Arousal Based Match Maker [ABMM]

[squirrelsenpai]

Absolutely perfect mod except that i do not understand how something like this doesnt exist for Ostim. Plenty of arousal mechanics but not just people have sex or masturbate when theyre horny??? I NEEEEED this for ostim standalone because the sexlab to ostim mod really does not agree with this one. Pls halp.

[DoroLL]

Hi. Please add the setting to exclude the summoned creature. Before and after every battle, they rape PC.

[Dorabella]

1 hour ago, DoroLL said:

Hi. Please add the setting to exclude the summoned creature. Before and after every battle, they rape PC.

Disabling creatures in ABMM MCM should resolve the issue

[DoroLL]

2 hours ago, Dorabella said:

Disabling creatures in ABMM MCM should resolve the issue

Hi. I want to exclude the summoned creature "only".

Edited August 1 by DoroLL

[Dorabella]

1 hour ago, DoroLL said:

Hi. I want to exclude the summoned creature "only".

I doubt that's possible. If the mod identifies the creature, it will trigger even if it's summoned.This mod is supposed to display a message when it triggers.

I use this mod too, and whenever I summon a creature (Werewolf), I always get the activation message

 

5 hours ago, DoroLL said:

Before and after every battle, they rape PC.

If  your creature rape you, it's probably something else that's triggering it. (Aroused Creature and or similar) 

 

 

[ulterioranomaly]

Is there a way to make chances higher based on relationship rank as well, perhaps broken down by an addition/subtraction to the normal amount specific to each rank that you could change in the MCM? It's the only common sense factor that's missing and I simply lack to skill to add it.

[12665116]

😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

[Yinkle]

On 8/15/2026 at 11:29 PM, ulterioranomaly said:

Is there a way to make chances higher based on relationship rank as well, perhaps broken down by an addition/subtraction to the normal amount specific to each rank that you could change in the MCM? It's the only common sense factor that's missing and I simply lack to skill to add it.

I really don't want to add many more features to complicate things - I'll look into this, but no promises. It could be tricky given that ABMM regularly matches up more than 2 participants. That said, it could be an option when the player character is involved and ABMM is evaluating 1 other character.

[DoroLL]

Hi. Since there are so many male characters in Skyrim, there's a higher chance of gay sex. There has never been a group sex event involving one or more females and many males. Was this issue resolved in version 2.4.7?

[Yinkle]

38 minutes ago, DoroLL said:

Hi. Since there are so many male characters in Skyrim, there's a higher chance of gay sex. There has never been a group sex event involving one or more females and many males. Was this issue resolved in version 2.4.7?

Not something I've been focused on, as I didn't know it was an issue until now 🤣. If you look at the MCM settings regarding males, that should fix your issue.

[DoroLL]

1 hour ago, Yinkle said:

Not something I've been focused on, as I didn't know it was an issue until now 🤣. If you look at the MCM settings regarding males, that should fix your issue.

No, I tried every possible setting in 2.4.3 MCM. If same sex matches are disabled, only one male on one female matches occur. If multiple males are disabled, one male on one female or very rarely, one male on two females matches occur. Nothing else will occur.

 

PS. Please add in MCM to exclude race settings. Summoned creatures and no animation exists creatures, such as Mud Crabs, also need to excluded.

Edited Saturday at 03:33 PM by DoroLL

[Yinkle]

I just set "No multiple males" to false (Skip same Sex also false), chance to initiate sex to 90% and min arousal for NPC to 25%. Went to the Bee and Barb, and 2 scenes with 2+ males began immediately.

 

Regarding Mudcrabs, I don't get what you mean, bad machine translation?

Edited Saturday at 06:30 PM by Yinkle

[DoroLL]

3 hours ago, Yinkle said:

I just set "No multiple males" to false (Skip same Sex also false), chance to initiate sex to 90% and min arousal for NPC to 25%. Went to the Bee and Barb, and 2 scenes with 2+ males began immediately.

 

Regarding Mudcrabs, I don't get what you mean, bad machine translation?

Sorry, I'm really bad at english. That refers to creatures that do not have SLAL animations registered. As far as I know. The mud crab animation does not exist. As for creatures, just use Aroused Creatures, so don't worry about it.
Setting the NPC's arousal level to 25 causes sex to occur frequently. In my case, I have set it to 60 or higher. For example, “at least one member of the opposite sex” setting option would be ideal.

[Dorabella]

30 minutes ago, DoroLL said:

The mud crab animation does not exist.

 

 

[voxik47679]

No one having issues of CTDing when trying to open the More options in ABMM's mcm menu?

 

disabling/reenabling the mod in the mcm fixes the issue.

Edited Sunday at 04:05 AM by voxik47679

[Yinkle]

8 hours ago, voxik47679 said:

No one having issues of CTDing when trying to open the More options in ABMM's mcm menu?

 

disabling/reenabling the mod in the mcm fixes the issue.

Odd one, did you update from an earlier version? Is this with version 2.4.7?

[voxik47679]

4 hours ago, Yinkle said:

Odd one, did you update from an earlier version? Is this with version 2.4.7?

Updated from 2.4.3 and yes. it's with the most recent version.

[Yinkle]

10 minutes ago, voxik47679 said:

Updated from 2.4.3 and yes. it's with the most recent version.

Still working OK though, since you restarted the mod from the MCM?

I haven't changed the MCM at all in the latest version, so it's very odd. Still, glad you sorted it.

 

PS. Are you using Papyrus Message Box NG? Would be good to know the new message boxes are working for folk (player choice messages).

Obviously I've tested it on my setup, but things can vary wildly depending on your load order etc.

Edited Sunday at 04:00 PM by Yinkle

[voxik47679]

4 hours ago, Yinkle said:

Still working OK though, since you restarted the mod from the MCM?

I haven't changed the MCM at all in the latest version, so it's very odd. Still, glad you sorted it.

 

PS. Are you using Papyrus Message Box NG? Would be good to know the new message boxes are working for folk (player choice messages).

Obviously I've tested it on my setup, but things can vary wildly depending on your load order etc.

No i decided to skip that. Might be worthwhile to install, but i never had an issue with the default prompt box showing up.

[chevalierx]

2.4.7 =>idle grey  , i update from 2.2.6 to 2.4.7 , everything work  , but not idle .....

[Yinkle]

13 hours ago, chevalierx said:

2.4.7 =>idle grey  , i update from 2.2.6 to 2.4.7 , everything work  , but not idle .....

SLA Redux provides a few idles which this option uses. If you are using OSLAroused, the option is greyed out as it doesn't include idles.

I decided not to make an alternate option for this as you can easily set up aroused idles using OAR and conditions using the aroused faction.

 

You might want to try this mod if you don't want to do it yourself: OSL Aroused Conditional Horny Idles - OAR Conversion

Edited Monday at 11:48 AM by Yinkle

[DoroLL]

This is a nice update! The matchmaking process is clearly faster compared to the v2.4.3. Also, in v2.4.3, the PC was selected frequently, but the matchmaking rate for only NPCs has increased. All that's left is for the group sex rate to increased. Then it'll be perfect.

[DoroLL]

A minor bug. When the ABMM MCM is changed or when the Enable/Disable key is pressed. In some cases the matchmaking process may not run properly. Press the Enable/Disable key a few times or restart the game to restore properly process.