gameplay Alchemist's Kinky Expansions

[AtlasDuped]

How do you activate(?) the features of this mod, besides the traits i cant seem to find anything? How do you bring up kinky topics xD

[SimsAlchemist]

2 hours ago, AtlasDuped said:

How do you activate(?) the features of this mod, besides the traits i cant seem to find anything? How do you bring up kinky topics xD

 

Install Xml Injector then you'll find the pie menu categories, some categories are under the romance one and some aren't 

https://scumbumbomods.com/xml-injector

[crazy bin]

On 9/10/2025 at 1:37 PM, SimsAlchemist said:

 

Install Xml Injector then you'll find the pie menu categories, some categories are under the romance one and some aren't 

https://scumbumbomods.com/xml-injector

the ones i had appearing under romance are nowhere to be found since the daddy update

[SimsAlchemist]

26 minutes ago, crazy bin said:

the ones i had appearing under romance are nowhere to be found since the daddy update

 

That update didn't change anything, only "added" more so it can't be what broke yours. Try deleting all of my mods and re-installing from scratch & make sure you have xml injector + make sure that your .ts4script file for the main package (the others shouldn't have a ts4script) isn't more than one folder deep 

[AtlasDuped]

4 hours ago, crazy bin said:

the ones i had appearing under romance are nowhere to be found since the daddy update

We seem to have the same issue, if you figure it out can you tell us/me how?

[crazy bin]

15 hours ago, SimsAlchemist said:

 

That update didn't change anything, only "added" more so it can't be what broke yours. Try deleting all of my mods and re-installing from scratch & make sure you have xml injector + make sure that your .ts4script file for the main package (the others shouldn't have a ts4script) isn't more than one folder deep 

thats exactly what i did when i downloaded the daddy kink...delete them all and re installed them all....i'll try replacing the injection file again see if that helps

[crazy bin]

On 9/13/2025 at 1:43 AM, AtlasDuped said:

We seem to have the same issue, if you figure it out can you tell us/me how?

works now that i reinstalled that xmsomehing injection file...cant remember its exact name

[AtlasDuped]

10 hours ago, crazy bin said:

works now that i reinstalled that xmsomehing injection file...cant remember its exact name

Im still stuck in limbo then, danke anyway

 

[Yotix]

Two things / questions ...

 

1) No Sexting option

This has been asked before, but ... I've never seen an "exchange phone numbers" option so I'm stuck on the sexting part of the Internet Whore aspiration. 

Old google results say "exchange phone number" should be in the base game, but I've never seen it (and some sites seem to say you need an expansion for it). Suggestion: Make the player upload booty selfies instead?

 

2) Do NPCs use Daddy etc?

I've been using the "daddy king" interaction for days, but no one has spanked my sim's butt yet, despite numerous popups promising just that. Does the player have to start this manually or will daddy NPCs eventually start offering butt slaps?

(Same for the BBC kink; generally in Sims 4 I feel like the player has to do most of the work regarding romance etc, while in Sims 3 you'd get custom mod interactions from mods rather frequently.) (Playing female sub NPCs ... few mods for that kink, most of the BDSM stuff is dom PC only *sigh*)

Edited September 17, 2025 by Yotix

[SimsAlchemist]

23 hours ago, Yotix said:

Two things / questions ...

 

The selfies suggestion is actually great, I might replace the aspiration goal after adding more poses to that interaction.

As for the second question, NPCs will trigger all interactions that aren't "spammy", the butt spanking one and my other custom animated interactions for now only triggered by the player since I didn't want all the NPCs with these traits to constantly smack each other's asses (same thing for interactions that bring up dirty talk notifications, these would get spammy if they were fully autonomous especially if you have a big household)

Edited September 18, 2025 by SimsAlchemist

[glitchvvitch]

16 hours ago, Yotix said:

Two things / questions ...

 

1) No Sexting option

This has been asked before, but ... I've never seen an "exchange phone numbers" option so I'm stuck on the sexting part of the Internet Whore aspiration. 

Old google results say "exchange phone number" should be in the base game, but I've never seen it (and some sites seem to say you need an expansion for it). Suggestion: Make the player upload booty selfies instead?

 

2) Do NPCs use Daddy etc?

I've been using the "daddy king" interaction for days, but no one has spanked my sim's butt yet, despite numerous popups promising just that. Does the player have to start this manually or will daddy NPCs eventually start offering butt slaps?

(Same for the BBC kink; generally in Sims 4 I feel like the player has to do most of the work regarding romance etc, while in Sims 3 you'd get custom mod interactions from mods rather frequently.) (Playing female sub NPCs ... few mods for that kink, most of the BDSM stuff is dom PC only *sigh*)

 

the "exchange phone numbers" interaction is just in base game. it's a flirting interaction found where you find "pick-up line" and "flirt" etc. you need to actually have romance bars with the sim to get to it, idr how much, but it will show up eventually. i'm p sure it was one of the new flirts they added to the base game update back when lovestruck came out or high school years maybe? it's within the last 5 years.

Edited September 17, 2025 by glitchvvitch

[number6669]

hi sorry for the question but i meet that the "train your body" aspiretion dosen't work . i try every fitness but it just didn't count in . sorry for bother you😥

[SimsAlchemist]

1 hour ago, number6669 said:

hi sorry for the question but i meet that the "train your body" aspiretion dosen't work . i try every fitness but it just didn't count in . sorry for bother you😥

 

Hi, use any interaction with the workout tag (any ingame workout interaction) for around 60 sim mins and it'll complete!

[Yotix]

3 hours ago, number6669 said:

hi sorry for the question but i meet that the "train your body" aspiretion dosen't work . i try every fitness but it just didn't count in . sorry for bother you😥

You need to click your sim and "go jogging" and wait for it to complete IIRC (I haven't tried using gym equipment but that's how I finished that task).

 

 

Edited September 18, 2025 by Yotix

[Yotix]

TY for the answers!

 

Unsolved:

 

"Exchange phone numbers" isn't there. I'm talking to a sim with maxed out romance and friendship bars, did eight or ten romance interactions in a row, and I searched all the Romance and Friendly categories.

I turned off custom content and mods, restarted, and I still don't have "exchange phone numbers" ... (Also I don't have Get Together in case one needs that.) 

Suggestion: Since this question came up a few times, maybe you could change this goal to "upload booty selfies" or somesuch?

 

 

Feedback:

 

Text design: I'd appreciate if the description for Cock Obsessed Slut -> Cock Hunter -> Dirty Talk made it clearer what we have to do (for us noobs, pls spell out which social to use). (Not sure if "slutty compliment" worked). 

 

Text design: "Nightlife Slut" also had me baffled IIRC, pls spell out what to do. 

 

Text: Cock Obsessed Slut -> Cock Hunter -> Dirty Talk has a typo ("First Thing's First" should be "First Things First")

 

UI consistency: "BBC" kink options are in the Romance menu, "Daddy" kink options are a separate category. It might make sense to move "Daddy" into the Romance menu to uh have all parts of the mod work the same way.

 

UX question: I turned on notifications for "player asking for sex" in WW but never see any. My sims often automatically ask for sex after a kinky interaction. Would it be possible (and a good idea) to show popups here? These could be kinky flavor texts (and maybe have Yes and No buttons).

 

Cheese: I find myself switching aspirations every 30 seconds, since I gave the "BBC" and "Daddy" traits to half the game world. Meet a sim, call them daddy, change aspiration, dirty talk, switch aspiration, kiss, switch aspiration, ask for sex, switch aspiration, change sex to anal, go home, change to Gardener, evolve plants, change to Online Slut, upload horny post ... . In a way this feels cheesy (rushing through achievements), and constantly changing aspirations so I don't miss stuff is annoying. Six of the aspirations I'm tracking come from this mod (BBC, Daddy, Internet, shameless, cock hunter, anal; I only do homewrecker/breeder occasionally). 

Not sure to what extent this is just normal Sims 4 gameplay ... or whether it might make sense to rearrange or combine some of these. 

 

Overall: I play sub female sims mostly, and would love to see more things happening to them. Currently, I seem to randomly get buffs that say someone gave my sim a butt compliment. Not sure if a notification for kinky NPC dialogues would improve gameplay.

(Gameplay: Even in Sims 3 I spent a lot of time trying to get NPCs to corrupt my sim; I enjoyed having dominant NPC sims around that would randomly ask/order my sim to show them their boobs, get undressed, and eventually to have sex. Would it be possible to add some dominant behavior to Daddy/BBC sims in S4? I imagine maybe a popup "You notice a rather large bulge in BBC's trousers" and a queued up BBC interaction; "Daddy called you Baby" and a queued up "Call sim daddy" interaction; not sure if "NPC stranger slaps your butt" would be a good idea.)

 

Suggestion: I've been hoping for Daddy and BBC sims to take charge, since the description says they're dominant and my sim's submissive ... but then my sim has to do most of the flirting, asks for sex and gets the vanilla version. Unfortunately I have no idea what's possible technically.

Suggestion 1: add situations. Currently my sim gets phone calls from woohoo partners / weed customers that have my sim go to their place or come over, and what I guess is a scripted social after a short delay (ask for sex / chat with).

- Daddy could call, get a text popup or two, and start woohoo with a butt slap anim.

- BBC could call and ask if you'd like to see something big and black to play with.

- Internet Whore could maybe get dates with fans (fan blowie, fan sex, my first anal video, sex with several fans?).

- Couples where both are cuck/unfaithful/poly could invite you over and trigger threesomes. 

Suggestion: After several bratty comments, have the daddy sim spank you.

Suggestion: Loves Anal sims could pull a rocco siffredi or fake taxi on your sim (offer cash for anal sex, more for anal virgins)

Suggestion: Loves Oral sims could ask for a quick blowie in the bar's toilet.

Suggestion: Cuck sims could ask you to kiss / screw their partner.

Suggestion: modify the WW interaction where you get a flirty look from a sim and "get to do whatever" with custom text for BBC and Daddy?

 

General: 

I'd appreciate if you'd remove "get a boyfriend with a BBC" and "use a sim then dump them"; just a personal preference though, as I roleplay single sims and found myself just cheating these two using MC whenever I start a new game. 

 

 

Edited September 18, 2025 by Yotix

[glitchvvitch]

On 9/18/2025 at 3:20 AM, Yotix said:

TY for the answers!

 

Unsolved:

 

"Exchange phone numbers" isn't there. I'm talking to a sim with maxed out romance and friendship bars, did eight or ten romance interactions in a row, and I searched all the Romance and Friendly categories.

I turned off custom content and mods, restarted, and I still don't have "exchange phone numbers" ... (Also I don't have Get Together in case one needs that.) 

Suggestion: Since this question came up a few times, maybe you could change this goal to "upload booty selfies" or somesuch?

 

 

Feedback:

 

Text design: I'd appreciate if the description for Cock Obsessed Slut -> Cock Hunter -> Dirty Talk made it clearer what we have to do (for us noobs, pls spell out which social to use). (Not sure if "slutty compliment" worked). 

 

Text design: "Nightlife Slut" also had me baffled IIRC, pls spell out what to do. 

 

Text: Cock Obsessed Slut -> Cock Hunter -> Dirty Talk has a typo ("First Thing's First" should be "First Things First")

 

UI consistency: "BBC" kink options are in the Romance menu, "Daddy" kink options are a separate category. It might make sense to move "Daddy" into the Romance menu to uh have all parts of the mod work the same way.

 

UX question: I turned on notifications for "player asking for sex" in WW but never see any. My sims often automatically ask for sex after a kinky interaction. Would it be possible (and a good idea) to show popups here? These could be kinky flavor texts (and maybe have Yes and No buttons).

 

Cheese: I find myself switching aspirations every 30 seconds, since I gave the "BBC" and "Daddy" traits to half the game world. Meet a sim, call them daddy, change aspiration, dirty talk, switch aspiration, kiss, switch aspiration, ask for sex, switch aspiration, change sex to anal, go home, change to Gardener, evolve plants, change to Online Slut, upload horny post ... . In a way this feels cheesy (rushing through achievements), and constantly changing aspirations so I don't miss stuff is annoying. Six of the aspirations I'm tracking come from this mod (BBC, Daddy, Internet, shameless, cock hunter, anal; I only do homewrecker/breeder occasionally). 

Not sure to what extent this is just normal Sims 4 gameplay ... or whether it might make sense to rearrange or combine some of these. 

 

Overall: I play sub female sims mostly, and would love to see more things happening to them. Currently, I seem to randomly get buffs that say someone gave my sim a butt compliment. Not sure if a notification for kinky NPC dialogues would improve gameplay.

(Gameplay: Even in Sims 3 I spent a lot of time trying to get NPCs to corrupt my sim; I enjoyed having dominant NPC sims around that would randomly ask/order my sim to show them their boobs, get undressed, and eventually to have sex. Would it be possible to add some dominant behavior to Daddy/BBC sims in S4? I imagine maybe a popup "You notice a rather large bulge in BBC's trousers" and a queued up BBC interaction; "Daddy called you Baby" and a queued up "Call sim daddy" interaction; not sure if "NPC stranger slaps your butt" would be a good idea.)

 

Suggestion: I've been hoping for Daddy and BBC sims to take charge, since the description says they're dominant and my sim's submissive ... but then my sim has to do most of the flirting, asks for sex and gets the vanilla version. Unfortunately I have no idea what's possible technically.

Suggestion 1: add situations. Currently my sim gets phone calls from woohoo partners / weed customers that have my sim go to their place or come over, and what I guess is a scripted social after a short delay (ask for sex / chat with).

- Daddy could call, get a text popup or two, and start woohoo with a butt slap anim.

- BBC could call and ask if you'd like to see something big and black to play with.

- Internet Whore could maybe get dates with fans (fan blowie, fan sex, my first anal video, sex with several fans?).

- Couples where both are cuck/unfaithful/poly could invite you over and trigger threesomes. 

Suggestion: After several bratty comments, have the daddy sim spank you.

Suggestion: Loves Anal sims could pull a rocco siffredi or fake taxi on your sim (offer cash for anal sex, more for anal virgins)

Suggestion: Loves Oral sims could ask for a quick blowie in the bar's toilet.

Suggestion: Cuck sims could ask you to kiss / screw their partner.

Suggestion: modify the WW interaction where you get a flirty look from a sim and "get to do whatever" with custom text for BBC and Daddy?

 

General: 

I'd appreciate if you'd remove "get a boyfriend with a BBC" and "use a sim then dump them"; just a personal preference though, as I roleplay single sims and found myself just cheating these two using MC whenever I start a new game. 

 

 

 

maybe your sims are not compatible/attracted enough? it comes up for me under "flirt" for my long term partner sims, with just base game and no mods, with no problem. are you thinking that interaction is part of this mod? it is not. it is in the base game. and i don't think you need to do it in order to do any sexting with this mod, but i play generationally so i can't recall whether or not my sims have done that interaction or not. once you've done it with that sim, it will not come up again tho, just fyi. maybe you are either playing with sims whose attraction doesn't match? or are cheating the bars and the game as a result is glitching? or you have another mod installed that's out of date? or you have a bug? i'd check ea forums before blaming this mod. do you have any of vickysims' mods? i know hers all got really messed up with the last patch. i couldn't play my main save for days cuz of the personality traits.

[Yotix]

18 hours ago, glitchvvitch said:

 

maybe your sims are not compatible/attracted enough? it comes up for me under "flirt" for my long term partner sims, with just base game and no mods, with no problem. are you thinking that interaction is part of this mod? it is not. it is in the base game. and i don't think you need to do it in order to do any sexting with this mod, but i play generationally so i can't recall whether or not my sims have done that interaction or not. once you've done it with that sim, it will not come up again tho, just fyi. maybe you are either playing with sims whose attraction doesn't match? or are cheating the bars and the game as a result is glitching? or you have another mod installed that's out of date? or you have a bug? i'd check ea forums before blaming this mod. do you have any of vickysims' mods? i know hers all got really messed up with the last patch. i couldn't play my main save for days cuz of the personality traits.

 

Not blaming the mod, just asked because I spent an hour looking for "exchange phone number" but couldn't find it.

(I'm aware Maxis has a habit of hiding some interactions behind repeats, like "to kiss you need to do five romance things first" - my test was visiting a sim where I had maxed out romance and friendship bars, doing eight or so flirty things, then eight or so friendly ones, and still not seeing "exchange phone number"

 

And no, not using vickysims mods. Just stuck on that one goal

 

 

 

[ss11sscc]

nice

[Mad_Jackal]

Hello, not sure if this has been answered before, at least i couldn't find it.
But how do you "send slutty messages?" in the second internet whore aspiration.
I can't find that option anywhere

[SimsAlchemist]

3 hours ago, Mad_Jackal said:

Hello, not sure if this has been answered before, at least i couldn't find it.
But how do you "send slutty messages?" in the second internet whore aspiration.
I can't find that option anywhere

Hi, in the custom phone category use one of the sexting options, if your sim knows other sims they can text then you can use this one 

 

Or you can use this one, the interactions that involve sexting will count towards that objective:

[Mad_Jackal]

hmmmm I'm confused.
I also feel that other options are missing....

let me check requirements again

[Mad_Jackal]

20 minutes ago, Mad_Jackal said:

hmmmm I'm confused.
I also feel that other options are missing....

let me check requirements again

XML injector is working, so is whicked whims..
did I have to start the game once with the core package only and then with the expansions?
or do I need a specific sims expansion?

Edited September 24, 2025 by Mad_Jackal

[SimsAlchemist]

10 hours ago, Mad_Jackal said:

XML injector is working, so is whicked whims..
did I have to start the game once with the core package only and then with the expansions?
or do I need a specific sims expansion?

Some like the "Send nudes" one in my screenshots are early access on patreon, I think I might've forgotten that the sexting strangers one isn't public yet either, but the "Send Horny Text" should definitely work if your sim is able to text other sims

Try this for the meanwhile if you don't want to be stuck in that aspiration goal: Shift + CTRL + C to open console then paste this: aspirations.complete_current_milestone

[ahrimangame]

this is amazing! all that WW and DD were missing you have added here! but sadly its not compatible with DD and misses alot of features, is there any chance you would be kind and make your mod compatible with DD too bro?

[SimsAlchemist]

1 hour ago, ahrimangame said:

this is amazing! all that WW and DD were missing you have added here! but sadly its not compatible with DD and misses alot of features, is there any chance you would be kind and make your mod compatible with DD too bro?

 

Sorry, probably not