Diary Of Mine for Paradise Halls

[ScumbagStevey]

Hello, I am having a couple issues using the Ostim integration settings of the mod. Before I start, I will mention I tested this with a very light mod setup, with only Diary of Mine, Sexlab, Ostim, Bathing in Skyrim - Renewed, and their requirements.

 

1. After sex scene ends using Ostim between player and slave, the slave becomes unresponsive. I can still talk to them and give them commands, however they dont respond or actually carry out any of the commands.

 

2. Issue with Bathing in Skyrim - Renewed; After sex scene ends using Ostim, I am unable to bathe anymore. It only happens with starting a Ostim scene through DoM. Starting a Ostim scene outside of DoM does not make the issue happen. Starting a Sexlab scene through DoM does not make the issue happen: I am still able to bathe.

[TrollAutokill]

4 hours ago, ScumbagStevey said:

Hello, I am having a couple issues using the Ostim integration settings of the mod. Before I start, I will mention I tested this with a very light mod setup, with only Diary of Mine, Sexlab, Ostim, Bathing in Skyrim - Renewed, and their requirements.

 

1. After sex scene ends using Ostim between player and slave, the slave becomes unresponsive. I can still talk to them and give them commands, however they dont respond or actually carry out any of the commands.

 

2. Issue with Bathing in Skyrim - Renewed; After sex scene ends using Ostim, I am unable to bathe anymore. It only happens with starting a Ostim scene through DoM. Starting a Ostim scene outside of DoM does not make the issue happen. Starting a Sexlab scene through DoM does not make the issue happen: I am still able to bathe.

Check their factions with More Informative Console. In particular look for DOM animating faction or Ostim Animating faction.

 

Also do they recover if you use the K reset key on them?

Edited February 13 by TrollAutokill

[noncorporeal]

Okay I've been looking for an answer for over 2 hours now, HOW DO I CLEAN MY CHARACTER. Shes at 100% dirty and there's no button, no command, no option, no mod, and no instructions on how to clean my character, I've been looking freaking everywhere. I'm not using any kind of bathing mod, and it seems like none of the ones listed have any sort of interaction with this mod, thus they still don't actually clean my character. There's probably some dumb option I missed scouring through this thread but I have yet to find it, what on earth am I missing?

[sickboy791]

2 hours ago, noncorporeal said:

Okay I've been looking for an answer for over 2 hours now, HOW DO I CLEAN MY CHARACTER. Shes at 100% dirty and there's no button, no command, no option, no mod, and no instructions on how to clean my character, I've been looking freaking everywhere. I'm not using any kind of bathing mod, and it seems like none of the ones listed have any sort of interaction with this mod, thus they still don't actually clean my character. There's probably some dumb option I missed scouring through this thread but I have yet to find it, what on earth am I missing?

i don´t use bathing mod either, i hate all of them..you can tell them to bath under wheel menu/ upkeeping / bath, then they kinda bath and be naked, so you have to tell them to put their clothes back on every goddamn time...i would suggest to leave them just dirty, i´m not shure , but in dom´s mcm menu you can set "dirty after 0 day´s" , don´t know if that  turns it off? 

 

when capturing new slave i have to set essential flag on new slave because a single hit with whip or slap instant kills them...and even then they going into bleedout state all the time is that how it´s supposed to be?

Edited February 13 by sickboy791

[Fraying9981]

1 hour ago, sickboy791 said:

when capturing new slave i have to set essential flag on new slave because a single hit with whip or slap instant kills them...and even then they going into bleedout state all the time is that how it´s supposed to be?

 

in my game, whip deals 1 dmg so it takes time to kill or get to bleedout

[sickboy791]

33 minutes ago, Fraying9981 said:

 

in my game, whip deals 1 dmg so it takes time to kill or get to bleedout

happens only with dom version 7.10.9

which version you´re on?

Edited February 13 by sickboy791

[Fraying9981]

5 minutes ago, sickboy791 said:

happens only with dom version 7.10.9

which version you´re on?

 

Diary Of Mine 7.11.7_SE_fomod

You probably need to update

[sickboy791]

12 minutes ago, Fraying9981 said:

You probably need to update

nah, i think i´ll quit.. it´s a hard decision, i will miss these features...i´m shure nobody will miss me i guess 🤣, nff has hotkeys as well..will see.i´m not play testing this mod any further👋

[Fraying9981]

3 minutes ago, sickboy791 said:

nah, i think i´ll quit.. it´s a hard decision, i will miss these features...i´m shure nobody will miss me i guess 🤣, nff has hotkeys as well..will see.i´m not play testing this mod any further👋

 

your choice

imo this is one of the best mods in all LL precisely because how stable and clean it is. I don't think I ever had a game breaking because of it, ever.

[sickboy791]

55 minutes ago, Fraying9981 said:

imo this is one of the best mods in all LL

and it is, it realy is, it´s the only reason i come back here.. but it anoys the me the hell off...why is dd equipment overwritten i don´t see a reason to do that...

i mean WHY?? what is it doing ? other than breaking things?

Spoiler

 

Edited February 13 by sickboy791

[ScumbagStevey]

7 hours ago, TrollAutokill said:

Check their factions with More Informative Console. In particular look for DOM animating faction or Ostim Animating faction.

 

Also do they recover if you use the K reset key on them?

 

I checked their factions after Ostim scene, and it seems they still have the faction DOM Animating: Rank 2. I don't see anything from the Ostim Animating faction. Resetting the actor with K does fix them, of course its just something id rather not have to do every time after a scene with them. Also resetting them changes the DOM Animating faction to Rank -1, which is what I assume its supposed to be.

[TrollAutokill]

8 hours ago, noncorporeal said:

Okay I've been looking for an answer for over 2 hours now, HOW DO I CLEAN MY CHARACTER. Shes at 100% dirty and there's no button, no command, no option, no mod, and no instructions on how to clean my character, I've been looking freaking everywhere. I'm not using any kind of bathing mod, and it seems like none of the ones listed have any sort of interaction with this mod, thus they still don't actually clean my character. There's probably some dumb option I missed scouring through this thread but I have yet to find it, what on earth am I missing?

If it's just the DOM dirty number, just don't care. It is not used.

 

If it is real sort overlays, I had the same problem, for me it was dirt and blood. But DOM doesn't apply any dirt overlay.

 

 

Edited February 13 by TrollAutokill

[TrollAutokill]

3 hours ago, sickboy791 said:

and it is, it realy is, it´s the only reason i come back here.. but it anoys the me the hell off...why is dd equipment overwritten i don´t see a reason to do that...

i mean WHY?? what is it doing ? other than breaking things?

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No DD equipment is overwritten by DOM. Your problem is you're using Vortex which can't deal with complex mods setup. Breaking things would imply much higher level hacking than what Vortex can report.

Edited February 13 by TrollAutokill

[JayRoz]

21 hours ago, TrollAutokill said:

Send them to have sex with an NPC.

So I actually did this a lot before asking about her kink and it seems that the kink in question didn't trigger because she also had another one called "doing it in a public place" which triggers first after every scene. My best guess at this point is that it is overriding the other one from being activated. After removing this kink via the json files the other one started working. Although I'm fairly sure it would have just worked if I stopped doing it in public places lol. 

Anyways I found a different issue. So...when I write a slave's json file, edit any value which has to do with their sexual/love training i.e. devotion/admiration/worship/vaginal/oral, then have them read their json file again, they become a virgin again. Like it would say they have 100 training like they used to but after 1 more scene all of the sexual values goes back to 0 and I get notifications about it being their first time etc. Guessing we just shouldn't try and edit those numbers? Idk.

[sickboy791]

36 minutes ago, TrollAutokill said:

No DD equipment is overwritten by DOM. Your problem is you're using Vortex which can't deal with complex mods setup. Breaking things would imply much higher level hacking than what Vortex can report.

i don´t understand what that has to do with me using vortex, mo, or freakin nmm, it´s a matter of fact that your mod adds these hkx files and jsons and in the end i have to decide wich one rules?

[McLovin3]

14 minutes ago, TrollAutokill said:

But DOM doesn't apply any dirt overlay.

 

I kept thinking for the longest time my WetFunction settings were somehow messing with dirt overlays and DoM wasn't applying to slaves because of it. And was trying to alter the settings in all kinds of ways for playthroughs hoping for better results. I guess I kept thinking some of the more texture detailed nude skins from my synthebd was dirt.

 

So I guess I should post my probably obvious findings for discussion.

 

1. No non-unique NPCs are generating names when enslaved, they are staying as bandit, forsworn etc (This was with PAH Names checked in the fomod, haven't tried without)

Should there be a name generating button in the slave MCM?

Should I go back to that surname combination idea from last summer with Kinky and Quirky Names?

I was struggling trying to get back into making a json combination list out of that. Sites trying to help with that were freemium-like and when I was trying it felt to me like the list on Kinky and Quirky names were going to get stale quickly unless someone has a better site of a list of surnames, whether it's a kinky surname list or a lore friendly list of Elder Scroll surnames.

 

2. Hostility problems against the player.

I know this was brought up a bit before with bandit hostility. And I remember encountering it during the Alt Start DoM player initialization phase testing.

But my last playthrough and previous quick tests had hostility of hostile NPCs toward the player.

Yet trying a playthrough a few hours in and I suddenly lost all hostility. I tried rolling back to older saves and either loading from newer saves is "transferring" it over, or a hard reset of skyrim suddenly broke hostility for that playthrough regardless on how old it was.

Is there a way I can tell what this faction setting is on the player and where to see it?

Maybe I can watch and see when it's applied to my character for future attempts

Can I remove said faction with a remove faction command on the player, or will it break DoM?

[TrollAutokill]

3 hours ago, sickboy791 said:

i don´t understand what that has to do with me using vortex, mo, or freakin nmm, it´s a matter of fact that your mod adds these hkx files and jsons and in the end i have to decide wich one rules?

Vortex doesn't give you any meaningful information besides mod X is overwriting mod Y files. There are so many ways to overwrite Skyrim and this is the least prone to giving problems. Most problematic overwritings are happening in plugins and are invisible to Vortex logic.

 

DOM is actually ADDING missing hkx files and modifying JSON files for a few OAR DD animations. This is not linked to equipping DD items in any way.

 

Vortex is not telling you if DOM is interfering with equipping DD items and it doesn't know if it has to do with the standard DD items and how they are applied. If you were not using Vortex but using a more advanced mod manager you'll maybe be able to see it. But in this case you're just assuming something without real proof.

Edited February 13 by TrollAutokill

[TrollAutokill]

4 hours ago, McLovin3 said:

 

I kept thinking for the longest time my WetFunction settings were somehow messing with dirt overlays and DoM wasn't applying to slaves because of it. And was trying to alter the settings in all kinds of ways for playthroughs hoping for better results. I guess I kept thinking some of the more texture detailed nude skins from my synthebd was dirt.

 

So I guess I should post my probably obvious findings for discussion.

 

1. No non-unique NPCs are generating names when enslaved, they are staying as bandit, forsworn etc (This was with PAH Names checked in the fomod, haven't tried without)

Should there be a name generating button in the slave MCM?

Should I go back to that surname combination idea from last summer with Kinky and Quirky Names?

I was struggling trying to get back into making a json combination list out of that. Sites trying to help with that were freemium-like and when I was trying it felt to me like the list on Kinky and Quirky names were going to get stale quickly unless someone has a better site of a list of surnames, whether it's a kinky surname list or a lore friendly list of Elder Scroll surnames.

DOM supports RealNames mod. Otherwise there are DOM files for most race females. But up to 7.11 it had a bug failing to read PAH names for every race and gender.

 

You should still be able to change names from the MCM list. Otherwise something else is going on.

 

4 hours ago, McLovin3 said:

2. Hostility problems against the player.

I know this was brought up a bit before with bandit hostility. And I remember encountering it during the Alt Start DoM player initialization phase testing.

But my last playthrough and previous quick tests had hostility of hostile NPCs toward the player.

Yet trying a playthrough a few hours in and I suddenly lost all hostility. I tried rolling back to older saves and either loading from newer saves is "transferring" it over, or a hard reset of skyrim suddenly broke hostility for that playthrough regardless on how old it was.

Is there a way I can tell what this faction setting is on the player and where to see it?

Maybe I can watch and see when it's applied to my character for future attempts

Can I remove said faction with a remove faction command on the player, or will it break DoM?

You can always remove factions from the console yes.

 

Usually it's not the player faction. But check with the console "getfactionrank BanditFaction".

 

Both for the player and the friendly bandits.

 

The real culprit is often the actor "aggression" base value was changed to something friendly. You don't see it immediately because if another nearby bandit is aggressive they will run to help their faction friends. Once every bandit has low aggression it feels like they are friendly.

 

Use the console to check the actor value with "getav aggression". The bandit faction is not registered as enemy to the player, so aggressive bandits are only being driven by their aggression setting.

 

 

Edited February 13 by TrollAutokill

[TrollAutokill]

3 hours ago, JayRoz said:

So I actually did this a lot before asking about her kink and it seems that the kink in question didn't trigger because she also had another one called "doing it in a public place" which triggers first after every scene. My best guess at this point is that it is overriding the other one from being activated. After removing this kink via the json files the other one started working. Although I'm fairly sure it would have just worked if I stopped doing it in public places lol. 

Kinks should not be exclusive. I will check.

 

3 hours ago, JayRoz said:

Anyways I found a different issue. So...when I write a slave's json file, edit any value which has to do with their sexual/love training i.e. devotion/admiration/worship/vaginal/oral, then have them read their json file again, they become a virgin again. Like it would say they have 100 training like they used to but after 1 more scene all of the sexual values goes back to 0 and I get notifications about it being their first time etc. Guessing we just shouldn't try and edit those numbers? Idk.

It should definitely not be like this. I will try to reproduce.

 

Thanks for reporting.

[0x000f]

Hi!
When switched from v7.12.3 to v7.12.7 the new enslaved nonunique npc stopped to get the new names.
I have not the mod RealNames. how can I return back previous naming mechanic?

[JayRoz]

1 hour ago, 0x000f said:

Hi!
When switched from v7.12.3 to v7.12.7 the new enslaved nonunique npc stopped to get the new names.
I have not the mod RealNames. how can I return back previous naming mechanic?

Spoiler

Make sure your MCM setting is on. In the updated versions it is off sometimes

[roldoi1911]

I managed to get DoM working on latest beta, but have run into another bug. after some partner animations (seems at random) i can't control my character save for the camera. Can't even bring up menus and have to task manager to close the game. I have a controller and keyboard set up, as well as the smooth camera mod if its relevant.

[noncorporeal]

On 2/13/2026 at 9:06 AM, TrollAutokill said:

If it's just the DOM dirty number, just don't care. It is not used.

 

If it is real sort overlays, I had the same problem, for me it was dirt and blood. But DOM doesn't apply any dirt overlay.

 

 

Yea I'd like to apologize. For some very odd reason it was being caused by "Racial Skin Variance" on nexus, applying what was supposed to be a "special texture" to the player character, which unfortunately looked like shit. Turned that setting off, problem solved. Probably wouldn't have looked elsewhere if you hadn't pointed this out though, so thanks

[TrollAutokill]

13 hours ago, roldoi1911 said:

I managed to get DoM working on latest beta, but have run into another bug. after some partner animations (seems at random) i can't control my character save for the camera. Can't even bring up menus and have to task manager to close the game. I have a controller and keyboard set up, as well as the smooth camera mod if its relevant.

Make sure you start the animations in 3rd person mode. It could be that smooth camera mod is doing some weird stuff there. Another solution is to disable player's animations in the DOM MCM.

[ragnam]

LE Setup

I got PAHE HSH AYGAS and DOM working. but when I send a slave from PAHE to DOM I get a CTD or locked up screen.  Figured out that my PAHE slaves use that auto dress clones with randomly selected Luxury collection clothes and heels when I enslave them. It use to work fine in a previous DOM. I had to remove all the cloths selecting I Want more control in PAHE, then the transfer would work?
 
Was that changed in the latest version of DOM or do I need to change a setting in the DOM MCM?

Edited February 15 by ragnam