sexlab sexlab keeps teleporting me to my doom and i've tried everything HELP

[these_nuces]

So i've been trying to get sexlab to work for hours, and every time i trigger ANY animation it either teleports me to the giant camp near whiterun (and i FLY INTO THE SKY AND DIE) if im outdoors or through a wall or floor if im indoors. 

i've tried:
carefully cleaning and resetting the mod according to a 12 step plan other threads recommend
making sure i have installed the right mods (i'm very sure i have the correct ones, tried everything)

disabling every single unecessary mod 
using matchmaker on an essential npc follower 

triggering animations with various mobs 

reinstalling sexlab in vortex

disabling the teleport in settings

notably every time i reload a save after i install sexlab on a file, it breaks and tells my sexlab is improperly installed, but i can't figure out for the life of me what i need to do. it doesnt give this message the moment i install it on a save, only when its reloaded 

 

 

[these_nuces]

managed to fix it, turns out i used the wrong version, i tried the SE and AE version but i needed the AE "b" version: SexLabFrameworkAE_v166b.7z