Should i be worried?

[Pavlovian Afterdark]

Hello everyone

 

first i hope you all are good on this times.

 

Second would be the reason for this post : so i was just watching my LL profile like i sometimes do, and i realized that some people visit it,  it was odd i mean i am not a creator so i guess they are just curious of when i respond to something they are watching

point aside, i was checking it when i notice something similar with some of the people that visit my profile and that is that they create the account, log in once and then never again. . . right now on the list of recent visitor there are at least 2 but again its something that i have notices before.

 

am i been watched? stalked? or am i blowing this more than what it is. i mean there has been time on my recent list that the entire list is people that only logged once sometimes only minutes. . .

 

Any help, advice and response is greatly apreciated.

 

Sorry for messy writting english is not my native lenguage.

 

If this was posted incorrectly please tell me so i can either delete it or move it to the correct section.

 

Thank you.

[Ashal]

It could just be automated bots crawling the site. Or it could just be normal people browsing the site who accidentally clicked on your profile when they meant to click on something else.

 

Unless you start getting random messages from them, I wouldn't worry about it. A single person randomly clicking into a profile every few weeks isn't that unusual, especially if you've been posting recently in threads they might be casually reading.

[Bastak21]

1 hour ago, Pavlovian Afterdark said:

Hello everyone

 

first i hope you all are good on this times.

 

Second would be the reason for this post : so i was just watching my LL profile like i sometimes do, and i realized that some people visit it,  it was odd i mean i am not a creator so i guess they are just curious of when i respond to something they are watching

point aside, i was checking it when i notice something similar with some of the people that visit my profile and that is that they create the account, log in once and then never again. . . right now on the list of recent visitor there are at least 2 but again its something that i have notices before.

 

am i been watched? stalked? or am i blowing this more than what it is. i mean there has been time on my recent list that the entire list is people that only logged once sometimes only minutes. . .

 

Any help, advice and response is greatly apreciated.

 

Sorry for messy writting english is not my native lenguage.

 

If this was posted incorrectly please tell me so i can either delete it or move it to the correct section.

 

Thank you.

I think you are exaggerating. I check peoples profile very often too to see if they have any mod files or in a club that I'm in or just wondering where they are from. Also almost everyone is anonym here what can happen possibly while you are already anonym?

 

[Pavlovian Afterdark]

2 hours ago, Ashal said:

It could just be automated bots crawling the site. Or it could just be normal people browsing the site who accidentally clicked on your profile when they meant to click on something else.

 

Unless you start getting random messages from them, I wouldn't worry about it. A single person randomly clicking into a profile every few weeks isn't that unusual, especially if you've been posting recently in threads they might be casually reading.

Yea the bots thing makes the most sense, thank you its that the first time i notice it was like 2 months ago when there was 3 accounts on a row that had logged only once around Oct-Nov of last year saw my profile and then never visited the site again, so it felt weird for people to go through the process of create an acc just to not use it again.

[Pavlovian Afterdark]

44 minutes ago, Bastak21 said:

I think you are exaggerating. I check peoples profile very often too to see if they have any mod files or in a club that I'm in or just wondering where they are from. Also almost everyone is anonym here what can happen possibly while you are already anonym?

 

You are right i must be overthinking it, i just got a little nervous because i first notice it some months ago after i made an account on another site so i co-relate it.

[Emily Nutsville]

i wouldnt mind being stalked.. having all that attention on my profile..

make me dream..
😽

Edited June 13, 2024 by Amy Island

[Guest]

22 hours ago, Pavlovian Afterdark said:

am i been watched? stalked? or am i blowing this more than what it is. i mean there has been time on my recent list that the entire list is people that only logged once sometimes only minutes. . .

 

As someone who has verifiably been stalked on this site, some random page visits and follows aren't stalking. You want to look out for routine visitors, people who visit your profile over and over.

 

You can also use sites like Wayback Machine or archive.ph to see if your exact URL has been archived, as that's what stalkers do. I was doxed and stalked for a long time and some of them still lurk. One of them has already been actioned on and I am very grateful for the peace of mind, even if they're just using a different account, they're less obvious about it and that doesn't bother me as much.

 

While I am an exhibitionist and love attention, as a victim of repeated sexual assault and abuse I hate creeps and stalkers because of the feelings of guilt and violation that stalking induces.

 

If you feel like you're being stalked by a particular user, bring it up with site staff.

[jesseld]

Totally get why that might feel a bit weird — seeing visitors who never log in again can definitely raise an eyebrow. But honestly, it’s probably nothing serious. Some people just click around out of curiosity or land on profiles by accident. Happens more than you’d think.

[Z0mBieP00Nani]

On 6/12/2024 at 6:04 PM, Ashal said:

It could just be automated bots crawling the site. Or it could just be normal people browsing the site who accidentally clicked on your profile when they meant to click on something else.

 

Unless you start getting random messages from them, I wouldn't worry about it. A single person randomly clicking into a profile every few weeks isn't that unusual, especially if you've been posting recently in threads they might be casually reading.

 

Maybe I'm just being paranoid too. But I have messaged or gotten messages from a few (assumed) female members on here, and will keep a conversation going for a bit, and then they just randomly stop replying. The strange part is, these accounts seem to be only a month or two old at the time, and in one case it felt like they were trying to guide things in the direction of me showing myself, and when I explained why that wasn't a good idea (basically, "this is the internet, and what gets put on the internet stays on the internet, and I don't really know you"), it felt like they were trying to push things in the direction of a face to face meet up, as once I told them the country and region of the country where I lived, all conversation stopped, abruptly (I assume this is because they were in Europe or the UK, or somewhere in the US very far from where I live). Then I later saw the name and picture of their account change maybe 3 or 4 times. They did send me some pictures, and when I searched online to see if I could find another source for them, I failed to locate any duplicates, so they appeared to be the original source of the photos. But it all just seemed kind of odd to me, for example, I was REALLY reluctant to do anything, and I complained a lot, and that kind of stuff usually drives women away, which is another reason it seemed odd to me.