> Some psychologist sees quarrel as something good saying that it is better to speak up your mind than hold the “eruption” within yourself because it can make more damage to yourself than when letting it out. Well, my Ivy and I always speak up our mind but our husband isn’t such person. He would speak up his mind as long his interlocutor co-operates and even when he/she disagree, but if he sees that it will go into the verbal fight, he pulls out of discussion. It doesn’t mean that he do not “fight” for the right thing, it means that he just avoid for him unnecessary quarrels. He has motto: “I speak my mind only once or twice, more than that is waste of time and energy.”

> What do you think about quarrels?