I would wander over to the support forum, but frankly it seems extremely unapproachable.

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oh gosh i know how dare i not read the pinned threads, what a neanderthal, the nerve!...

 

To everyone else... hello i recently installed the sex labs lite se mod among others. it had been working fine until i started down the "working girl" mod path picking up the requirements and some of the recommends.  i use nexus mod manager and i have literally no idea what i'm doing i'm amazed the thing started in the first place before the working girl mods.  unfortunately now  i can only get the game client to run but the game wont "play."  my mod list is as follows;

 

ACTIVE [Name] FNIS Behavior SE 7_6-3038-7-6-1582048023  
ACTIVE [Name] RaceMenu Special Edition v0-4-12-19080-0-4-12-1576724270  
ACTIVE [Name] SexLab_Light_SE__0_1_1  
ACTIVE [Name] SOS - Schlongs of Skyrim - LightSE  
ACTIVE [Name] XP32 Maximum Skeleton Special Extended  
ACTIVE [Name] UNP Female Body Renewal  
ACTIVE [Name] SL_MatchMaker_Light_SE__0_1_0  
ACTIVE [Name] AmorousAdventures-v3_4-SexLab  
ACTIVE [Name] SpousesEnhanced_version1.7.3  
ACTIVE [Name] SL_Pleasure_SE https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/20060
DISABLED [Name] [NIND] CBBE Sexy Cloth  
ACTIVE [Name] Creature_Schlongs_SE__1_0  
ACTIVE [Name] skse64_2_00_17 https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/30390
ACTIVE [Name] SkyUI https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/12604
ACTIVE [Name] SexLabWorkingGirl Version .7  
ACTIVE [Name] SexLabWorkingGirl Optional sound Files version .6.7  
ACTIVE [Name] xazPrisonOverhaul_V032  
ACTIVE [Name] SL Drunk  
ACTIVE [Name] SexLabFramework_v162_FULL  
ACTIVE [Name] ZazAnimationPackV7.0[2017-05-16]  
ACTIVE [Name] Fuz Ro D-oh - Silent Voice https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/15109
ACTIVE [Name] Death Alternative - Your Money Or Your Life-45894-7-0-1  
ACTIVE [Name] Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/266

 

if someone could help me out that's awesome, i just don't have the spoons left to read through all the hissy fits on the support page. im sure there is supposed to be a load rder (though from the little i could stomach to read i understand this matters little with sex labs.) thanks in advance for your understanding and help.  

 

P.S if this post upsets you at all ,please, politely just load up your game and leave me alone.

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I don't understand how posting on a different forum section would help you get better? help. You're using Skyrim SE, yet you post on the regular Skyrim section, making it harder for people who play SE to see this post. Anyways, I see you're fairly new and some guidance shouldn't hurt you, even if it feels like I'm telling you to start all over, now reading and understanding a couple of things about the mods you want to use, and the mods you need to use.

 

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ACTIVE [Name] FNIS Behavior SE 7_6-3038-7-6-1582048023  Yep, just make sure you're running GenerateFNISforUsers after you're done installing Sexlab and other animation mods.
ACTIVE [Name] RaceMenu Special Edition v0-4-12-19080-0-4-12-1576724270 Sounds good.
ACTIVE [Name] SexLab_Light_SE__0_1_1  No please no, stop that. No. Sexlab Light was the first attempt to port Sexlab for SE, the whole thing hasn't been updated in YEARS and is not compatible with mods that aren't made for this specific Sexlab version.
ACTIVE [Name] SOS - Schlongs of Skyrim - LightSE  Maybe? Although the full version is fully working and I can't think of any reason to go for the light version.
ACTIVE [Name] XP32 Maximum Skeleton Special Extended  Yes.
ACTIVE [Name] UNP Female Body Renewal  Is this for SE? I would use Bodyslide + some mod to add UUNP stuff to it instead of using the default UNP thing.
ACTIVE [Name] SL_MatchMaker_Light_SE__0_1_0  NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. If you really want to have some spells to trigger sex scenes, Matchmaker for LE works totally fine in SE as it is.
ACTIVE [Name] AmorousAdventures-v3_4-SexLab  Make sure it's the SE one.
ACTIVE [Name] SpousesEnhanced_version1.7.3  Make sure it's the SE one.
ACTIVE [Name] SL_Pleasure_SE https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/20060  Is it available at the Nexus? well, if it's for SE and you have all the requirements you should be fine.
DISABLED [Name] [NIND] CBBE Sexy Cloth  
ACTIVE [Name] Creature_Schlongs_SE__1_0  For creatures I always recommend to follow the More Nasty Critters instructions, there is a version for SE and the install guide covers its requirements too.
ACTIVE [Name] skse64_2_00_17 https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/30390  Make sure it's properly installed (dll and exe in the Skyrim SE folder, not in data. And only the "scripts" folder go in the actual Data folder).
ACTIVE [Name] SkyUI https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/12604  Yeah
ACTIVE [Name] SexLabWorkingGirl Version .7  This is a 2015 unfinished mod. It should be convertable, so I doubt you'll get it working if you install as it is.
ACTIVE [Name] SexLabWorkingGirl Optional sound Files version .6.7  ---
ACTIVE [Name] xazPrisonOverhaul_V032  Same as working girl, 2015 mod, plagued with bugs (there is an updated version called Prison Overhaul Patched but I'm not sure if its available for SE.
ACTIVE [Name] SL Drunk  Maybe? I know there is an Redux version that added some stuff and is a bit more up to date, not sure how well the regular version works.
ACTIVE [Name] SexLabFramework_v162_FULL  Nope. This is Sexlab for regular Skyrim. Also, you're already using Sexlab Light (which I doubt is working properly with all the mods you want to use, but still, mixing the regular version of something with the light version of the same thing is not the brightest idea IMO)
ACTIVE [Name] ZazAnimationPackV7.0[2017-05-16]  There is a ported version for SE, I think you're using the one for regular Skyrim.
ACTIVE [Name] Fuz Ro D-oh - Silent Voice https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/15109  A little green text here, this if ok.
ACTIVE [Name] Death Alternative - Your Money Or Your Life-45894-7-0-1  For SE? sure, although I know there's a lot of users complaining about issues with this mod.
ACTIVE [Name] Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/266  Cool.

 

So now that you see, from all the mods you are trying to use, a lot of stuff is obsolete, outdated or incompatible with Skyrim SE. My recommendation here:

1. Purge your Skyrim SE.
   1. Uninstall Skyrim SE from Steam
   2. Go to "Steam\steamapps\common" and delete the "Skyrim Special Edition" folder in there
   3. Install it again through Steam
2. Consider switching to a more modern mod manager. NMM is fine, for some people, but if you fuck it up again like you already did, you might need to delete stuff and start all over, once again. Vortex is the official manager from Nexus, there is also Mod Organizer 2. Both have several video guides to start using it and all of that.
3. When you find a mod you want to use, before you even hit the download button:
   1. check that it is a fairly up to date mod (hint: 2013 mods which has the word "wip" somewhere in the description; bad sign)
   2. make sure it's compatible with SE (some mods works as it is in SE, other have a separate download of the SE port)
   3. check and double check that you have all the requirements for that mod (and the requirements of these requirements, and so on)

For the last point, I'll leave you some useful threads that you'll need to read so you can know what you can install, what you need to install and what you shouldn't install. Oh and about suggested loadorders, there is this wonderful program called LOOT that sorts your loadorder automatically. Works flawlessly 99% of the times (some mods might require manual tweaks, in which case these mods should state it in the install instructions, which you'll be reading for sure). The forum threads:

• SSE Conversion Tracking: it has a big list with most of the mods that have been ported. As you're new (or don't want to read a lot?) I recommend you to stick to the mods listed in green, that means the mod has a ready to use version for SE and that it's stable enough.
• Sexlab Index SE: it contains most of the mods available for SE (ported or new mods for SE) in categories. The index also has a one line description so you know what's the mod about at a quick glance.
• More Nasty Critters install guide: it has some screenshots for starting, but there is a text file with instructions and links for SE and LE. Make sure you pick the right links.
• Finally, the description page of every mod you want to use. Yeah, I'm not linking all of those, but you get the idea. Read them.

 

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(haven't implemented any of this yet but i wanted to post some gratitude) thank you so much! (sincerely.) And your right i should have taken a longer look to find a more appropriate place to post this ,but, like, here we are, and i have usable info i can digest without getting ambushed by some bold red vitriol. I'm an extremely technically minded person and I'm looking forward to digesting your post so i know  "how to mod gud. :P "  once again thanks a bunch, and kudos on awesome communication skills they are a commodity these days.. 

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oh shit Vortex is free? i just assumed since it was an updated NMM that it was behind a pay wall.