Problem with "lover's desire".

[Will55]

I am a little new at all of this so please forgive any  blatant stupidity: my char has a 20% experience loss due to 'unfulfilled "lover's desire". Now she has no real romantic attachments currently anyhow and when I noticed the initial 10% I had my char bonk every one near to Falkreath (>30) and it actually rose to 20%. Now I don't mind a bit of err 'spice" in my game but I don't want to spend all of my time bonking everyone in Skyrim and frankly have no idea of what to do here.

I have gone through the MCM files countless times and still have no idea how to switch it off so that I can even do a quest.

Can someone please tell me what to do?

[Just Don't]

That sounds like the effect from SL Aroused. So go to the Aroused MCM and disable the desire spell. 

[Psalam]

3 minutes ago, Will55 said:

I am a little new at all of this so please forgive any  blatant stupidity: my char has a 20% experience loss due to 'unfulfilled "lover's desire". Now she has no real romantic attachments currently anyhow and when I noticed the initial 10% I had my char bonk every one near to Falkreath (>30) and it actually rose to 20%. Now I don't mind a bit of err 'spice" in my game but I don't want to spend all of my time bonking everyone in Skyrim and frankly have no idea of what to do here.

I have gone through the MCM files countless times and still have no idea how to switch it off so that I can even do a quest.

Can someone please tell me what to do?

This sounds like the result of SexLab Aroused Redux. If it is not required for something else you could simply remove it from your load order. If it is required there are settings in the McMenu that eliminate any change in your arousal state.

[Will55]

Thank you both! I had already done that but it must have taken a while to work. A  lockup forced a reboot and then it was all okay. So a panic over nothing and I am now in Riften  at last. Had loads of problems with S.L.U.T. working as my char never had any feet despite even being naked to start so I will try it later. It was only a test run anyway as I want a home first as I am not subsidising anyone.

 

One more question: I have enslaved and released multiple bandits as it became a nuisance having a horde of whining slaves following me around. I guess that they have to go to the place behind Riften but they are a nuisance just like those women I converted into hookers who kept following my char around and I had to use "moveto" to send them back home as Riverwood need a brothel and a madame  as do most places. Oh well live and learn : )

 

 

 

[Ramien]

Just to add on to this; SexLab Aroused Redux increases your character's time rate every time they have an orgasm - so if you slept with that many people near Falkreath, you'd have a very high time rate, so the next time it updates your status, you'd go right back to being very needy again. Sex addiction can be very much a thing in game as a result.

[Vanus]

Another method is to go into aroused redux and dial down your arousal to non-existent then lock arousal check box this method keeps my toons from loosing their minds in custom houses with a bunch of mannequins.