Sexlab Approach Redux

[Dovahre]

On 7/30/2026 at 3:11 PM, Dovahre said:

Hello there, first and foremost, great mod. I had an earlier version and it worked fine on its own, Baka knows how to create beautiful mods ❤️. Now I got an issue the moment I decided to install baboDialogue 5.71 version AND to update approach to the latest 3.61 version. First, i was forced into a new playthrough cause I had issues with babo, but ok,, then I found out that Approach's mcm wouldn't "listen" to the slider changes I made in Babo or vice versa i think,, before I updated approach I had noticed to my amazement that whatever changes I made in the  "beauty" sliders in one applied to the other,, no such thin in the updated version. But ok,, didn't bother me all that much,, I am only saying this cause it  might be related to the fact that Approach isn't working for me at all. After a lot of research and effort I found out that papyrus was complaining that it couldn't find certain keywords. Keywords that definately do not exist in SexLab Aroused eXtended 29.0  but most likely in Baka's version of it. Now I am seriously notentirely sure that a few  missing keywords is the main reason behind Approach not firing any type of event,, despite me tuning its MCM exactly as I had always had it back in its earliest version, or even more intense. I have tried toggling on and off the nakedarmor option, no luck,, of course I have the toggle unique npcs on, etc. I keep getting some notifications in game when a Slapp event occurs  but that's mostly due to Babo's events. Based on some previous experience those two don't play well with  each other even with the compatibility option toggled on. I also have SHH by Baka. I am not sure what to do? risk installing Baka's version of SLAX mid-playthrough?  Even reset quest doesn't work. Having to make more changes in  armor  keywords and the plugins I made in Edit?  and Potentially risking other mods going haywire? Or is it something else entirely?  Any ideas or input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! 

ok after nearly a week's worth of troubleshooting, I found out something interesting. Just to make it clear, I am still on Oldrim, so that might be an important factor, so Sexlab Approach for whatever reason DOESn't play well with babodialogue, I checked papyrus, tested all sorts of different angles with sexlab aroused, keywords, dependencies what have you.... no luck. Untill I got the inspiration to mess around with the load order and boom, voila, if you load Sexlab Approach before baboDialogue, Approach works like a charm, BUT Babo goes brain-dead. I tried a few tricks, a clean save and re-activating the babo plugin, NADA. Resetting quest, nope. So, unless there is something else that could potentially get in between their "relationship" like Sexlab Horrible harassment, or I dunno, survival? I have not the slightest idea why two mods that are built to be compatible simply....aren't. Perhaps it's  different for Special Edition, I wouldn't know. Anyway, still it's an amazing mod, well worth having in the load order, BUT keep in mind, if you are on legendary and want both babo and approach, it might not go as well you would like. Ahhh also, Baka's version of aroused is based on 28b, not the latest 29 version of Slax, something to keep in mind if you want to give your aroused a once over. 

[reinyn]

Small question, does this have a function for npc's to approach each other? And if not, will it play well with the regular (up14569_Approach_JPPlus_English_Trans_(Custom2)_SSE) Version?

[nopse0]

Fixed a couple of bugs in 3.62 with help of Claude (timeout for BackHug mini-game + consequences afterwards). This patch is for original 3.62 version, not for the one posted here, you have to merge them, if you want both. Btw., if you are using "Shattered" with Schlitzohr's settlements, you only have "unique npc's" in the game, so you have to enable them in Baka's MCM, in order that anything happens at all.

 

Next fix: FrontHug, SweetKiss had the same problem.

 

MyChanges-SLApproach-02.7z

 

Note: The timeout for the struggle mini-game still sometimes doesn't trigger. Seems to happen, when the scan interval for new events is shorter than the mini-game timeout, so maybe a racing condition. At least I didn't have this problem, when I made the scan interval longer then the timeout, but maybe this was just coincidence. 

Edited August 17 by nopse0

[Silverbane99]

On 6/30/2026 at 1:40 PM, Makubex77 said:

3.62

Made the thing so females approach instead of males, let this overwrite the normal 3.62 but be aware that my approach blocks meles from approaching and the pc stills needs to be female.

 

3.70/3.71

For 3.70 i did a esl flagged patch, works the same, should load after sl approach.

 

No update needed, 3.70 works fine for 3.71

 

Sexlab Approach Redux 3.62 Female.zip 387.93 kB · 10 downloads Sexlab Approach Redux 3.70 Female.zip 73.41 kB · 17 downloads

Hello there. If I wanted to enable females to approach without disabling males approaching, do you think that is possible? I assume I would have to remove the (male) = 1 condition in the dialogues entirely but I am not sure what to do in quest aliases

[Makubex77]

13 hours ago, Silverbane99 said:

Hello there. If I wanted to enable females to approach without disabling males approaching, do you think that is possible? I assume I would have to remove the (male) = 1 condition in the dialogues entirely but I am not sure what to do in quest aliases

subject.samesex(askref) You probably need to delete this, they are at:

SSLAppAsk2Helper > alias 2/3 > condition 18

SLAppPCRapeHelper > alias 2 > condition 19

 

subject.getissex(male) Same thing.

SLApproachScanningVisitor > alias 2 > condition 3

SLApproachScanQuest > all alias > condition 0

SLApproachScanLovers > all alias > condition 0

 

This is the hard one, you probable will need to edit this multiple times until it works.

SLApproachScanBypasserQuest > alias 0 > condition 1 > subject.getissex(male)

SLApproachScanBypasserQuest > alias 1 > condition 1 > subject.getissex(female)

I don't know how to make this work for everyone, if nothing work you have to edit the scrip, something i couldn't do so i did the patch how i did, good luck.

[Silverbane99]

13 hours ago, Makubex77 said:

subject.samesex(askref) You probably need to delete this, they are at:

SSLAppAsk2Helper > alias 2/3 > condition 18

SLAppPCRapeHelper > alias 2 > condition 19

 

subject.getissex(male) Same thing.

SLApproachScanningVisitor > alias 2 > condition 3

SLApproachScanQuest > all alias > condition 0

SLApproachScanLovers > all alias > condition 0

 

This is the hard one, you probable will need to edit this multiple times until it works.

SLApproachScanBypasserQuest > alias 0 > condition 1 > subject.getissex(male)

SLApproachScanBypasserQuest > alias 1 > condition 1 > subject.getissex(female)

I don't know how to make this work for everyone, if nothing work you have to edit the scrip, something i couldn't do so i did the patch how i did, good luck.

Gave it a go and it seems to have worked. Thanks for the precise instructions, it made the edits very easy to do. I didn't mess with the scanbypasserquest aliases as I couldn't figure out it's purpose, might be a leftover from the original approach mod. Any advice for quickly removing the getissex(male) condition from the dialogue? There's way too much dialogue to go through it all one by one.

[Makubex77]

8 hours ago, Silverbane99 said:

Any advice for quickly removing the getissex(male) condition from the dialogue? There's way too much dialogue to go through it all one by one.

Ideally you would make a script but since you probably can't like me, do what's in the spoilers (both) or download my patch and do what is on the second spoiler, remember you have to patch the quest again if you do.

Also if you haven't make it into a overwrite patch, it will be super easy to update.

Spoiler

Copy "dialogue topic" into an overwrite esp

On the new esp hold alt and double click "dialogue topic"

With shift + click select multiple records and them right click "compare selected" based on you pc how many records you can select at once may vary (ram based limit) with 16gb and a i5 my limit is at 3k, but try to work sets of 2k.

At the top of the screen is a search box called "by value" type in it male) = 1

Here you can directly right click and delete from select records, but you don't want to do that because there are dialogues that have both female and male conditions so they don't show up in dialogue. most of them are debug other are wips or discarded dialogues but you don't want to edit them so...

Change their value to 0 so they are mark so you can deleted everything but the marked dialogues.

Once you have gone through everything you'll need to check the dialogues one by one and also delete the dialogue that have the female condition.

Spoiler

If you are jumping here directly read the following other wise ignore: You can hold alt and double click "dialogue topic" to open everything and with shift click you can select multiple records and them right click "compare selected records".

 

Since there are so few dialogues now (Should be around 1k) you can select everything and look again for male) = 0

Now all the lines here are Subject.GetIsSex(Male) = 0, look for it, right click and "Remove from selected records" repeat for every line.

You should be done.

 

[Cassandraaa]

17 hours ago, Makubex77 said:

Ideally you would make a script but since you probably can't like me, do what's in the spoilers (both) or download my patch and do what is on the second spoiler, remember you have to patch the quest again if you do.

Also if you haven't make it into a overwrite patch, it will be super easy to update.

  Reveal hidden contents

Copy "dialogue topic" into an overwrite esp

On the new esp hold alt and double click "dialogue topic"

With shift + click select multiple records and them right click "compare selected" based on you pc how many records you can select at once may vary (ram based limit) with 16gb and a i5 my limit is at 3k, but try to work sets of 2k.

At the top of the screen is a search box called "by value" type in it male) = 1

Here you can directly right click and delete from select records, but you don't want to do that because there are dialogues that have both female and male conditions so they don't show up in dialogue. most of them are debug other are wips or discarded dialogues but you don't want to edit them so...

Change their value to 0 so they are mark so you can deleted everything but the marked dialogues.

Once you have gone through everything you'll need to check the dialogues one by one and also delete the dialogue that have the female condition.

  Reveal hidden contents

If you are jumping here directly read the following other wise ignore: You can hold alt and double click "dialogue topic" to open everything and with shift click you can select multiple records and them right click "compare selected records".

 

Since there are so few dialogues now (Should be around 1k) you can select everything and look again for male) = 0

Now all the lines here are Subject.GetIsSex(Male) = 0, look for it, right click and "Remove from selected records" repeat for every line.

You should be done.

 

hi @Makubex77, could you tell me how to remove/disable backhug approach, please? i find it annoying everytime npc approaches me with a backhug. i only want npc to spank my character. could you tell me how to do it in xedit, please?

Edited August 19 by Cassandraaa

[Makubex77]

4 hours ago, Cassandraaa said:

hi @Makubex77, could you tell me how to remove/disable backhug approach, please? i find it annoying everytime npc approaches me with a backhug. i only want npc to spank my character. could you tell me how to do it in xedit, please?

That's an scripted outcome, can't be edited with xedit as far as i know.

[Cassandraaa]

7 hours ago, Makubex77 said:

That's an scripted outcome, can't be edited with xedit as far as i know.

how about reduce the chance of getting backhugged and increase the chance of getting spanked? like 20% backhugged, 80% spanked.

[Makubex77]

50 minutes ago, Cassandraaa said:

how about reduce the chance of getting backhugged and increase the chance of getting spanked? like 20% backhugged, 80% spanked.

There is a no hug faction, you can try to give that faction to everyone or yourself with spid and no one should hug you, i can't think of anything else.

 

name: slapp_NoBackHugFaction

id xx6048AB

 

I don't know how to use spid, so can't help you there.

[nopse0]

Has someone ever got the prostitution feature of this mod working ? According to the AI, there seems to be a circular path with slapp_ProstitutionFaction

Is BaboDialogue required to break this circle, or how do you get prostitution working ? AI is saying this:

 

Yes, NPCs can be in slapp_ProstitutionFaction, but SL Approach does not appear to initialize ordinary NPCs into it.

What I found:

• The faction is defined by SL Approach: SexLabApproach-decompressed.xml:1314-1317.
• It is wired as a property on SL Approach scripts, not assigned to NPC records: SexLabApproach-decompressed.xml:244100-244106.
• The only source-code mutation is slapproachbasequestscript.psc:884-891.
• That function is called by ProstitutionPlus() only after successful prostitution sex: SLAppPCSexQuestScript.psc:1002-1010.

The first successful prostitution adds the NPC to the faction, presumably at rank 0. Later successful prostitution raises the rank by one. However, the dialogue condition requires prostitution faction rank >= 1, so the first-time path is circular:

1. Must already have prostitution rank 1.
2. To complete prostitution and raise the rank, the prostitution dialogue must first be available.

GetFactionRank() returning -2 means the actor is not a member, which matches your Poventus log.

There is no evidence in this repository that BaboDialogue adds actors to this faction. BaboDialogue is only used for reputation/event integration. An NPC could still be placed in the faction externally through:

• an ESP/ESL patch
• SPID distribution
• console command or a scripted mod
• an existing saved-game state

But that assignment is not present in the SL Approach plugin/source itself. The most likely explanation is a design bug in the first-prostitution dialogue conditions.

 

Edited August 22 by nopse0

[Rdawgx]

Anyone come across this bug in their game?  Whenever an event happens (like spanking or asking for sex), the npc that did the event is no longer interactable.  You can't even see their name when you hover over them.  No talking, no nothing.

It could be related to Horrible Harassment but I think it's this mod.  I'm running AE on 1170.

[LynErso666]

Some people may not mind the possibility of the game-breaking incident where someone spanks or backhugs you during an actor event like mounting a horse, or working at an enchanting table, but I don't. It pretty breaks player animations with no hope of recovery without loading your game when that occurs.

This mod has an unstable lack of safety checks in its scripting (pretty immaculate scripting for Babo, I can tell they've been practicing, I've known Babo's work since they first started years ago) and that's kinda sad. I'm using. 3.62, but it should work for 361 to 370; the DISTR file here will never again allow the backhugging or spanking so you don't have to go into your MCM and disable approaches every time you ride a horse or mix a potion. 

Sexlab Approach_DISTR.7z

Edited August 31 by LynErso666

[ArgonianFantacy666]

on the latest patch it's missing alias's on ask for sex 2 quest and not sure what the quest alias's is missing XD but the other 2 can be found on the first quest and was looking to see if there's a fix/patch for it XD and not all text is translated

[ebbluminous]

5 hours ago, matrixaxel said:

does this work with SE? Lots of LE requirements

Go back and read the description on the front page...

[Summonopolis]

@Makubex77  The dialogue topic fixes suggest seem like even when done the short way would take a very long time on my hardware and at my low level of competence.  Is there a way to safely rename your women can approach version and run it parallel or rename it then merge it with the original?

[Makubex77]

3 hours ago, Summonopolis said:

The dialogue topic fixes suggest seem like even when done the short way would take a very long time on my hardware and at my low level of competence.  Is there a way to safely rename your women can approach version and run it parallel or rename it then merge it with the original?

I don't understand anything you just said but, my patch is not running anything on top of sl approach, if my patch doesn't work is because sl approach doesn't work.

 

Sl approach works natively with the papyrus of skyrim, if vanilla skyrim runs well your hardware should not be a limiting factor.

 

The 3.70 version is a esl patch, it is already an overwrite and the previous version replaces the esp directly nothing needs to be merge or changed.

 

Hopefully whatever you ask about is there.

[Summonopolis]

7 hours ago, Makubex77 said:

I don't understand anything you just said but, my patch is not running anything on top of sl approach, if my patch doesn't work is because sl approach doesn't work.

 

Sl approach works natively with the papyrus of skyrim, if vanilla skyrim runs well your hardware should not be a limiting factor.

 

The 3.70 version is a esl patch, it is already an overwrite and the previous version replaces the esp directly nothing needs to be merge or changed.

 

Hopefully whatever you ask about is there.

 

Your patch works great.  I was trying to figure out if there was a way to combine your version with baka's so that I could have an approach where everyone could approach my PC without going through manually changeing all the "(male) = 1" and deleting conditions in the topics since it takes around 30 seconds for my computer to process changing one of the 1s to 0s if I'm using the compare differences feature.

[Makubex77]

2 hours ago, Summonopolis said:

Your patch works great.  I was trying to figure out if there was a way to combine your version with baka's so that I could have an approach where everyone could approach my PC without going through manually changeing all the "(male) = 1" and deleting conditions in the topics since it takes around 30 seconds for my computer to process changing one of the 1s to 0s if I'm using the compare differences feature.

The only way to make everyone approach is to delete de male condition, i did it quick and dirty, probably a few dialogues not show up but overall should work.

 

Sexlab Approach Everyone.rar

[Bruxir]

Does anyone know if spouses enhanced or some other mod make this one stop working? I was using it fine before the update for skyrim but afterwards even after updating everything I simply can't get it to trigger, and that's on a brand new save file too.
I can see and configure the mod on the MCM menum both for this and the HH expansion which I also used to have working perfectly, but whatever I do it simply never triggers.

I have tried my best to look into it but frankly I'm not too good at modding so I have to resort to asking if anyone has any idea what might cause it, if it helps here's my mod load order from MO2:

Skyrim.esm
Update.esm
Dawnguard.esm
HearthFires.esm
Dragonborn.esm
ccBGSSSE001-Fish.esm
ccQDRSSE001-SurvivalMode.esl
ccBGSSSE037-Curios.esl
ccBGSSSE025-AdvDSGS.esm
_ResourcePack.esl
SexLab.esm
Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm
Expressive Facegen Morphs.esl
SexLabAroused.esm
CreatureFramework.esm
daymoyl.esm
unofficial skyrim special edition patch.esp
SMIM-SE-Merged-All.esp
SLKidnapped_DeviousAddon.esp
SkyUI_SE.esp
UIExtensions.esp
Civil War Aftermath.esp
Man Those Borders!.esp
Man Those Borders! - Oars Rest Patch.esp
OwnCivilWar.esp
Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp
Inigo.esp
CivilWarCheckpoints - All.esp
SofiaFollower.esp
Immersive Patrols II.esp
ForgottenCity.esp
SOSRaceMenu.esp
XPMSE.esp
DIVERSE SKYRIM.esp
BountySpread.esp
Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp
UnreadBooksGlow.esp
Immersive Citizens - AI Overhaul.esp
alternate start - live another life.esp
cutting room floor.esp
RaceMenu Undress.esp
FNIS.esp
MoreNastyCritters.esp
CreatureSummoner.esp
SexLabMatchMaker.esp
SLAnimLoader.esp
Schlongs of Skyrim.esp
SOS - Smurf Average Addon.esp
SC_HorseReplacer.esp
MonsterLipSync1.esp
BakaFactoryABC.esp
MNC_ABC_Patch.esp
CBBE.esp
SexLabTools.esp
FSMPM - The FSMP MCM.esp
3BBB.esp
SOSPhysicsManager.esp
12FemaleBrows.esp
OAroused.esp
OSLAroused.esp
SexLabWerewolves.esp
SexLabDefeat.esp
SexLab More Creatures.esp
HornyCreatures.esp
SLALAnimObj.esp
SLALAnimObjBillyy.esp
NibblesAnimObjects.esp
OneWithNature.esp
SexLab Aroused Creatures.esp
DiverseDragonsCollectionSE.esp
MNCDiverseDragonsSE.esp
GenderDogs.esp
GenderHorses.esp
SexLab Dangerously Nude.esp
SexLabDangerousNights2.esp
BakaMotionData.esp
SexLab Approach.esp
SexLabHorribleHarassment.esp
SL_Kidnapped_Redux.esp
SLKidnapped_MaleAddon.esp
BDE_Armor.esp
Daring_Gigaduex_Outfit.esp
NS_HuntingGroundsOutfit.esp
StalhrimBikini.esp
LZA Jzargo SSE.esp
SLNights.esp
TDF Aroused Sexy Idles.esp
SpousesEnhancedSE.esp
EasyMarriableNPCs.esp
MarryAnyoneFriends.esp
VVE.esp
RaceMenuPlugin.esp
RaceMenu.esp
RaceMenuMorphsCBBE.esp
SOS - VectorPlexus Muscular Addon.esp
SOS - VectorPlexus Regular Addon.esp
SLAL_AnimationByBakaFactory.esp

Edited October 1 by Bruxir
Misspelled something

[Summonopolis]

On 9/30/2026 at 1:08 AM, Makubex77 said:

The only way to make everyone approach is to delete de male condition, i did it quick and dirty, probably a few dialogues not show up but overall should work.

 

Sexlab Approach Everyone.rar 59.89 kB · 1 download

Thank you.  This is the sort of thing that can make this community of horny little outcasts such a lovely place to be.  I hope you find long lost $20s in whatever couches or seats you sit on, and I will keep trying to improve in my skills so that I can eventually help other people in a similar way.

[RexNode]

The Rape Animation is not playing after the trigering the last stage it just goes back to normal playthrough

 

[hartda]

Is it compatible with sexlab P+? I have been using it but at the end of each QTE loss sexlab animation doesn't play, and when it plays it's one actor only.