I am kind of lost here..

[Nonkh]

Hi Guys

 

I'm a 59yo german and tbh I don't understand half the (key)words used here - and if I try to lookup a word in a dictionairy it fails to know the word.. so reading here is kind of pointless for me.. ô;ö ..I want just straight sex with (almost) every named female in the game utilizing speech and spells - I don't want slavery, rape!!, schlongs, sex with beasts, shemales, demons, falmer or children, yes I'm kinda boring.. ô;ö ..thing is I had that about 8 years ago, no rape was just an MCM-checkbox away.. ô;ö

 

I understand that I have to install the Sexlab Framework (1.6.3_b8) and its update first - check
FNIS next - very nice tutorial video there ❤️
Then I need a mod that uses this framework - after hours of searching I found 'Eager NPCs' but that one doesn't run under SSE even though it claims to, but Vortex is always right and the game just wouldn't start. Vortex told me that EagerNPCs needs 'ArousedSSE' as a master, installed that - but the game wouldn't even start with Eager enabled. That's very sad for me because EagerNPCs seems to be the only one mod that suits my personal needs. That said I have to admit that I don't understand what 'Aroused' does.. understanding barely 30% of its discription it looks like just another framework to me.. ô;ö

 

Besides FNIS and the Framework I have 'SexlabArousedSSELoose' running under SSE 64bit, there are 3 or 4 spells I don't understand as well as I don't understand the explainations under MCM - desperatly need a Readme.. ô;ö

What does Aroused do?
Does it enable me to have just normal sex with all females I desire? How??
Or do I need another mod that does that (like EagerNPCs *sigh*) - what would that be?

I hope I don't have to revert to LE cause that tends to crash on me every 17m if modded..

[Psalam]

17 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

Hi Guys

 

I'm a 59yo german and tbh I don't understand half the (key)words used here - and if I try to lookup a word in a dictionairy it fails to know the word.. so reading here is kind of pointless for me.. ô;ö ..I want just straight sex with (almost) every named female in the game utilizing speech and spells - I don't want slavery, rape!!, schlongs, sex with beasts, shemales, demons, falmer or children, yes I'm kinda boring.. ô;ö ..thing is I had that about 8 years ago, no rape was just an MCM-checkbox away.. ô;ö

 

I understand that I have to install the Sexlab Framework (1.6.3_b8) and its update first - check
FNIS next - very nice tutorial video there ❤️
Then I need a mod that uses this framework - after hours of searching I found 'Eager NPCs' but that one doesn't run under SSE even though it claims to, but Vortex is always right and the game just wouldn't start. Vortex told me that EagerNPCs needs 'ArousedSSE' as a master, installed that - but the game wouldn't even start with Eager enabled. That's very sad for me because EagerNPCs seems to be the only one mod that suits my personal needs. That said I have to admit that I don't understand what 'Aroused' does.. understanding barely 30% of its discription it looks like just another framework to me.. ô;ö

 

Besides FNIS and the Framework I have 'SexlabArousedSSELoose' running under SSE 64bit, there are 3 or 4 spells I don't understand as well as I don't understand the explainations under MCM - desperatly need a Readme.. ô;ö

What does Aroused do?
Does it enable me to have just normal sex with all females I desire? How??
Or do I need another mod that does that (like EagerNPCs *sigh*) - what would that be?

I hope I don't have to revert to LE cause that tends to crash on me every 17m if modded..

SexLab Aroused is a mod that keeps track of the Arousal of every person (and creatures if you get aroused creatures) in the game. As such, it is a Framework and you don't need it for what your described as wanting. What you probably want is SexLab Matchmaker, SexLab Mass Matchmaker or Puppet Master. These mods let you "shoot" someone with a spell and then you have sex (it's only a little more complicated than that).

[Nonkh]

Thanks for the tip, I just tested Matchmaker - the original from 2014, it installs and the game runs, who would have thunk. Started a new game using CCO and Alternate Start as a mage in the College of Winterhold. Readied the spell 'irresistable' but in the morning nobody's in their room, and the pupils will never come because of Tolfdir's scene. So I slept til midnight and went to Nirya.
1. try I cast the spell and activate her. She gets up and rants, the spell wears off and my guy gets naked, lays down in the bed. Nirya looks bored and returns back to sleeping - same position as my guy is lying, no interaction, luckily I found the key to interrupt the 'animation'.
2. try I activate her and cast the spell, she returns back to bed again while I clicked 'no to bed' - standing there naked making strange noises.. ô;ö
Try someone who is just awake I think, meet Mirabelle. She's still babbling her Intro-text, not the best of moments probably, I cast the spell. She keeps walking, I follow her, the spell wears off, I get naked again, lovely and sane Mirabelle just wanders off leaving me lying naked in the snow.. ô;ö xD

So far I'm not too impressed with the functionality - if it would work I would never fail to 'seduce'? Sounds boring.. ô;ö

[Psalam]

4 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

Thanks for the tip, I just tested Matchmaker - the original from 2014, it installs and the game runs, who would have thunk. Started a new game using CCO and Alternate Start as a mage in the College of Winterhold. Readied the spell 'irresistable' but in the morning nobody's in their room, and the pupils will never come because of Tolfdir's scene. So I slept til midnight and went to Nirya.
1. try I cast the spell and activate her. She gets up and rants, the spell wears off and my guy gets naked, lays down in the bed. Nirya looks bored and returns back to sleeping - same position as my guy is lying, no interaction, luckily I found the key to interrupt the 'animation'.
2. try I activate her and cast the spell, she returns back to bed again while I clicked 'no to bed' - standing there naked making strange noises.. ô;ö
Try someone who is just awake I think, meet Mirabelle. She's still babbling her Intro-text, not the best of moments probably, I cast the spell. She keeps walking, I follow her, the spell wears off, I get naked again, lovely and sane Mirabelle just wanders off leaving me lying naked in the snow.. ô;ö xD

So far I'm not too impressed with the functionality - if it would work I would never fail to 'seduce'? Sounds boring.. ô;ö

Yeah, something's not working right certainly. You have two choices in that regard. You can (a) stick with Matchmaker and perhaps post this issue on the Support Thread for the mod or (b) move on to one of the others. I personally have Puppet Master in my LO and am more familiar with that one.

 

Edit: make sure you have the correct XPMSSE skeleton. That can foul up any use of the animations.

[Nonkh]

Thanks for the tip again.
I installed the skeleton, tried Nirya again = exactly the same result.
Maybe I'll try Puppetmaster after lunch.. ô;ö

[Psalam]

4 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

Thanks for the tip again.
I installed the skeleton, tried Nirya again = exactly the same result.
Maybe I'll try Puppetmaster after lunch.. ô;ö

Good luck. Let me know how it goes.

[Nonkh]

Doesn't.. Vortex complains it is for Oldrim and the game does not start at all..

[Psalam]

11 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

Doesn't.. Vortex complains it is for Oldrim and the game does not start at all..

This is the SE version.

[Nonkh]

That's the one I had. To be sure I repeated the whole process, replacing the before - same result, wrong game.

[Psalam]

1 minute ago, Nonkh said:

That's the one I had. To be sure I repeated the whole process, replacing the before - same result, wrong game.

Sorry I can't help with that. Last gasp - try Mass Matchmaker.

[Nonkh]

But isn't Mass Matchmaker just an orgy version of Matchmaker? Sounds like overkill to someone who just doesn't want to sleep alone sometimes.. ô;ö

 

Btw.. I wish all forums would have mods like you - you're an example ❤️

[Psalam]

57 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

But isn't Mass Matchmaker just an orgy version of Matchmaker? Sounds like overkill to someone who just doesn't want to sleep alone sometimes.. ô;ö

 

Btw.. I wish all forums would have mods like you - you're an example ❤️

No, although it sounds like it it is a different mod. For example (and I know you've expressed no interest in this) you can not do bestiality with Mass Matchmaker as you can with (plain) Matchmaker.

 

I'd like to think that I am the rule rather than the exception here on LL. Do not ask me to defend any other site ('cause I can't).

[Nonkh]

Yes! Something that works.. kind of..
So I loaded into Nirya again, tested the spells, partly to no avail, but then she suddenly got naked and started to masturbate. And a second time as well.. still totally ignoring me. Dammit! In the MCM I set 'pair' to 100%, excluded bestiality completely. No clue what the second page might be for.. tags.. ô;ö
Selected the Orgy spell and went to the Hall of Elements - motivated Tolfdir's little group to some nastyness. They ignored me too.
In the Arcaneum I seduced Colette and Phinis to do it, then Mirabelle and Urag (who actually came running).

 

So yeah, I do have sex in my game, but alas without myself.. *frustrated grin*

Should I lower my expectations?
Ask for something "devious" whatever that means?
Sure the anims were kind of crappy compared to what is possible nowadays, but I had something running 8 years ago that was close to what I can watch on PornHub. I'm aware that many of those vids are scripted but I've watched good sex-scenes from gameplay. Can't believe that there are no working casual sex mods for SE but tons of mods with rape and slavery (guess they are working..).. ô;ö

 

I would take something with lesser morale standards as long as I can config it to what I want.. ô;ö

[Psalam]

38 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

Yes! Something that works.. kind of..
So I loaded into Nirya again, tested the spells, partly to no avail, but then she suddenly got naked and started to masturbate. And a second time as well.. still totally ignoring me. Dammit! In the MCM I set 'pair' to 100%, excluded bestiality completely. No clue what the second page might be for.. tags.. ô;ö
Selected the Orgy spell and went to the Hall of Elements - motivated Tolfdir's little group to some nastyness. They ignored me too.
In the Arcaneum I seduced Colette and Phinis to do it, then Mirabelle and Urag (who actually came running).

 

So yeah, I do have sex in my game, but alas without myself.. *frustrated grin*

Should I lower my expectations?
Ask for something "devious" whatever that means?
Sure the anims were kind of crappy compared to what is possible nowadays, but I had something running 8 years ago that was close to what I can watch on PornHub. I'm aware that many of those vids are scripted but I've watched good sex-scenes from gameplay. Can't believe that there are no working casual sex mods for SE but tons of mods with rape and slavery (guess they are working..).. ô;ö

 

I would take something with lesser morale standards as long as I can config it to what I want.. ô;ö

Are you absolutely sure that you have the XPMSSE? What you are describing is soooooo like what happens when you don't. In your case it would have to be there for the NPCs but not you. Are you using a custom race for your player perhaps?

[Nonkh]

Searching for XMPSSE I found a mod that reads "XP32 Maximum Skeleton Special Extended" in Vortex. So I think yes that should be the skeleton in question.
My race for this playthru will be High Elf (roleplaying CCO).

 

Edit:
Sorting Vortex by category I have these mods enabled with the animation-flag:
Expressive Facial Animations - Female and Male Edition
Fores New Idles in Skyrim - Behaviour, Creatures, Spells, Data
XP32 Maximum Skeleton SE
ZaZ Animations and Voice pack
..aaaand Disable Cinematic Kills - that MUST be it.. xD

Edited August 4, 2021 by Nonkh

[Psalam]

56 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

Searching for XMPSSE I found a mod that reads "XP32 Maximum Skeleton Special Extended" in Vortex. So I think yes that should be the skeleton in question.
My race for this playthru will be High Elf (roleplaying CCO).

 

Edit:
Sorting Vortex by category I have these mods enabled with the animation-flag:
Expressive Facial Animations - Female and Male Edition
Fores New Idles in Skyrim - Behaviour, Creatures, Spells, Data
XP32 Maximum Skeleton SE
ZaZ Animations and Voice pack
..aaaand Disable Cinematic Kills - that MUST be it.. xD

That all looks correct. I have to go to bed but when you get the chance (if you haven't fixed it) run FNIS and post the results. That's usually a good source for animation issue problems.

[Nonkh]

Good morning

There was a very good tutorial video on FNIS and now I have it integrated into Vortex - it always runs 'when nessecary'. But running it doesn't hurt, so I did - no change at all, no matter what I do with the different spells I am ignored.. ô;ö

Had a night to think over this.. there are two things I do not 'know':
- would Mass Matchmaker be 'satisfying' if it were running correctly?
- would EagerNPCs be as good as I imagine? If yes I would think about reverting to Legendary with much less mods installed.. might have to read the .diz again.. ô;ö

 

Canis Root Tea? ❤️

[Psalam]

10 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

Good morning

There was a very good tutorial video on FNIS and now I have it integrated into Vortex - it always runs 'when nessecary'. But running it doesn't hurt, so I did - no change at all, no matter what I do with the different spells I am ignored.. ô;ö

Had a night to think over this.. there are two things I do not 'know':
- would Mass Matchmaker be 'satisfying' if it were running correctly?
- would EagerNPCs be as good as I imagine? If yes I would think about reverting to Legendary with much less mods installed.. might have to read the .diz again.. ô;ö

 

Canis Root Tea? ❤️

Guten Morgen!

 

I've never found the "spell" sex mods terribly satisfying. I keep Puppet Master because, every once in a while, I find someone, usually a villain, I just "have" to fuck. Puppet Master gives me that option.

 

I've haven't used EagerNPCs much. I wasn't terribly impressed but I think it runs along the line of what you want. However, if you're switching back to LE let me recommend my own mod Some Consensual Sex (the link can be found in the spoiler box in my signature). What that mod does is gives you dialogue that leads to sex with any NPC whose relationshiprank with the character is greater than or equal to 1 (friend or higher). It's small and lightweight. It doesn't interact with anything.

[Nonkh]

I just installed it, too dumb to read the 'no' under Special Edition - but yeah, Relationshiprank-based Interactions is what I would have in mind. For example doing Ysolda's favor, talk her horny, at night break into her home, gently wake her up and share pillow without a spell/cheat. ❤️

Thing is I just modded my SE to next generation visuals, took me six days to do so and I'm still overwhelmed, especially 'Majestic Mountains' and 'Enhanced Vanilla Trees' make the difference. I have every creature and every dungeon and every plant modded, even the rocks.. ô;ö ..I guess it could be easier to learn porting mods from LE to SE.. just kidding.. if it were that easy to do someone would have done it already..

Have to think about it because my shoulder-injury keeps me from serious working for the next 3-4 days and the painkillers keep me from thinking clear.. ô;ö

[Numa_Cway]

Personally I use (and love) Simple Sexing. Dev describes it as Matchmaker with hotkey instead of Spells (can't confirm, never used Matchmaker).

I never used Vortex so maybe it could give you a warning that it won't work because it's an LE mod? It shouldn't be a problem though, in my SSE install it works perfectly without issues.

 

Basically you target an NPC and press the hotkey. It will open a wheel menu where you can select what should happen: "Normal" Sex, Forced/aggressive Sex or even mark multiple NPCs for orgies.

 

Liebe Grüße

[Nonkh]

I guess you play as a female? Because this:

 

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NOTE: This mod is based around female player characters, due to this initially being a personal mod that I decided to upload, all the scripts were based around my character being the receiver, and I don't plan on adding male optimization, sorry.

 

..is very true.
First try Colette lays down to lick my cunt, second try she bangs me missionairy - too strange for me as a 112% male.. ô;ö

But many thanks for the try - I just had sex MYSELF in my game, just am not the right gender for this..

[Numa_Cway]

43 minutes ago, Nonkh said:

I guess you play as a female?

 

 

Indeed I am. The majority of mods, especially outfits/armor and lewd stuff is designed for female player characters.

 

Some other suggestions you might want to take a look at:

Amorous Adventures: Basically a quest mod. Selected NPCs (not every NPC) can be romanced after completing certain tasks for them.

SL Solutions: Inserts SexLab animations into vanilla Skyrim, e.g. completing quests through sex instead of fighting or NPCs offering sex acts as a thank you.

SL Romance: Relationship and Romance through your speech skill.

 

Edit to add:

SL Pleasure: Also works like this. Talk to NPC, maybe do a quest, sex 'em.

Edited August 5, 2021 by Numa_Cway
Addition

[Psalam]

3 minutes ago, Numa_Cway said:

The majority of mods, especially outfits/armor and lewd stuff is designed for female player characters

This is true. That is why I made two different files for SCS. One for those who want the traditional "masculine" experience and another for the "feminine".

[Nonkh]

1 hour ago, Numa_Cway said:

 

Indeed I am. The majority of mods, especially outfits/armor and lewd stuff is designed for female player characters.

 

Some other suggestions you might want to take a look at:

Amorous Adventures: Basically a quest mod. Selected NPCs (not every NPC) can be romanced after completing certain tasks for them.

SL Solutions: Inserts SexLab animations into vanilla Skyrim, e.g. completing quests through sex instead of fighting or NPCs offering sex acts as a thank you.

SL Romance: Relationship and Romance through your speech skill.

 

Edit to add:

SL Pleasure: Also works like this. Talk to NPC, maybe do a quest, sex 'em.

Thanks for the tips
I've installed all three of them on my SE, but cannot play right now for testing. Didn't even find out how to start the quest-mod. Still not sure which game version I'll play next.. ô;ö ..until I read the Romance one.. that might be what I'm looking for the whole time.. ❤️

 

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If you are shy then you can lead your romantic target to somewhere a little quieter..

 

Yay the here-and-now from the other (partly working) mods is kind of annoying - I will definitly give this a try.

 

 

Edit:
I installed Pleasure too and the there recommended Privacy as well.

Edited August 5, 2021 by Nonkh

[Aldid]

On 8/5/2021 at 3:12 PM, Nonkh said:

Didn't even find out how to start the quest-mod. 

Regarding amorous adventures, the mod has a list of available NPCs with questlines on the original mod page here (It's under the heading "Walk Through / Quest Documentation", below the youtube videos)It's just a matter of talking to any of them and selecting the new "amorous" option in their dialogue. You might want to try with Camilla Valerius or Ysolda to see if it's working, but there are minor questlines for many different npcs.

Edited August 6, 2021 by Aldid