slso SexLab Separate Orgasm SE

[Ed86]

14 hours ago, Tatanos said:

Hello everyone, I have a problem, but I'm not sure if it's a settings issue or if something isn't working properly.

 

In my opinion, the mod works without any problems, but the partners never reach orgasm during sex because the Enjoyment increases so slowly that the bar is usually only half full at the end of the scene.
As a result, my PC is always at 100 aroused because the sex never leads to orgasm.

 

I know that you can increase the Enjoyment multiplier in the MCM, but it can't be intentional that the PC and NPC can only have an orgasm if you have previously increased the multiplier in the MCM.

 

Does anyone have any idea what the problem could be, or is it really intentional to simply increase the settings?

there is probably an error with your user, it is supposed to click mouse buttons to achieve apropriate results, if user doesnt work maybe replace it

[Tatanos]

Ah, okay, thank you. I wasn't aware of that; I thought it was optional.

[Ed86]

2 hours ago, Tatanos said:

Ah, okay, thank you. I wasn't aware of that; I thought it was optional.

then enable auto mode in mcm

[Leytra]

So, mod used to work fine for me, and it's still half working

but I can nolonger see the enjoyment ui

I've tried toggling it off and on with a hotkey, I've tried disabling it in mcm and reactivating it, nothing, the ui just doesn't show up during sex anymore, does anyone know what might be causing this?

[PippinTom]

6 hours ago, Leytra said:

So, mod used to work fine for me, and it's still half working

but I can nolonger see the enjoyment ui

I've tried toggling it off and on with a hotkey, I've tried disabling it in mcm and reactivating it, nothing, the ui just doesn't show up during sex anymore, does anyone know what might be causing this?

 

Do some test first - when animation starts, hit relocate animation and continue it somewhere else, doesn't matter where - can be 1m away from original spot - and see if that helps.

[Leytra]

10 hours ago, PippinTom said:

 

Do some test first - when animation starts, hit relocate animation and continue it somewhere else, doesn't matter where - can be 1m away from original spot - and see if that helps.

Already tried that, no luck.

I've messed with every sexlab feature, even ripped slso out of the game and reinstalled it, nothing

[morpheousz]

On 3/12/2026 at 12:17 PM, Leytra said:

So, mod used to work fine for me, and it's still half working

but I can nolonger see the enjoyment ui

I've tried toggling it off and on with a hotkey, I've tried disabling it in mcm and reactivating it, nothing, the ui just doesn't show up during sex anymore, does anyone know what might be causing this?

This happens to me, what I have found is holding the "utility" key and then the "UI" key for SLSO it will get the widget to show again, not sure why it happens.

[Leytra]

On 3/18/2026 at 5:59 PM, morpheousz said:

This happens to me, what I have found is holding the "utility" key and then the "UI" key for SLSO it will get the widget to show again, not sure why it happens.

This worked, you're a fuckin lifesaver. Very much appreciated.

[nunyabidnez]

I'm not sure if I'm describing this well, and the search feature didn't really help much either.  So, as other have described, I'll get stuck in the endless animation loop, but usually only when it's multiple partners in aggressive animations.  But, again with aggressive animations / rape scenarios, what happens with a single agressor is the agressor will go through to it's normal climax, and then will continue, as expected, but instead of just working through one series of animations it goes through like every available animation for the current stage in a constant, rapid tranisition and will not advance stages when it's doing that, also won't stay in one animation long enough to increase the aggressor's arousal so it effectively ends up in a endless loop until I force animations to stop.  I'm not sure if it's tied to SLSO, I almost want to say it's not, but I also don't have a clue as to what would cause it and SLSO is the only mod I have, (I think), which affects animations stages like that.  If this sounds familiar to anyone, would you please let me know if it is SLSO or not, and if you were able to correct the issue would you post how you did it?  Thank you in advance for any information / assistance.

[daskull]

I don't know where the problem lies, but all the pleasure parameters are 0 from beginning to end. The excitement level of SL will quickly rise to 100 points and return to 0 at the end of the animation. SLSO seems to not work throughout the entire process. My native language is not English, so maybe I missed something crucial, but no matter how much I try, I can't find the problem.

[daskull]

The SexLab Utility Plus has indeed solved the problem, thank you to the great hands in the comment section! @whotheknow

[morpheousz]

Is it possible to have slso not end a consensual animation / scene when you reach the last stage of the animation? As in, you advance the animation to the last stage, and instead of the next "advance" ending the entire sex scene, just have it loop back to the first stage, or maybe just back to the previous stage?

 

It is hard to always know what the "last" stage of an animation is and I often "end" the scene prematurely. There are settings for non-consensual to not be able to end until the aggressor orgasms, wondering if there is something similar that can be done for consensual, or maybe just, never end unless I hit the sexlab "end" hotkey or something?

[mcnv]

On 4/10/2026 at 11:32 PM, morpheousz said:

Is it possible to have slso not end a consensual animation / scene when you reach the last stage of the animation? As in, you advance the animation to the last stage, and instead of the next "advance" ending the entire sex scene, just have it loop back to the first stage, or maybe just back to the previous stage?

 

It is hard to always know what the "last" stage of an animation is and I often "end" the scene prematurely. There are settings for non-consensual to not be able to end until the aggressor orgasms, wondering if there is something similar that can be done for consensual, or maybe just, never end unless I hit the sexlab "end" hotkey or something?

you can enable that using the "require aggressor orgasm" setting. 

[morpheousz]

4 hours ago, mcnv said:

you can enable that using the "require aggressor orgasm" setting. 

Right, but my point is that only applies to rape/aggressor scenes, regular consensual scenes do not have this option, which is what I was asking about as a new feature.

[morpheousz]

3 hours ago, morpheousz said:

Right, but my point is that only applies to rape/aggressor scenes, regular consensual scenes do not have this option, which is what I was asking about as a new feature.

Ok did some digging into the scripts, i am still looking through, but it looks like the commit for "added toggle for consensual orgasm requirement" didnt correctly make it into the latest SE version? Trying to look through the changes to see what was missed, but I found a few lines at least that do not have the changes from that commit.

[mcnv]

12 hours ago, morpheousz said:

Ok did some digging into the scripts, i am still looking through, but it looks like the commit for "added toggle for consensual orgasm requirement" didnt correctly make it into the latest SE version? Trying to look through the changes to see what was missed, but I found a few lines at least that do not have the changes from that commit.

unfortunate. I'd like such a feature as well.

[FINALLY AWAKE.]

Hi @Ed86 can you please suggest, my NPCs always reach 100% and even 200% enjoyment but NPC-aggressor never ejaculate - I tried all settings what I'm doing wrong, which setting should I use to make them cum, the bar just has 200% and stays without any progress... 

[Ed86]

39 minutes ago, FINALLY AWAKE. said:

Hi @Ed86 can you please suggest, my NPCs always reach 100% and even 200% enjoyment but NPC-aggressor never ejaculate - I tried all settings what I'm doing wrong, which setting should I use to make them cum, the bar just has 200% and stays without any progress... 

-enable separate orgasms

-make sure nothing overwrites sla patch

-remove blush when aroused or any other mod that sets arousal at 100%

[aspirine2]

hey,

while consensual sex animation are playing between pc and npc, if that animation got disturbed or canceled  npc still reaches orgasm phase. and it shouldn't happen according to the mod capabilities. 

this happens with Radiant prostitution Gigolo se, npc reaches orgasm phase even when animation ends or get disturberbed. i messed with my settings but i need to know which setting exactly can control npc orgasm phase and works with Radiant prostitution Gigolo se?

 

many thanks in advance.

[Ed86]

3 hours ago, aspirine2 said:

hey,

while consensual sex animation are playing between pc and npc, if that animation got disturbed or canceled  npc still reaches orgasm phase. and it shouldn't happen according to the mod capabilities. 

this happens with Radiant prostitution Gigolo se, npc reaches orgasm phase even when animation ends or get disturberbed. i messed with my settings but i need to know which setting exactly can control npc orgasm phase and works with Radiant prostitution Gigolo se?

 

many thanks in advance.

by the sound of it, it doesnt support separate orgasms

[umcreiger]

having an issue where the enjoyment meter doesnt move for anybody. playing on .1170 skyrim and 1.66b sl. also did everything it says to do in the mcm

[Plaguetard2.0]

Sooo... not sure if anyone has an idea what I screwed up. And yes, I'm aware I should have made a copy of my MO profile, too late to realize I was an idiot. Anyways, I tried switching oer to Sexlab P+ out of a suggestion. Overall, I had nothing but issues and came back to my original setup. While I was trying it out, I had obviously disabled SLSO since they aren't really compatible. Upon returning to SLSO, everything seems to work, except the enjoyment bars are always just empty for both PC and others. Anyone come across this and can suggest what I need to look at? I keep looking at everything and I swear I thought I put everything back the way it was.....

 

Any insight is helpful, thanks.

 

** EDIT - Disregard... I just played for a bit, and about 20 minutes, in, it just... works lol **

Edited May 29 by Plaguetard2.0

[umcreiger]

i have a bug where the animation doesnt keep me stuck until aggressor orgasms anymore. it was working perfectly before, now it just plays the animations straight through. i didnt add or remove any thing or edit any mcm since it worked

[Ed86]

4 hours ago, umcreiger said:

i have a bug where the animation doesnt keep me stuck until aggressor orgasms anymore. it was working perfectly before, now it just plays the animations straight through. i didnt add or remove any thing or edit any mcm since it worked

1) make sure you have options enabled in mcm

2) make sure your animations are tagged as agressive and has victim n stuff 

[umcreiger]

5 minutes ago, Ed86 said:

1) make sure you have options enabled in mcm

2) make sure your animations are tagged as agressive and has victim n stuff 

yep i have that. i did everything that is needed. mod was working perfectly, then out of nowhere now the excitement bars stay at 0, and the animations play straight through even if the aggressor never orgasmed from the energy bar filling up.