Does she like me?

[Choppytehbear]

First off, I have never even been friends with a girl, so I have no idea about any cues she might be giving me, I am also not a very social person who has not had many friends. Anyway, this is the situation. I know she is 18. Whenever she sees me she high-fives me. She is a self admitted Tomboy, who likes videogames.

 

I have to go. I will finish this when I have time. 

 

Help?

[RitualClarity]

First off, I have never even been friends with a girl, so I have no idea about any cues she might be giving me, I am also not a very social person who has not had many friends. Anyway, this is the situation. I know she is 18. Whenever she sees me she high-fives me. She is a self admitted Tomboy, who likes videogames.

 

I have to go. I will finish this when I have time. 

 

Help?

 

Play lots of video games with her..

Forget the rest until she makes it obvious otherwise. .

[marcopolo95]

My english is not very good, sorry for this.


I'll tell a little about my story if he can help you. Because i think it's similar to mine.

I summarize, too long story.


I already lived this kind of situation with a girl when she was 22 and i was 20, i was like her best friend, but in the beginning i didn't thinking about love, because it was not love at the first sight.

We both had the same passion (manga, listening to the same music/artist, ect...) so we talked and laughed a lot together and sometime we outings.

After 6 month, little by little i fall in love with her, so i decided to confess to her...

But she said to me that she didn't know about her feelings, she don't know if it was love or friendship, because we were too much together and closer (friendzone is real [ ] ), so she said me "NO".

Yeah... we both had a bad time, we didn't talked each other while 3 month.

But after that she realised that i was missing her a lot... And she admitted to me that on the 5th month of our friendship (before i confess), she was already thinking about:- "What is my feeling about him, love or friendship ?".


We both forgive to each other and we became a couple

So yeah, 9-10 month for being a couple.

Now it's been 2 years that we are together.

 

Hope this will give you some ideas.
 

[Chaos63]

Men and women can't be friends.

[Guest MonsterFish]

She high fives you? Jeez, get a room will you

 

Disclaimer: None of the shit I spout is serious.

[Cynical Misanthrope]

It's impossible for us to answer that with so little information. But I say probably not. Guys and girls can high-five without want to fuck each other you know.

 

Also I admit, I have no knowledge about "Tomboys" more than that they are very "guy-ish" but does that also mean they are more straightforward?

If so, maybe she is the one that will make a move on you if she is interested.

 

But not by doing a high-five, that I can tell.

 

 

[Guest endgameaddiction]

This is another joke post thread. Not to be taken serious.

[Kaz Aanh]

Asking for relationship advices on the porn related forum

 

lels

[Captain Cobra]

Just Netflix and Chill lol.

[dickhad]

here is what you are going to do:

 

1 keep it cool

 

2 keep it cool (not joking)

 

3 stay in a safezone

 

4 have yourself looking fine around her

 

5 wingman could always help you know (make up a fake conversation)

 

thats all i know tho i hope you luck and like i said keep it cool

 

[RitualClarity]

here is what you are going to do:

 

1 keep it cool

 

2 keep it cool (not joking)

 

3 stay in a safezone

 

4 have yourself looking fine around her

 

5 wingman could always help you know (make up a fake conversation)

 

thats all i know tho i hope you luck and like i said keep it cool

 

You forgot about having a beautiful female fake interactions on how great he is..

LOL.

 

[Guest airdance]

just a quick question here.

  What if the guy is serious and not being a very social person asked the only people who are like family to him for help?

When did we all become so cynical that we must all assume he is a troll?

  And last but not least, is this site really a porn related site?

[Jazzman]

just a quick question here.

  What if the guy is serious and not being a very social person asked the only people who are like family to him for help?

When did we all become so cynical that we must all assume he is a troll?

  And last but not least, is this site really a porn related site?

 

Last in, first out.

Guess that depends on the own sexual experiences that serve as a rule. For those without any an image of the famous Lone Nipple in the Wasteland might as well be porn already.

Cynicism is caused by many things - unconscious courtship behavior of the same sex, grudge that reflects own failed attempts in the past, stuff like that.

Since the border between the two worlds of the real and the virtual is getting blurred, the guy might as well be serious, and then for being young. However, those who had their coming out before the dawn of the internet are not to be taken seriously in such a case.

[Guest airdance]

 

just a quick question here.

  What if the guy is serious and not being a very social person asked the only people who are like family to him for help?

When did we all become so cynical that we must all assume he is a troll?

  And last but not least, is this site really a porn related site?

 

Last in, first out.

Guess that depends on the own sexual experiences that serve as a rule. For those without any an image of the famous Lone Nipple in the Wasteland might as well be porn already.

Cynicism is caused by many things - unconscious courtship behavior of the same sex, grudge that reflects own failed attempts in the past, stuff like that.

Since the border between the two worlds of the real and the virtual is getting blurred, the guy might as well be serious, and then for being young. However, those who had their coming out before the dawn of the internet are not to be taken seriously in such a case.

 

Since English is not my first language, I think I may have "missed the boat" on your reply.  Did you use a translator program for your reply?

You have explained why people are cynical in general, but I have already know that and I think you are saying that as children of the internet we believe very little of what we read.

  I do thank you for trying to answer my questions.

[Jazzman]

Since English is not my first language, I think I may have "missed the boat" on your reply.  Did you use a translator program for your reply?

You have explained why people are cynical in general, but I have already know that and I think you are saying that as children of the internet we believe very little of what we read.

  I do thank you for trying to answer my questions.

You're welcome. No, I don't use a translation program, they are all crap anyway. The metaphor I've used, the 'Lone Nipple in the Wasteland', that's a reference to the 'Lone Wanderer', the protagonist in Fallout 3, dressed in skimpy armor.

Of course, I stick to generalizations when describing common behavior on the internet, simply because I don't know (and probably don't even wanna know) who's actually behind the avatar. And in fact only trolls show disbelief in whatever they see on the internet. That is the spark to the flame of trouble they love so much. Born in 1989 I'm six years older than the internet and thus no such 'child of the internet' as you describe people in a wonderful metaphor of yours, my 3-year old son is and probably anybody born after the mid-1990s for being born into the networked worlds of the real and the virtual.

 

Happy Easter! May the colorful eggs be with you!

[KrotGovnorot]

Just use matchmaker sex spell on her, works every time.

[Jazzman]

Just use matchmaker sex spell on her, works every time.

No, they won't-a. What? You think you're some kind of Jedi, waving your hand around like that, huh?

We're of the other tribe. Mind tricks don't work on us. Only cash. No cash, no service, no deal, babe!

A haw, haw, haw!

[Cynical Misanthrope]

 

Just use matchmaker sex spell on her, works every time.

No, they won't-a. What? You think you're some kind of Jedi, waving your hand around like that, huh?

We're of the other tribe. Mind tricks don't work on us. Only cash. No cash, no service, no deal, babe!

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Queen Bee]

First off, I have never even been friends with a girl, so I have no idea about any cues she might be giving me, I am also not a very social person who has not had many friends. Anyway, this is the situation. I know she is 18. Whenever she sees me she high-fives me. She is a self admitted Tomboy, who likes videogames.

 

I have to go. I will finish this when I have time. 

 

Help?

 

First of all, you need to sort out how you feel about her. Do you want to date her? Do you think it's worth giving it a try, even if it means she might reject you? Can you stay friends with her if she does? These are the important questions, and the only one who can answer them is you. It's risky, no doubt, but everyone risks something when they put themselves out there. This can be doubly so when it's a friend. But if you ask yourself these questions and the answers are yes, then you'll be better prepared for what comes next.

 

Where you go from here should be obvious, though many skip this crucial step: Tell her how you feel. I realize this might be hard for you - hell, it's hard for everyone, regardless of how well they handle social situations - but if you keep a secret crush to yourself while trying to maintain a friendship, it only serves to make you suffer and keeps her in the dark. Trust me, that way lies a poison that will eat your friendship alive. If you really think she's worth it, tell her so. Maybe she'll reject you, maybe she won't, but at least then you'll know and you can move on. And if she's any true friend at all, she'll stay by your side even if it doesn't work out between you.

 

On the other hand, if you decide your feelings for her (if any) aren't worth risking your friendship over, then they're probably not strong enough to keep a relationship going. Give it time. Maybe your feelings will grow stronger, or maybe they'll fade and you'll still care about her as a friend. Either way is fine, so long as you're honest with her once you make up your mind. You clearly think she's worthy of your friendship, and you can't have friendship without things like honesty and respect. Respect her feelings, but be honest about yours.

 

So to sum up my advice: Ask yourself how you feel, decide whether or not it's worth it, and prepare for the worst while hoping for the best. Good luck.

 

 

First off, I have never even been friends with a girl, so I have no idea about any cues she might be giving me, I am also not a very social person who has not had many friends. Anyway, this is the situation. I know she is 18. Whenever she sees me she high-fives me. She is a self admitted Tomboy, who likes videogames.

 

I have to go. I will finish this when I have time. 

 

Help?

 

Play lots of video games with her..

Forget the rest until she makes it obvious otherwise. .

 

 

This.

 

It's impossible for us to answer that with so little information. But I say probably not. Guys and girls can high-five without want to fuck each other you know.

 

Also I admit, I have no knowledge about "Tomboys" more than that they are very "guy-ish" but does that also mean they are more straightforward?

If so, maybe she is the one that will make a move on you if she is interested.

 

But not by doing a high-five, that I can tell.

 

Also this.

 

Men and women can't be friends.

 

I hear this all the time, yet I've never heard a good explanation as to why.

[Guest]

Party up with her for a session in Dank Ops III or whatever games you all play.

[Chaos63]

 

Men and women can't be friends.

 

I hear this all the time, yet I've never heard a good explanation as to why.

 

Personal experience. All it takes is one weak moment and bam we go from friendship to romance. I spent my fair share of time drunkenly sobbing at bars with my male friends, and yet it never led to a makeout session.

It's a sexuality thing, that's why gays have so many female friends.

[Jazzman]

 

 

Men and women can't be friends.

 

I hear this all the time, yet I've never heard a good explanation as to why.

 

 

Personal experience. All it takes is one weak moment and bam we go from friendship to romance. I spent my fair share of time drunkenly sobbing at bars with my male friends, and yet it never led to a makeout session.

It's a sexuality thing, that's why gays have so many female friends.

 

"Men and women can't be friends", that's is just the pleaded self-justification of those that by means one only might speculate about hopelessly overestimate the own gender when it comes to spiritual kinship, the backbone of what is called 'friendship'. The cut set between people, however, has nothing to do with gender or looks but everything with shared interests, likes and dislikes - 'the chemistry'. So, your friend could look like a beau or like shit, be of any sexual orientation, it'd have no impact on your friendship whatsoever... 'cause sex usually plays no part in it. Blessed are those rare friends that love each other not just spiritually but bodily as well, for to them the Kingdom of Hearts is made, legend has it.

[GimmeBACON]

From personal experience, just be yourself, if she's interested, she's more likely to try then not. Plus, if "yourself" is a dog like me, you'll still be having sex whilst waiting for her reaction.

[Queen Bee]

 

 

Men and women can't be friends.

 

I hear this all the time, yet I've never heard a good explanation as to why.

Personal experience. All it takes is one weak moment and bam we go from friendship to romance. I spent my fair share of time drunkenly sobbing at bars with my male friends, and yet it never led to a makeout session.

It's a sexuality thing, that's why gays have so many female friends.

Some men and women can't be friends, true. But what's true for your personal experience isn't necessarily true for everyone. I have male and female friends, and I've had a few of both genders creep on me when I didn't want it. I was also friends with my husband before we started dating. Relationships can go in any direction, and I think it's severely limiting your options when you say "X can never be friends with Y".

 

Also, I don't know about you, but the gay men I know have both male and female friends of all sorts of sexual orientations.

 

 

 

 

Men and women can't be friends.

 

I hear this all the time, yet I've never heard a good explanation as to why.

Personal experience. All it takes is one weak moment and bam we go from friendship to romance. I spent my fair share of time drunkenly sobbing at bars with my male friends, and yet it never led to a makeout session.

It's a sexuality thing, that's why gays have so many female friends.

The last thing a man wants while looking for a romantic relationship with a woman is getting rejected, or "friendzoned". That can further complicate things. It happened to me once. That's why I just broke off said relationship and moved on.

At the risk of stepping into a sensitive topic, I will argue that rejection doesn't have to be a bad thing. You can look at it as a door slamming in your face if you choose, but it's really more of a course correction. 'What you're looking for isn't here, please look elsewhere'. It's no one's fault, and the one who did the rejecting isn't a bad person for it.

 

Also, I do wish people would stop vilifying friendship as if it's an insult. Platonic love can be just as rewarding as romantic, unless your the sort of person who can't separate love from sex.

[Cynical Misanthrope]

Men and women can't be friends.

 

So not true at all. In fact, I have more female friends than I have male friends. The closest friend of mine is actually a lady as well.

Some of em I have even banged, and we are still good friends today.