EllaNoir Presents - FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM - A BDSM Mod For The Sims 4

[zyp12581]

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[sissylover19]

Does the submissive or later down the line slave work in its own contained system or does other interactions not provided from the mod affect it too example does the sim get mad if you use mean interactions if he/she is the submissive?

[Vlahurg1]

On 9/25/2021 at 2:41 AM, theanarchistotaku said:

Does the submissive or later down the line slave work in its own contained system or does other interactions not provided from the mod affect it too example does the sim get mad if you use mean interactions if he/she is the submissive?

I've been testing it by having a Domme be mean to a sub. The sub got the aggravating conversation moodlet. The conversation descriptor also worsened to unpleasant then offensive, but the sub apologized (as he should!) and that calmed things down. The moodlet remained too  Perhaps one day EllaNoir can fold mean interactions into her wonderful mod so a being mean to a sub improves the relationship but the other way round worsens it. I haven't a clue if that's even possible though. or if it's of interest to EllaNoir.

[Kashked]

10 hours ago, Vlahurg1 said:

I've been testing it by having a Domme be mean to a sub. The sub got the aggravating conversation moodlet. The conversation descriptor also worsened to unpleasant then offensive, but the sub apologized (as he should!) and that calmed things down. The moodlet remained too  Perhaps one day EllaNoir can fold mean interactions into her wonderful mod so a being mean to a sub improves the relationship but the other way round worsens it. I haven't a clue if that's even possible though. or if it's of interest to EllaNoir.

 

I interpret it as the included "mean" interactions under the Flirtyfetishes sub-menu are part of the consentual agreement while the normal mean interactions would fall outside that, and I like it that way.

 

BDSM isn't the same as abuse and while humiliation is a perfectly valid part of BDSM, gameplay-wise, I think it's better if the two are kept seperate. People in D/s relationships still argue or are assholes to eachother and get hurt/sad afterwards, just like everyone else. However... maybe some of the vanilla mean interactions could be copied, with the same name and animation, and allow you to trigger them from the Flirtyfetishes menu with romantic/friendly effects instead, so they can be used as a part of D/s play? That would be kind of cool.

[Vlahurg1]

2 hours ago, Kashked said:

 

I interpret it as the included "mean" interactions under the Flirtyfetishes sub-menu are part of the consentual agreement while the normal mean interactions would fall outside that, and I like it that way.

 

BDSM isn't the same as abuse and while humiliation is a perfectly valid part of BDSM, gameplay-wise, I think it's better if the two are kept seperate. People in D/s relationships still argue or are assholes to eachother and get hurt/sad afterwards, just like everyone else. However... maybe some of the vanilla mean interactions could be copied, with the same name and animation, and allow you to trigger them from the Flirtyfetishes menu with romantic/friendly effects instead, so they can be used as a part of D/s play? That would be kind of cool.

Yes. that's a better idea I think. Some of the regular mean interactions aren't really a good fit for building a D/s relationship for precisely the reasons you give, and I suspect doing it the way you suggest would be less complicated as well. It would definitely be fun if my vampire Domme could mock the mortality of her sub and both get a kick out of it though.

[EllaNoir]

On 9/22/2021 at 5:31 AM, Someone09179 said:

Hello, I was wondering if there will be a new update soon?

 

Hi! There will be soon, maybe in about 6 weeks, may sooner, maybe later! Working on a big update for Patreon, atm. 

[EllaNoir]

On 9/22/2021 at 6:39 PM, JoBunny said:

Heyy EllaNoir, Thank you for this MOD.  Been playing for hours lol 

But when my Sim became a Master... I think it broke the open sim's profle due the trait I guess. Just thought I let you know. ♥

 

Well I'm glad you are enjoying! Sorry it isn't working correctly! I will look into this. Thank you for letting me know. 

[EllaNoir]

On 9/24/2021 at 10:41 AM, theanarchistotaku said:

Does the submissive or later down the line slave work in its own contained system or does other interactions not provided from the mod affect it too example does the sim get mad if you use mean interactions if he/she is the submissive?

Hi, so as of now, once you reach Master/Mistress and slave, the mod ends. But don't worry, soon enough these traits will have their own relationship, moods, buffs, etc.!

[EllaNoir]

On 9/29/2021 at 12:42 AM, Vlahurg1 said:

I've been testing it by having a Domme be mean to a sub. The sub got the aggravating conversation moodlet. The conversation descriptor also worsened to unpleasant then offensive, but the sub apologized (as he should!) and that calmed things down. The moodlet remained too  Perhaps one day EllaNoir can fold mean interactions into her wonderful mod so a being mean to a sub improves the relationship but the other way round worsens it. I haven't a clue if that's even possible though. or if it's of interest to EllaNoir.

Hi, so I know it would be fun to have something of this degree, and I do plan on creating it! Just you wait ❤️

[Vlahurg1]

3 hours ago, EllaNoir said:

Hi, so I know it would be fun to have something of this degree, and I do plan on creating it! Just you wait ❤️

That is very exciting to hear EllaNoir. Kashked's suggestion further up the page might even make it relatively easy to do, although my coding ability is not good enough to say for sure. My vampire and her human thralls would be delighted if mock mortality and some other evil and dastardly/public enemy mean socials are eventually included too.

 

Anyhow, keep up the great work. Your mod has made my game a lot more fun and I'm very happy it exists.

[EllaNoir]

12 minutes ago, Vlahurg1 said:

That is very exciting to hear EllaNoir. Kashked's suggestion further up the page might even make it relatively easy to do, although my coding ability is not good enough to say for sure. My vampire and her human thralls would be delighted if mock mortality and some other evil and dastardly/public enemy mean socials are eventually included too.

 

Anyhow, keep up the great work. Your mod has made my game a lot more fun and I'm very happy it exists.

That is a great idea! That of course could be simply accomplished with some FlirtyFetishesBDSM existing socials with a name override. I could try to do that for you! 

[Dreamkillar]

On 9/18/2021 at 3:23 PM, Kashked said:

So, I've been enjoying this mod greatly, and I'd like to just give a small tip for anyone else using it. Get the "Kneel anywhere" mod!

 

https://mizoreyukii.tumblr.com/post/635826623340527616/kneel-anywhere-this-adds-an-interaction-to-the

 

You can pose the submissive, here my slightly altered version of Bella Goth, to sit by her Dominant's side while they do other things.

 

 

 

They can even talk from this position... This animation is from the "Submissive"-mod and suited the kneeling position perfectly.

 

 

 

Another thing you can do is use the bdsm roleplay animations. The problem with the kneeling is that they will get up after a while if you have autonomy on, but the WW-solo animations from the BDSM pack are very long, and if you have "End on climax" and the setting for no continuation outside preset order in your WW settings they will just loop since they don't have an continuation.

 

Bella is always there when Mortimer is writing. Let's just say she is his muse.

 

 

And after every finished book, they have a session.

 

 

 

I love the animations from this mod...

 

And as someone who is into this kind of stuff... Big thanks for the mod. The old submissive and Dominant traits I've been using earlier are decent, but this mod is on a whole other level.

 

 

Edit: Just one thing. If you aren't aware the "Superior" mood doesn't seem to give the same bonuses to training charisma as the regular confident, and it doesn't give the same abilities, like "Schoose with boss" and other Confident-specific interactions. Just wanted to mention it since it's the only issue I've had.

 

Did you use some other mods to produce those animations?

[Kashked]

31 minutes ago, Dreamkillar said:

 

Did you use some other mods to produce those animations?

 

The basic kneeling one I linked in my post, but the proper BDSM WW-animations are from here:

(don't forget to look through the links for the objects and download what you fancy, a lot of animations are tied to CC objects)

 

 

Lots of good stuff in there. Solo animations like the one above, including a bunch with props like cuffs and chains as well, as well as a fair amount of sex animations with a partner.

 

QuinSims also has a fair amount of WW animations that are BDSM-themed:

 

 

And also Zorak, mainly spanking ones, but also some tied to certain objects like pillories and such:

 

 

 

[Vlahurg1]

On 10/10/2021 at 7:16 AM, EllaNoir said:

That is a great idea! That of course could be simply accomplished with some FlirtyFetishesBDSM existing socials with a name override. I could try to do that for you! 

That's extremely kind of you EllaNoir but no pressure. I look forward to seeing it when you're ready.

[simhead666]

@EllaNoir  I think the latest patch may have broken your mod.  ?

[EllaNoir]

On 11/8/2021 at 1:27 PM, simhead666 said:

@EllaNoir  I think the latest patch may have broken your mod.  ?

Is it still not working for you?

[JennaMods]

love the animations

[abc250]

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[thatgirl1211]

Im really new to mods is there an updated version of this somewhere? im pretty sure i installed it correctly but after installing i got a message saying the file is corrupt and i cant launch my game. is there anyway to fix this ive deleted all mods

[ioawdfv]

14 hours ago, thatgirl1211 said:

Im really new to mods is there an updated version of this somewhere? im pretty sure i installed it correctly but after installing i got a message saying the file is corrupt and i cant launch my game. is there anyway to fix this ive deleted all mods

Since you said you are really new to mods, let me ask this question.

Did you follow this instructions?

On 5/22/2021 at 9:24 PM, EllaNoir said:

To Download:

 

·         Click “Download this File” in the upper righthand corner

·         Unzip/extract the archive file

·         Place .package file within mods folder

·         Make sure you have allowed mods in the Other Settings of The Sims 4

·         Replace FlirtyFetishes: BDSM with the updated version when it becomes available.

·         Enjoy!

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• Submitter
  EllaNoir
• Submitted
  05/23/2021
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[xreddesirex]

great mod thanks

but i have a question does anyone have the skill cheat i tried multiple options for the Dom/me skill buti got no results

[Ranshii]

Hello Ella I downloaded the mod, installed it as intended and I cannot make it show up in my game, even with sims that have full romance and friendship bars

[CloudyFish]

I'm having toubles with the mod. I think it's available to use but I can't see any texts.

[Anosaki]

So I already have an active save file I want to keep using, and you can't modify traits in CAS after starting the game. I want to use the CC to manually add the Domineering and Submissive traits to my Sims but I am having trouble. I've tried traits.equip_trait Trait_submissive
But that didn't work. Does anyone the proper, wording I guess for the trait to add it with the cheat?

 

[Anosaki]

On 2/4/2022 at 11:47 PM, Anosaki said:

So I already have an active save file I want to keep using, and you can't modify traits in CAS after starting the game. I want to use the CC to manually add the Domineering and Submissive traits to my Sims but I am having trouble. I've tried traits.equip_trait Trait_submissive
But that didn't work. Does anyone the proper, wording I guess for the trait to add it with the cheat?

 

NVM, that issue got solved. However, the traits aren't showing up at all in my game  I followed the download instructions. The mod is listed in the active mods when I launch the game. I dunno what is wrong  But in CAS there is no submissive or dominant traits. Unless, for some reason, I'd be required to start a new game for it to work.