What causes my character to be the aggressor in sex scenes instead of the victim?

[Zor2k13]

Some sex scenes are recently causing my female character to be the fucker instead of the fucked but I can't find a setting for that in sexlab or any of the other mods mcm pages I'm using, what does this? maybe script lag or too many mods?

[Andy14]

2 hours ago, Zor2k13 said:

Some sex scenes are recently causing my female character to be the fucker instead of the fucked but I can't find a setting for that in sexlab or any of the other mods mcm pages I'm using, what does this? maybe script lag or too many mods?

The mod that triggers the scene puts the actors wrong (wrong order). Is not a problem from Sexlab or other causes.