Immersive Lap Sitting Arousal

[AphroditesEye]

41 minutes ago, maihfc said:

Originally, while I was working on it, yes, lap-sitter could not move, but I was having some problems with it (getting held longer than they were supposed to be in some cases). I'm going to have to re-enable that because forced-lapsitting is coming soon. For now (2.2), no gameplay implication.

Oh, cool! Glad to hear, excited to see future updates. I like this mod a lot.

[maihfc]

19 hours ago, AphroditesEye said:

Oh, cool! Glad to hear, excited to see future updates. I like this mod a lot.

Thank you. I've been quiet on here, but I haven't been idle. I've been learning to use Cascadeur to make animations (it's really easy, actually) and I wanted to post a "sneak peek" video, but couldn't get that to work. Here's a couple stills of a forced lap-sitting anim I made.

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There are a *lot* of non-animation issues I still need to work through, but I'm hoping I can get something out that's at least somewhat functional before end of December.

[AphroditesEye]

2 hours ago, maihfc said:

Thank you. I've been quiet on here, but I haven't been idle. I've been learning to use Cascadeur to make animations (it's really easy, actually) and I wanted to post a "sneak peek" video, but couldn't get that to work. Here's a couple stills of a forced lap-sitting anim I made.

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There are a *lot* of non-animation issues I still need to work through, but I'm hoping I can get something out that's at least somewhat functional before end of December.

Oh shit, that's actually really cool. I've been looking for something like this for a possible project of my own, so I'm glad you linked that - thanks! Looking forward to hopefully see your work in the future

[maihfc]

On 11/26/2024 at 10:46 PM, AphroditesEye said:

Oh shit, that's actually really cool. I've been looking for something like this for a possible project of my own, so I'm glad you linked that - thanks! Looking forward to hopefully see your work in the future

Cascadeur is not perfect, but it's arguably a less steep learning curve than Blender. They have a lot of decent getting started videos on YouTube. 20 minutes and you'll have something functional. Unfortunately, if you're animating for Skyrim, your toolchain still seems to require Blender, but it's just for intermediate import/export steps, and there are a few of those 😒. There are Skyrim rigs you can download from Nexus to get you started. Today I got a full round-trip (export SE HKX > LE HKX > FBX > Cascadeur > FBX > SE HKX) and I documented the process and all the stuff I had to download to make it work. I'll post an article when I get a chance to clean it up.

[hakto]

Hello, I got some strange things.

Firstly, in MCM integration tab is empty

Secondly, sitting in someone's lap is like my normal sitting, so two characters is sitting inside each other, but if I invite someone to sit in my lap, everything works fine. I have dar sitting animation, but it's hard to say which animation replaces lap sitting.

Thirdly, seems like no arousal changing, I'm using oslaroused

 

UPD. I rerun fnis and nemesis, now I just teleported new the chair and stood there. No animation in oar anim log

Edited December 1, 2024 by hakto

[BogidaMalva]

I am sorry for asking such a silly question, but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
I am playing on Steams Skyrim SE (not AE) and when I ask to sit on someone's lap they say "Okay, just this once" and then nothing happens.
I have OAR and the HUG animations from here as well as the arousal mod.

What could I be doing wrong?

[asdfmovie666]

16 hours ago, BogidaMalva said:

I am sorry for asking such a silly question, but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
I am playing on Steams Skyrim SE (not AE) and when I ask to sit on someone's lap they say "Okay, just this once" and then nothing happens.
I have OAR and the HUG animations from here as well as the arousal mod.

What could I be doing wrong?

I have the same problembut with AE. It looks like its the problem with this mod because if I deactivate ILSA the normal Mod works without a problem. Maybe thats also a conflict with Bakas?

Edited December 3, 2024 by asdfmovie666

[maihfc]

On 12/1/2024 at 3:29 AM, hakto said:

Hello, I got some strange things.

Firstly, in MCM integration tab is empty

Secondly, sitting in someone's lap is like my normal sitting, so two characters is sitting inside each other, but if I invite someone to sit in my lap, everything works fine. I have dar sitting animation, but it's hard to say which animation replaces lap sitting.

Thirdly, seems like no arousal changing, I'm using oslaroused

 

UPD. I rerun fnis and nemesis, now I just teleported new the chair and stood there. No animation in oar anim log

Are you using OAR or DAR? You mentioned both of them. DAR isn't working properly. I use OAR and I have not re-installed DAR to to see what the problem is. Right now, I say it DAR is NOT supported.

 

For OAR, if the mod appears in the list OAR mods, I would check the priorities. The priorities are set pretty high by default, but maybe you have something else that's higher. 

 

Do you have MCM yet? The current version (2.2) had some code that tries to keep MCM fresh, but it doesn't work properly. Maybe it's interfering somehow, but I have not heard from anyone else about this. Are you using any MCM tweak mods (e.g.Menu Maid)?

[maihfc]

On 12/2/2024 at 2:26 PM, BogidaMalva said:

I am sorry for asking such a silly question, but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
I am playing on Steams Skyrim SE (not AE) and when I ask to sit on someone's lap they say "Okay, just this once" and then nothing happens.
I have OAR and the HUG animations from here as well as the arousal mod.

What could I be doing wrong?

There are no silly questions. Only silly people 😜

 

Since I installed the original "Immersive Lap Sitting" and started working on this mod, I have NEVER seen the message "Okay, just this once." I know it's one of the message you can see, so I wonder what's different about what I'm doing and (maybe more importantly) what other mods I have installed that might affect it. If you can send me details (location, NPC, your full modlist), maybe I can look into it a bit more. Right now, I have no idea other than maybe your OAR priorities are part of the problem.

 

[maihfc]

On 12/3/2024 at 6:54 AM, asdfmovie666 said:

I have the same problembut with AE. It looks like its the problem with this mod because if I deactivate ILSA the normal Mod works without a problem. Maybe thats also a conflict with Bakas?

Others have mentioned Baka's Babo Dialog as a possible conflict. I've installed it but have not enabled it yet. My focus is still forced lap-sitting. If you have time to dig into it and test and send me info, that would be appreciated. 

[hakto]

5 hours ago, maihfc said:

Are you using OAR or DAR? You mentioned both of them. DAR isn't working properly. I use OAR and I have not re-installed DAR to to see what the problem is. Right now, I say it DAR is NOT supported.

 

For OAR, if the mod appears in the list OAR mods, I would check the priorities. The priorities are set pretty high by default, but maybe you have something else that's higher. 

 

Do you have MCM yet? The current version (2.2) had some code that tries to keep MCM fresh, but it doesn't work properly. Maybe it's interfering somehow, but I have not heard from anyone else about this. Are you using any MCM tweak mods (e.g.Menu Maid)?

I'm using oar, but have dar mods. In oar description stated, that oar is backwards compatible with dar.

 

I'm using Menu Maid and have mcm, but integration tab is not working.

 

About priorities, I've tried to monitor animation log of oar, but I didn't see that lap sitting animation is fired at all.

 

One more thing, this problem seems like chair specific. Because on some chairs it's working, on some it isn't (chairs in whiterun inn near Uthgert)

[Thormix]

I don't get this one working.

[maihfc]

On 1/4/2025 at 2:41 PM, Thormix said:

I don't get this one working.

 

Hi there,

 

Do you see L10nMessages.json in your "overwrite\Immersive Lap Sitting Arousal" folder? That file should get created when you install the mod. It looks like something happened and it's not there.

 

If you don't see it, try copying the L10nMessages.Default.json file from the Interface\translations folder in the mod to your "overwrite\Immersive Lap Sitting Arousal" and rename it to L10nMessages.json.

[maihfc]

On 12/5/2024 at 11:23 PM, hakto said:

I'm using oar, but have dar mods. In oar description stated, that oar is backwards compatible with dar.

 

I'm using Menu Maid and have mcm, but integration tab is not working.

 

About priorities, I've tried to monitor animation log of oar, but I didn't see that lap sitting animation is fired at all.

 

One more thing, this problem seems like chair specific. Because on some chairs it's working, on some it isn't (chairs in whiterun inn near Uthgert)

Hi there,

 

Sorry for late reply. Any change on this? Still not working? I've never seen problems for specific chairs. Mod doesn't really care about the chairs that NPCs sit in. Only looks at if NPC chair-sitter is sitting. The mod uses a special "invisible chair" for the lap sitter so it looks like they are in the chair-sitter's lap, but that should not affect anything. My PC sat in Uthgert's lap in Bannered Mare and probably Warmaiden's too, no problem. 

[Thormix]

I did get AE version of skyrim for 4€ so i swapped GOG version to AE,

and this mod start working in first try.

[maihfc]

1 hour ago, Thormix said:

I did get AE version of skyrim for 4€ so i swapped GOG version to AE,

and this mod start working in first try.

Wow, okay, thanks for the update. I didn't think GoG version might be a factor. I'll keep this in mind. The rest of your setup (load order) exactly the same, I guess?

[Thormix]

Yah the base is same. The gog version of game some how broken. Example i din't get sex lab inflation to work.

But when i switch to ae the problems just disappear. It's hints that some kind base library is broken but

unfortunately i don't have technical know how to dig this deeper.

[Kruggar]

Is this still being worked on?

[maihfc]

On 7/15/2025 at 8:01 AM, Kruggar said:

Is this still being worked on?

Hey there. Actually, just came back today to see about getting back on this. My plate is a bit less full at the moment.

 

I was running into lots of issues with forced lap sitting, which is what I wanted to focus on for the next release. Looking at it with fresh eyes, maybe I'll find a way through. Or I might roll back to last release and start fresh.

 

Another thing I'm looking at is supporting The New Gentleman, as newer releases include the ability to get schlong size, but I've run into unrelated issues with TNG that led me down a rabbit hole.

 

Maybe I can get something out within a few weeks. No promises!

[R34x]

Very much looking forward to see this mod develop. The required mod had promise, but putting a Loverslab spin on things would make it a must. Good luck sorting out the forced aspect of the mod!

 

I was wondering if this https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/74287?tab=files

or perhaps the bodysearch mod on LL had some force greet stuff that might help. Also, I know Monoman added some very customized force greet papyrus to Sexlab Survival which is documented in the source files if you're interested.

[maihfc]

On 9/18/2025 at 12:40 PM, R34x said:

Very much looking forward to see this mod develop. The required mod had promise, but putting a Loverslab spin on things would make it a must. Good luck sorting out the forced aspect of the mod!

 

I was wondering if this https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/74287?tab=files

or perhaps the bodysearch mod on LL had some force greet stuff that might help. Also, I know Monoman added some very customized force greet papyrus to Sexlab Survival which is documented in the source files if you're interested.

 

Positioning and synchronizing chairsitter and lapsitter animations is the big problem. If you look at I'm Glad You're Here, that's basically what I need to do. And even in that mod, it's very far from perfect. (Hugs on game load are misaligned over half the time.) Also, I want to use OAR/DAR, not require building animations in FNIS/Nemesis/Pandora, but so far, that hasn't worked for me.

 

I may need to go with something SLAL-based, which is not what I want. OAR/DAR feels seamless, but the technical challenges with getting that to work have been too much for me. 

[alate9563]

Hello! Great author—I'd like to change it from sitting on someone's knees to sitting in front of the abdomen of a person who’s sitting on a chair. Is that possible?