[WIP] [Sexlab] Marriage\Courtship Project

[alpalia]

but...the old version is compatible with sexlab ? just for use it until you release the new one ^^

 

 

my bad....see no download ^^

[dboura]

 

There is a working divorce mod on steam workshop. Can't remember the name and can't access the workshop atm for some reason but it's one that you have to click an underwater statue and it successfully resets the marriage quest. Used it to divorce Lydia and marry Serana once.

http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/2224

 

HEY! Super excited for this mod can't wait to see this starting getting progress done.

 

Also SexLab was released just recently you should go over to the thread and go start working with it so we can have this mod!

Still having problems getting SexLab functions to be recognised by the CK. Pretty new at this. I need to get my darn esp file to associate with Ashal's master file, which seems to be easier said than done. My scripts won't compile as CK keeps bringing up errors on how it dosen't recognise the sexlab keywords, I'm going to do some more research this weekend. Sorry about the delys, again I am learning as I go.

 

 

Actually was able to connect to the workshop. Here's the link

http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=11387

didn't use the bat file ones because I kept hearing about heartfire issues with them.

 

[vampirotw]

I posted some ideas on the topic "what's your dreams mod"

 

System of romance and courtship:

love to see the PC and the NPC chosen on a date at an inn, dinner or a drink, then rent a room or go to the house of one of them to spend the night making love, with hugs and kisses foreplay then sex
With the Ashal new framework why not an orgy with our trusted follower
would please me to have 2 or 3 level relationships, sex friends, boyfriends and then to marry

Improved systems of marriage:
the PC comes home and the spouse is going to meet him at the door. with kisses and hugs, and asks How was your journey and adventures, my love?
PC: I killed many dragons and monsters
Spouse: Incredible, you are the best!!

 

dialogues between husband and wife, just a couple of questions and their corresponding answer.
Example 1:
PC: How are the kids?
Spouse: splendid, unruly and troublemakers as usual
PC: like father like son LOL
Example 2: conditioned according to our behavior towards the spouse
PC: take a walk through the village? (Activates a system similar to UFO but more basic. Where the spouse maybe walk holding hands or hugging)
Spouse responce: yes or no depending if our last visit we meet the expectations of our partner.
Example 3: conditioned according to our behavior towards the spouse
PC: make love?

Spouse Option 1: I would love to, my love
Spouse Option 2: today not love, I'm in those days LOL
Spouse Option 3: why you want to do with me????, surely you fucked your follower, you asshole (jealousy, if the folower is the same sex as our spouse and the PC left the home for 3 weeks for example)

tasks to perform while at home to keep the spouse happy:
-Kisses
-Hugs
-Chat
-Walk
-Make love
-Cooking (I'd love an animation where they sit and share a meal)
minimum make 3 actions from the list to avoid being cheated by your spouse, conditioned only by a variable of time, if we are away from home for more than three weeks of game time, our wife look quench their sexual appetite with another person, if PC discover spouse in the act, then the PC can perform any of these options:
-Killing the wife or her lover, or both, with due CONSEQUENCES of it "prison".
-divorce the wife, leaving the house to her only if you have children

-Join the party YEAHHH

 

the incest mod proposed by queenbee and worked by kain added to this, and a pregnancy mod

 

and we have TESV SIMS, but i love to play that LOL

[threeddd33]

Is there any way to make the Matchmaker or Cupid effect semi-permanent so it affects the relationship feature?  And perhaps even make it a manditory scheduled event?  Once a night/week/month A seeks out B for some fun?  I've been doing it using CK, but I'm totally brain dead so I'm probably going to screw my game up. 

[MasterAaran]

 

There is a working divorce mod on steam workshop. Can't remember the name and can't access the workshop atm for some reason but it's one that you have to click an underwater statue and it successfully resets the marriage quest. Used it to divorce Lydia and marry Serana once.

http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/2224

 

HEY! Super excited for this mod can't wait to see this starting getting progress done.

 

Also SexLab was released just recently you should go over to the thread and go start working with it so we can have this mod!

Still having problems getting SexLab functions to be recognised by the CK. Pretty new at this. I need to get my darn esp file to associate with Ashal's master file, which seems to be easier said than done. My scripts won't compile as CK keeps bringing up errors on how it dosen't recognise the sexlab keywords, I'm going to do some more research this weekend. Sorry about the delys, again I am learning as I go.

 

 

I don't know if I can really help on this, as I'm not all that good at coding myself. I have begun to learn on my own though, as you are, and I'm taking on the task of creating an MCM for WaxenFigure's SexAddicts. I'm still working on it, have been swamped with RL work lately.

 

Anyway, I use Notepad++ for working with scripts, the creation kit wiki has a guide for setting it up, here: http://www.creationkit.com/Notepad%2B%2B_Setup

 

Just blundering about in the dark, but the problem sounds like it could be something having to do with not having the script set up right as Ashal describes here: http://www.loverslab.com/wiki/sexlab/api  ((You probably thought of that though... ))

 

 

Don't mind me, this may all be garbage...

 

Aaran

[staygold1031]

I'm super excited for this mod! hope you're making good progress on it!

[Asariphile]

Hey guys, school got the better of me last semester and I have been stressing the fuck out. I'll try and set aside some time to continue with this project soon. I am also working on a personal rags project a little too. Sorry for being AWOL so long. The Skyrim toolset was pissing me off, as I was having a ton of trouble getting even the most basic scripts to run. I'll see if I can amke it work here soon. Sorry about the delays and lack of info.

 

EDIT: I see there is a sexlab framework board now if someone wants to move this.

[chrno1920]

can i cheat on my husband?

Another Guys tempt me or try to rape me. i'm taken or seduced away from husband and i might be willing or unwilling.

since then He demand immoral relation. 

And If I was caught in the act of adultery by my husband. what will he going to do?

 

 

 

sorry. I'm from non english-speaking world.. so I'm not good at English.

 

 

I mean NTR. Don't ask me about NTR... i can't explain it.

 

 

 

[brankomilenko]

I think this could be one of the most wanted mods, the Mara thing always bore me, hence I'd marry only once, and seeing that she only opens a store and cook you a meal was so disappointing, tracking this for now, I wish you the best, good luck.

[Funkcikle]

best of luck with this, I'm sure we are all still eagerly awaiting something a bit more immersive and rewarding.

[jeffdraco]

Well I will just have to use a Jedi mind wipe (aka console commands) on my wife so she wont remember we are married right before I get this. I love the idea of a more immersive courting system. 

[easykill]

Looks cool, hope you keep plugging away at it.

 

I am polyamorous and cheating stuff just frustrates me, so I hope you will have mcm options to disable anything like that if you include it and just have multiple relationships/marriages be a non-issue. Actually it would be nice if this would be pretty configurable in general. Making marriage more than food and paychecks is good, but for me personally inconvenience outweighs immersion at a certain point, so being able to set it so my partners were higher or lower maintenance would be great.

 

Also lol I just realized that the marriage rites in Skyrim involve the afterlife as well. Depending on where you end up as the dragonborn, that sucks for them. Gotta guard Nocturnal's shrine for eternity now, without even getting the sweet perks in life.

[hmg06]

this... is... awesome!

[jeffdraco]

One idea for the spouse is some script that would allow them to go shopping every so often. Perhaps they can make a variable amount instead of $100 a day and use a set amount to actually go buy stuff like food and perhaps a cool gift like flowers or a sweet roll for the player. Another that would be great is if they could send you letters or give them to you that would send you on a radiant quest after they are wed. That way they seem to still have a connection to you and the game and not just a house warmer.

[vladko92]

Heh sounds really interesting, I can't wait to try it.

[alericofwindhelm]

I posted some ideas on the topic "what's your dreams mod"

 

System of romance and courtship:

 

love to see the PC and the NPC chosen on a date at an inn, dinner or a drink, then rent a room or go to the house of one of them to spend the night making love, with hugs and kisses foreplay then sex

With the Ashal new framework why not an orgy with our trusted follower

would please me to have 2 or 3 level relationships, sex friends, boyfriends and then to marry

Improved systems of marriage:

the PC comes home and the spouse is going to meet him at the door. with kisses and hugs, and asks How was your journey and adventures, my love?

PC: I killed many dragons and monsters

Spouse: Incredible, you are the best!!

 

dialogues between husband and wife, just a couple of questions and their corresponding answer.

Example 1:

PC: How are the kids?

Spouse: splendid, unruly and troublemakers as usual

PC: like father like son LOL

Example 2: conditioned according to our behavior towards the spouse

PC: take a walk through the village? (Activates a system similar to UFO but more basic. Where the spouse maybe walk holding hands or hugging)

Spouse responce: yes or no depending if our last visit we meet the expectations of our partner.

Example 3: conditioned according to our behavior towards the spouse

PC: make love?

Spouse Option 1: I would love to, my love

Spouse Option 2: today not love, I'm in those days LOL

Spouse Option 3: why you want to do with me????, surely you fucked your follower, you asshole (jealousy, if the folower is the same sex as our spouse and the PC left the home for 3 weeks for example)

 

tasks to perform while at home to keep the spouse happy:

-Kisses

-Hugs

-Chat

-Walk

-Make love

-Cooking (I'd love an animation where they sit and share a meal)

minimum make 3 actions from the list to avoid being cheated by your spouse, conditioned only by a variable of time, if we are away from home for more than three weeks of game time, our wife look quench their sexual appetite with another person, if PC discover spouse in the act, then the PC can perform any of these options:

-Killing the wife or her lover, or both, with due CONSEQUENCES of it "prison".

-divorce the wife, leaving the house to her only if you have children

-Join the party YEAHHH

 

the incest mod proposed by queenbee and worked by kain added to this, and a pregnancy mod

 

and we have TESV SIMS, but i love to play that LOL

 

Those sound really cool.  Love the ideas, especially of just more generalized interaction between the player and spouse.

[LaEspada]

Added SexLab Index to Modder's Resources and Relevant Development Threads

[rylasasin]

Yeah I never got married in Skyrim. 

Partially because I'm a Sexual Liberationist and I'm against the institution of marriage as a whole. But...

Mostly because Skyrim's notion of "love" (if you could call it that) and marriage was so rushed, so artificial, and so plastic that it's actually immersion breaking.  In fact it's so shallow I coined the term "Supermarket Marriage" to describe it.

Hopefully this mod might change my opinion. At least in the latter sense. 

[Guest Jenova23]

It would be cool if you use existing vanilla voice content.

[aerynn]

Uhm what if the amulet system is not discarded completely but the amulet gets noticed in dialogue only if you reach a relationship rank of 3 (lover/courtship) adding the possibility to increase the relationship rank not only through "favor quests" but also through dates, gifts and sex? Once you get the "lover" rank NPCs would notice you're "looking for marriage" and they would propose you. It would be lore-friendly but way more "realistic".

[bavis]

THIS is the mod I have been waiting for since I first started playing and found out how crazy empty the whole marriage thing is.

 

This is the most needed mod ever.

 

One thing I would like to point out..  not sure if anybody has commented but it seems most mods that have any seduction and courtship in them are written with pretty much a male players viewpoint on things.   (Big shock, yeah I know..  I am a female player and run into that every day.)

 

Being female the idea of chasing guys around and asking for sex or a relationship is pretty alien.   The thing that I noticed is most immersion breaking in Skyrim is that here I am a juicy wench and NOBODY hits on me.   (I believe that guy in Riften jail at least got a bit smarmy but that was pretty much it.)    

It isn't how I experience the real world and Skyrim is very strangely devoid of male attention.     I guess what I am saying is that if you put courtship in your mod and want it to connect

with female players too that you can have an option available so that the woman player is the chaseEE not the chaseER.  

I'd like all these hairy nord dudes at least acting like they have some testosterone going for them sometimes.

Anyway this is not only the best idea ever.. it is WAAAAAAAAAY overdue in Skyrim.    

[Daycrist]

 

I think you and Redneck (Lovers Comfort) chap could make some wonderful magic with this.

 

Heck yeah!  Lovers comfort is awesome.

 

From what I've read Lover's comfort sounds great I just don't use it because it relies on the arousal mod and after playing FONV with Sexout arousal system I'm not sure I want to be delving and clearing out a dungeon and suddenly drop to my knees masturbating because I'm horny lol

[s.eden]

Interesting, will be tracking the progress.

[bavis]

If you make a marriage mod and want to put some of the more unpleasant aspects of marriage into it..   (Like cheating, jealousy, violence etc..)  Could you make it so that you can configure it and uncheck those things?

I don't particularly want to RP that stuff.. and the whole spouse might cheat aspect keeps me away from mods that might otherwise be interesting.      Really it seems that adding a LOT of "extra' features into mods ends up messing them up either with bugs or by putting in aspects I would rather avoid.   Seems like people start out with a good idea and then keep adding more and more stuff till things get unmanagable.

 

  This mod has the potential of being the one and ONLY friendly and gentle marriage mod there is in existance and so sorely needed.   At least in my game.

 

Also be cautious about putting in conversations that rely on content or decisions we might not have.   Like the How are the Children thing..      I don't have Hearthfire and this would be

a rather annoying thing to encounter if I had no children.

[Quixote76]

Uhmm, is this even being developed still?