Need load order help, racemenu doesn't work/enemies can't see me

[AriyaJB]

Hi, I'm kinda new to skyrim and in my first play through, I've been accumulating different mods that may or may not have been in conflict, for example i installed naked defeat not knowing that it conflicts with sl defeat and if i disable it, it corrupts my save, for some reason enemies don't see me at all, they attack my companion and horse but not me and this caused me to get stuck in the main quest where you trap the dragon in dragonsreach, the dragon doesn't see me and doesn't start the dialog and keeps on rehealing, with other enemies if i press talk they turn hostile for a few seconds and lose me again, and if i die i get stuck in a sitting position while struggling and nothing happens, and no mod has the essential player tag enabled (AFAIK), also my racemenu DOES NOT WORK, it did work on a different profile with the first 40 mods but one of the sexlab related ones is messing it up and i don't know what, my slif also doesn't work but it may be from the racemenu, not sure, anyways if you have any advice on the load order or the mods i installed it will be appreciated 

LoadOrder.txt

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Modding Skyrim requires lots of reading and thinking.

 

For LE
https://www.loverslab.com/blogs/entry/7521-conglomerate-01-installing-skyrim-stability-fixes-tools/

https://stepmodifications.org/wiki/SkyrimLE:3.0.0

For SE
https://www.loverslab.com/topic/136543-mod-organizer-2-other-tools-from-zero-to-hey-sexlab-is-working/

https://www.loverslab.com/topic/118460-skyrim-se-for-beginners-v-319-3bbb-hdt-smp-hph/

https://www.loverslab.com/topic/200681-skyrim-ae-for-beginners-v-2915-3ba-hdt-smp-hph-wip/

https://www.loverslab.com/topic/94228-se-compatibility-tracking-apr-23/

https://www.loverslab.com/topic/126227-sexlab-index-se/