yosecretsquirrel Posted June 3, 2013 Posted June 3, 2013 men are definitely from mars.....nasa even drew a giant penis there with its 2 rovers to mark their territory lol as for why I came to LL, its simple a friend of mine told me about a mod from here and i just sort of stayed. Personally I don't think it's any easier to get sex for us than it is for guys, in fact i think it might be harder for alot of us. Atleast for me it's quite nerve wracking to walk up to a guy and start talking, I'm usually too nervous to even look a guy in the eyes let alone start a full conversation that would lead to sex. Take heart! Most men would find your nervous behaviour alluring and feminine despite your forward intent. The one and only time a strange woman was direct enough to outright state her intent to me ended badly for both of us (no she wasn't a prostitute, just over confident and didn't handle rejection well). The art of seduction is a big part of the act for both parties, usually.
Emily Posted June 4, 2013 Posted June 4, 2013 Mind has no gender and ecstasy flow the same way. It's best shared like food. Please be Reptilian minded while we're here.
Diabolus Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 It comes down simply to escapism. These characters can do things that I can't, whether they're male or female or something else. Modding itself is a creative activity as well. It derives the same satisfaction that drawing, writing, and roleplay does. Those things are fun. Whether I'm a woman doesn't dictate simple fun in life. Also, I can't just have sex all the time with whoever I want. That would be unhealthy, physically and emotionally. A healthy relationship needs to exist for the sex to be good for you.
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 it's different for everyone, and it also depends on where they live. Also, trying to "run game" has never ever worked for me at all. I'd have a great chance of getting action if I walked up and simply smacked a girl's ass (It's not a slap in the face situation, like on TV). If I try to be smooth, or friendly, what I end up with is a friend . I know that sounds bad, but have you ever had a "friend" you wanted to f*** the s*** out of? Or even just a friend that you really liked, and would do just about anything for? Nothing sucks quite as bad as knowing that person will be just a friend, no matter what you do. And when it comes to location, I live in a city FULL of guys. Oh sure, women exist, but if they're not married (they are), they have a boyfriend, or they're dating more than 1 guy at the time. If I go to a bar, I'll see like 3 hot girls surrounded by like 8 guys, all jocking on her, so if you want to hook up with her, you'd better be prepared to fight them all, and win. Girls where I live have far too many options, and it goes to their head. Just one arguement, and they'll let you know that they can easily find someone else by the end of the night, and they're absolutely right. Girls here can't walk down the street without being hit on or asked out at least once. I haven't been laid in * years. Yeah, I know. A * where the time length is supposed to go, but consider that I used the word (years) as my measurement. I'm like, a virgin all over again, and this is coming from a guy who: 1) Has had his own townhouse since I was 15 (yes, 15) 2) Was a model (Believe it, or don't. Still true) 3) Has a nice ass, decked out convertible 4) Has a decent job 5) Knows how to treat a lady (I'm a major "hopeless romantic") 6) Is a certified chef (I've made candle light dinners at home , including breakfast in bed for my special someones) 7) Knows piano and guitar like the back of my hand (Serenade, ladies?) 8) Can sing (again...Serenade?) This may sound like bragging, but it's really just cold, hard fact. I have no reason to brag, remember? I'm permanantly single! The worst part is, I'M GIRL CRAZY! How depressing. I'm gonna marry my right hand! So ladies, no offense, but I'm having a HARD TIME seeing how it can really be so challenging. It's definately not a challenge for you where I am unfortunate enough to live. This song (warning: 15 second lag. What can I say, it's You Tube) describes me quite well. I know it's considered a "chick" song, but BM describes me with almost every word he says. I'll admit it, I love his music!
Thulas Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 This song (warning: 15 second lag. What can I say, it's You Tube) describes me quite well. I know it's considered a "chick" song, but BM describes me with almost every word he says. I'll admit it, I love his music! "Not available in Germany". Gotta love GEMA. And when it comes to location, I live in a city FULL of guys. Oh sure, women exist, but if they're not married (they are), they have a boyfriend, or they're dating more than 1 guy at the time. But it more sounds lika a location-related problem. And when someone is as crazy as you for women, moving might be worth a thought; but I quess you already did that. I'm like, a virgin all over again, and this is coming from a guy who: It's strange that mostly the talented and gifted ones seem to have this problem. I quess before these features counts there is one part of personality that has to be given first. On the other hand though you read the post of a love-cripped individual that has to trow up even when only hearing the words "love" and "relationship", so don't bother with my oppinion. It's definately not a challenge for you where I am unfortunate enough to live. Why don't we take all the hot girls and put them into your place? May I move to your town then?
Time Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 Strange thread, The OP seemed to be saying that he thought if he was a woman he wouldn't be here as he could get heaps of sex; the content here was a substitute for him. Then there's heaps of oh so clever sage like wisdom with respect to inter-gender observation - yawn. A few folks laughing, and a few fighting. Me, I get to have sex; and you know, I don't think it's all it's cracked up to be. It's a messy business if you think about it. And my partner will insist on talking to me - and expecting a bloody response - whilst we do it; I've never enjoyed that part of it. What I like are aesthetics, eroticism, fetishes, taboo and role-play... all that kind of thing. So what I'm saying I guess is that it's all in the eye and in the mind. Your shit or your junk, and the mechanics of said giblets are clearly secondary. Whilst playing Skyrim this weekend, watching the humping wasn't so fantastic, but the expectation of it was. So the physical sex part is a little dull I would say.
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 Strange thread, The OP seemed to be saying that he thought if he was a woman he wouldn't be here as he could get heaps of sex; the content here was a substitute for him. Then there's heaps of oh so clever sage like wisdom with respect to inter-gender observation - yawn. A few folks laughing, and a few fighting. Me, I get to have sex; and you know, I don't think it's all it's cracked up to be. It's a messy business if you think about it. And my partner will insist on talking to me - and expecting a bloody response - whilst we do it; I've never enjoyed that part of it. What I like are aesthetics, eroticism, fetishes, taboo and role-play... all that kind of thing. So what I'm saying I guess is that it's all in the eye and in the mind. Your shit or your junk, and the mechanics of said giblets are clearly secondary. Whilst playing Skyrim this weekend, watching the humping wasn't so fantastic, but the expectation of it was. So the physical sex part is a little dull I would say. Especially after 8 hours in a row. That's the last "experience" I had. lol
Ailsa Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 @ AwfulArchdemon - if I was 30 years younger I would seriously consider moving to your part of the world
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 @ AwfulArchdemon - if I was 30 years younger I would seriously consider moving to your part of the world 30 years younger? Didn't you read my post? FULL OF GUYS! You'd do just fine in this place. Careful though...all of us fight a lot. Otherwise, we'd never get any. btw-Would you believe I was engaged? I was thiiiiiiiis close to avoiding this huge drought. Yeah, you'd do just fine here. Every woman I see has a man, no matter what type of person she is, or what she looks like. I gotta move.
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 This song (warning: 15 second lag. What can I say, it's You Tube) describes me quite well. I know it's considered a "chick" song, but BM describes me with almost every word he says. I'll admit it, I love his music! On 10 Jun 2013-02:16 AM Thulas said some shit like:"Not available in Germany". Gotta love GEMA. Try this one.
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8tEcMjV_zE (recommended for American Idol followrs) https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=WXaXKS7kofM He's that dude.
Guest airdance Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 I am a woman on LL. Why am I here? First I came to see the mods I heard about. I then found the forums. People like Cozy and Queen Bee made me feel like I was with family. They listened and made great comments and made me feel just a little less like a freak. My only regret is that these people are no longer active on the forum, and I miss them. I have developed friendships with several members here and I still enjoy the mods from the many talented people here. I have a job that can be quite stressful at times and this is my little cave where I can go to relax and be silly or intellectual if I wish and very few people judge me. It is true for the most part, right now because I am young and yes, I will say it, gorgeous, All I have to do is look a man in the eye and he is mine. 20 years from now, when I do the same thing 60% of them will run away and another 30% will think of me as a second choice. Trouble with most men looking for woman is that they ignore the obvious. Most men only look for the 8,9, and 10's which compose of only 5%. Now I know that you have to have standards so let us ignore the 1"s, that leaves 2,3,4,5,6,and 7's, these woman are lonely and would love to have some man even look their way. And they compose 93% of the women out there. So quit trying to win the lottery by betting on the long shots, go where the odds are in your favour. Here is something all men should know: If you take a 10 to bed, she will have no idea why she is there, and will expect you to do all the work. If you take a 3, or a 4 to bed, she will know exactly why she is there and she will rock your world. So gentlemen, quit trying to find a custom fit in an off the rack world.
M.BISON Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 I am a woman on LL. Why am I here? First I came to see the mods I heard about. I then found the forums. People like Cozy and Queen Bee made me feel like I was with family. They listened and made great comments and made me feel just a little less like a freak. My only regret is that these people are no longer active on the forum, and I miss them. I have developed friendships with several members here and I still enjoy the mods from the many talented people here. I have a job that can be quite stressful at times and this is my little cave where I can go to relax and be silly or intellectual if I wish and very few people judge me. It is true for the most part, right now because I am young and yes, I will say it, gorgeous, All I have to do is look a man in the eye and he is mine. 20 years from now, when I do the same thing 60% of them will run away and another 30% will think of me as a second choice. Trouble with most men looking for woman is that they ignore the obvious. Most men only look for the 8,9, and 10's which compose of only 5%. Now I know that you have to have standards so let us ignore the 1"s, that leaves 2,3,4,5,6,and 7's, these woman are lonely and would love to have some man even look their way. And they compose 93% of the women out there. So quit trying to win the lottery by betting on the long shots, go where the odds are in your favour. Here is something all men should know: If you take a 10 to bed, she will have no idea why she is there, and will expect you to do all the work. If you take a 3, or a 4 to bed, she will know exactly why she is there and she will rock your world. So gentlemen, quit trying to find a custom fit in an off the rack world. you could say the same for women but imo they are worse women always go for the badboys/egocentrics and get betrayed and hurt then they run back to them or find another badboy even worse they find a women beater which they end up marrying apparently nice guys are "too nice" so they like the above or they want to be kept treated mean there is saying "treat them mean keep them kean" or some BS like that i guess nice guys do finish last the truth is women dont know what they want until they are about 40 anyway i dont really like talking about this sort of stuff usually just ignore it but when someone says men like this, that blah blah just annoys me when your geander is just as worse at picking a partner
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 dark vergil you could say the same for women but imo they are worse women always go for the badboys/egocentrics and get betrayed and hurt then they run back to them or find another badboy even worse they find a women beater which they end up marrying apparently nice guys are "too nice" so they like the above or they want to be kept treated mean there is saying "treat them mean keep them kean" or some BS like that i guess nice guys do finish last the truth is women dont know what they want until they are about 40 anyway i dont really like talking about this sort of stuff usually just ignore it but when someone says men like this, that blah blah just annoys me when your geander is just as worse at picking a partner I once watched a guy I knew insult a girl to tears, and continued insulting her afterwards for fun. He was smiling and laughing the whole time. Next thing he did start rubbing...certain parts of her, and they had sex immediately. She was still crying when his advances started, but she had sex with him any damn way. They got married, and had a kid. They're divorced now. Hmm, I wonder why?
Ailsa Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 When younger women ask me what they should look for in a man my advice is very simple - Kindness and humour
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 When younger women ask me what they should look for in a man my advice is very simple - Kindness and humour Keep up the good work!
M.BISON Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 dark vergil you could say the same for women but imo they are worse women always go for the badboys/egocentrics and get betrayed and hurt then they run back to them or find another badboy even worse they find a women beater which they end up marrying apparently nice guys are "too nice" so they like the above or they want to be kept treated mean there is saying "treat them mean keep them kean" or some BS like that i guess nice guys do finish last the truth is women dont know what they want until they are about 40 anyway i dont really like talking about this sort of stuff usually just ignore it but when someone says men like this, that blah blah just annoys me when your geander is just as worse at picking a partner I once watched a guy I knew insult a girl to tears, and continued insulting her afterwards for fun. He was smiling and laughing the whole time. Next thing he did start rubbing...certain parts of her, and they had sex immediately. She was still crying when his advances started, but she had sex with him any damn way. They got married, and had a kid. They're divorced now. Hmm, I wonder why? i dont know if your taking the piss or being serious either thats messed up and females usually realise there with assholes when its too late and they have had children etc why didnt you say or do anything?
AwfulArchdemon Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 dark vergil you could say the same for women but imo they are worse women always go for the badboys/egocentrics and get betrayed and hurt then they run back to them or find another badboy even worse they find a women beater which they end up marrying apparently nice guys are "too nice" so they like the above or they want to be kept treated mean there is saying "treat them mean keep them kean" or some BS like that i guess nice guys do finish last the truth is women dont know what they want until they are about 40 anyway i dont really like talking about this sort of stuff usually just ignore it but when someone says men like this, that blah blah just annoys me when your geander is just as worse at picking a partner I once watched a guy I knew insult a girl to tears, and continued insulting her afterwards for fun. He was smiling and laughing the whole time. Next thing he did start rubbing...certain parts of her, and they had sex immediately. She was still crying when his advances started, but she had sex with him any damn way. They got married, and had a kid. They're divorced now. Hmm, I wonder why? i dont know if your taking the piss or being serious either thats messed up and females usually realise there with assholes when its too late and they have had children etc why didnt you say or do anything? I was expecting her to at least try to, I don't know...leave? He wasn't exactly keeping her there, and she wasn't making the slightest attempt to stop anything he said or did. Nothing. She's the type that wouldn't put up with shit like that, but this was different, some reason. It's almost like all of the insults were only turning her on...very strange, but I've wanted girls who have been mean to me, so I suppose it's not impossible. You could sort of tell she wasn't as bothered by it as she SHOULD have been. This one was a bit rediculous though. Shoulda said no outta basic principle and self-respect, dignity! No! Get away from me, or something. I'd have said something had it gotten any worse, but this was all in a matter of like 1 minute. He made fun of her because of someone she had previously dated, then he called her cheap and easy and shit because she hooked up with this guy (he hated this guy a lot), so she started crying. After like 2 more quick jokes at that guys and her expense, he started getting on her. She was very "responsive". Definately a willing participant. Tried a few times later on in life to get her ditch him, but she claimed she loved him. Absurd.
Guest airdance Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Let us face it girls most of our girlfriends will tell us how they are going to change their man. When we lock onto a man we are willing to overlook the grandest of faults because we believe in our hearts that he will change. For us, for love, or for the children. My girlfriend once complained to me "why is it I always end up with the jerks?" I said "it is simple, you want a man who has no respect for tradition, who is spontaneous, some one who knows how to party. You want to be entertained and swept off your feet. Right? She said "well of course I do not want to be with some nerd" "Well" I answered " most men who are the life of the party are also the biggest jerks, and that is why you always end up with a jerk" Same rule applies to women as it does to men, If you want to hang around the 8,9, and 10's of this world and you are not one of them you will get hurt. Most people insist on learning the hard way. BTW my friend did finally meet a nice guy she met him in a museum, and guess what he was a bit of a nerd, not much on socializing, and a very poor dresser, but the nicest guy you would ever want to meet
intlschizo Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Please give me your thoughts and dont be offended, im just a horny man who is confused by all kinds of irrational behaviour of women. I'm sure the stupid-ass questions you ask don't exactly help you with the ladies. Here's a start, though: dudes who refer to women as "females" by default are immediately put on my "ain't shit" list. Female gamers want to make the game more immersive too. Wow. It's like those bitches are real people!
M.BISON Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Let us face it girls most of our girlfriends will tell us how they are going to change their man. When we lock onto a man we are willing to overlook the grandest of faults because we believe in our hearts that he will change. For us, for love, or for the children. My girlfriend once complained to me "why is it I always end up with the jerks?" I said "it is simple, you want a man who has no respect for tradition, who is spontaneous, some one who knows how to party. You want to be entertained and swept off your feet. Right? She said "well of course I do not want to be with some nerd" "Well" I answered " most men who are the life of the party are also the biggest jerks, and that is why you always end up with a jerk" Same rule applies to women as it does to men, If you want to hang around the 8,9, and 10's of this world and you are not one of them you will get hurt. Most people insist on learning the hard way. BTW my friend did finally meet a nice guy she met him in a museum, and guess what he was a bit of a nerd, not much on socializing, and a very poor dresser, but the nicest guy you would ever want to meet what you just said just proves my point women always choose badboys who always hurt them at the end and the other stuff i said to me it sounds like youre saying nice guys are all nerds which they are not! most women have this idea in their head of being "normal" looking and doing "normal" things, females try to hard to "fit in" with everyone else thats where all this categorizing of people come(i think) jerks=normal i dont know why you think people who are nice, dont know how to party and cant entertain their partner are automatically classed as nerds so does that mean me and everyone else on LL are nerds because we're on some forum instead of partying(which im sure the members also do)
M.BISON Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 dark vergil you could say the same for women but imo they are worse women always go for the badboys/egocentrics and get betrayed and hurt then they run back to them or find another badboy even worse they find a women beater which they end up marrying apparently nice guys are "too nice" so they like the above or they want to be kept treated mean there is saying "treat them mean keep them kean" or some BS like that i guess nice guys do finish last the truth is women dont know what they want until they are about 40 anyway i dont really like talking about this sort of stuff usually just ignore it but when someone says men like this, that blah blah just annoys me when your geander is just as worse at picking a partner I once watched a guy I knew insult a girl to tears, and continued insulting her afterwards for fun. He was smiling and laughing the whole time. Next thing he did start rubbing...certain parts of her, and they had sex immediately. She was still crying when his advances started, but she had sex with him any damn way. They got married, and had a kid. They're divorced now. Hmm, I wonder why? i dont know if your taking the piss or being serious either thats messed up and females usually realise there with assholes when its too late and they have had children etc why didnt you say or do anything? I was expecting her to at least try to, I don't know...leave? He wasn't exactly keeping her there, and she wasn't making the slightest attempt to stop anything he said or did. Nothing. She's the type that wouldn't put up with shit like that, but this was different, some reason. It's almost like all of the insults were only turning her on...very strange, but I've wanted girls who have been mean to me, so I suppose it's not impossible. You could sort of tell she wasn't as bothered by it as she SHOULD have been. This one was a bit rediculous though. Shoulda said no outta basic principle and self-respect, dignity! No! Get away from me, or something. I'd have said something had it gotten any worse, but this was all in a matter of like 1 minute. He made fun of her because of someone she had previously dated, then he called her cheap and easy and shit because she hooked up with this guy (he hated this guy a lot), so she started crying. After like 2 more quick jokes at that guys and her expense, he started getting on her. She was very "responsive". Definately a willing participant. Tried a few times later on in life to get her ditch him, but she claimed she loved him. Absurd. thats just.... i dont know what to say? atleast you tried
Nikita Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Hmm... I don't know how many of the responses were women, a lot of them seemed to be men, but here's my 2 cents. When it comes to the sex mods (while there a plethora of other cool mods on this site) I personally use them to get some sort of fulfillment when it comes to some.... interesting sexual fantasies. Much of the bdsm, perverted roleplay, and bondage stuff isn't always easy to incorporate into your life, especially in a new and serious relationship. You don't want to go to fast with the person in getting them into that type of stuff and other times I can be just nervous about scaring them off. In my last relationship (not my current) my boyfriend had trouble switching from the loving type of man to the type of man who would be vicious and very (VERY) rough with me. So it was either or with him, something I couldn't deal with. Not to mention it slightly quells that urge for this type of sexual interaction (while not completely) which gives us kinky girls some times to recuperate from past sexual endeavors of the kind. But remember, this is my opinion, and it surely is not the general public opinion.
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