kepler007 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 I do have one experience so I would like to know whether you have something like that experience or not.
Happysparkles Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 I am so sorry to hear that. People do this very often to others it so so not a nice thing to do. I hear many stories from mostly my female friends. But when you say playin with your emotions can you specify? I hope it is ok to ask that. Keep in mind that some cases of playing with emotions can escalate into psychological abuse.
Ichabod Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Funny you should ask that this weekend. Yes. Not a pleasant feeling to be played with by someone you love. Cuts deeper than any physical hurt. Takes the heart right out of you. Perhaps they are testing just to make sure you care. Not a nice feeling anyway. You just have to decide how many times you will let it happen before you show them the door. Better to be alone than with someone who keeps hurting you.
kepler007 Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 I am so sorry to hear that. People do this very often to others it so so not a nice thing to do. I hear many stories from mostly my female friends. But when you say playin with your emotions can you specify? I hope it is ok to ask that. Keep in mind that some cases of playing with emotions can escalate into psychological abuse. Thanks for wanting to listen to it but I would rather keep it for myself because the more I remind it the more it floats it on my mind anyway I just want to know whether other people have similar experience like the thing that I have mentioned in the title.
Happysparkles Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Funny you should ask that this weekend. Yes. Not a pleasant feeling to be played with by someone you love. Cuts deeper than any physical hurt. Takes the heart right out of you. Perhaps they are testing just to make sure you care. Not a nice feeling anyway. You just have to decide how many times you will let it happen before you show them the door. Better to be alone than with someone who keeps hurting you. This answer is perfect.Kepler just don't let him or her keep doing this to you. I have had this happen to me with an ex worst thing was she was all about being popular and really went to extreme levels to make me feel like dirt. It was a bad experience and I was just exteamly attracted her. In the end you have to decide if it is worth it to stay in that situation or to eject yourself from the situation . In many cases it is better to choose the ejection method for your own good even if at the time you do not see it. Sorry if it seemed like I was prying but I am known in real life for giving advice. Sometimes asking more details becomes second nature, especially because every situation is different.
Contessa Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Yes. I was with someone who would do such things. I'm a softie so they'd make me feel guilty for the dumbest things just to get their way, insult me or simply make me feel bad about myself, at the time I was blind and took it because I was "in love". No matter how much you care for a person, if they toy with your emotions then they aren't worth it.
Someone92 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 For about a year or so a friend of mine back in school tried to made guys fall for her and afterwards feign ignorance; she tried it on me too but I knew her too well to fall for her little act. I don't think she wanted to actually hurt someone but rather wanted to test if she can get boys to dance to her piping.
polluxval Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 answering to the topic: Yeah, once, and she paid it with her life.
Emily Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Welcome to adult life. Bad news is being adult it's not about sex & it's not even joke. Good news is You're not alone.
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