i'm a bit shy, i find really important to read messages that can be said without speaking. Yours.

Hello, my name here is Aloualou, that means hello hello in portuguese, I'm a brazilian guy that loves BDSM and feet, and very shy practicant of BDSM, mostly because the things like that are expensive and me and my girlfriend dont work yet. Still we practice alot of foot worship and sometimes we try to do BDSM stuff. Hoping to learn more about it here. I'm open to suggestions on how to start this lifestyle and stuff, thanks.