Succubus in real life?!

[Jazzman]

The term we used to use for the succubus type of girl was 'one of those'.  "Oh, she's one of those."  "She's one of those, stay away from her."  Basically they are female black holes that will suck the emotional life right out of you.  They are friendly and flirty and once they have you your life becomes total shit.  They are all you can think about.  It only takes one time for 'one of those' to burn you and then you get an automatic immunity to their type.  Hopefully you don't marry 'one of those' or god-fucking-forbid have a kid with them.

 

Over the years I have learned from talking with friends that the females who do the 'one of those' act have serious issues.  Dudes compare notes too.  Also there is a modern subspecies of 'one of those' who specialize in the friend zone.

 

One sure fire way to spot 'one of those' is she doesn't have any girlfriends, or she just has one.  All of her other friends are dudes.  This is because of their predatory nature and other females sensing it.  'One of those' are not at the apex of the social food chain.  They are not lions or hyenas, they are leopards who make their kills from stealth on solitary prey.  It is like they can sense when a man is vulnerable to their charms...and then they pounce.  There is no defense so men will have to be eaten at least once to understand.

Sorry, but the she that can prey on any man is on top of the food chain, like it or not. And as I've said before, she chooses her prey, not perhaps according to possible weaknesses of the prey like a predator but similar to a big game hunter. She marks her target, the trophy to come, the rest of the male 'herd' is irrelevant. All this, the prestage of the hunt, the check, takes just minutes, in a bar or elsewhere, sometimes just seconds. Then the prey gets isolated from the herd and fate takes its course.

[Kendo 2]

Yeah, that's what I said.

[panthercom]

The Surgeon General says:

 

Having sexual relations with predatory, mentally ill people can be dangerous to your health.

 

I worked with an old Army/Air Force vet, and he basically said "The crazy ones are for fucking

and dumping".

[Kendo 2]

Yeah, their favorite bed time story is 'Hump-me Dump-me'.

[Vacaliga]

The first story I ever heard to explain the succubus was a tale of a night/dream demon that would enter your mind when sleeping, and while her "true" from is something of a mix between an old woman, a zombie and a pile of moss, the state of which they enter are in the shape of your version of the godliest beautiful woman you could ever imagine, and while in your mind or dream if you will, she would feed on your soul by making you sin i.e fuck her silly in very naughty ways.

 

Signs of her visit can be found the next day, if you wake with a massive case of morning glory it meant one of these wicked wenches had tried to drain you doing the night, but even worse should you wake up flaccid with a white stain around your dick region, she had successfully drained you, and you must now atone for your sinful ways.

 

 

Edit: The real life version in my experience is more of a narcissistic control freak who will use her female charms in any way she has to achieve this state of control. Her being like this could like be one of two things, one she had suffered some kind of abuse in the past into almost slave-like state and now she have the need for revenge or two she was given too much attention and never evolved into a state self-reliance, picture the spoiled princess with a bad temper, so she will even crawl down to state of loving and kind to in the long term keep alive her delusion that the universe and everything in it revolves around her. The best defence against these lunatic lasses is to be on guard for someone being overly nice to you for no apparent reason, other than that, well, good luck. 

 

The fantasy version sounds like the lesser of the two evils in my honest opinion.       

 

[Guest]

LOL - I see some are focused on occult and mystical elements of Succubus, which is not bad and thanks for sharing those experiences and knowledge too, but my desire is to share (and I want to learn from) experiences about real life girls/women that has same influence on man and what they did/do to be free from their power.

 

I know, i'm young, 23 years old, but I have been in relationship with many girls. Unfortunately, there was one that almost ruined me emotionally and mentally. I still feel the consequences and the scars she left on my soul, still hurts.

"Love is the law, love under will."

I'm not occultist, I just know it. I belive the power that love brings into our lives, sometimes it is devastating. Sometimes it transforms our hearts empty.

You are a good man, you deserves someone who brings shine into your life, someone who makes you happy every single day, do not let anyone pull you down. Always keep your head up in all that you do, feel pleasure and pride for being you. 

​You are a sunshine, don't let anyone take it from you.   

 

​And yes, I will never be a incubus, because I'm not.  Even having to listen to jokes, I keep my head up    I do not care anymore.  Yes I have the courage to say that I'm a woman, a problem with that? I hope not   

 

[Wicked Loveth]

Don't worry. It'll pass. I know that sounds cliche and I know for certain that when you're still under those powers it seems like you will never get over it but it does pass. Personal experience talking here.

Also, we all fall heavily in love at least once -- that "greatest, only love" thing and, if it ends badly you might consider that person to be a succubus lol. It takes a loooong time to get them out of your system but eventually you do. So while the lingering after effects of the succubus seem like a permanent and constant drain, she'll sink her claws into someone else and you'll be free! ;p

 

 

[Chaos63]

The term we used to use for the succubus type of girl was 'one of those'.  "Oh, she's one of those."  "She's one of those, stay away from her."  Basically they are female black holes that will suck the emotional life right out of you.  They are friendly and flirty and once they have you your life becomes total shit.  They are all you can think about.  It only takes one time for 'one of those' to burn you and then you get an automatic immunity to their type.  Hopefully you don't marry 'one of those' or god-fucking-forbid have a kid with them.

 

Over the years I have learned from talking with friends that the females who do the 'one of those' act have serious issues.  Dudes compare notes too.  Also there is a modern subspecies of 'one of those' who specialize in the friend zone.

 

One sure fire way to spot 'one of those' is she doesn't have any girlfriends, or she just has one.  All of her other friends are dudes.  This is because of their predatory nature and other females sensing it.  'One of those' are not at the apex of the social food chain.  They are not lions or hyenas, they are leopards who make their kills from stealth on solitary prey.  It is like they can sense when a man is vulnerable to their charms...and then they pounce.  There is no defense so men will have to be eaten at least once to understand.

 

I know a guy who was engaged to one such devil, thankfully he came to his senses and backlfliped out of the deal before the hammer came down. He popped the question a little over half a year after they met(the stupidity). Basically he was "informed" his darling wife-to-be was messing around with one of her exes both before AND after he proposed, which turned out to be true. Naturally he dumped the bitch, then went over to the enabler's place drunk and broke his legs earning himself a criminal record plus a lawsuit which he lost. Could have ended a lot worse, I've seen people load shotguns over this kind of shit.

Part time sociopaths is what they fucking are.

 

[Kendo 2]

 

I know a guy who was engaged to one such devil, thankfully he came to his senses and backlfliped out of the deal before the hammer came down. He popped the question a little over half a year after they met(the stupidity). Basically he was "informed" his darling wife-to-be was messing around with one of her exes both before AND after he proposed, which turned out to be true. Naturally he dumped the bitch, then went over to the enabler's place drunk and broke his legs earning himself a criminal record plus a lawsuit which he lost. Could have ended a lot worse, I've seen people load shotguns over this kind of shit.

Part time sociopaths is what they fucking are.

 

Yeah, the succubus that got me gave me a real working over emotionally while I wasting my time on her.  But I was just a kid (19) and she was 27.  While we were together she had me so wrapped up in her mind game bullshit I couldn't think straight.  I don't remember the exact circumstances but I came to my senses and once that happened it was REALLY easy to forget about her.  But I was kid living the man's world and times were different then.  A few lap dances and shot of pussy at a Vietnamese strip joint cured whatever hold she had on me.

 

I did see her a few years later at a dance club.  She looked different but it was her.  I was on the dance floor and she smiled and tried to approach me.  So I grabbed my girlfriend and we started making out right there.  By the time we were done playing tongue hockey the succubus was gone.  My girlfriend wanted to know what was going on (why I molested her then and there) so I told her.  She was delighted and pounced on me so we out to my car and she gave me a blow job.  It was awesome.

[Guest]

Don't worry. It'll pass. I know that sounds cliche and I know for certain that when you're still under those powers it seems like you will never get over it but it does pass. Personal experience talking here.

 

Also, we all fall heavily in love at least once -- that "greatest, only love" thing and, if it ends badly you might consider that person to be a succubus lol. It takes a loooong time to get them out of your system but eventually you do. So while the lingering after effects of the succubus seem like a permanent and constant drain, she'll sink her claws into someone else and you'll be free! ;p

 

 

Maybe love just blind us. The real system is ouside here to know people, not only avatars. You never know who you will find behind, isn't? Maybe you can se a "man", could be a "woman" or "without a gender", couldn't?  

Elf Prince is better than it to know about. Darling, just in real, you are the best. 

 

Loveth, succubus are not real, just exist people with the pure evil and poor souls. 

Don't need to be a succubus to do it, so you know that's true, right.

 

 

[Wicked Loveth]

Lol, of course. But I like to think there's some truth behind fiction. Something inspired the story right? Could be an urban legend based off some guys experience with the proverbial Lady in Red.

[Guest]

 

Don't worry. It'll pass. I know that sounds cliche and I know for certain that when you're still under those powers it seems like you will never get over it but it does pass. Personal experience talking here.

 

Also, we all fall heavily in love at least once -- that "greatest, only love" thing and, if it ends badly you might consider that person to be a succubus lol. It takes a loooong time to get them out of your system but eventually you do. So while the lingering after effects of the succubus seem like a permanent and constant drain, she'll sink her claws into someone else and you'll be free! ;p

 

 

Maybe love just blind us. The real system is ouside here to know people, not only avatars. You never know who you will find behind, isn't? Maybe you can se a "man", could be a "woman" or "without a gender", couldn't?  

Elf Prince is better than it to know about. Darling, just in real, you are the best. 

 

Loveth, succubus are not real, just exist people with the pure evil and poor souls. 

Don't need to be a succubus to do it, so you know that's true, right.

 

Lol, of course. But I like to think there's some truth behind fiction. Something inspired the story right? Could be an urban legend based off some guys experience with the proverbial Lady in Red.

 

My father had a very good friend from his musician band who had a girlfriend that behaved like Succubus. Maaaan, she was daily drying his life force, painfully and slowly. Many times his friend called him in very early hours (mostly after midnight) because he needed to talk and it was always after he had a date with his gf. When he was advised to break up with her, he said he tried but he couldn't. He was "charmed/spelled" by her for two years. Then finally, she broke up with him. He was sad for several days and after that he said that he feels relived and free. So, Wicked and Lady, you're right when saying that Succubus's influence will stop (at least with some people) after she moves to another victim. But, unfortunately, consequences from those relationship remain....

[Jazzman]

Lol, of course. But I like to think there's some truth behind fiction. Something inspired the story right? Could be an urban legend based off some guys experience with the proverbial Lady in Red.

 

What do we find if we dig deep enough into the mystery of the demonized? Probably just a normal person with skills and/or gifts that might offend others, less skilled, less gifted. Envy is a passion with an often devastating effect. Whatever, here only people with a really bad social behavior play a role in the demolition of their respective (ex-)partners, both mentally and physically.

[Salvatore]

Thats the secret. Burn not only the bridges to her/ him. Burn the bridges in yourself.

This... reading this actually makes me feel somewhat better about my life.

Thanks.

[Yotix]

Succubi become Incubi.

 

(Succubus = someone that lies under)

(Incubus = someone holding something)

 

In the folklore they are the two faces of a demon that need to reproduce him/herself.

 

The late tradition made them more "sexually oriented", having the succubus to have easy sexual behavior just to catch the semen of a fascinated male, to then turn in the incubus form that will become extremely aggressive and plant the hosted seed in a female to have its own newborn.

In some languages, variant of the word "incubus" mean "nightmare".

In many languages variants of the work "succubus" mean nymphomaniac.

 

Succubi according to my high school teacher (and Wikipedia) are demons in female form who "lie beneath" sleeping men, i.e. cause males to masturbate.

Incubi are demons in male form who "lie upon" sleeping females, i.e. cause females to masturbate.

 

(Interestingly it's the same word stem as 'incubation' in biology and medicine).

 

... so I guess both come from times where people were obsessed with not allowing masturbation. Today's view of the succubus as an incredibly attractive demon is a modern variation, apparently people back then had a strong fear of being made to "sin" by demons, so they were described as frightening and demonic.

 

(Pretty harsh way of fucking up someone's sexuality, right? "No don't touch that, God hates people who do that, Satan sends demons that make it feel good though" ... makes me wish the rather libertine Ancient Greeks or the "this is my household, call me Master" Romans had stayed in the mainstream longer, but unfortunately those damn lust-hating Monotheists managed to maneuver themselves into a position of power (often enough through extortion, murder and intrigue) and got to replace the old mores.

[Queen Bee]

I wasn't going to comment on this, but I've seen this post several times now and I'm honestly confused. Are people talking about metaphorical succubi, as in "God, my ex-girlfriend was a real succubus!" Or are people talking about their belief in a literal demon from hell that seduces men and steals their souls?

[Guest]

I wasn't going to comment on this, but I've seen this post several times now and I'm honestly confused. Are people talking about metaphorical succubi, as in "God, my ex-girlfriend was a real succubus!" Or are people talking about their belief in a literal demon from hell that seduces men and steals their souls?

 

Here is your answer what I wanted to hear in posts..

 

http://www.loverslab.com/topic/58542-succubus-in-real-life/?p=1483219

 

[Queen Bee]

 

I wasn't going to comment on this, but I've seen this post several times now and I'm honestly confused. Are people talking about metaphorical succubi, as in "God, my ex-girlfriend was a real succubus!" Or are people talking about their belief in a literal demon from hell that seduces men and steals their souls?

 

Here is your answer what I wanted to hear in posts..

 

http://www.loverslab.com/topic/58542-succubus-in-real-life/?p=1483219

 

Just so people don't have to click back and forth, here's what you posted: 

 

LOL - I see some are focused on occult and mystical elements of Succubus, which is not bad and thanks for sharing those experiences and knowledge too, but my desire is to share (and I want to learn from) experiences about real life girls/women that has same influence on man and what they did/do to be free from their power.

 

I know, i'm young, 23 years old, but I have been in relationship with many girls. Unfortunately, there was one that almost ruined me emotionally and mentally. I still feel the consequences and the scars she left on my soul, still hurts.

 

I'm going to respond very, very carefully, because I don't want you to think I'm attacking you or brushing you off. While I do tend to rip into people now and then on this and other forums, it's typically because they are either propagating ignorance, or lashing out in blind hatred and encouraging the same from others. I don't feel like you're doing that here, so I'm inclined to give you the benefit of the doubt before launching into full on Warrior Queen Bee™. But I'm still going to take you seriously, which means I'm not necessarily going to treat you with kid gloves.

 

You said you still feel the scars of your breakup, and I get the impression you feel the mark on your soul will never fade. The logic train isn't hard to follow: someone hurt me, I didn't deserve it, ergo, the person who hurt me was wrong to do it. Why did they do that? Especially someone I cared about, someone I thought cared about me? Is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong with them? Were they secretly a vicious monster all along, preying on my open heart?

 

I've been there. I think we all have, some more than others. Heartbreak sucks, and it doesn't matter how old we are or what the situation is, it always takes time and effort to get over it and move on. Relationships change us, and no part of that changes us more than how they end. They are often one of our biggest tests in life. Can we accept the end of what we wanted to go on forever? How? What parts of that relationship should we keep? What parts should we discard? Will it make us better in the end?

 

I think that last question is the most important. It's not that relationships end, because they all do, but how we end them. You could stay with one person your entire life, into your golden years, and unless you die at the exact same time one of you is going to have to say goodbye to the other. And it's that moment, whether kneeling next to a deathbed or just crying on the phone, that reveals who we are deep inside.

 

I've had breakups that I'm deeply ashamed of, ones that brought out the worst in me and exposed a layer of my personality I detest. I've also had mutual breakups that were more about our continued happiness apart, rather than our combined misery together. It's funny how its usually the former that I clung to the longest, the ones that spun me into lasting depression. And in the wake of that I felt more than just sadness, I felt the burn of betrayal. "How dare they do this to me? How could they prey upon me like that?" And on the tail of that, I would think, "If they're the predator, does that make me the prey?"

 

And the answer to that question is a resounding NO.

 

I'm not going to make any assumptions about the woman you were seeing. Was she a good person? Bad? Did she break your heart accidentally, or was she trying to rip it out by the roots? I don't know. And actually, it doesn't even matter. What matters is what you're feeling now, and what you take with you into the future. Because whether she meant to or not, she hurt you, and that pain is going to leave its mark on you for the rest of your life. But friend, the most beautiful part of being human is you get to decide what shape that mark will be.

 

We all go through life being ground up by the same machine, making mistakes and finding success wherever we can. Some get more than their fair share, this much is true, but through all of it the only thing you can control is yourself. You can't make people love you, and you sure as hell can't make them stop hurting you, but you can decide what to do with that pain. I know it's hard to see when you feel like you're at your weakest, but this knowledge should make you feel powerful. You get to decide what you are. You get to decide what your battle scars look like. As a wise movie character once said, "You are who you choose to be".

 

You're better than prey. You're more powerful than predator. You're a human being, and no one, not even the most vile of heartbreakers, can take that away from you.

[Jazzman]

Mantra-like prayers (like "I'm not the prey, ey!" 10x daily) ain't the solution to the relationship problem at hand. And the problem is not the way in which a twosome parts ways which mostly hurts at least one of the two, the proverbial left behind, but the way we understand such a twosome. It is simply a fatal mistake to believe man would be monogamous per se, God-given, a pair of innocent swans or something that are together until death parts them. That's religious nonsense. Disagree and you'll learn it the hard way. True is, man would like to be monogamous, yes, often from the bottom of his heart... by practical reasons alone (oh, how difficult it is to find a new love). However, man ain't monogamous, just monogamish, that is, he always would if he only could, stay put to his spouse. But sometimes he can't anymore and when chance comes in the form of somebody else (that's the normal, for long kept secret case), he parts ways. Now there are some among us that have a looser understanding of a relationship than others from start and when these people are gifted in making love by their looks, sexual or communicative skills, that is their overall level of animal attraction in the 364-day mating season of man, they might not even think much about relation as a deeper feeling, a long-term investment of sorts based on love that inherits the risks to lose somebody, just as a need satisfaction in the here and now. They'd easily get bored by a partner that expects more, much more than just a temporary adventure on cloud nine, especially a partner that believes to possess what is to be undressed, one that counts on a bond. And because they can afford to be utterly consequent and thus leave on the fly at will (which offers the impression of a trophy hunt), both womanizer and man-eater take their partner by total surprise in paradise, thus leaving a confused heart that feels misused and betrayed behind for months. Unanswered, painful questions as to why and a bad feeling, an unhealthy hate-love mixture that often lasts for years, sometimes even for decades (depending on the level of love one once has felt). What to do? Take care of illusion, it always shares with confusion. And, by god, don't even think of your partner's heart, as usual won in a tricky, often exhausting competition with others that feel the same, as an eternal, unchallenged possession, you might find it fatal.

[Skippe]

hmm i myself got interested succubusses after playing succubus mods in skyrim and did internet search about them succubus love me blog and eric von roth pages about them gave me lot a think about at subject 

 

they called them spiritual lovers that are loving and caring in their deep nature. they are made more of energy which lines of body might be seen slightly or partially if you have spend sometime with them. they have emotions and have personality like us flirty, playfull , loving ,caring,romantic, sensual ,sexhungry ,insatiable ,naughty talkin , seductive excample all those side together. they are good lifelong companions and guides that love you and take care of you if they choose you by their own will.

 

that is just some basic info i found and i have same  opinion with them about succubusses after giving it tought  never tried summon one tought they did teach some simple methods to communucate with them but i didnt try them myself. i admit the tought of succubus visiting me and having conversation feels comfortable and would very much like to meet her.

 

well that are my toughts of subject

[OmegaDragon956]

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