Looking for femdom mods, would like recommendations

[sci fi samurai]

Interested in fem domming men.

 

I've been using sexlab adventures recently, it's a good mod with a prompt for your female followers to rape your character, but it defaults to male dom positions, no cowgirl or foot jobs, etc. It works but doesn't quite hit the mark. 

 

Sexlab defeat is really good, but requires you lose in combat to work. 

 

I realize pickings may be slim, so I'm up for any suggestions. Thanks. 

[CaptainJ03]

3 hours ago, sci fi samurai said:

Interested in fem domming men.

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I realize pickings may be slim, so I'm up for any suggestions.

Yup, totally agree, it would be so nice to have anything femdom.

 

There are two that come to mind which aren't exactly femdom, but don't care much if the player is male. Both need Devious Devices (For Him of course, but that's part of the current mod anyway)

 

 

 

 

[shadowman2777]

I have made a small femdom mod about Vex

https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/75751

[ScroodPooch]

Are you looking for new animations with females taking the lead, or are you looking for quests and dialogue based mods?

There are quite a few existing animations that can have the MF roles switched, and then have the animations adjusted to scale and fit properly.

 

For some reason, for me, there is something in the irony of Skyrim's premier "alpha-male" being brought down a few pegs by a female follower or NPC.

 

Kill a dragons, go into town and get spanked by a guard.....Yep sounds about right.

 

But yeah, there is a complete lack of mods in this area. And I really don't like the slave framework mods. They are way too "heavy" and go too far into other things.

 

I will say this. I have tried the mod linked above and it's good. It's simple, lightweight, it does what it's supposed to do. I just don't like Vex.

 

So, I've taken to creating "lightweight scenarios" and stringing them together in a dialogue quest mod.

 

 

(How will you know when a female orc might be interested in you? It's pretty subtle, so, be careful not to miss the signs)

and yes, it's supposed to be funny

 

 

Edited October 8, 2022 by ScroodPooch

[ScroodPooch]

If you want Femdom animations.

This one was made by taking @AnubiSs2167 's Sword cowgirl animation. And swapping out the animated Sword object with a cane using @Bazinga's sextoy's HDT collision mod and applying the collisions to the cane. Then swapping out the male animation with @Gunslicer's jump rope animation. And making a few adjustments to the animations, you get...

Femdom.

 

 

 

 

[pinkfluf]

4 hours ago, shadowman2777 said:

I have made a small femdom mod about Vex

I have vex! not tried her yet though

 

I like what you've done on the prostitutes mod (was thinking of doing something similar but you beat me to it.) I guess what I'll do at some point is add a quest/package where the prostitutes approach nearby npcs/player and ask them if they "want some business?". At the moment they just lounge around. Got the idea when Thadgeir in falkreath said "Don't let my brother get to you, Tekla. You're doing a fine job around here.". Was going to snip the "You're doing a fine job around here" when peeps talk to the prostitute.

 

37 minutes ago, ScroodPooch said:

How will you know when a female orc might be interested in you? It's pretty subtle, so, be careful not to miss the signs)

and yes, it's supposed to be funny

 

Awesome voice work there! The only niggle is the word "suggest" otherwise the rest is perfecto!

Edited October 8, 2022 by pinkfluf
crap, sorry for hijacking the thread! hmmm yeah whatever the guys suggested above!

[ScroodPooch]

2 hours ago, pinkfluf said:

I have vex! not tried her yet though

 

I like what you've done on the prostitutes mod (was thinking of doing something similar but you beat me to it.) I guess what I'll do at some point is add a quest/package where the prostitutes approach nearby npcs/player and ask them if they "want some business?". At the moment they just lounge around. Got the idea when Thadgeir in falkreath said "Don't let my brother get to you, Tekla. You're doing a fine job around here.". Was going to snip the "You're doing a fine job around here" when peeps talk to the prostitute.

 

 

Awesome voice work there! The only niggle is the word "suggest" otherwise the rest is perfecto!

Thanks.

It's not hard to make your own. The most difficult part is getting proficient with XVA Synth. It can be made to be passable.

With an acceptable audio, making player dialogue's off quests that hook into SL animations is quite easy.

 

There's even a mod called "Booty Call" by Caden (Used to be here) but went over to the site we can't post links to or they get deleted. That mod has all the structure set up, you just need to plug in the dialogue and link back to the controller quest for the animations you want.

 

Making simple Femdom scenes (Or any kind of scene for that matter) is actually pretty ridiculously easy....I mean, if all you want are some light hearted insertions. But that suits me. I don't like Sub Lol, and Dev Followers. They are just too invasive into my game.

 

 

Here's one that took 10 minutes to throw together of Lydia trolling her thane, I hadn't gotten that far, but it can be triggered by the Butt Slap mod.

 

 

 

[sci fi samurai]

Thanks for the suggestions. I'll check them out

[sci fi samurai]

On 10/8/2022 at 12:29 PM, shadowman2777 said:

I have made a small femdom mod about Vex

https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/75751

This one looks interesting, I like how bitchy a number of the girls in the thieves guild are.

 

I accidentally broke Sapphire, though. I started playing against and didn't realize amazing follower tweaks was outdated and Nether's follower framework was much more stable. Now I can't get Sapphire to talk, even after disabling and enabling her through the console. I'm not sure what else to do 

[Vmath]

I‘m working on a collection of Femdom scenes, mostly involving verbal humiliation, feet and spitting. Many scenes are conditional, meaning that they vary depending on your alliances and previous actions in the game.

 

Originally made it for myself, but I don‘t mind sharing it once it is done and stable, if there is interest. I don‘t have a name yet, but I‘m open for suggestions. Also, if you have ideas for other NPCs not yet covered, feel free to share

Features

 

* everything is voiced using xVA Synth

* animated scenes, if installed an XXX framework 

* Animated spitting, leaving drops on player (decals not fully working yet)

* Humiliation debuffs to speechcraft (dispelled after 1 day)

* Humiliation debuffs and NPC remarks, as long as spit visible on player‘s face

* Spell to clean spit

* (if requested) make scenes more modular using MCM, if you don‘t enjoy a particular fetish

 

Dominatrices (some already implemented, some WIP)
 

Endarie & Taarie

 

Conditions:

* not investor of Radiant Raiments

* no improved relationship with Endarie

 

Trigger:

Go shop at Radiant Raiments, tell Endarie to stop the sarcasm

 

Tags:

verbal humiliation, spitting, foot worship, kicking

 

Ysolda

 

Conditions:

* player recognized as Dragonborn and thane of Whiterun

* player went to Sleeping Tree Camp and uncovered Ysolda‘s drug business

Trigger:

Talk to Ysolda, select the „Arrest for selling illicit substances“ option

 

Notes:

After scene, player is unable to sell Sleeping Tree Sap to Ysolda

 

Tags:

verbal humiliation (dragonborn degradation), ballbusting*

 

Dunmer Pickpocket

 

Conditions:

* player is member of the Stormcloaks or wearing their armor

* player is in the Windhelm streets

* player carries > 100 gold, or gems

 

Trigger: random encounter

A pickpocket will run up to the player and steal a large amount of gold or gems. Player chases her to the Gray Quarter, and is ambushed by two more thieves. After a (lost) fight, player gets a dialogue option to beg to get the money back.
 

Tags:

spitting, dirty foot worship, verbal humiliation (stormcloak), trampling*

 

Notes: player will not get money back after scene

 

Nirya

 

Conditions:

* during College quests, use weapons instead of spells whenever possible

* completed Hitting the books

 

Trigger:

Talk to Nirya.

 

Tags:

foot worship, verbal humiliation (incompetence as mage), spitting

 

Notes: scene varies depending on progress in the College questline

 

Brelyna

 

Conditions:

* player triggered Nirya scene

* player did not upgrade relationship with Brelyna

* depends on dialogue choice during scene (depending on choice, Nirya threatens to tell the others to spit on player too)

 

Trigger: forcegreet

 

Tags:

spitting, verbal humiliation (incompetence as mage)

 

Saadia

 

Conditions:

* start Alikr quest, side with Kematu

* fail to persuade Saadia to leave Whiterun (low speechcraft)

 

Trigger: during quest dialogue to lure Saadia to Kematu

 

Tags:

ballbusting*, trampling*, kicking, spitting 

 

Limitations

 

There aren‘t many femdom animations, so you‘ll experience a lack of variety. Sorry

 

 

As mentioned, if you have suggestions to improve the scenario, or for additional scenarios, feel free to post.

 

*if I get permission to use animation 

[sci fi samurai]

These look really good, would there be a way to apply the verbal humiliation and abuse to things followers could do to you? I'm using Nemesis and Ysolda is actually a follower of mine now (and I had no idea she had a drug business??).

 

Also, I use the Realm of Lorkhan mod to avoid the whole dragonborn angle and just play as a regular adventurer. I also avoid making my guy a thane, preferring just to play him as a regular, sneaky rogue. I'm guessing any flags that require those things will be unavailable?

[Vmath]

If you aren‘t Thane, the Ysolda scenario as above wouldn‘t play. Theoretically, you could modify the dialogue conditions in XEdit to make it play nevertheless, but the scene wouldn‘t make much sense (you character would still be like „How dare you treat me like that? I‘m the Dragonborn!“, and humiliation continues based on that). However, I can add additional options, so that a slightly different scene plays when the player isn‘t Thane or Dragonborn.

 

Regarding followers: these scenes should be compatible with followers, vanilla or with framework. However, I don‘t use many of the follower management mods, so something may break. In that case, I‘d try to offer a patch.

[Vmath]

Also had some more ideas for NPCs.

 

Elenwen: Humiliation based on Thalmor captive/interview themes. Just need to find a way to integrate it in a logical way, while ensuring compatibility with other mods.

 

Tonilia: I mean, she already seems quite domme in vanilla  Choose the dialogue options that piss her off when you‘re a thieves guild novice, and you‘ll get what you deserve. Combined with shadowman‘s Vex addon, the Thieves Guild can be a quite different experience.

 

The Caller: the boss in the „Hitting the books“ college quest (the mage pissed off at you for raiding her fortress)

 

Aela the Huntress: join the Companions without helping with the giant in the encounter. However, I don‘t know yet how to check for the giant event outcome, will need to dig deeper)

 

Haelga: leather strips and horker‘s tusk in her private room.

[ScroodPooch]

I had been altering Amourous Adventures using XVASynth, specifically for Serana. I know that FoxFingers used and expanded  well on the lore and character that Bethesda created. But that's a problem for me. I hate what Bethesda did with Serana. What a wasted opportunity. A fucking pure blooded vampire? And this is what they did with her? What a EFFING waste TBH. 

 

So, I wanted to re-make her into a vampire princess in true form. She's not some mis-guided little girl with mommy and daddy issues.  

 

Instead My idea for Serana would be to add a little more "Bal" (as in Molag) to her game.

Imagine the scene in DG fortress when she meets back up with you. AA has her play it out like....."You're my savior. You freed me...."

 

But instead, she plays it up as a true vampire and with Dominance......

 

Edited out the animations.

 

 

 

Keep in mind, this is basically draft quality, the audio would be made better.

However, at this time, I have pushed this little project to the back burner. I have found a better mod to tweak Serana with and accomplish this same goal.

It's a mod called "Alpha" it's not on this site.

 

[Vmath]

Another idea for Serana could be that when you meet her in Dimhollow Crypt, you actually try to do your Dawnguard duty and burn that vampire, but you get helplessly defeated. You then wake up in Volkihar Castle as Serana‘s personal pet, where she feeds on you and dominates you.

[ScroodPooch]

1 hour ago, Vmath said:

Another idea for Serana could be that when you meet her in Dimhollow Crypt, you actually try to do your Dawnguard duty and burn that vampire, but you get helplessly defeated. You then wake up in Volkihar Castle as Serana‘s personal pet, where she feeds on you and dominates you.

I had run through a similar idea.

It never made sense to me why you kill 12 vampires to get to Serana only to stop and take this last one home.  Under almost NO circumstance does this make any kind of sense. When you mission is to kill her and take the artifact (Scroll) So instead, have a scene where the front of the crypt slides open but Serana does not wake right away. Until you touch her, then her eyes pop open and you get some kind of fade to black scene. She attempted to enthrall and feed on you, but your blood protected you and there is a backlash and both you and Serana are sent to a bleedout state. Now, you have more vampires coming and you and Serana realize you are at a stalemate, but also, you need to work together to get out in one piece.

 

But working this into a Femdom scenario would be easy enough. Maybe she did enthrall you and you have to obey her commands. maybe she tricks you and betrays you after you get out of Dimhollow. There are plenty of possibilities here. But the whole "Hi my name is Serana. Nice to meet you" Scene turns my stomach.

 

Not for nothing, I did try in the past to create a scene that makes a reasonable attempt to explain why you don't just kill her. But even then...It's still a big reach.

I tried. I mean I really tried to figure out how to explain why you don't just kill her. I could never make sense of it TBH.

 

 

[Miauzi]

7 hours ago, ScroodPooch said:

Ich hatte eine ähnliche Idee.

Es hat für mich nie einen Sinn ergeben, warum Sie 12 Vampire töten, um nach Serana zu gelangen, nur um anzuhalten und diesen letzten nach Hause zu bringen. Unter fast KEINEN Umständen macht dies irgendeinen Sinn. Wenn Ihre Mission darin besteht, sie zu töten und das Artefakt zu nehmen (Scroll), haben Sie stattdessen eine Szene, in der sich die Vorderseite der Krypta öffnet, aber Serana nicht sofort aufwacht. Bis du sie berührst, dann öffnen sich ihre Augen und du bekommst eine Art Überblendung zu einer schwarzen Szene. Sie hat versucht, Sie zu fesseln und sich von Ihnen zu ernähren, aber Ihr Blut hat Sie beschützt und es gibt eine Gegenreaktion und sowohl Sie als auch Serana werden in einen Blutungszustand versetzt. Jetzt kommen weitere Vampire und Sie und Serana erkennen, dass Sie sich in einer Pattsituation befinden, aber Sie müssen auch zusammenarbeiten, um in einem Stück herauszukommen.

 

Aber dies in ein Femdom-Szenario zu integrieren, wäre einfach genug. Vielleicht hat sie dich in ihren Bann gezogen und du musst ihren Befehlen gehorchen. vielleicht betrügt sie dich und verrät dich, nachdem du aus Dimhollow herausgekommen bist. Hier gibt es viele Möglichkeiten. Aber die ganze "Hallo, mein Name ist Serana. Schön, dich kennenzulernen"-Szene dreht mir den Magen um.

 

Nicht umsonst habe ich in der Vergangenheit versucht, eine Szene zu schaffen, die einen vernünftigen Versuch macht zu erklären, warum Sie sie nicht einfach töten. Aber selbst dann ... Es ist immer noch eine große Reichweite.

Ich habe es versucht. Ich meine, ich habe wirklich versucht herauszufinden, wie ich erklären kann, warum du sie nicht einfach tötest. Ich konnte es TBH nie verstehen.

 

 

 

If I remember correctly there is already a "softer" approach to this in the "extended dialogue" on Serana

if the relationship has become closer in the course of the shared adventure - she admits to you that she is one

cast "calming" spells on you.

As a Vampire, she has an extremely good sense of smell and as soon as the Blood Seal is activated by the player, she wakes up

up and smells people - purely instinctively she casts this calming spell

you even get a short message just before the stone coffin goes up

later this message appears (something reassuring about one) in another key scene of "Dawnguard".

the twist is that she was already awake when the lid opened and she was only playing to reassure the player

here you can turn the whole thing perfectly in the desired dominant direction

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when I play a succubus character - who mostly hides his Daedric form - for the Dawnguard opens the stone coffin and Serana opens hers

Spell works - my succubus starts an instinctive counter-reaction -> "ultimate seduction"

yes - that's head cinema - I could of course trigger a sex scene manually with SexLab or Toys

but I can only conduct the following dialogue on my "own" level (in my head).

(or I'll make an illustrated light novel out of it)

Spoiler

Wenn ich mich richtig erinnere gibt es dazu bereits einen "weicheren" Ansatz im "erweiterten Dialog" zu Serana

wenn die Beziehung im Verlauf des gemeinsames Abenteuers enger geworden ist - gesteht sie Dir das sie einen

"Beruhigungs"-Zauber auf Dich angewendet hat.

 

Als Vampire hat sie einen extrem guten Geruchssinn und sobald das Blutsiegel vom Spieler aktiviert wird wacht sie

auf und riecht den Menschen - rein instinktiv spricht sie diesen Beruhigungszauber

 

man bekommt sogar eine kurze Meldung kurz bevor der Stein-Sarg hochfährt

 

später taucht diese Meldung (irgendwas über das einen beruhigt) in einer anderen Schlüsselszene von "Dämmerwacht" auf

 

der Dreh ist somit das sie als der Deckel aufgeht schon längst erwacht war und das alles nur spielt um den Spieler in Sicherheit zu wiegen

 

hier kann man das ganze auch perfekt in die gewünschte dominante Richtung drehen

 

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wenn ich einen Succubus-Charakter spiele - der seine daedrische Form meistens verbirgt - für die Dämmerwacht den Stein-Sarg öffnet und Serana ihren

Zauber wirkt - setzt mein Succubus zu einer instinktiven Gegen-Reaktion an -> "ultimative Verführung"

ja - das ist Kopf-Kino - ich könnte natürlich mit SexLab oder Toys manuell eine Sex-Szene auslösen

aber den nachfolgenden Dialog kann ich eben nur auf meiner "eigenen" Ebene (im Kopf) führen

(oder ich mache daraus eine bebilderte Light-Novel)

 

[Miauzi]

The mod "Dark Desire Club" is run by a domina - the punishments are carried out by a dominant vampire

and the club owner is a dominant succubus

and no - none of them are the player's personal wish list fulfilers

 

[ScroodPooch]

8 minutes ago, Miauzi said:

 

If I remember correctly there is already a "softer" approach to this in the "extended dialogue" on Serana

if the relationship has become closer in the course of the shared adventure - she admits to you that she is one

cast "calming" spells on you.

As a Vampire, she has an extremely good sense of smell and as soon as the Blood Seal is activated by the player, she wakes up

up and smells people - purely instinctively she casts this calming spell

you even get a short message just before the stone coffin goes up

later this message appears (something reassuring about one) in another key scene of "Dawnguard".

the twist is that she was already awake when the lid opened and she was only playing to reassure the player

here you can turn the whole thing perfectly in the desired dominant direction

---

when I play a succubus character - who mostly hides his Daedric form - for the Dawnguard opens the stone coffin and Serana opens hers

Spell works - my succubus starts an instinctive counter-reaction -> "ultimate seduction"

yes - that's head cinema - I could of course trigger a sex scene manually with SexLab or Toys

but I can only conduct the following dialogue on my "own" level (in my head).

(or I'll make an illustrated light novel out of it)

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Wenn ich mich richtig erinnere gibt es dazu bereits einen "weicheren" Ansatz im "erweiterten Dialog" zu Serana

wenn die Beziehung im Verlauf des gemeinsames Abenteuers enger geworden ist - gesteht sie Dir das sie einen

"Beruhigungs"-Zauber auf Dich angewendet hat.

 

Als Vampire hat sie einen extrem guten Geruchssinn und sobald das Blutsiegel vom Spieler aktiviert wird wacht sie

auf und riecht den Menschen - rein instinktiv spricht sie diesen Beruhigungszauber

 

man bekommt sogar eine kurze Meldung kurz bevor der Stein-Sarg hochfährt

 

später taucht diese Meldung (irgendwas über das einen beruhigt) in einer anderen Schlüsselszene von "Dämmerwacht" auf

 

der Dreh ist somit das sie als der Deckel aufgeht schon längst erwacht war und das alles nur spielt um den Spieler in Sicherheit zu wiegen

 

hier kann man das ganze auch perfekt in die gewünschte dominante Richtung drehen

 

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wenn ich einen Succubus-Charakter spiele - der seine daedrische Form meistens verbirgt - für die Dämmerwacht den Stein-Sarg öffnet und Serana ihren

Zauber wirkt - setzt mein Succubus zu einer instinktiven Gegen-Reaktion an -> "ultimative Verführung"

ja - das ist Kopf-Kino - ich könnte natürlich mit SexLab oder Toys manuell eine Sex-Szene auslösen

aber den nachfolgenden Dialog kann ich eben nur auf meiner "eigenen" Ebene (im Kopf) führen

(oder ich mache daraus eine bebilderte Light-Novel)

 

Interesting. I suppose Calm could work. I was thinking Vampire's Seduction, but basically the same. However, I don't use that mod. It reinforces the personality in Serana that Bethesda created, and which I despise...Given what Serana is and what she's supposed to be. She should have a very dominant personality right off the bat.

 

I am attempting to make her as such using a different mod that adds dialogue to her.

[ScroodPooch]

At the same time, The Dragonborn is also a creature supernaturally predisposed to dominance (According to Paarturnax). So I would be aiming for a waxing and waining power dynamic between them. Sometimes the Dragonborn has to be submissive. But sometimes Serana has to be submissive.

 

 

 

[Miauzi]

Vor 5 Stunden sagte ScroodPooch:

Gleichzeitig ist das Drachenblut auch eine Kreatur, die auf übernatürliche Weise zur Dominanz veranlagt ist (Laut Paarturnax). Ich würde also eine wachsende und schwindende Machtdynamik zwischen ihnen anstreben. Manchmal muss das Drachenblut unterwürfig sein. Aber manchmal muss Serana unterwürfig sein.

 

 

 

 

in real-life BDSM relationships, this is completely normal - neither partner is 100% dominant or 100% submissive all the time

"Switchers" are perhaps even the majority compared to those who claim to be only "sub" or only "domme".

it also makes life much more colourful

?

[ScroodPooch]

Here's one of Lydia having fun at her new Thane's expense.

The method, of delivering spoken lines of dialogue by triggering a scene during the animation is something I learned from Caden. (The author of Alpha)

 

 

[Vmath]

Thanks for the hint, I didn‘t know you could do that!

[Jizziam]

I would love to see some "soft"/gentle femdom mods that aren't slavery-themed/hard BDSM, which unfortunately seems to be the case for pretty much all mods that let the player be in a submissive role

[shadowman2777]

4 hours ago, Jizziam said:

I would love to see some "soft"/gentle femdom mods that aren't slavery-themed/hard BDSM, which unfortunately seems to be the case for pretty much all mods that let the player be in a submissive role

I have made a small gentle femdom "mommy" mod that i will upload in the future about Constance Michel.

Edited October 20, 2022 by shadowman2777