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Butt slapping

> I will not talk about other kinds of butt slapping but the one among love couples. My Ivy was sitting in my Prince lap during the break and when she stood up to go to the toilet, my Prince slapped her butt. It is very normal to him and to us, we love it and he is doing it all the time, since the day we became lovers. Even my Ivy and I are doing it to each other and to my Prince. But, Lidija doesn’t like it. She said that but slapping is humiliating of the women  and that she is not a ma
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Dangerous prejudices

> Have you ever been wrong about people you met either in real life or on social network? I was. I met individuals from both sexes that I didn't like at first sight (or saying), and I avoided them. I simply couldn't accept them until I decided to get to know them. Oh my, I was sooo wrong. I discovered how warm and nice those people are. Sometimes our first impression is completely wrong and we do not know what we are losing keeping them on distance. There were (are) people who didn't like me
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Desperate to be liked or loved or popular?

> First of all I loooove "Bruce Almighty" movie. I watched it several times and the scene above my text is my favorite one. Indeed, you can't make or force anyone to love you. It is the "matter" of that person's heart regardless of possessing all powers of the universe. If you watched that movie, you know what I am talking about. Anyway, being inspired by @KoolHndLuke's thread "Are you like whore?" I started to think: " Am I a person who would do anything in order to make people around me to
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(Dis)respecting common cultural practices

> This entry is strictly related to cultural practices in our country. > Some people have no respect for certain common cultural practices. We use slippers or walk barefooted in our house. Not only in our house but in every house we are invited as guests. It is the part of our culture. Even than we do not lift our feet on the sofa or chair. If our hosts tells us to keep on our shoes, we do it, but we do not put our feet on their furniture. It is rude and disrespectful and unhygienic.
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Hard to please people

> Have you ever met people who are hard to please, who are never satisfied or content with whatever you do or say? I have a friend who has complicated parents who never sees her right and she is never good enough to them. If she reacts on their accusations and verbal attacks, they criticizing her saying: "Why do you always have to defend yourself?!" but if she is silent, saying no word, they say: "Why are you so silent? Say something!" Her parents are kind of people who always must have right
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Honoring your parents

> My wife and I had very distant and broken relationship with our parents 5 years ago. Hers was even worst than mine. She didn't speak with them at all and if she had to she was always rude and her talk was filled with swears and insults especially toward her mother. My relationship with my mother was waaay better than with my father although I also kept her on distance and was rude to her. She was true angel and she still is. She was always kind and good to me and when she discovered that my
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Who the fuck gives a shit about your past?! (I know I don't)

> One among many things that thrilled me about my Prince when we started dating was what he told me when I wanted to tell him about my past for I didn't want to hide anything from him and that he wouldn't be surprised, better, shocked when he finds out about me. He said: "Princess, I do not care what you did before we met, unless you want to tell me to lighten your soul. But, as for me, I love you as you are and your past is completely irrelevant to me." And he mean it. As we advanced in our
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The Power of 4 Magic Words

> Before my Ivy and I met my Prince, those words didn't exist in my vocabulary. Well, only "Thank you" sometimes and they were addressed rarely and to very limited number of people like my mom, my Ivy and my Fran. On the other hand, my Prince used those words all the time and never missed opportunity to use them. They naturally came out of his heart and mouth. I was never aware of their power until I saw them in "practice", especially " I'm sorry" in combination with "Please, forgive me." "I
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Different opinions and disagreements

OR   > Different opinions and disagreements too often becomes stumbling rocks among people. We, for instance, do not let them to become our stumbling rock. My husband and wife are very vengeful and they think offenders who doesn't repent or do not apologize should be punished. They also try to reason with offenders but after second warning they just start kicking asses. I have opposite opinion and many times I am just for "Let go" option. We speak our minds, stress out our arguments
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Late wisdom

> My very good and close friend is very bright and intelligent young woman, but she have a problem with "late wisdom". She described it like this: "I have a problem with presenting my arguments during discussions. When I suppose to defend my argument or to deny my interlocutor's argument my mind is simply blocked. But when we depart and when I analyze or discussion, the answers and counter arguments suddenly pops up out of nowhere. And it always happens to me when talking about very important
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It is not their fault!!!

> My heart bled when I read this (full) article. I remembered the time when my Ivy and I met my Prince's sister for the first time. She had cerebral palsy, she was mute and deaf and she was mentally retarded; a 6-8 years old child i the body of 33 old and big girl. But she was very beautiful and she loved the people. She immediately bound with me and in sign language she told me that I am very beautiful like a princess. She loved to comb my hair. I enjoyed watching her talking with her brothe
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Sick possessiveness

> I often heard: " If I can't have her, nobody will" and opposite "If I can't have him, no woman will". WTF??? Who gave them right to think and speak such nonsense. Other human beings aren't objects which we can posses as we want and whenever we want. That attitude comes from very emotionally and mentally disturbed people and in most cases is very dangerous. Some of my ex bfs were like that. Well, thank heavens I mostly didn't suffer heavy consequences because their threat mostly stayed only
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Rant - not fair!!!

> I was right about LL psychos and how poorly LL discipline them. I was just being curious about one thread in "Skyrim adult mods" section. There was a user who had problem with his game. So he asked for help. Two LL members had opposite opinion about solution to his problem. One of them got offended and he posted sarcastic comment. The third LL member reacted and rebuked sarcastic LL member. The moderator interfered and warned them to stop it or he will lock the thread. WTF???? Since the sar
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ASPD

> Psychopaths are among us. Here are the tips how to recognize them. Unfortunately this article does not say how to fight them, but LL rules expect you to report them to moderators. Few psychology terms stir up confusion like the word psychopath. Even though it’s commonly used to describe someone who has a mental illness, psychopath is not an official diagnosis. The true definition of a psychopath in psychiatry is antisocial personality disorder (ASPD), explains Dr. Prakash Masand, a psychiat
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In Jayomms' honor

> Our very dear LL friend, Jayomms has a birthday today. He supported us from the beginning and became our very dear and close friend. He knew and respected my Prince's father when was alive and active LL member and he continued to support my husband. When I joined LL, Jay accepted me too and helped me many times encouraging me and lifting me up when I was down or advising me what to and what not to do. We love him very much and we wish him happy, successful, healthy and prosperous life. So,
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LL Immaturity

> Every forum like every organization, association or club have rules. They are there for reason. Not for "Rules are there to be broken" attitude as some LL members sees it and act accordingly without being properly punished. I considered myself as reasonable woman who followed and respected LL rules. Unfortunately, some brainless creatures made me do opposite. I'll tell you why. I am tolerant person to some extent and I can't simply ignore being constantly rudely attacked, or insulted or moc
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Quarrels

> Some psychologist sees quarrel as something good saying that it is better to speak up your mind than hold the “eruption” within yourself because it can make more damage to yourself than when letting it out. Well, my Ivy and I always speak up our mind but our husband isn’t such person. He would speak up his mind as long his interlocutor co-operates and even when he/she disagree, but if he sees that it will go into the verbal fight, he pulls out of discussion. It doesn’t mean that he do not “
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Human life less worthy than a dog?!

> In our country the laws are very controversial. The theory is one thing but practice is another thing. Many laws in our country are copied from West European countries and I am talkig about bad and controversial ones. I knew that we are rotten to the hell, but that human life is less worthy than a dog life is very shocking.   > Since 2013, whoever kills the dog gets 10 years in jail plus money penalty.      
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Caring for others - insanity or love?

> Caring for others was never on my priority list before I met my husband. I was selfish and other people's problems and needs didn't bothered me. I always had more than I need and I often bought things that I didn't need but I temporary lusted for them which ended in the trash when I got bored. Charity and compassion didn't exist in my vocabulary. I was beautiful cold-hearted snow queen. Falling in love with my Prince and living with him made me learn a lot from him. He was completely opposi
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Vocal sounds as sex asset

> I don't know about you but to three of us, vocal sounds like words and moans is very necessary sex asset. Our husband loves when we talk dirty to each other and to him during the sex and he likes to hear we moan in pleasure. No, we never fake pleasure or orgasm. It's not fair and nice. My wife and I also loves to hear him moaning in pleasure and talking dirty to us calling us various dirty names. It shows to us that he enjoy in sex with us. My Ivy and I are often very loud during the sex es
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What do you hate about yourself? What would you change?

> I do spend a lot of time in the front of the mirror because I care 'bout my look and the beauty. But most of the time when I look at myself in the mirror it is not my weary hair, the remains of the makeup or eyeliner that I don't like to see. It is my character that bothers me. I am too emotional, too fast to talk and slow to listen, occasionally judgemental and selfish, and must be the first in everything. Yes, my god damn ego is too big and that is what I do not like about myself. The goo
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Movie that failed my expectations

> Last night my luvs and I watched "Black widow" with Scarlett Johansson. We were very disappointed. The director of "Black widow" is a woman, Cate Shortland who obviously had different approach to Natasha Romanoff character than directors of "Avengers". Focusing more on drama and Natasha's relationship with her sister, Natasha as a spy and assassin was irrelevant for director in this movie. That is not excuse for lame fighting scenes that were plenty in the movie. While she was almost unbeat
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Damn corruption

> This is the quote from here: https://www.occrp.org/en/daily/14672-report-corruption-in-croatia-makes-people-leave "Transparency International, an independent think tank, ranked Croatia as the 63rd most corrupt out of 180 countries in its 2020 Corruption Index, and a “bottom scorer” in the European Union. Croatia has hovered around the 60s ranking since 2015. In the recent months — and even days — the media has focused attention on both Croatia’s high emigration and high corruption rate
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Grandiosity, narcissism and arogance

>I am sure you know what these three terms means. I know some people like this. They would never admit they are wrong and would never accept better ideas. Unfortunately such people are all around us all the time, even in LL. How do you deal with them? And how you see yourself in the light of these three?  
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(Hate) Clowns

> When I came home after the work, my mom told me that my children are afraid of clowns. She said that there was some circus show on Italian channel and she watched it with children thinking that they might like it. She said children loved everything about animals, (lions, tigers, elephants, horses and dogs) but they cried and didn't want to watch it when they saw clowns. Why am I not surprised?! Children nowadays are not scared of ogres, witches, monsters, but they are scared of clowns who s
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