Sexlab Approach Redux

[Drakuld]

Really sad the mod doesnt work for males :C even if it uses the conversation for females i would use it if it worked on males

[serph90]

how does this mod interacts with devious devices?

[danna233]

Is there a patch for RS Children? Or is there a way to remove children from the mod?

[PNclarity001]

Anyone have issues where your pc gets grabbed and nothing proceeds? the qte bar proc's but nothing works to "struggle free" and i have to reload.

[grapejelly32]

Anybody know a way to reset/refresh an NPC's dialogue option or SLAP relationship stats? Some NPCs that initially had the "Hello (approach)" option will sometimes lose it entirely; they can still approach me and go through all the scenes/events/dialogue, but if I approach them I don't have the option to start the SLAP dialogue chain.

[grdx9]

Does anybody know what this is about? I cannot unlock, since the author seems to be on vacation. 

[Nuka Cherry]

On 1/12/2026 at 8:52 AM, grdx9 said:

Does anybody know what this is about? I cannot unlock, since the author seems to be on vacation. 

 

I had a look at it and one of the install options was "shota", which is japanese for.... well, I skipped the mod as a result. 

 

 

[fdummies]

Has anyone encountered an issue where it automatically exits the dialogue on certain NPC answers ? For example, whenever I decline a proposition and it branches into offering prostitution, instead of being able to answer, it just automatically closes the dialogue box. It's not the only branch that does this, it's a recurrent issue on specific NPC answers.
Anyone know what could be causing this issue ?

[Desiree42]

On 1/1/2026 at 3:28 PM, Drakuld said:

Really sad the mod doesnt work for males :C even if it uses the conversation for females i would use it if it worked on males

It's working fine for my male character.

[Drakuld]

On 1/18/2026 at 3:52 AM, Desiree42 said:

It's working fine for my male character.

How? I tried to change every configuration in the mcm and nothing happens

[Desiree42]

6 hours ago, Drakuld said:

How? I tried to change every configuration in the mcm and nothing happens

What's your mcm configuration? Maybe I can look at it and help

[skypain1979]

How i can change the Language? I seen more Language files in the Folder, but i dont see in MCM Menu or by installing a way to change the Language? thx

[skypain1979]

The mod has been running for a day now, and no one has spoken to me yet; there's been no action from the mod itself. The mod is listed in the Add Item menu, and I've met all of its requirements. Does anyone have any idea why the mod isn't working? I've been sleeping, spent game days in bars, and haven't had any interaction with NPCs.

Edited January 23 by skypain1979

[Drakuld]

On 1/21/2026 at 8:46 PM, Desiree42 said:

What's your mcm configuration? Maybe I can look at it and help

Nvm im really stupid, i tend to keep disabled the unique actors option so important characs doesnt get bugged and stuff but with this mod is kinda necesary. Thank you for ur interest in helping me anyways :3

[OneTimeDownloader]

Does anyone know how to struggle with a controller? All other aspects of the mod work but no matter what I do it won’t increase the struggle bar during a “hug” encounter, I do have a keyboard too but when I have the controller plugged in the keyboard seems to disable itself (tried to add that mod that lets both work at the same time but it’s not compatible with the latest version of Skyrim and I’m ass with keyboard controls lol)

 

Ive only had it happen once and had to use the menu to escape the scene… I have all requirements and otherwise the mod is working just fine.

[Elizinator]

like a bunch of people, the QTE event is not working for me. starts up, im locked in place, empty bar appears, progress is impossible. have to use the MCM to end the scene.

even worse, the Kiss game CANT be ended this way. a reload is required.

[WhiteShadow4]

Okey I have a bug that needs to be talked about.

 

You know the ''hello(sexlab approach)'' dialogue. When I start a conversation with that normally I should have 3 dialogue option.

-Talk about current event

-Just checking on you

-How are things between you and I?

 

But in my game most of the npc only have the ''talk about currect events'' option. Other dialogues are missing. How am I fix this?

Any other feature of the mod work as normal. 

[Seallv]

Mod isnt working for me. I have SL Approach, Babo Dialogue and Horrible Harrassement and all the requirements as i understand.

Also it looks that i have set things up correctly:

 

1. Horrible Harrassement recognizes compatability with Babo Dialogue in MCM checkbox
2. Babo Dialogue recoginzes compatability with HH and SLAPP
3.  SLAPP recoginzes compatability with Babo and HH, also with FHU and Devious Devices - as seen in screenshots.

 

 

But yet nothing is happening - this save is 35 hours old and nobody is approaching me or when i talk to someone, there is no option marked [Approach].

 

I was tinkering with this problem and i changed morality to better point disabled/enabled some options for quests - might have been "enable rape, enable followers, enable guards, naked approach and/or reset quest" options. And when i turned it off and on again, approach happened once or twice i think and then stopped again forever.

 

Could this be compatability issue with Binding, Submissive Lola, DisplayModel3, Spank That Ass, ZAP helper addon extension, Sexlab Romance or Sexist Guards? Those mods add extra options to normal dialogues, so im wondering if those options might overwrite Approach (everything except sexist guards, which adds only random comentarries not dialogue, but that mod is wierd, i dont know what exactly to expect from it)? Or did i set up something incorrectly, like morality or Naked Approach (if i understand correctly naked approach means that random pedestrians will harrass PC when naked right?)

Edited February 5 by Seallv

[WhiteShadow4]

29 minutes ago, Seallv said:

Mod isnt working for me. I have SL Approach, Babo Dialogue and Horrible Harrassement and all the requirements as i understand.

Also it looks that i have set things up correctly:

 

1. Horrible Harrassement recognizes compatability with Babo Dialogue in MCM checkbox
2. Babo Dialogue recoginzes compatability with HH and SLAPP
3.  SLAPP recoginzes compatability with Babo and HH, also with FHU and Devious Devices - as seen in screenshots.

 

 

But yet nothing is happening - this save is 35 hours old and nobody is approaching me or when i talk to someone, there is no option marked [Approach].

 

I was tinkering with this problem and i changed morality to better point disabled/enabled some options for quests - might have been "enable rape, enable followers, enable guards, naked approach and/or reset quest" options. And when i turned it off and on again, approach happened once or twice i think and then stopped again forever.

 

Could this be compatability issue with Binding, Submissive Lola, DisplayModel3, Spank That Ass, ZAP helper addon extension, Sexlab Romance or Sexist Guards? Those mods add extra options to normal dialogues, so im wondering if those options might overwrite Approach (everything except sexist guards, which adds only random comentarries not dialogue, but that mod is wierd, i dont know what exactly to expect from it)? Or did i set up something incorrectly, like morality or Naked Approach (if i understand correctly naked approach means that random pedestrians will harrass PC when naked right?)

For vanilla skyrim npc's to approach. You need ''unique actor toggle'' checked. 

When you check that everyone will approach you, even greybeards. Looks dumb and unimmersive. To fix this you can do as I do. Don't check that box I mentioned before, instead there is spell called ''ignore unique'' or something. Find that spell in console. You is on npc's that you want to be approached by.

 

Also sometimes approaches randomly stop working. To fix this go to ''debug'' and select ''stop current scene'' or something like that. That fixes it. It also fixes a lot of other buggy stuff.

Edited February 5 by WhiteShadow4

[Densz]

1 hour ago, WhiteShadow4 said:

For vanilla skyrim npc's to approach. You need ''unique actor toggle'' checked. 

When you check that everyone will approach you, even greybeards. Looks dumb and unimmersive. To fix this you can do as I do. Don't check that box I mentioned before, instead there is spell called ''ignore unique'' or something. Find that spell in console. You is on npc's that you want to be approached by.

 

Also sometimes approaches randomly stop working. To fix this go to ''debug'' and select ''stop current scene'' or something like that. That fixes it. It also fixes a lot of other buggy stuff.

Only unique actor will approach?

[Seallv]

On 2/6/2026 at 1:04 AM, WhiteShadow4 said:

For vanilla skyrim npc's to approach. You need ''unique actor toggle'' checked. 

When you check that everyone will approach you, even greybeards. Looks dumb and unimmersive. To fix this you can do as I do. Don't check that box I mentioned before, instead there is spell called ''ignore unique'' or something. Find that spell in console. You is on npc's that you want to be approached by.

 

Also sometimes approaches randomly stop working. To fix this go to ''debug'' and select ''stop current scene'' or something like that. That fixes it. It also fixes a lot of other buggy stuff.

Thank you very mucho! Now its working, i am getting approached.

 

Concerning ignore unique spell, i would say - it feels too unimmersive, approach is meant to have random encounters on different situations or well, i can be provocative - do drinking in public or walk naked, but still its up to them if they want to approach me. Using a spell on certain character kinda breaks the purpose.

 

On 2/6/2026 at 2:42 AM, Densz said:

Only unique actor will approach?

I tried his suggestion, no, everyone started approaching.

Edited February 7 by Seallv

[WhiteShadow4]

14 hours ago, Seallv said:

Thank you very mucho! Now its working, i am getting approached.

 

Concerning ignore unique spell, i would say - it feels too unimmersive, approach is meant to have random encounters on different situations or well, i can be provocative - do drinking in public or walk naked, but still its up to them if they want to approach me. Using a spell on certain character kinda breaks the purpose.

 

I tried his suggestion, no, everyone started approaching.

 

If you're okey with getting approach with by everyone, there is no problem. In case you need in the future. There is also a ''no more approach'' spell. As you can guess, It makes the npc not approach you. I think you might need it. 

 

Once when I went to greybeard one of them approached me and said something like ''wow I'm just a farmer, haven't seen a beauity like you here before'' Its just, you know. Something like that is just stupid. Idk.  

 

Anyways glad to be helpfull.

[Seallv]

On 2/8/2026 at 3:17 PM, WhiteShadow4 said:

 

If you're okey with getting approach with by everyone, there is no problem. In case you need in the future. There is also a ''no more approach'' spell. As you can guess, It makes the npc not approach you. I think you might need it. 

 

Once when I went to greybeard one of them approached me and said something like ''wow I'm just a farmer, haven't seen a beauity like you here before'' Its just, you know. Something like that is just stupid. Idk.  

 

Anyways glad to be helpfull.

Yeah, just a farmer, monks that live for peace, approach and have perverted minds to try and rape you. Thats super immersive:D But na, im just glad its working, somewhat, at all. Still not perfect. When its gonna be very stable, then ill think of other things like that. Im not visiting Greybeards that often anyway, so i believe the chance isnt that high.

[Seallv]

On 1/6/2026 at 6:32 AM, PNclarity001 said:

Anyone have issues where your pc gets grabbed and nothing proceeds? the qte bar proc's but nothing works to "struggle free" and i have to reload.

Yes i have that too, i think im going have to turn the rape option off, its useless.

[PNclarity001]

2 hours ago, Seallv said:

Yes i have that too, i think im going have to turn the rape option off, its useless.

same which kinda ruins the point lol