A Good Base for Sexlab

[Bounty]

Hey there, I hope it's ok to ask for help here. I started modding skyrim again after many horrible attempts years ago.

 

I've got a High End system so my first attempt was a Realvision ENB Base: https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/30936/

I installed all the needed and many of the recommended mods. Got a very laggy / buggy experience before even getting into the sexlab mods.

 

So this time I left the Enb away and just installed some of the recommended mods from there. I had very smooth gameplay but got into Problems after getting to the 0Sex mod. Game sometimes crashing on fast travel, sometimes crashing on load save and sometimes even just mid animation.

 

So my last idea is to ask more experienced users, which base they use for the game to look good enough for the sex animations ( No gameplay mods needed )

I also used NMM and should probably switch to MO right?

 

I'll still post my Load Order maybe someone can see a problem there.

 

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Skyrim.esm
Update.esm
Dawnguard.esm
HearthFires.esm
Dragonborn.esm
Unofficial Skyrim Legendary Edition Patch.esp
Falskaar.esm
Wyrmstooth.esp
ApachiiHair.esm
ApachiiHairFemales.esm
ApachiiHairMales.esm
RaceCompatibility.esm
ClimatesOfTamriel.esm
hdtHighHeel.esm
Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm
SexLab.esp
SexLabAroused.esm
CreatureFramework.esm
OSA.esm
HighResTexturePack01.esp
HighResTexturePack02.esp
HighResTexturePack03.esp
RaceCompatibilityUSKPOverride.esp
EnhancedLightsandFX.esp
AOS.esp
mintylightningmod.esp
MintyLightningMod_COT_Patch.esp
SexLabMatchMaker.esp
SexLabNudeCreatures.esp
RaceMenu.esp
RaceMenuPlugin.esp
UIExtensions.esp
AddItemMenu.esp
SkyUI.esp
Schlongs of Skyrim.esp
SOS - VectorPlexus Muscular Addon.esp
SOS - VectorPlexus Regular Addon.esp
SOS - Smurf Average Addon.esp
SOSRaceMenu.esp
ELFX - Exteriors.esp
SDO Full-LOD - Waterfall Effects.esp
RealisticWaterTwo.esp
GloriousEnviroments.esp
Skyrim Immersive Creatures.esp
ClimatesOfTamriel-Dragonborn-Patch.esp
CoT-WeatherPatch.esp
CoT-WeatherPatch_DB.esp
CoT-WeatherPatch_Snow-40.esp
CoT-WeatherPatch_NL3.esp
TheEyesOfBeauty.esp
NPC_Overhaul_V_2_.esp
Bijin Warmaidens.esp
Chaconne.esp
FCO - Follower Commentary Overhaul.esp
AmazingFollowerTweaks.esp
dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Wyrmstooth.esp
SDO Full-LOD - The Morthal Swamp Light.esp
Skyrim Immersive Creatures - DLC2.esp
whiterun spruce by revan1199.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Waves - Falskaar.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Falskaar.esp
AOS2_RealisticWaterTwo Patch.esp
AOS2_CoTWP Patch.esp
ClimatesOfTamriel-Dawnguard-Patch.esp
TrueStorms.esp
TrueStorms-CoT-WeatherPatch.esp
Supreme Storms - Cot Version.esp
CoT-WeatherPatch_SupStorms.esp
TrueStorms-SupremeStorms-CoT.esp
AOS2_TrueStorms Patch.esp
AOS2_SupremeStorms_CoTWP Patch.esp
BTRH_Waifu.esp
Serana.esp
Valerica.esp
Bijin Wives.esp
Bijin NPCs.esp
FNIS.esp
HDTTailsEquipable.esp
SexLabWerewolvesMB.esp
SLAnimLoader.esp
SexLabTools.esp
RaceMenuMorphsUUNP.esp
SLALAnimObj.esp
Toccata as Elisif.esp
Vivace.esp
XPMSE.esp
SexLabWerewolves.esp
MoreNastyCritters.esp
HornyDragons.esp
HornyDragonesses.esp
SexLabNudeCreaturesDB.esp
SexLabNudeCreaturesDG.esp
HentaiCreatures.esp
SMIM-Merged-All.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Legendary.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Waves.esp
SDO Full-LOD - Whiterun Trundra Creeks.esp
Skyrim Flora Overhaul.esp
Verdant - A Skyrim Grass Plugin.esp
SFO - Dragonborn.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Waves - Wyrmstooth.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Dragonborn.esp
SOS - Shop.esp
TemptressVixen.esp
SuccubusRaceLite.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Waves - Dawnguard.esp
RealisticWaterTwo - Dawnguard.esp
Toccata.esp
Xanafollower.esp
KK_Lola_companion_wolfdog.esp
12FemaleBrows.esp
Real Flying.esp
Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp
ELFXEnhancer.esp

 

[AgentCarolina]

NMM or MO is just a choice, people will say go with MO but in my experience, MO has held more problems for me. I run 2k parallax textures and Rudy ENB with other 2k textures for rugs, walls, and such.

Bjinn All in One for females, and 2k beards cause most of the males look passable to me.

[myuhinny]

You can use NMM it's fine.

[doshshod]

I like MO but it does have its limitations. It's a trade, you can know instantly what is overwriting what from your installed mods but you have to run applications like FNIS, Bodyslide or patchers which can cause headache with particularly large overhauls which need 64 bit memory but can only utilize 32 bit memory because MO is a 32 bit application. If you installed all of your mods in one sitting NMM would probably be better and if you kept track of what should be installed after what.

 

As far as FPS drops go it can do with strange meshes eating up resources. For instance there's a follower mod I had one time that whenever said follower was on my screen my fps would drop by 40+. Every other follower was fine. Your problem could be similar.

 

I use Snapdragon Prime ENB and it looks amazing. My rig isn't good enough so even with some turned down settings I can hit 30 fps or so, which is good enough for me.

[Bounty]

Thanks for your input! So i'll stay with NMM for now.

I know, that one mod can give me those FPS problems. But i just don't want to mess with Realvision ENB anymore. The Fps weren't the only Problem, adjusting the position on sex scenes was also extremely laggy. I do not plan on visiting every place and play through the main story anymore, so i decided it's not worth to trade better looks for a very poor sexlab experience. Sadly now, even with the recommended mods from Realvision ENB, I modded it until it crashed. That's why I asked, what you guys are using successful.