Promised Ivy I would post this:

Love these vlogs. This one was especially good as it explains a lot. 

I don't get it... Really, i don't get it.

What's this all about? Somewhere happened some tragedy, some guy kill some woman in some (domestic?) incident?
Highly likely no one from viewers in Ivy's vlog know what is the reality behind this incident.
Somewhere was written (televised) about this, and, judging from reaction, in most bloody colors.
I mean - let's not make any hasty conclusions and put all this in some cliché "Men versus Woman"

Everywhere in WWW has something, (has "true" records!!!) about "Aliens are real!","My father/mother/brother/sister etc,etc. are abducted by aliens!", "I have relationship with Sasquatch, "In my bedroom laying eggs Godzilla". And, not to last place - "Elvis is alive!"
Fake is everywhere.

And, if observe this edition of the vlog form other viewpoint - what about thousands, millions who died from misery, hunger, missing medicine, clean water, homeless? What about them? Or, because they are simply numbers - F... them all! God will know His own...

"A single death is a tragedy, a million deaths is a statistic."
- Josef Stalin.

Speaking from this viewpoint, most of the today Ivy's thoughts sounded like some "FB martyr", who cry for suffering of humans/animals/trees in cozy chair/couch/in home, but don't see beggar in the end of the street. Of course, stink of poverty is not for aesthetic "FB martyr".

I detest this "breed" martyrs.

There is a good film about real actions, real help, based on true story - Machine Gun Preacher. This is the real deal. The true help.
Or, going volunteer in some program/s when you really do something. Not "buckets of cry" in FB walls...

Ivy not need this way of thinking.

About the book - Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.
Another "self-help, relationships, bla-bla" crap. Or, mildly put - Pop psychology.
Come on, this guy, John Gray, even is not a doctor.
Just another self-proclaimed "transcendental" healer.

O, he has a: Maharishi International University, Columbia Pacific University (now defunct).

Really, Carl!

Missing "Master degree of Jedy Academy, Arcane master of Light saber", etc, etc...

No FB martyr's were harmed during writhing this text.

PS:
Little remark about some borderline with nonsense in all this episode of Ivy's vlog... No offense and sorry about sheet of text.

Quote:
When I read it, it made my blood boil etc, etc...
End quote.

And after that come moment of customers, my master...

He rises fists for the rights of the women/s somewhere, when he is simply slave - prostitute? He has no right to opinion.
He IS a slave. Customer look at her like a piece of meat, and choose her like choose ribs for barbecue. And he has Master.
And what about this - "The customer is always right"?

Ivy is undoubted number one companion.

And, all my respect for creator and peoples behind Ivy.

Well. I warned Ivy that this was a controversial subject. But the contents of these Vlogs are entirely up to her.