Ignore the idiots. 

47 minutes ago, foxytrickster said:

Ignore the idiots. 

Sure, but it's can be not so easy when you have few dozens your mods on tracking and tons of that shit in PM day by day.

As i said, i dont care about this on Nexus but same shit here -is already too much.

>Dicks on girls are gross... um no they are not? Just like beauty, it is a subjective concept, and you are free to choose any mods from any modders you like.

I would ignore that, but I'm also a bit curious about the nature of those messages. Don't make such stuff because... somebody in particular finds it weird? Who died and made them boss, lol

Chicks with dicks aren't my thing, but I have to admit I find it strange that anyone who is a part of this community would engage in kinkshaming. Of course, I've only been around for a couple years, and only semi-active, but my read would be the folks sending you these messages don't "get" what LL is all about.

Hard to "ignore" people that send you messages or tag you, but at the very least, I'd recommend that you don't give them the satisfaction of responding to their nonsense. Just scroll on past it.

11 minutes ago, flybox said:

Chicks with dicks aren't my thing, but I have to admit I find it strange that anyone who is a part of this community would engage in kinkshaming. Of course, I've only been around for a couple years, and only semi-active, but my read would be the folks sending you these messages don't "get" what LL is all about.

 

Hard to "ignore" people that send you messages or tag you, but at the very least, I'd recommend that you don't give them the satisfaction of responding to their nonsense. Just scroll on past it.

I actually came in here to say this same thing. IMO 99% of the stuff that makes it on this site isn't MY cup of tea. But what purpose does literally telling someone "don't do that thing because its not for me" do on a site like this? If that kind of ridiculous advice was followed...there would be NOTHING on this site (EVERYBODY doesn't like something...and collectively we all dislike everything).

There are in fact people who even actively dislike straight...normal human on human sex. So consider that it would be gone as well if we started following "don't do it because so and so users may not like it" mantra. Then consider from there all other things are progressively less popular than that...and they'd all be gone. Might as well shut down this site (and any adult site on the internet)

Basically...the ones PMing you are either kids or very ignorant of how ANYTHING works. You can probably just send their PMs to the site moderators to (hopefully) get them to stop.

i know that profile name they have been also targeting futanemesis on here to with that same energy 2 years later and he is still at that bullshit

I personally don't like futas, but this is LL. People do what they like and there's nothing wrong with it. If I see something I like - I DL and use it and thank the author for sharing their work. If I dislike something - I move along. This is the proper way, I believe. These messages you've received shaming not you, but them, for being dickheads.

Sounds like kids tbh. They probably aren't even old enough to be here 😅

The inability of people to just ignore things that are not meant for them amazes me every day anew👀

Sorry to hear you and so many other people who're making Futa and similar content seem to be the target of literal children, like srly

For several years now, right-wing conservative political organizations have been trying to turn the "wheel of history" back to a time... only this era (as it is "invoked") never existed.

This also includes a very one-dimensional image of the biological and social sexes and of the way in which people should interact with each other in their opinion - whether love or sex... even "friendship" is "pilloried" there.

And of course this "culture war" is taking on increasingly absurd forms... because even a porn forum is only supposed to reflect the simple worldview (man fucks woman) that these people themselves have - everything else must be fought or even destroyed.

Whether the "writers" you quoted are

- AI bots

- MAGA activists

- fame-seeking young people

- it plays absolutely no role.

In the last 20 years of my life - in which I have been actively involved with BDSM and fetishes - I have seen/experienced many things that did not correspond to my personal preferences. But as long as I was not involved in these "games" against my express will - I never had a problem with it.

And of course I also request (or demand) this concession from others who are in the "same scene" (such as modifying games with "adult" content)!

5 hours ago, Miauzi said:

For several years now, right-wing conservative political organizations have been trying to turn the "wheel of history" back to a time... only this era (as it is "invoked") never existed.

 

This also includes a very one-dimensional image of the biological and social sexes and of the way in which people should interact with each other in their opinion - whether love or sex... even "friendship" is "pilloried" there.

 

And of course this "culture war" is taking on increasingly absurd forms... because even a porn forum is only supposed to reflect the simple worldview (man fucks woman) that these people themselves have - everything else must be fought or even destroyed.

 

Whether the "writers" you quoted are

- AI bots

- MAGA activists

- fame-seeking young people

- it plays absolutely no role.

 

In the last 20 years of my life - in which I have been actively involved with BDSM and fetishes - I have seen/experienced many things that did not correspond to my personal preferences. But as long as I was not involved in these "games" against my express will - I never had a problem with it.

And of course I also request (or demand) this concession from others who are in the "same scene" (such as modifying games with "adult" content)!

umm... could you repeat that in a way that a high school dropout such as myself could understand please

Wtf are people doing stuff like this on LoversLab for?! I thought this was a place specifically to cater to different types of fetishes.

I too dislike chicks with dicks, but I encourage you to keep doing them. If there is a button for that, you can block them. I don't know if there is a way to block people from even coming to your mod to comment but I know some would open new accounts to turn it into a harassment. It must be discouraging for you. Take a break without reading anything if you need to but I hope you don't stop what you want to do and what they hate. Yours is effort, theirs is hatred. The latter shouldn't drive the world.

don't let these idiots tell you what to do. Personally, hermaphrodites, trans people and the like don't turn me on at all. But it wouldn't occur to me to tell a designer what to do. Courage in any case! 

I am not gay neither am I homophobic, I say make whatever you wish, do what makes you happy, those who spread Hate should not be given an inch of ground to stand on.

Too much Hate spreading over the world these days.   

Peace to you all.    

There's a "report" button. Use it liberally.

4 minutes ago, belegost said:

There's a "report" button. Use it liberally.

Yeah. But i don't like to press buttons of that kind. We all have right for our own position. I prefer to solve issues like that in more diplomatic way. If this is possible.

3 hours ago, TRX_Trixter said:

I prefer to solve issues like that in more diplomatic way. If this is possible.

11 minutes ago, belegost said:

Nie uprawia się dyplomacji z kryminalistami. Akurat Ty powinieneś dobrze o tym wiedzieć z pierwszej ręki.

Myślę, że wiesz dobrze co konkretnie mam na myśli. CУ.

Tak, rozumiem to bardzo dobrze, ale nie tracę nadziei, że ludzie nadal są ludźmi. Nie jestem idealistą. Tyle, że ostatnio mam dość złości, okrucieństwa i „trudnych decyzji”. Chcę żyć i komunikować się jak ludzie. Nawet w przypadku konfliktów.
Dziękuję za wsparcie i zrozumienie.

4 hours ago, TRX_Trixter said:

Yeah. But i don't like to press buttons of that kind. We all have right for our own position. I prefer to solve issues like that in more diplomatic way. If this is possible.

You also have a right to not be harassed by assholes and as you've already indicated.. you don't have time for that shit. Be kind to yourself first.

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I bet these are some uneducated people. 
As a straight guy myself, I always found Futanari characters attractive and appealing. There are a lot of people who think the same, straight and gay individuals.
But those are some bad group minorities, to prove that, compare the number of downloads of such mods compared to the number of hate messages. There is a stark difference.  
You'd be surprised how many people like hermaphrodite content. And they're not even homosexual. 
And for me, I'm really thankful to you for the amazing work you've done. It's really inspiring and interesting. Thank you so much. Please don't listen to them.