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What men think women think, what women think men think.

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Lucky7

Lucky7

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So while browsing the "Female Members of Loverslab" I noticed that there was a lot of discussion of what men thought women were like and women's replies. I thought it would be interesting to have a thread were we post our beliefs about what the other sex thinks and how it differs from your own, whilst other posters dispel/support such notions. 
Might be a bit of interesting conversation, please remember to keep it polite.

nonusnomeni

nonusnomeni

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man's think women's don't think, women's think man's don't think

good enough? :dodgy:

 

and btw i don't believe there is man&women, black&white, christian&muslim...

i believe there is only one single human individual who can speak only for himself, not even for his twin(and definitely not for his children), only for himself...

but if someone need a pack, that speak only how much he/her is human and how much he/her is not... 

 

i think you must expect here something like: somebody make his/her opinion and that opinion will be challenged by opinion of someone who is same sex

some peoples call that diversity

some peoples call that free thinking

i call that human behavior  

Halstrom

Halstrom

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LOL, was just discussing this the other day, we were talking about buying a new freezer, GF says:

"Remember Janice <Janet, whatever> the saleswoman with the English accent we were talking to about them a couple of months ago"

"Nope, I don't"

"How can you not remember her? She was wearing that pretty 50's look floral dress, she had that funny eyebrow"

"Nope doesn't help, I don't find floral grandma dresses memorable, you're forgetting us guy's we often like to think about nothing, which means we only keep in our heads important and interesting information, but otherwise as much nothing as we can, we don't keep clutter in our heads"

"Well she said ...........<insert data tribe about doubtful quality of chinese import freezers>"

"I knew all that before hand, it's all common sense, no point remembering it twice, so while the 2 of you babbled about that for 5 minutes getting brochures & website info for expensive European models that you can't get parts for 5 years later, I was checking out the Australian Freezers for consideration and narrowed it down to these 2 local made models with the same features"

"But the Meile freezer has this energy saving compressor thingy"

"Yeah, but we looked at that one and it didn't have the same shelves for better use of space like the Whirlpool & Kelvinator and cost 30% more"

"I don't remember that"

 

And there you have it, remembers small details about the salesperson but not important info related to the objective of the quest :)

 

Generally men & women do think differently, and in a relationship it gets frustrating at times but you just have to accept it and the fact you won't be able to change it.

Nonsense667

Nonsense667

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I will always remember a day, way back in high school. 

 

A girl was asking a male classmate, "what are you thinking about?" He responded with "Nothing." She inquired further, wanting to know what was really on his mind. He responded with "No, when a guy says he's not thinking about anything, he actually means he's not thinking about anything."

 

I will always remember thinking how wrong he was.

 

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In short. I think differently than you. You think differently than me. One person thinks differently than another. We are all shaped, molded, and formed into who we are. We even get to choose certain bits. Each and every one of the innumerable parts of what makes someone themselves has an effect on how they operate, how they think, how they are. Gender is just but one of those things. It plays a roll. Of course it does. Just like everything else.

 

Of course, I'm used to hearing different. Hell, I live in Mississippi. I've been hearing "women do and think this, men do and think this" all my damn life, while quietly listening, identifying far more often with the traits given to the "wrong" gender, than the ones that supposedly define who I am, as a male.

 

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Let me say this one last thing. I don't care how much hate, or disagreement, or bile that a statement I make may receive. If I can affect one life out there, make someone's existence ever so slightly better, then it is worth it. So, next time you are thinking of talking about how men think. Talking about how women think. Wanting to say "Girls do this. Boys do this." Think. Please. Think of the people who listen to you. Think of the world around you which you affect. Think of the young boy or girl, growing up, trying to figure out just who they are. Think about what it does to their mind, when they hear all around them that someone like them doesn't exist.

Halstrom

Halstrom

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I think most women think why the hell do people keep asking these type of questions.

Probably because they don't understand others desire for more information to try understand something that seems to be completely illogical or is confusing the crap out of them :)

 

People don't understand how I can go on a holiday for a week at a resort and do "nothing" but sit around the pool or spa listening to my MP3 player, basically meditating and letting my brain run wild. I enjoy doing "nothing" and thinking about "nothing" to wind down. On holiday I'll even get up early so I can get as much "nothing" into my day as possible :)

 

Ok in reality I'm always thinking something, but unless it's task focused it can be such a jumble of jumping from one unmemorable thought/memoryconcept/idea to another, it's basically nothing worth conversing about if someone asks you "what are you thinking about?"

Astaroth-Lite

Astaroth-Lite

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It's a good thing I don't live in a world where everyone acts as individuals and that loose associations let you automatically determine how one is supposed to think and feel.

 

Lord have mercy on us all if we ever have to think for ourselves.

GECK.O

GECK.O

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I think man and woman are the same...

 

Probably what makes them different is just because influenced by physical trait, society perspective, society role, etc.

 

Sometimes, when I think about these things, I can understand and predict the woman way of thinking.

 

Something like that.... :P

 

Basically woman as horny and as perverted as man. :heart:

Emily

Emily

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It's motherhood and fatherhood that define a purpose of genders. Whatever Genders you have, if you have no power over it then you are neither.

 

Most men fear getting laughed at or humiliated unromanticlly while most women fear rape and death.

Nonsense667

Nonsense667

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It's motherhood and fatherhood that define a purpose of genders. Whatever Genders you have, if you have no power over it then you are neither.

 

Most men fear getting laughed at or humiliated unromanticlly while most women fear rape and death.

 

And I fear all of those. Even rape. More than someone like you might think. So what does that make me? 

Emily

Emily

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It's motherhood and fatherhood that define a purpose of genders. Whatever Genders you have, if you have no power over it then you are neither.

 

Most men fear getting laughed at or humiliated unromanticlly while most women fear rape and death.

 

And I fear all of those. Even rape. More than someone like you might think. So what does that make me? 

 

 

A Transexual? who cares?

 

Why don't you ask yourself. Nobody can tell genders in internet anonymity.

sen4mi

sen4mi

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for some reason, many people tend to think that an individual of the opposite gender's thoughts are representative of that gender rather than that individual.

 

of course, for some simple sorts of contexts this kind of point of view can be correct. but if overgeneralizations were always accurate, why do i find them to be so frightening?

 

 

Xxantoss

Xxantoss

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God gave men strength to conquer the world.

 

God gave women vagina to conquer the men.

I typically avoid women. Does that make me unconquerable? o.o I must be as awesome as my delusion of grandeur makes me think I am!

Halstrom

Halstrom

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God gave men strength to conquer the world.

 

God gave women vagina to conquer the men.

Nah it was to stop the issues caused by offspring exploding out of their tummy alien style :P

Gryphes

Gryphes

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 it's depend on the culture ,social background, country so it's really depend on many factors beside each individual has unique personaltiy

but generally speaking women are insecure. let's say a man approaches to a woman , the she might feel nervous like whether he is a rapist or a good one, whether he wants to jumps into my pant or not. and then women always concern where the man's eyes goes. if it aims at her private area she starts thinking he might be  perv but she might not think when the same thing is done by another woman. and women generally don't trust men because of their insecurity.

 

in the same way generally men don't find women as a threat so they might be very open. a lot of men who support for feminism have a hidden agenda which is get laid with women as much as possible by showing how they care about women.

 

I am a guy but I am totally different. I actually don't trust anyone and ain't open to anyone but I might say some my private information like my life if I know the person to somewhat and I dislike pervs (including sluts)

 

Gryphes

Gryphes

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I am a guy but I am totally different.

Just like everyone else.

 

I dislike pervs

You might have some trouble with the members here.

 

 

 

Just like everyone else.

 

 

no

 

 

You might have some trouble with the members here.

 

 

everyone is a perv to certain degree I am too but I meant about excessive perv who send pics of their genital to other people,

always talk about sex ,ask to rate their nude pics, exhibitionists specially female exhibitionists who think they can take any penis.

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