Grym.Aequitas Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Â Hey there: I discovered your mod a couple of days ago and completely fell in love with it! I loved the ideas and had been looking for something exactly like this for a long time! I downloaded it immediately and got to work on my Skyrim character, finding someone to marry to test it out. My female Nord character married Ingun Black-Briar from Riften (after trying to marry Hroki on another female character and finding out she wouldn't act like a spouse for some reason). Ingun acted exactly how a spouse in vanilla and Spouses Enhanced should and I was very happy. I noticed the "My love.." dialogue after setting a house for us to live in and decided to try out a thing or two. I chose the one where I say something like have your lips been missing mine and she replied all normal, but when the conversation closed and it came time for the animations to start, she turned her back on me and we both stood about a metre away from each other, not moving. The sounds still activated all fine and Ingun's lips moved with the sounds, but no animation otherwise. I thought maybe it was a bug with trying intimate stuff in the Temple of Mara instead of our home, so I went home and waited for her to get home (Breezehome in Whiterun, unmodded). I put the kids to bed and closed the door on Lydia, trying to get some privacy, activated the sex part (just something relaxing) and she agreed, all as normal like before. We stood on the bed (one of her feet were off, but oh well), the clothes came off and she turned her back on me, stood a metre away from me and did nothing. The sounds activated just like before and her lips moved in sync, but no body animations. I tried a couple more time, but nothing. The statistics still come up saying I've had sex with her and that she's my wife and we live in Breezehome etc. Another thing, I do have one follower: Serana. I told her to wait for me downstairs while Ingun and I did our thing, but I don't know if that would affect it. Â Can you help me? I have all the stuff required for Spouses Enhanced and Spouses Enhanced Serana. I also checked and double-checked the load order, re-installed everything carefully and painstakingly, and it still doesn't work. Oh, but the threesome options come up as well for Serana and Lydia no problem (didn't check anyone else). Â I'm sorry buddy, but the guy that works on this mod has stopped because his life's too hectic for it right now...hopefully he'll come back some day, or someone takes up the mantel to do his work..>< Â Â Â I'm having the exact same issue.Â
mexicanman Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Hello! I have messaged you but no reply. Raising Affection Level Feels More Like a Chore. It is a huge pain in the butt to raise the intimacy counter. Kissing doesn't increase it. I receive the little pop up that intimacy has filled with lovers comfort, after kissing, but does not add to the intimacy count. Ill wait 2 days before sex, yet it sometimes goes up, sometimes it doesn't. Feels more like a chance. I am NOT bashing your mod. I think it is amazing, i just cant figure out how to effectively raise the intimacy counter. I DO NOT want to cheat and just jack up to affection level.Should the plugin be high? Low? Top? Bottom? Boss still doesn't recognize.Â
Grimbold the unlovely Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 mexicanman, the author of this mod no longer supports it (real life distractions), so you will unlikely get an answer from him right now. Â Is your spouse a follower? If so, you should dismiss her or him before entering the spousal home. Your entry will then trigger an "entry event" that will help to raise the intimacy count. If you enter the house with the spouse as a follower, the mod will not recognize an entry event. You also need to be patient. The mod was designed to raise intimacy slowly--by seven day intervals.
mexicanman Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 mexicanman, the author of this mod no longer supports it (real life distractions), so you will unlikely get an answer from him right now. Â Is your spouse a follower? If so, you should dismiss her or him before entering the spousal home. Your entry will then trigger an "entry event" that will help to raise the intimacy count. If you enter the house with the spouse as a follower, the mod will not recognize an entry event. You also need to be patient. The mod was designed to raise intimacy slowly--by seven day intervals. Â No it is camilla valerious. I come home at night after quest. She doesn't do anything just walks around. Then i go to her and initiate the sex. It happens and sometimes the counter goes up and sometimes it doesn't.
Morniee Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Hum.... please make this compatible with interesting npc's And Vilja. Dunno, maybe a Hack or something. For some reason the My love speech option does not appear for Interesting npc's marriage despite the fact that the mod recognizes the spouse. Thanks.Â
metallicinsect Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 It seems that this excellent mod isn't yet compatible with custom-voice NPCs (minus Serana). Too bad! I, too, use Interesting NPCs, and wish the mods would play nicely. As it is, the "My love..." dialogue just doesn't show up.  I imagine it's the same with Vilja.  Creating tweaked, voiced dialogue for NPCs with custom voices sounds like it would be a nightmare, and close to impossible in many cases. (Permissions, rights and all that. Perfectly understandable if someone doesn't want their voice files edited for inclusion in a mod with sexual content.) BUT, if anyone knows how to go about including a non-voiced dialogue *option* for custom-voiced npcs, there are a good number of us who would sure be grateful.Â
Forbidden Productions Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Why mine wife affection level on increase? How it increase?Â
germanicus Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Why mine wife affection level on increase? How it increase?  You have to romance/sex your spouse often: two times at least for a day. Also, be aware that progress for 1 level is stretched on a period of one week. Bu, if you want to "cheat" you can move slider up to level 4 in MCM menu.
Erenlor Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Can someone tell me if this mod modifies RelationshipMarriageFIN?
Taven Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 It seems that this excellent mod isn't yet compatible with custom-voice NPCs (minus Serana). Too bad! I, too, use Interesting NPCs, and wish the mods would play nicely. As it is, the "My love..." dialogue just doesn't show up.  I imagine it's the same with Vilja.  Creating tweaked, voiced dialogue for NPCs with custom voices sounds like it would be a nightmare, and close to impossible in many cases. (Permissions, rights and all that. Perfectly understandable if someone doesn't want their voice files edited for inclusion in a mod with sexual content.) BUT, if anyone knows how to go about including a non-voiced dialogue *option* for custom-voiced npcs, there are a good number of us who would sure be grateful.  I use Interesting Npcs as well, and this would be a great idea, like giving npcs that don't have 'these' dialogues a silent voice....damn I wish I suggested this before this mod maker went kapoot. ><
79805towin Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 I recently came across: Â Actor Events Frameworkhttp://www.loverslab.com/files/file/242-actor-events-framework/ Â and was wondering if this would potentially be of help to this mod author? Take it or leave it, just thought it might help =)
Porcelyn Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 The master bed spell doesn't recognize the bed from dragon born. Is it not a two person bed?
Sidhe Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 From the moment I started playing Skyrim I longed for a mod like this.    I came here originally because I thought a site called "Loverslab" HAD to have something of actual LOVE in it someplace.   I have no problem with what people want to put in their personal game but for ME I wanted something somewhere that had a loving relationship with a husband with no violence or hurt or betrayal in it.. because that is really the game I want to play.   It was sad to me to find out that I was the kinky one for wanting that.  Obviously very much in the minority.  Thank you for this from the bottom of my straight female Skyrim player  heart.  I hope you one day come back or that someone worthy takes up your banner.  Â
VectorSigma Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Before I go any further, I'm going to head everyone off at the pass by saying I'm fully aware the author is dealing with real life stuff, and I wish him/her (select appropriate) the best. This is more directed to anyone in general who might have this issue. I've looked through the board, and unless I am blind, I didn't see anyone else mentioning/having this issue, so here goes.I have serana as my spouse, and if she goes into "heat" and I don't do anything for long enough, when I talk to her, all she says is either "where have you been?" or "looking for me?" without opening the dialog menu. This also happens if I dismiss her to the house and come back later. Is this a bug, and if so, is there a console command or something that will let me force the menu open, or is it supposed to happen since I haven't given the wife her lovin'? Â Thanks in advance to anyone who can help me out!
Pet1Pet Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 @VectorSigma,This is a feature as far as I can tell. To "remove" this state, just go to a vanilla bed with Serana in the same cell and sleep for 24 hrs (just to be sure to trigger the event). A SexLab scene will got triggered, and once done you can access Serana's normal dialogues again.@Porcelyn,The mod only recognizes normal / vanilla bed. I have never tried aiming for a Dragonborn bed before...I can try and report back later. Note that the hit box for bed is rather small, try aim for the dead center and cast the spell again. Also note that if it is a modded Dragonborn bed...(some modders use furniture resource objects and add an activation point to fake a bed object...Enhanced Spouse will not be able to recognize those beds).Hope it helps.
Pet1Pet Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 TDG,  Not good at saying "good bye" and I would rather be thankful than being another user who screamed "no! please come back I miss you(r mod). Wishing you the best in all future endeavours.  Have fun.
Grimbold the unlovely Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 @Porcelyn,  The mod only recognizes normal / vanilla bed. I have never tried aiming for a Dragonborn bed before...I can try and report back later. Note that the hit box for bed is rather small, try aim for the dead center and cast the spell again. Also note that if it is a modded Dragonborn bed...(some modders use furniture resource objects and add an activation point to fake a bed object...Enhanced Spouse will not be able to recognize those beds).  Hope it helps.  I think the Dragonborn bed referred to is the one in the traitor's house in Raven Rock that you are given as a quest reward. I too find that SE does not recognize it, presumably because TDG's attention was mainly focused on Skyrim itself, and even there his priority was home-maker spouses, not follower spouses (so the spouse was not likely to accompany you to Solstheim).  Solstheim is not a spouse-friendly place. A possible workaround might be the AFT campsite, which SE does recognize  , but that does not work in Solstheim either  --with one exception  . There is a small island, just SW of Raven Rock. For some reason, the AFT campsite does work there. It is the one nook in Solstheim (the only one I have found) where you can make AFT camp and make SE nookie  . That is where my character goes with his spouse when they want to enjoy some intimate "My love" time in inhospitable Solstheim .
VectorSigma Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 @VectorSigma,  This is a feature as far as I can tell. To "remove" this state, just go to a vanilla bed with Serana in the same cell and sleep for 24 hrs (just to be sure to trigger the event). A SexLab scene will got triggered, and once done you can access Serana's normal dialogues again.    Ah, yes! This did the trick! My thanks to you, Pet1Pet, may the nine shower you with blessings for your kindness! Â
Sensual Nautilus Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Hiyah, a hat-tip to our excellent modder. I have a question, to the mechanics of this mod that I would like cleared up. I'd like to get how to increase affection level clarified, As of now, I have given care to my spouse at least once every week, and I have reached days intimate 3 (3 weeks I presume), how many do I need to get out of affection 0, or is there a way that I should have been doing instead?
Fredfish Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 If I have it right you can raise your spouses affection one point per day by having sex (cuddles won't work). Having sex more than once a day wont raise affection any more. Â You rise a rank every 7 points.
Grimbold the unlovely Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 If I have it right you can raise your spouses affection one point per day by having sex (cuddles won't work). Having sex more than once a day wont raise affection any more.  You rise a rank every 7 points.  That is my understanding too, but I think (am 99.9% sure) that  you have to initiate the sex using the My Love dialogue. Another sexlab trigger (such as match maker, romance, or sexchat) doesn't count. It has to be a Spouses Enhanced event to count as SE sex. In my experience, SE events work most reliably when you enter the spousal home where the spouse already is. If you enter the home together (spouse as follower) events are harder to trigger. So dismiss her before you enter the house. Also make sure that the master bed and the spousal home are in the same place (easy to check via MCM and correct with Lovers Sanctuary).  O how we all miss the Dude Guy!
mexicanman Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Okay odd question, is the lovers sanc spell a method of moving a spouse to a custom home? I want to use a custom home, but i dont want to use the old mods that do that, seem too outdated.
Grimbold the unlovely Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 You cast Lover's Sanctuary on a bed. Problem is: it doesn't work on all beds. It works on vanilla spousal homes and Hearthfire DLC, but not on the Raven Rock home in Dragonborn. I doubt if it will work on any custom homes. It does not work on Babes Luxury Suite (BBLS) mod master bed.
Sensual Nautilus Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Ah I see, I will try to let my spouse initiate the event for a change then, I've been trying to raise the affection by initiating through the "My Love" dialogue, because most of the time, my toon's entire family is in educational excursions such as a crypt of an evil undead warlord (using AFT). BTW, will I only be able to raise the affection level in the master bed and nowhere else?
mexicanman Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 The spell does work on custom homes. Worked on Riverside lodge. But my home is your home mod is incompatible because I cant talk to spouse with that mod enabled. Someone really needs to add a spell that let's you chose where your spouse lives. Who ever is allowed to take up the mod with the authors permission. A big thing missing from a mod designed to make spouses better.
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