Sims refusing sex and other issues

[Bub560]

Been trying to solve this problem for awhile now and the more I go about it, the stranger the issues become.

 

I updated everything yesterday, though these problems have been bugging me for awhile, and no luck.

 

Check the settings a bunch of times. Tried the ww.fix

 

The first issue I had was my swinger club wound't have sex with the currently playing sim then I saw it was because of the child on lot awareness and that fixed it. Though the weird thing is 3 of the sims there are sisters, one had a romance option for one of them but not all of them with no traits or incest options enabled.  

 

My biggest problem is with the current played sim will never be asked to have sex, be refused to have sex with and refused in joining.  Well the sims without traits like Sexual Appealing. Happens even in pure sex clubs, even made a new sim and he maxed out friendship and romance  with other another sim, got engaged and she still refused sex. Before I had to max out at least friendship before another sim would have sex or  join in, now that's not even working.

 

I know there is the option to always accept but I really don't want to turn that on as it used to work fine with out it being on and I like some rejection, except in clubs cause that doesn't make sense to me. So I decided to turn always accept on, as a test, and in sex clubs the sims will still not ask the played sim for sex nor ask to join in.

 

Does anybody know if there is another mod that could be conflicting with this?

 

As far as romance/sex/woohoo mods I have: Whicked whims,Hoe it up and the romance mods from the same creator, MCC/woohoo,Nisas.

 

 

[RUASim21]

55 minutes ago, Bub560 said:

Been trying to solve this problem for awhile now and the more I go about it, the stranger the issues become.

 

I updated everything yesterday, though these problems have been bugging me for awhile, and no luck.

 

Check the settings a bunch of times. Tried the ww.fix

 

The first issue I had was my swinger club wound't have sex with the currently playing sim then I saw it was because of the child on lot awareness and that fixed it. Though the weird thing is 3 of the sims there are sisters, one had a romance option for one of them but not all of them with no traits or incest options enabled.  

 

My biggest problem is with the current played sim will never be asked to have sex, be refused to have sex with and refused in joining.  Well the sims without traits like Sexual Appealing. Happens even in pure sex clubs, even made a new sim and he maxed out friendship and romance  with other another sim, got engaged and she still refused sex. Before I had to max out at least friendship before another sim would have sex or  join in, now that's not even working.

 

I know there is the option to always accept but I really don't want to turn that on as it used to work fine with out it being on and I like some rejection, except in clubs cause that doesn't make sense to me. So I decided to turn always accept on, as a test, and in sex clubs the sims will still not ask the played sim for sex nor ask to join in.

 

Does anybody know if there is another mod that could be conflicting with this?

 

As far as romance/sex/woohoo mods I have: Whicked whims,Hoe it up and the romance mods from the same creator, MCC/woohoo,Nisas.

 

 

HIU may need to be updated as well as Nisa's mod. Also if you haven't updated MCC, it will need updating too, its version 6.4.0(?) now. 

[procian]

1 hour ago, Bub560 said:

Been trying to solve this problem for awhile now and the more I go about it, the stranger the issues become.

 

I updated everything yesterday, though these problems have been bugging me for awhile, and no luck.

 

Check the settings a bunch of times. Tried the ww.fix

 

The first issue I had was my swinger club wound't have sex with the currently playing sim then I saw it was because of the child on lot awareness and that fixed it. Though the weird thing is 3 of the sims there are sisters, one had a romance option for one of them but not all of them with no traits or incest options enabled.  

 

My biggest problem is with the current played sim will never be asked to have sex, be refused to have sex with and refused in joining.  Well the sims without traits like Sexual Appealing. Happens even in pure sex clubs, even made a new sim and he maxed out friendship and romance  with other another sim, got engaged and she still refused sex. Before I had to max out at least friendship before another sim would have sex or  join in, now that's not even working.

 

I know there is the option to always accept but I really don't want to turn that on as it used to work fine with out it being on and I like some rejection, except in clubs cause that doesn't make sense to me. So I decided to turn always accept on, as a test, and in sex clubs the sims will still not ask the played sim for sex nor ask to join in.

 

Does anybody know if there is another mod that could be conflicting with this?

 

As far as romance/sex/woohoo mods I have: Whicked whims,Hoe it up and the romance mods from the same creator, MCC/woohoo,Nisas.

 

 

Have you experimented with removing mods?....Tried without MCWoohoo? or HIU etc....remember to delete localthumbcache.pkg file  each time you add or remove stuff though...

[Bub560]

After reading this I went through and at first removed HIU, a few other mods, then finally I just removed all my mods except WW/animations. Deleted the localthumbcache. I also reset WW settings and at first it sorta worked. Played sim was able to have sex with a club member but afterwards it didn't work on the same same or other sims in the club. They still wont initiate asking for sex, which is the thing I want to work the most.

 

Just to make sure though and to see if nothing has changed. A sex club rather it be sex or swinging should override all other settings right? By that I mean it shouldn't matter in things like attractions, traits, happiness, needs etc? Because that's the way it used to work for me, IE swinging club for married couples with them getting pissed.

[procian]

6 minutes ago, Bub560 said:

After reading this I went through and at first removed HIU, a few other mods, then finally I just removed all my mods except WW/animations. Deleted the localthumbcache. I also reset WW settings and at first it sorta worked. Played sim was able to have sex with a club member but afterwards it didn't work on the same same or other sims in the club. They still wont initiate asking for sex, which is the thing I want to work the most.

 

Just to make sure though and to see if nothing has changed. A sex club rather it be sex or swinging should override all other settings right? By that I mean it shouldn't matter in things like attractions, traits, happiness, needs etc? Because that's the way it used to work for me, IE swinging club for married couples with them getting pissed.

"Played sim was able to have sex with a club member but afterwards it didn't work on the same same or other sims in the club".....I could be wrong but I think there's a cooldown timer and there is an option somewhere in ww options to alter this.....

[Bub560]

27 minutes ago, procian said:

"Played sim was able to have sex with a club member but afterwards it didn't work on the same same or other sims in the club".....I could be wrong but I think there's a cooldown timer and there is an option somewhere in ww options to alter this.....

I managed to get some of it to work.  The singles club is starting to work with the asking and joining but no go on the swingers.  Changed a lot of the setting but something still doesn't feel  right even when it works. Three couples in it and the played couple is completely ignored and refused.

 

Still don't understand why  of those sisters has a romance option with one but not both of her sisters when I don't have any mods left that effect and I highly doubt its WW.  Im basically trying to get it back to the point where single clubs have sex no matter what, swingers with others in the club and the 100% faithful couples.

 

This patch has done a ton of odd tings for me, haven't had this much trouble before. For instance my sims will identify fish when there is absolutely no fish around or fishing.

 

 

[Scorpio]

2 hours ago, Bub560 said:

but no go on the swingers

There is another setting in WW Relationships that has something to do with staying faithful.

 

If they are in a club, (not the lot type club), with other members and Sex & Swingers are on the to do list and every time you have a club meeting with members they should go for it.

 

Providing they have the proper furniture to play on.

 

WW Settings/Sex/Autonomous/Specifics/Frequency Modifier: Lower down that number to 0.03 for less waiting around time at any location.

(You can adjust that setting to your likeness as needed.

 

Nightclubs with the Hypersexual lot trait are supposed to be like a sex club with lots of sex going on at once.

But the club in Windenberg I had to remodel and add a few beds, chairs, sofas, and 2 large wall mirrors, 1 upstairs and 1 downstairs.

When I go there it only takes around 1 min till I'm asked, although I do have the 'always accept' cheat turned on.

 

Oh, and I've got the WW personality stuff disabled and experimental mode disabled.

  

[Scorpio]

7 hours ago, Bub560 said:

This patch has done a ton of odd tings for me, haven't had this much trouble before.

Well now I gotta eat some crow.

 

Thought I'd visit the Nightclub Narwall Arms in Windenburg just for kicks.

(Nothing to do with club meetings though)

 

Other sims started having sex almost right away, including auto joining 3 ways (FMF).

Married sims having sex with other married and single sims both.

 

My sim spent quite a long time there and was never asked for sex once; many females were present all whom I have a strong romantic relationships with.

12 females and 3 males present including mine.

 

Any other location and they won't leave me alone, well at the households anyway.

 

So you are correct something is wrong either with the game patch or WW, (seems to only affect active sims and not NPC's).

Don't think I've been to the Nightclub since starting a new game and moving to the Islands because I didn't have any lot traits set, which I did when I arrived.

(Sex used to work real nice before)

 

But as a caveat at least some of the auto group sex started working which is one thing that has never worked before.

Even worked for me when I went visiting another household with 2 females, and then at home with my 2 live-ins.

 

Gonna have to try out some other public places like the bars, museums, etc.

[Bub560]

12 hours ago, Scorpio said:

Well now I gotta eat some crow.

 

Thought I'd visit the Nightclub Narwall Arms in Windenburg just for kicks.

(Nothing to do with club meetings though)

 

Other sims started having sex almost right away, including auto joining 3 ways (FMF).

Married sims having sex with other married and single sims both.

 

My sim spent quite a long time there and was never asked for sex once; many females were present all whom I have a strong romantic relationships with.

12 females and 3 males present including mine.

 

Any other location and they won't leave me alone, well at the households anyway.

 

So you are correct something is wrong either with the game patch or WW, (seems to only affect active sims and not NPC's).

Don't think I've been to the Nightclub since starting a new game and moving to the Islands because I didn't have any lot traits set, which I did when I arrived.

(Sex used to work real nice before)

 

But as a caveat at least some of the auto group sex started working which is one thing that has never worked before.

Even worked for me when I went visiting another household with 2 females, and then at home with my 2 live-ins.

 

Gonna have to try out some other public places like the bars, museums, etc.

I made a save to try different options and I managed to get the singles to ask my sim for sex.  Yet when I ported those same settings to my main save it stop working again. Either save I can't get swingers to ask my controlled sims for sex/join in no matter the traits/lot.  The other sims who do engage in sex in the club are staying naked afterwards, which doesn't make sense to me as I have naturism/exhibitionism turned off and all other options like that turned to pretty much auto dress back up. Also noticed I have react to nudity and they are not doing that either.  

 

My only issues before I updated to the current version of the game was sims wouldn't ask for sex unless my sims either had the sex appeal trait or had  max friendship.  For instance I could get to max friendship and have my sims start solo and they would ask to join in. They don't do that anymore  either. Now my sim has max romance, friendship and was engaged and she still refused. Single clubs were working great and swingers was random.

 

I thought at first the club issue might have been that I have mods to make the club hold more members but that is not the case. Some of these issues didn't crop up either until I bought Seasons, don't have island living yet.  I see way too many sims randomly start singing and playing musical instruments and I thought it was for holiday reason but they do it every day even without having traits related to either.

 

Also I thought I read that celebrity sims are supposed to show up less but in my game they show up constantly and its annoying.

 

Finally have enough free time this morning,  so going to try and figure more of this out. One reason I didn't update the game till a few days ago. In my book mod>game updates. Still haven't updated skyrim or Fallout 4 in over a year, well don't want to break mods simply cause of club creation. 

 

Edit: Managed to get this to work for the most part. I put it on extreme intensity on the autonomy part, didn't have to do that before, but oh well. Anyway I turned that on and both the single and swinger are asking to start sex, though other club remembers auto join in (could have sworn they asked to join or was that random non club remembers?).

 

Though on the extreme auto it says "relationships don't matter" so does that mean it overrides the stay faithful option to each other or not? Get confused on this sometimes as to what actually overrides what.  I don't want all my sims out there having sex, I turned off the random part, but I just want some couples swinging. 

 

Differently going to have to tweak this more as the frequency from extreme is too much for me but its at least going in the right direction.

[Scorpio]

23 hours ago, Bub560 said:

Edit: Managed to get this to work for the most part. I put it on extreme intensity on the autonomy part, didn't have to do that before, but oh well. Anyway I turned that on and both the single and swinger are asking to start sex, though other club remembers auto join in (could have sworn they asked to join or was that random non club remembers?).

 

Though on the extreme auto it says "relationships don't matter" so does that mean it overrides the stay faithful option to each other or not? Get confused on this sometimes as to what actually overrides what.  I don't want all my sims out there having sex, I turned off the random part, but I just want some couples swinging. 

I just got mine working right again after selecting the 'extreme intensity' also.

Then went back and turned off the Solo Sex and Travel Sex switches.

Also raised the WW Specifics/Random Frequency Number from 0.01 to 0.03, (You can adjust this higher as needed to tone down the sex, I think)

Some of the female sims were asking, more than once, I clicked on Accept, but my sim would just stand around until another asked.

I turned off the 3 'Ask for Sex' dialog switches and then the sex pairs started going on the first try.

 

Extreme Sex is like an 'anything go's' setting, and yes relationships are ignored, (that relationship switch setting may get turned off when selecting Extreme, IDK).

I do know that some of the other switches get changed.

 

Whenever my sim visits any public lot townies start pouring in after him and as long as you have the 'autonomous switch' enabled they will all go at it.

Hard to avoid the sex parties at public lots with the auto/extreme mode, changing it to 'High' will slow it down some, and then play with that number (mentioned above).

 

When I was in a sex club I built a private clubhouse and placed on a empty lot to have private meetings, 'members only' type door.

This prevented all the townies from dropping in and sex/swinging was for private club members only.

Only trouble I had was selecting a lot type as bars/nightclubs need bartenders/and maybe DJ's who aren't club members and get locked  out, or in.

(Since most of the clubs other activities were drinking & dancing)

Just start a new club, give it a name, and ask only married couples to join, or whatever.  

 

I guess you just have to keep playing with different settings as will I. 

[Bub560]

On 8/12/2019 at 7:10 AM, Scorpio said:

I just got mine working right again after selecting the 'extreme intensity' also.

Then went back and turned off the Solo Sex and Travel Sex switches.

Also raised the WW Specifics/Random Frequency Number from 0.01 to 0.03, (You can adjust this higher as needed to tone down the sex, I think)

Some of the female sims were asking, more than once, I clicked on Accept, but my sim would just stand around until another asked.

I turned off the 3 'Ask for Sex' dialog switches and then the sex pairs started going on the first try.

 

Extreme Sex is like an 'anything go's' setting, and yes relationships are ignored, (that relationship switch setting may get turned off when selecting Extreme, IDK).

I do know that some of the other switches get changed.

 

Whenever my sim visits any public lot townies start pouring in after him and as long as you have the 'autonomous switch' enabled they will all go at it.

Hard to avoid the sex parties at public lots with the auto/extreme mode, changing it to 'High' will slow it down some, and then play with that number (mentioned above).

 

When I was in a sex club I built a private clubhouse and placed on a empty lot to have private meetings, 'members only' type door.

This prevented all the townies from dropping in and sex/swinging was for private club members only.

Only trouble I had was selecting a lot type as bars/nightclubs need bartenders/and maybe DJ's who aren't club members and get locked  out, or in.

(Since most of the clubs other activities were drinking & dancing)

Just start a new club, give it a name, and ask only married couples to join, or whatever.  

 

I guess you just have to keep playing with different settings as will I. 

I turned off random sex but I still have random townies having sex so there something else I haven't checked off probably, probably the travel one. As far as relationships go, I kept the faithful option enabled and so far my married couples have stayed that way. In fact I have see them having sex in random places, like lounges, but with only their partners. The only time they "cheat" is if I have my current sim invite them to join in.

 

Still having some issues where sex clubs asking not asking my sim for sex. They will ask to join in and so will random other sims but they never ask to start it themselves.  Now that I think about it, the issue pops up  at public places. At homes my played sims always get asked (after changing my settings) vs when out in public they don't. 

 

Going to have to make a club like you did.  That and probably going to make them just pure sex club and single only . Swining works fine now, as long as they are at home/apartments.