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Desperate to be liked or loved or popular?


Evaloves4

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> First of all I loooove "Bruce Almighty" movie. I watched it several times and the scene above my text is my favorite one. Indeed, you can't make or force anyone to love you. It is the "matter" of that person's heart regardless of possessing all powers of the universe. If you watched that movie, you know what I am talking about. :) Anyway, being inspired by @KoolHndLuke's thread "Are you like whore?" I started to think: " Am I a person who would do anything in order to make people around me to love me?" I do like to receive LL "likes" and I do like to receive compliments and commends in real life about my look and job done, but, going deep into my soul, I was glad I realized I wouldn't do anything that is clashing and opposing with my beliefs and the way of living just to make people to like me.
 
> When my husband played Skyrim and was member of LL, he always posted skinny, small chested and small ass girls. When my Ivy joined him, she said to him: "Honey, why don't you make your NPCs and your female character with larger boobs and asses? People seems to love it more and you will get more likes." He replied that although he likes to get likes, he will not change females' look in his game saying that he is not after being popular, but to be himself, just as he is in real life. I liked it. It is one thing to accept well meaning and good suggestion, but it is completely another pair of shoes stopping being yourself to please masses who likes you or loves you as long as you pleases them. No, that is not what I want and I am not that me desperate. :D

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Well said. In the end, that love that strangers give us on the internet transformed into likes, is an empty love if we are not ourselves. We cannot expect people to truly love us by being something we are not. Then they would not love us, but rather that someone we have created. We have to be ourself all the time, so the right people will come into our life.

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